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Mala |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Mar, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Mar 2008, 5:43pm |
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 Forced Marriage: What Can I do?
Hi im Mala and this is my first time wirting this about my coming up life... i need your adivce about forced marriage should parents get you to marry someone u dont like and should you accept your marriage to make your family happy i wanted to say no and i dont kno what should i do about this problem i cant tell my parents how i feel about this raletionship so please give me your best advice thanks alot
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2052 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Mar 2008, 7:55pm |
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waldain zabardasti shaadi nahi ker sakte hai shaadi ke liye zaroori hai keh larka aur larki ki razamandi shamil ho. agar larka aur larki razamand na ho tu waldain ko zabardasti shaadi kerne ka ikhtiar nahi. aap apne waldain ko ba-adab tareeqa se bata de keh aap ko mojooda rishta pasand nahi hai.
agar aap apne waldain se khood nahi keh sakte tu phir kisi friend/cousin/bhai bahan ke zaria waldain ko batai. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Mar 2008, 11:03pm |
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consider on all points first islam does not primission forced marriage.but u also consider on this that why ur parents want to do marriage with this boy that u do not like.there will be reasons also.
Parents also think better for his child also.So u pls consider on all things then take any final step. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Mar 2008, 3:23am |
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forced marriage agreed to goodman and My reply
agar apko pasand nai hai to ap apne parents ko directly ya indirectly bata deyn....
Islam mein force marriegae allow nai hai....balke ye ap ka haq hai k ap apni marzi se shadi ker skti hain |
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akhraf |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Feb, 2008 Topic: 7 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2008, 12:25pm |
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reason first of all u should define that y u don't like that person is he old or is he ugly
i will tell u one thing if u don't like him because he is not handsome or very smart so then u r wrong becuase ajj kal larkiya films dekh ker yehi chaty hain ke unhe koi sharuk khan ya ritik roshan jesa larkha mileee jo mumkin nahi hai or aikk batt orr batoon yeh mera ankhon dekha scene hai ke larki ne apni pasand se handsome larke se sahdi ker orr sahidi ke bad uss larke ka dusry kitny girls se affair hai or who yeh bat nahi janty tu mara mashwara yeh hai ke ager who sahrif or neik hai tu app iss bare main zarror sochoo or app ke man bapp app ko kabhi ksii galat jaga nahi sahdi nahi karein geee
thanks
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Apr 2008, 3:38am |
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akhraf yes u r absolutely right
larkion ko apni pasand ki shadi kerne ka poora haq hai lekin agar wo kisi ka rishta thukra rahi hain to un k inkar ki waja bilkul jaiyez ho to bohat achi bat hai.... |
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Mala |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Mar, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2008, 1:41pm |
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Thanks im not that kinda girl who looks for beauty or how sexy or beautiful he is the reason i dont want to be married is because i dont know what he likes or how is he i seening him because hes my cousion and hes in college and hes gonna be a doctor and i been thinking why not give him a chance and get to kno him im not like other girls who has bfs and do whatever they want my parents teach me right and told me how us muslim shoud be doing instead of us not listening i understand your question and i thank everyone for all your best advice so im taking my final step ima marry him for the right reason trhanks everyone....Allah Hafiz
---Maala |
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Mala |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Mar, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2008, 7:22pm |
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I MADE MY DESCISION i been thinking really hard...inshallah when i go to pakistan this summer i will def get married to him and make him ahppy he deserve better...the reason i didnt want to marry him was because hes soo older then me i want someone yougn who can understand me but its my parents choice its not like i cant make it change..thanks for all your advice i hope after marriage im happy and so soon thanksss everyone |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2008, 2:30am |
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mala very gud dear sis
very gud decision
may Allah bless u :-) |
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