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 Difference b/w Girl Friend And Wife?
seemi baji one post u write there is difference b/w g/f and wife.Can you explain briefly about these differences. kindly give ur detailed comment on this topic. Thanks
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Annie |
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 3:41am |
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 seemi!!!
Seemi jee app kahannnn hain???? |
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 5:33am |
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good man jis larki se app k illegal sexual relations houn woh app ki girlfrnd hai yeh actual meaning hai girl frnd ka lakin agar koi larki app ki sirf frnd hai tu woh ap ki grl frnd nahi ho sakty yeh difference hai aur pak main hum sirf aik larki se dosti ko b girl frnd kahty hain woh asal main girlfrnd nahi hoty |
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 5:45am |
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goodman i think hamzi ne bilkul sahi differentiate kiya hai.... |
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 5:52am |
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 good man g
AOA
good man g aap ne difference b/w g/f & wife aise likha hai, mujhe to ye samajh aaya ke bewaqoof , goofy & wife mai kiya fark hai . waise in mai koi fark nahi.
thanx to reply me after an hour.
your loving friend |
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re: g/f and wife mai difference re: "seemi baji one post u write there is difference b/w g/f and wife.Can you explain briefly about these differences."
goodman: bari hairani ki baat hai keh aap ko g/f aur wife mai farq nahi maloom? aap ka taluq kis mulk se hai? kahi aap ka taluq Denmark se tu nahi jaha sab chalta hai. |
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Seemi jee pls explain now bawqoof bahi nahi maloom na .isliyay too pocha tha aur woo bee mujay seemi baji kay aik point say YAAD AYA Tha.
Question:
difference between g/f and wife.Can you explain briefly about these differences.
Bawkoof bahi i am Pakistani and i am Proud i am Pakistani.
Seemi baji app naraz hoo iss topic per tafseel say jawab doo...
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 2:10pm |
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 goodman bai
kia ye diffence sirf seemi sis . ko hi pata hai yar,,,, |
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 correction
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:20th May 2008, 4:04pm |
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goodman bhai
I am agreed with all replied above..
Girl Friend/Boy Friend ke words hamari society mein western worlds/Non Islamic world se aaye hein... Jahan aik larka or larki baghair shaadi kiye, saath mein rehtay hien.. Officially un ke liye word "Partner" use kiya jata hai... lekin common life mein yehi kaha jata hia k she is my girl friend or he is my boy friend. Or is ke peechay ki waja, Western society ki aik bohat bari kharabi hia. Jis ko mein naam doon gi "Lack of trust and un-necessary over confidence".
Wahan chahay larka ho ya larki, har koi apna kamata hai apna khata hia.. isi liye bohat early ages mein apnay parents ko chour kar alag ho jatay hien. Or for sexual relation koi larka/larki dhoondhtay hien. Tab yeh couple GF/BF ya partners kehlatay hein.. Lekin kuch arsa baad unhien pata chalta hai k hamari pasand napasand or khaylaat nahin miltay, is liye woh alag ho jatay hien.. or new partner ki talash shoroo ho jati hai... Is talash mein kabhi tu one night stay hota hai, kabhi 2 3 mahenay or kabhi 2 3 saal... lekin koi nahin keh sakta k un ka relation kab tak qayim rahay ga... yeh silsila younhi chalta rehta hai....
New partners banatay hien.. un ko chourtay hien or phir naye ki talash mein lag jatay hien.. Or asal mein yeh talash sirf sexual relation k liye hoti hia warna financially har koi stable hota hia.... Isi talash ki waja se aaj Online dating, chatting site bohat business kar rahi hien. Yeh loug Partner ki talash mein is baat ka khayal rakhtay hein k woh good looking ho takeh kahin saath jaye tu sab tareef karein... sexually active ho or un ki likes/dislikes match karti hoon.... Lekin after age of 40, 45 or 50, jab admi ya aurat ko yeh baat samajh aa jati hai k woh borha ho gaya hai. ab pehlay ki tarah active nahin, lekin usay ab kisi aisay saathi ki zaroorat hai jo usay chour k na jaye tu woh seriouly ho ke long term relation ki talash shoroo kar deta hai.. Akhbaron mein istehar detay hien... or phir 40 50 saal ki umer mein apni hi age ke banday/bandi se shaadi kartay hien..
Bohat kam aisay loug hotay hien jo jawani mein shaadi karein.. Because woh kisi pe trust nahin kartay... or na hi possesive hotay hien.. Agar aik admi ki girl friend ke or admion k saath bhi sexual relations hien tu us ko koi parwa nahin kyon k us ki girl friend bhi is baat ki parwa nahin karti k woh kitni larkion k saath involve hai. Isi lack of trust ki waja se woh baar baar partner badaltay hien.. or us waqt hosh aata hai jab koi un ka partner bannay pe razi nahin hota.. Or jab yahan per bohat young muslims especially Pakistani couples ko dekhtay hien tu kuch tu bohat khush hotay hien k you are lookin good or good wishes detay hien. lekin kuch jealous hotay hien kyonke woh is tarah k khoobsoorat relation se mehroom hotay hien jo aik muslim husband wife k beech hota hai...
Ab yeh words tu Western worlds se Pakistan or India mein bhi aa gaye but abhi tak hamara culture, hamara mazhab hamein is baat ki ijazat nahin deta k partners badaltay phirein... Yahan tu amooman yehi samjha jata hai k jis ke saath aik dafa pyaar ho gaya/Nikah ho gaya, bas ab sari umer usi k saath rehna hai.... unless k koi bari problem na ho jaye......... Pakistan mein western world ko copy karnay ke shouq mein khamkha GF/BF ke words ka istamaal kiya jata hai.. Yahan class mate ko girl friend kehna shoro kar detay hien.. hamsayi ko ya work mate ko bhi.. jo ke sahih nahin hai... Agerchey ab Pakistan mein bhi Burger families mein yeh trend start ho gaya hai lekin 98% Pakistani is buri cheez se dour hien..
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Seemi-Aunty App ko Paragraph se cherdh hai kiya...?
App iss tarah likhte hain tou pardhte pardhte maiyn dosre line ma chala jata hoon.... :(
App 4 se 5 line ka para graph bana kar likhey kararein... phir InshaALLAH app Forum ki Top-Writer ban jaein gee :)
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Seemi-Aunty App ko Paragraph se cherdh hai kiya...?
App iss tarah likhte hain tou pardhte pardhte maiyn dosre line ma chala jata hoon.... :(
App 4 se 5 line ka para graph bana kar likhey kararein... phir InshaALLAH app Forum ki Top-Writer ban jaein gee :)
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bohat shukriya seemi jee app nay bohat accha reply kiya ha.bohat shukriya . |
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| Posted on:21st May 2008, 9:34am |
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 seemi :)
very nice reply......... |
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girlfriend and wife friend aur girlfriend mai farq hota hai. friend tu koi bhi ho sati hai aur os ki taadad bhi many ho sakti hai, jabkeh girlfriend mangeter (english mahol) ko kehtay hai aur wife ka matlab hai nikah wali bivi.
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2011, 8:33pm |
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Once upon a time! Asalaamu alaikum all,
Aik daffa main nay aik young muslim American ko dekha tha Youtube per uss banday nay speech dee hui thi, jismain wo muslim males and females ko mukhatib kerkay married life kay baray may baat ker raha tha. Aik baat uss nay PIN POINT kerdee thi jo keh yahan zaroori hay share kee jayeh
"Zayada ter log (particularly muslims he meant) aaj kul shadi kerkay kuch din baad naa khush ho jatay hain aur phir wohi larayee jhagra shuru ho jata hay distance aa jata hay uski bari wajha ye hay keh hain to wo muslims lekin yaa rehtay west may hain aur agar nahi bhi rehtay to atleast movies west ki hee dekhtay hain, jahan focus GF BF per hotta hay husband wife per nahi. And the moment the partner feels UNCOMFORTABLE they move out! of the relationship!.........
Aab jo insaan media kay aagay EXPOSED hay media uskay sir may ghus ker beth jata hay chahay hum kitnay SMART banain keh nahi ji hum to entertainment kay liyeh dekh rahay hain yaa sirf time pass kay liyeh. Aur back of mind uskay ander yahi kaam shuru ho gaya hotta hay keh wo kerta to shadi hay kion keh wo musalman hay lekin wo biwi ko aur biwi usko GF BF ki nazar say dekhtay hain aur kuch din baad unko waqyee chirr honay lugg jati hay aik dooseray say! aur frustation iss liyeh bhi berh jaati hay keh phir wo move out bhi nahi ker paa rahay hotay hain!
Aur ye BOHOT BARA such hay aaj kay daur may keh hum bajayeh apnay rishton ko samajhnay kay unko izzat denay kay, iss hud tuk pagal kerdiyeh gaye hain keh humaray bachay aaj bethay "difference between GF aur wife" dhoond rahay hain! yani aik "tawayef" may aur aik HOME MAKER may! My GOD! Yani ye daur bhi ana tha hum per ?
Kia hum kabhi yeh kehtay hain keh "Insan may aur kuttay may kia ferq hay?" Nahi na ? to aik GF kahan say iss qabil hogayee keh usko Wife yani keh Homemakee kay braber laa khara kerain aur phir NUKTAY dhoondain beech may ?
Aap logon ko samjhna hogga iss baat ko keh shaitaan ki chalon may say ye bhi aik hay keh wo aapko iss hud tuk corrupt kerday keh aap khud bhi corruption ko yaa to mozoo bana ker uss per behes kerain aur yaa usko JOKES may use kerain yaa somehow aap ghoomain ussi topic kay agay peechay!
Beta aainda aap say koi ferq poochay yaa aapka khud dil chahay na aisee HARAM terms per ghaur kernay ka while putting a beautiful relation in their comparison to pehlay
"Insaan aur Pig may kia ferq hay" iss per ghaur ker lijiyeh ga. |
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re; girlfriend, kutta aur tawaif raregold: iss dunya mai har qisim ke log rehtay hai. aur har qisim ke logo ka culture same nahi hota. agar aap ke culture mai girlfriend ka concept nahi hai tu iss ka yeh matlab nahi keh aap ose Kutteay aur Tawaif se tashbeeh dain. agar aap ke cultre ko bhi koi tutta aur tawaif kahe tu kaisa lagay ga. |
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 Door ki KORRI!
Asalaamu alaikum all, Bewaqoof bro aap mashaALLAH say "dooooor ki korri" laye hain keh ji GF ko kuttay aur tawayef say tashbeeh na doon main :) Yeh tashbeeh main nay bol kerdee hay ye laufz GF khud ko bayan hee aisay kerta hay! chalain aap batta dain kaun hotti hay GF ? wo jis ko wo shukhs izzat nahi deta jiski wo GF hay ? batayeh jo mard tawayef kay paas jata hay uski izzat kernay k liyeh jata hay wahan ? jub bhi kissi nay izzat dee usko biwi banaya nikah kia! Jo aulad Gf say hotti hay wo 'ill legitimate" ".... edit abusive word ..." hotti hay English may aur Urdu may "... edit abusive word .." batayen tawayef ki aulad ko log yahi nahi kehtay hain ? Aap itnay offensive kion ho rahay hain bhai main nay sirf yahan likha hay meray likhnay yaa na likhnay say HAQEEQAT to nahi badal jani na ? Chalain aa jayen cultures per, aapkay mulk may aapkay culture may GAY normal baat nahi hay, west may legal status milnay lagga hua hay unn logon ko,, QUran kehta hay ALLAH swt nay berbaad kerdia iss baat per Hazzarat Loot es ki qaum ko, kul ko main unn logon kotashbeeh day doon to aap phir kia yoon offnded ho jayen gey meray bhai ? Baat culture may jayez honay na honay ki nahi hay HAQEEQAT may jayez yaa na jayez honay ki hay! Jis ko meray culture ko Kutta yaa Tawayef kehna hay shauq say kahay LEKIN ye na bhoolay keh usko sabit bhi ker sakay, aur alhumdulilah her uss insaan ka culture jo ALLAH ki kitab ko perh ker apna culture banata hay kabhi bhi aik kuttay yaa tawayef kay braber nahi aa sakay ga! kion keh ALLAH swt uss kitab ko likhnay walay hain aur apnay baray may fermatay hain (rather challenge detay hain insaan aur jinaat ko mila ker) aasmaan may kahin aik jagha chaid dhoond sako to dhoondo aur batao!?..........lihaza kissi ko point out kerna hay to shauq say keray lekin REASON bhi ho uskay paas! Aik aur misal lay lijiyeh meray bhai aap, meray culture may wife swapping nahi hay, magar dooseri taraf aisa hay culture keh wahan yeh cheez hay, to kia main iss baat ko PIG say tashbeeh na doon ?............. meray bhai COMMON SENSE ki baat hay insaan jis terhan ki herkatain kerain gey to misal bhi to wesi hee dee jayeh gee na ? ghalat kaam kerain gey to LOOKED DOWN UPON ko to face kerna hee hogga na ? uss per offence kesa ?
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re: wife and girlfriend
girl friend aur mangeter mai koi farq nahi. mangetar eastern culture mai hoti hai aur girl friend western culture mai. dono apni apni culture mai sahi hai.
jis tarah mangeter ko zana allow nahi isi tarah girlfriend ko bhi zana allow nahi. agar koi girlfriend zana kerti hai tu woh os ka personal fael hai bilkul osi tarah jis tarah aksar eastern culture ki mangeter bhi zana kerti hai.
dono culture mai wife ka matlab mankooha bivi hoti hai. wife alag cheez hai aur mageter ya girl friend alag cheez. jis tarah nikah se qabal mangetar bivi nahi ban sakti isi tarah nikah se qabal girlfriend bhi bivi nahi ban sakti.
re: "Jo aulad Gf say hotti hay wo 'ill legitimate" hotti hay"
ji haan isi tarah eastern culture mai mangeter se jo aulad hoti hai woh bhi illegitimate hoti hai. jis tarah eastern culture mai mangeter se sex allow nahi isi tarah western culture mai bhi girlfriend se sex allow nahi. jo mangeter ya girlfriend sex kerti hai woh on ka zaati fael hai.
Twaif, Kutta, mangeter, girlfriend aur jismfarosh sab alag alag word hai. aap ko agar yeh sab aik jaisa lag raha hai tu phir kisi ostad se pehle in tamam lafzon ki meaning aur tashreeh samjhain.
aap ko eastern aur western ka bhi matlab nahi maloom. aap ko culture aur mazhab ka bhi farq nahi maloom isi liye culture aur mazhab ko mix ker rahi hai. aap ko mangeter/girfriend aur wife ka bhi farq nahi maloom isi liye ise bhi mix ker rahi hai.
aap ko ikhlaqiat ka bhi ilm nahi keh kis qisim ke lafz ko freely use kerna chahiye aur kis qisim ki cheez ko frequently use nahi kerni chahiye. aap ko yeh bhi nahi maloom ke iss forum per gali likhne ki ijazat nahi. mera tu khayal hai keh aaap ko yeh bhi nahi maloom keh aap jo language istemal ker rahi hai woh shareef muashray mai gaali kehlati hai. mera khayal hai keh aap ko yeh bhi nahi maloom keh shareef muashra kisay kehtay hain?
Note: Illegitimate child koi nahi hoti. har bachcha legitimate hi hota hai. albatta os ke maa baap ki harkat (sex) illegitimate hoti hai. kisi bhi bachcha ko illegitimate kehna gunah hai. aap ne ose na sirf illegitimate kaha balkeh english aur urdu mai galian bhi di. kia aap ka mazbab kisi bachcha ko iss qisim ki gaali dene ki ijazat deta hai. hargiz nahi. Allah taala aap ke gunah maaf karey.
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Ikhlaqiat :)
Asalaamu alaikum all, Agar YAHI Ikhlaqiat hain meray bhai to mujhey fakhar hogga meri ikhlaqiat yeh nahi rather wo hain jo ALLAH ki kitab may hain aur mera culture bhi wohi hay mujhey kissi naye regional CULTURE kay perday ki zaroorat hay bhi nahi :) Dictionary ki zaroort hay yahan kissi ko jis say wo yeh maloom kersakain yeh word GF kitna izzat daar hay! aap musalsal GF ko mangeter kay saath KION MIX ker rahay hain ? (although mangeter ka concept bhi aapka mera so call EASTERN culture to day sakta hay hamari kitab nahi!) .......... mangeter ko ghaliban Fiance kaha jata hay! nayee????? Chalain aap khud society may das logon per experiment kerkay dekh lain jin ki mangni ho chuki ho! aap unki mangeter ko jaker poochain aya wo iss banday ki GF hain ? aap ko jawab mil jayeh ga :)............... Aap ko meri tashbeeh aur muhawaray nahi samajh may aayeh to bhai yeh mera masla to nahi hay kion ke main nay tashbeeh dee hay hergiz hergiz kissi kay physical aur chemical composition ko challenge nahi kia hay aur ALLAH swt mujhey bachayen aisa kernay say ameen. Shareef muashray may agar main kissi ko gali day ker larayee may cursing kay taur per ye words use keroon to haqeeqatan gali hee hay aur on my part burri baat bhi, lekin main nay kissi ko kaha nahi hay main yahan discussion may lafz use ker rahi hoon that you can VERY WELL SEE (and mods I dun mind my posts being edited either! I shall be more carefull next time inshaALLAH!) Lekin aik baat zehen may rakhiyeh keh aapki society may jo jo exist kerta hay wo zere-e-behes to aayeh ga! aap kia logon say jo ghalat kaam kertay hain aisee jaghain unhon nay abaad ker rakhi hain ikhtilaf nahi kertay hain keh wo to khulam khula chalti phirti galian hain society may ? Jis society ki GF ko aap itnee favour day rahay hain wahan kay kissi bhi forum per meri baat ko hanh yaa na kia jata uss per behes hotti na keh meray lufzon per! unless I start cursing other members bhai! Mind it again meray bhai keh main nay KISSI bachay ko gali nahi dee hay! jo bola jata hay wo yahan likha hay! not that some child was actually sitting infront of me aur main uski zaat ki dhajjiyan bekhair rahi thi! emotional hona achi baat hay lekin LIMITS may :) Main nay China may na sirf aisay bachay dekhay hain bulkeh meri unn say dosti bhi hay aur wo meray liyeh itnay hee masoom hain jitnee meri apni do betiyan :) lihaza I request you meray bhai keh FOR GOD SAKE main nay yahan KISSI ko gali nahi dee uss GALI ka istimal zaroor kia hay discussion may lekin NOT aiming towards some one! Aap nay aakhri baat sab say pyaari ki hay waqyee mujhey ye cheez lug jayeh to aur kia chahiyeh ALLAH swt meray gunah maaf fermayen aur apni janab say hadyat ataa kerain ameen :) |
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