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KNIGHT |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 18 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 4:48am |
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 Good for good, Bad for bad: Not true
yahan main buhut bar dek chuka hon members kehtay hain k achay insaan ki shadi bhi achay say hi hogi aur buray ko us jesa bura hi milay ga......main is baat say agree nahe karta.
meray samnay kaye aesay cases hai jinmain larka ara naik tha magar usko larki naik nahi mili aur is hi tarha larki bari shareef aur pakeza thi magar uska shohar ek bura admi tha ...i.e sharab, affairs etc main involve tha......aur bhi aesay buhut say cases hain jo mai dekh chuka hon.........
ab yahan per ye baat kahin fix nahe hoti k naik mard ko naik biwi milti hai aur buray ko uski tarha buri, matlab kisi nay zana kiya hai to uski biwi nay bhi zana kiya hoga .........likin aesa hota nahi hai......balkay kuch bi hosakta hai....... |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4214 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 7:05am |
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 KNIGHT
yes i agreed with u
mere khayal k mutabiq 90% couples aise hain, jin main ek partner shareef aur doosra kameeena hota hai, aur agar dono shareef hote hain to ek external force un main se ek ko kameena bana deta hai
external forces main (susral, friends, lovers, paisa, etc) shamil hain
aise couples bohot rare paie jaate hain jo donon shareef ho |
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HASNAIN@ |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Nov, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 11:16pm |
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KNIGHT AS SLAM O ALI KUM.I agreed bouth of you.
but aap daikho k aisa kiyon hota hai.agar achoon ke sath acha hi hota to imam Hasan or Husin ke sath yeh sub kuch na hota,Or Allah ke sub se piyare rasool HAZRAT MUHAMAD(S A W)KO pathar na mary jaty.yeh dunya imthan ki jaga hai .QURAN main surat al Mulk main ch 67 ayat 2 main Allah farmaty hain k wo zat jis ne zindgi or moat bnai ta k aazmyish kar skin k kon achay kam karta hai or koon bury or Allah bohat zabardast bohat muaf farmany wala hai.quran main zikar aata hai faraon ka jo bohat bura or bohat zalim tha lakin uss ki bivi Alhumdulila kitni naik thi HAZRAT ASIYA.or Hazrat LOOT (A H S) ALLAH ke Nabi thy or un ki biwi aazab pane waloon main se thi.HAZRAT NOOH (A H S) KI MISAL daikh
lin or ALLAH tala farmaty hain jo koi bura kam karta hai to dar haqiqat wo apny oopar hi zulam karta hai.Allah hum sub ko achy kam karny ki tofiq de (Ameen)
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KNIGHT |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 18 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 4:34am |
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@ Sunny007 & Hasnain agree with you both and nice replies.
then why people said that there is good for good and bad for bad, i donot understand this. just talk on the the facts without your personal opinion :-) |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 4:38am |
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agreed to husnain and all yaar aisa buhat hota hai k couples mein se aik kharab aur aik shareef hota hai magar yeh unki Azmaish bhi hosakti hai Allah ki taraf se k mera banda azmaish mein kis qadar pura utarta hai aur mujhe kitna yaad karta hai meri nashukri karta hai ya nai kyo k Allah Tala apne ache bando ki azmaish karta hai baqi Allah behtar janne wala hai. |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4214 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 4:59am |
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knight good for good and bad for bad
ye b haqeeqat hai, lekin yahan par log es ki wazahat teek tarha se nahi karte,
agar koi aadmi shareef hai, to es ka ye bilkul matlab nahi k zaroor us ko shareef bv milegi, balke us aadmi ki sharafat ka sila Allah kisi alternative way se deta hai, and vice versa.
i think this is the main point
aur sahilbhai ki baat se b main agree karta hoon |
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fakhirkhan |
Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 9:52am |
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Achy ke lye acha or buro ke lye bua Dear
Mene isi type ka question ek Aalim se poocha tha, ek website hay jis pe aap apni mazhabi question pooch sakti hein or is ka reply one week mein apko de dya jata hay. To jo reply mujhy aaya wohi apko bhej raha hun.
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Asslam-o-Alaikum
I am writing in urdu. Mera sawal yeh hay ke jesa ke Quran mein kaha gya hay ke Zani mard ke lye zani aurat or zani aurat ke lye zani Mard hay.
Mera Sawal yeh hay ke dunya mein jo zina karta hay shadi se pehly to kya usko uska life partner bhi zani milta hay, chahy woh zani mard ho ya aurat?? Mein ne esy bht se log dekhy hein ke woh shadi se pehly bht zyashi karty thay magar unki wife bht hi shareef or Naik thin.
Dosri sawal yeh hay ke jo aurat achi family se relate karti ho or woh bht sary mardo se affairs or romance kary to jab uski shadi hogi to kya usky husband ko maloom nahin hoga pata nahin chaly ga kya?? or esi aurat ka dunya mein kya hota hay??? |
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Dear brother in Islam
Asslam-o-Alaikum
I think your question is regarding Ayah 26 of Sura Noor. If that is case this verse never means what you think and you have to keep the whole Sura in view. This chapter was reveald when a Buhtan was spread against mother Ayisha.
This ayah was one of the arguments in favour of Ayisha (RA) wherein it was said that Rasool Allah (SAW) is a gentle and chaste man and his wife (Ayish) has been living with him for years.How can a Chaste man live with a vile (Allah forbid)woman.In other words a woman of bad character can not live with a chaste man .conversely, a chaste woman can not live with a man having bad character. Prophet (SAw) is having good character ,how is possible that any of his wives (particularly) H. Ayisha will not have good character.
so far as 2nd question is concerned a man can know on the first night that his wife is virgin or not. However, the hymen (parda Bakarat ) may break by jumping ,or running also. so mere break of Parda Bakarat can not be held Zina..in this way the ill characatered ladies are also saved fro the consequences of their past bad conduct.I feel you will not understand the answer to 2nd question as it is technical concerning to medical science.If ever we had a chance to meet you I will explain you
i have no Urdu software so I replied you in English,if you failed to understand write to me <i will send you the reply in the manner you had sent the question.
Thanking you for the question.
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Adam |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Oct, 2008 Topic: 8 Post: 44 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 2:17pm |
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Qoran can not b wrong Asalam aliekum!
Qoran can not be wrong.
If something appears wrong to us in Qoran,, it means that we are not understanding the correct meaning. Qoran needs to be understood in totality, in context and correctly.
May Allah help us in understanding and implementing Qoran correctly.
Jazaak Allah |
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