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fiza1 |
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| Posted on:3rd Dec 2007, 6:26am |
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 Female Masturbation: What Is The Safest Method?
i am just a silent visitor of this site from many months , now i have aproblem plz help me.i wanted to ask the diiff methods of gaining organs in female , here i studied in some mail that if the female deexicites in such a manner that she feals desire to urine then hymen is safe , is it true????i have never inserted any object nor did fingering but use to rub my part with hand and feels satisfaction in 5-7 min , is my hymen safe???? i am trying to quit this bad habit which i just started 3 mon ago.plz help me and tell me in detail that if this method safe and is this thing true which i studied on this site by some user.i am very much worried.
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nikama |
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| Posted on:3rd Dec 2007, 1:29pm |
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 Dont worry...
U are okay..Dont panic..Just chill & pls dont think all about thng too much..If u feel hot ,then relax it other wise pls be comfort..Hymen should be safe as It normly dont hurt unless something goes deeply inside... |
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khan_80 |
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2007, 12:48pm |
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 female masturbation
Its a very bad habit and u should avoid it as it can rupture ur hymen which may create problems after marriage. control urself and don't try it again.
For those people who support female masturbation, i would only say that im really disappointed to read such replies in which people advice the girls or suggest them to do masturbation for satisfaction.Its a sin to mis-guide the innocent minds and giving such suggestions that can make the life of a person full of problems (medically or socially). Be Careful. |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2007, 4:09pm |
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hmm true i agree with u .. also i ve seen some cases where sometimes the desire after marriage decreases...
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josh |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 1:16am |
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Female Masturbation: My Comments! i agree to khan_80, and thanks for your comments on this issue, those people who are supporting female mastrubation, also make me confuse regarding this matter. they just want to show that they know alot about islam while they dont know. they are suggesting masturbation to innocent girls without knowing the whole situation, bcoz these girls are not their daughter or sister.. if khudaNaKhuasta the same thing will happen to their own child (daughter) ever, they will never show them fatway etc and will not try to convince them to do masturbation, while these fatway are for other's daughters and sisters,, even the girl was so mature & sensible and was not willing to do masturbation but those people show her fatway and convince her to do masturbation she was a strong girl but they make her weak.. all sin goes to those people who are advising masturbation to the innocent girls of our society. shame on those people. |
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fiza1 |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 6:18am |
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plz help , tell me that is my hymen safe till now plz you people solve my problem , tell me that if my hymen safe till now , as i never saw bleeding. is it possible that hymen break in normal situation in rotine life and not at the time of masturbation.plz tell?
i know that this is a bad habit and i will never do it again but i am worried about past , although i have not done it many times. i am also againt it and i agree with all post that it can cause serious problems .
plz also tell me that what i have studied here about deexitation of females is true or not . i will wait .
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My Reply |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 8:19am |
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re: female masturbation You are advise to read: Female Masturbation
You are also advise to read: Hymen of Women |
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 2:04pm |
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josh! While this masturbation is actually a part of our culture now even if u accept it or not, so keeping our eyes closed from this dirty reality of our life could be called ignorance not HAYA.
will u please give me the answer that if:
There is a girl who, avoiding masturbation because of guilt and lack of proper knoweldge of islam, suddenly someday overcomes with her strong desire of having sex and actually do this under extreme pressure of her desire.
Now who do u think, her sin goes to??
I am not here for supporting female masturbation, because it is a sin, but I think u and me are not someone to decide by ourselves about any matter when islam is here to throw light on every aspect of life, and also not to decide that who is responsible for others sin.
U are talking about kids and siblings here. The thing is that as a responsible person it is my duty to teach them exactly what Quran and Hadith have said, and then I will leave it to them what they do.
Jis tara aap baat ker rahay hain iss tara tu quran bhi tarjumay kay sath bachoun ko nahi perhana chahyay kayounkay chotay bachay her kisam ki intimate baat jaan saktay hain jo quran main likhi hay. uss kay baray main aap ka kia hayal hay?
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Aag |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 2:33pm |
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Re: Josh And Pinky Josh: u r right and im strongly agreed with u.
Pinky: jo sawal apna kara hai woh special case hai, zara sochiya 100 mai sai kinta cases hongai aisa jo apna bat kahi hai aur jaha taq bat yah hai ka Islam majood hai har masla ka hal ka liya yah bhi bilkul sahi hai, laikin zara yah sochiya agar hamara emaan sacha hota aur hamari aqal etni hoti ka ham Quran ko pharai aur usko asani sai samajh lai to kiya bat theee, yaha to halat yah hai ka log Quran Shareef ko Arabi mai bhi nahi study kartai hai.
Kiya ap yah samajhti hai ka ham jaisa log apni auladon ko Quran Shareef ka jo maqsad hai woh samjhadaingai, Sari umar guzar jati hai Parents ki apni aulad ko sahi rasta dekhatai dekhatai magar unki Islamic education still uncomplete rahti hai.
Mera hisab sai parents sari zindagi hi apni aulad woh sab sekhana ki koshish kartai hain jo Quran mai likha hai woh bhi woh log jinhonai usko study kara hai sahi sai.
Yah bat agar sahi hai ka agar insan ki sexual desire extreme level pa hai to Islam masturbation allow karta hai laikin sawal yah hai ka yah kon decide karaiga ka apki sexual desire extreme levels pa hain........................... |
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2007, 6:45pm |
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to aag Mujay bohat acha laga hay aap ka andaz-e-fiker daikh ker. Appkay question, kay kon decide keray, ka answer yah hay kay aap hood decide kerain. Allah mairi aur aap ki niyat daikhta hay yah aur uss ko sab patta hay kay hamaray dil main kia hay. App allah say tu jooth nahi boal saktay na.
Quran aur hadith samajnay ki aap jo baat ker rahay hain wo hamaray culture kay liay 100% theek kah rahay hain. lakin masla yah nahi kay loag quran ya hadith ko samajtay nahi masla yah hay kay wo iss ko theek andaz say samajna hi nahi chahtay.
Yahi baat daikh lain achhay bhalay peray likhay loag even kay dr. khan_ 80 iss baat ko digest nahi ker pa rahi hain kay where Masturbation stands in Islam. Jab yah haal hay kay ham hood islam ki taleemaat ko ACCEPT nahi ker paatay aur wo hamain AJEEB lagti hain tu mairay hayal main parents aik choar dus zindigian bhi samjatay rahain koi kuch nahi samjay ga.
Hamara masla yah hay kay ham apnay culture ko hi apna religion bana ker baithay houay hain. Aur phir bhi sari dunya main shoar machatay hain kay ham musalmaan hain. SHAME ON US THAT WE CALL OURSELVES MUSLIMS. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Dec 2007, 10:47am |
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To Pinky (Reg. Female masturbation)! oh, mainay apki previous post ka jawab bari mushkil say likha hai.. or plz it is only discussion, dont get angry..
pinky my dear sister in islam, first of all i want to say that whatever i said in my previous post was for the supporters of female masturbation while u said " I am not here for supporting female masturbation, because it is a sin" ... i know u do not support masturbation.
ab mai aapsay apnay khayalat share karta hon,
female masturbation ka mashwara prostitutes ko dia ja sakta hai bcoz aisi females ka apnay upar control karna mushkil hai or mazeed zana say bachnay k liye wo masturbation ka sahara lay sakti hain or inshaAllah unko gunah nai hoga..
aik larki jo Pakistan mai hai jahan mahol different hai as compared to western world, or wo larki zana bi nai karna chahti,, kisi tara thora sa bhatak jati hai or sex desire us par haavi ho jati hai, to aisi larki ko us time hoslay ki zaroorat hai, masturbation ki khahish uski kamzori hai, usay us time support ki zaroorat hai ta k wo phir say pehlay ki tara strong ho jaey, or agar usay friends say hosla milnay par wo satisfy ho jati hai or sochti hai k muje masturbation nai karni chahiye, indirectly uski quwat-e-iradi mai izafa ho gaya or wo decision lenay k kabil ho gaee, to aisi strong larki ko MB ka mashwara dena galat hai.
agar uski awareness k liye kuch batana hai to usay just awareness dain sath kuch aisi bat bi batana chahiye jaisay apnay dosri post mai likha,
Either it was yr fault or not, ask Allah for forgivness,, Stay away from any situation like this in future and do not intentionally go for such movies. Avoid masturbation at all if it is possible. Trust me u will get countless blessings of Allah.......or ye sab batain parh kar wo larki khud sochay k usay kia karna chahiye,, lekin agar baat ko start hi aisay kia jaey k "islam gives u permission for masterbation." to is tara baat karnay say kuchh or hi impression parta hai,, while islam never gives this kind of permission to anyone.. balkay Muhammad (saw) nay to ye kaha ha k aisi desires hon to shadi karo warna rozay rakho. unho nay ye mashwara nai dia k MB karo.
Quran majeed Allah ka kalam hai uska mukabla mufti hazraat k sath nai kia ja sakta, Quran majeed mai sab kuch likha hai jismai insan ki behtari hai, Quran majeed mai oral sex ki batin nai milaingi or na hi masturbation ki ijazat. or tamam insano ko Quran majeed tarjumay k sath parhna chahiye..
mufti hazraat kabil-e-ehtaram hain, wahan jo question answers hain wo ziada tar specific logo k liye hain or situation k mutabik hain. bachay(kids) muftio k pas nai jatay, mature log jatay hain, agar aap wahan koi masla dekhti hain or usi kisam ka question koi or puchhta hai to ye apka farz hai k har masturbation karnay walay k samnay fatwa rakhnay ki bajaey pehlay situation dekhain, uska confidance level check karain........ suppose koi patient dr. ko kehta hai meri zuban gandi hai isay kaat do, to doctor na uski zuban kaatay ga or na hi usay tarkeeb batayga k aisay kaato, wo usay kahay ga k brush kia karo... ab patient sochay k ye doctor to pagal hai, mai isay kuch keh raha hon ye muje kuchh or hi bata raha hai. to ye doctor ki nai ye us patient ki apni galti hai..
Similarly aap samajhdar hai apkay knowledge or aik 16-17 sal k unmarried larkay/larki kay knowledge or samajh-boojh mai bohat difference hai... apko youngsters ko guide karna hai...
Hope u will not mind whatever i share with you...
in tamam baton par Mnadeem sahab bi thora ghor kar lain to bari nawazish ho gi or is tara sochay samjhay bina girls ko masturbation k mashwaray na dain..
pinky jee kindly ap dr. khan_80 ko involve na karian bcoz manay unko kabi is kisam ki discussions mai hisa letay nai dekhaa.. wo just apni opinion deti hain.. or medical advise.. she is a very nice lady and respectable for all of us..
fiza: if you neither insert anything in vagina nor you saw blood during masturbation then you need not to worry about the hymen, i am sure it will be safe. and please dont try to check yourself whether it is safe or not. |
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Aag |
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| Posted on:6th Dec 2007, 2:16pm |
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Re: Pinky Im very much amazing ka apko mera reply samajh agaya :)
aik bat yah ka jab kisi bhi insan ka ander sexual desire hoti hai to uski sochna aur samajhna ki salahiyat na hona ka baraber hi hoti hai, "i think u will agree with me" to aisa moqai par insan kiya decide karaiga.
yah bhi aik fact hai ka insan har ghalat kam karna ka baad yahi kah ta hai ka ainda nahi karonga magar jab uska ander desire paida hoti hai to woh dubara karta hai aur phir sharminda hota hai.
Yah bat bhi bilkul sahi hai ka ham log Quran o hadih ko samaj hi nahi pa rahai hai, infact har insan yahi kahta hai ka wohi sahi hai jo usna samjhaaa. aur sab sai bari bat yah hai ka jo log samjhana walai hai wohi sahi sai nahi samjhatai hai.
Pinky aik bat sai to ap meri agree karaingi ka jab insan sexual desire ki last haad pa ajata hai to ISLAM usko allow karta hai. laikin agar ham harkisi ko yah kahain ka ap ko masturbation karni chahiya ISLAM ka mutabiq sahi hai to kiya yah durast hogaaa.
Islam mai to es haad taq ki ejazat hai ka agar ap bhook sai marna walai hai to ap haram chez bhi kha saktai hai laikin eska matlab yah to nahi ka koi muslim kahai ka mera dil chata hai meri desire hai ka mai haram chez khaoo to ham usko kahai ka islam ka mutabiq ap haram chez kha saktai hooo.
yahi wajha hai ka har aqal mand insan masturbation jaisi chezoon ka mana kar ta hai taqai agar ap kisi ko shuru mai hi ghalat kam kartai rok lain to woh extreme haad taq pohchaiga hi nahi.
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sohaib44 |
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| Posted on:11th Oct 2009, 12:57pm |
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not allowed it iz not allowed |
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Aaamir |
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2010, 2:18am |
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Aaamir Masturbate.......is not harmful at all.....
You Can be do Rather very Odd either Vulgar maner! Orgasm is the Part of Life. Not the Heart of life......If You will go Frightend and keep getting abundance tens you will be lost ur health by and by. |
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umais |
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| Posted on:31st Aug 2010, 5:01pm |
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masturbation AAmir sahab masturbation is harmfull for all meri request hai yahan per tamam members se jo masturbation k haq me boltay hain plz khuda k liye isay halal or jaiz or sahi kaam na banao. or logo k zehno ko mazeed kharab na karo chahy wo mere muhtram doctor ki q na hoon.
islam me aesa karne walay ko malaoon kaha gaya hai or is k 70 se zaid gair mamuli nuqsaanaat bhi hain mere bhaiyo agar confirm karna hai to kisi deen k AAlim k pas jakar kar sakty hain.. magar shart ye hai k ap javed ahmed ghamidi jese aalimo ya doctors k pas na jana.. q k nabi(s.a.w) ne aakhri sermon me apnay bad apni meeras ahl-e-bait quran or aalim-e-deen ko banai thi .. mere bhaiyo unho ne doctors ko ya scholers ko nahi kata tha..
or bhai rahi habbit ki bat to ye sub environment ka asar hota hai .. is ki example ap ramzan me hi dekh len kis had tak kami aajati hai in kamo may ap k samnay hai..
so keep ur enviroment well and islamic except ramzan also. and keep praying or wese bhi lust(shehwat) ki halat me namaz ka ziada sawab hai so is se kia malum parta hai k isay rokna hamara imtihan hai nakay masturbation karna... |
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naresh |
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| Posted on:1st Sep 2010, 2:50am |
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naresh hi dear friends this is naresh from india.I want to share my thought with u i think female masturbation is not a good thing becoz we are human and we need to live their life under discipline becoz masturbation is against the law of nature if we chalange the nature then we pain becoz we do wrong things.we need to always remember Allah in our mind and avoid those things that probated by Allah. |
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Aaamir |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2010, 2:28am |
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Musturbate Dear,
I said in prior that "its natural and fatal cause" no one resist it.
regarding Islam"we advice to protect ourselves" if we much do contarray act for getting masturbate like a big sin there by,on ward we deeply connected with it by whom we refrain to do......
So shortly...say
do musturbate in limit not in excess.....and its litereally not harmful rather pleasure and re built ur cell...
if any one posses by me...thats their concept of getting.......
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qamar.zman |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2011, 2:05am |
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mastubrate aslam o alaikum kia hall ha????????
meri age 25 ha aur meri frnd ki ageb takriban 24 ha. hum kuch dair bad shadi kar rahy hain.
mera ap sey question yh ha k main jab b apni frnd sey call py bat karta ho to jab b thori c romentic bat karo to wo khti ha k us waqat us k agy sey koi jell type release hoti ha aur wo weekness fell karti ha. kya is sey shadi k bad koi prblm to nai bany gi? aur aisa q hota ha plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz jaldi btiye ga wo bht tens ha. thnx |
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ndmwsm |
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2012, 4:28pm |
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O ma Gichay just put your vigina on your right finger...and put slowly down until finger vanished.......now increase ur speed and do it until u release.......the main precaution is that plzz cut out nail before this.....and use oil instead of shampoo....bcz it makes vigina soft and it did not resist anymore...and enjoy.thankxxx by ndmwsm |
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