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Hum dekhtay hain k different periods , different places main logoun k behaviour aur actions bhi different hojatay hain...........akhir kyun aesa hota hai
kya in changing behaiviors ka relation unkay self image say hai............like wo apne mind main apne jo bhi image banatay hain us hi tarha react kartay hain.............

agar aesa nahi hai tou phir self image hai kya ,iska purpose kya hai.........aur isay kis tarha positive way main use kiya jasakta hai.........plz sab reply karain......

Hangama

Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age: 37

Posted on:20th Mar 2008, 2:41pm

Jagoo jago subha howii

Mujhai samajh nahi araha hai ka kiya jawab doon. chaloo baqi member so rahai hain kiyaaaa. reply kiyu nahi kara abhi taq kisi nahi es post per.?

BeautyStar

Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age: 26

Posted on:21st Mar 2008, 11:06pm

Self-Image

Agar app Period , Place , Situation k saath react nahi karoo gee.. tou loog app kop PAGAL kahein gaey... for example agar app Mayyat ma zor zor se kah kahey laga kar hasne lag jaein... ya phir Shadi ma Ceena peeth peeth kar rone lag jaein... matlab yah kah Insaan ko in sab Factors k saath khudh se hi adjust hona parta hai... aur yah eak Fitre Amal hai.

Self-Image eak dosrey cheez hai joo uper wale topic se itna relate nahi karte... Self-Image ka matlab hai yah app k Mind ma app ka khudh ka kiya image hai... matlab kah app Party ma buhat friendly hain or Office ma buhat strict... lekin app ka Dil-O-Demagh janta hai kah app ka Real nature kiya hai.. Friendly or Strict.. so this is called "Self-Image"... i.e. what people perceives about themselves.

Self-Image ko Positive way ma iss tarha use kiya ja sakta hai... kah agar app ka Self-Image buhat acha hai tou app uss ko maintain rakhein... or agar yah kharab hai tou app kharabiyoun ko realize karein or phir uss ko uss lihaaz se tackle karein.. or khatam karne ki koshish karein.

Maryam

Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:

Posted on:11th Feb 2009, 2:39am

What is self Image

ziada tar hum log self image wohi banate hain jo logon ki hamare bare main raye hoti hae:) Maslan agar hum kisi waja se logon mein achay mash,hoor hogaye hain to hum log apnay zehno main bhi apna acha image bana letay hain aur agar kisi bhi waja se log humain pasand nahi karte to humara apna image bhi apnay liye kharab hojata hae. aur yeh cheez humari personality ko itna effect karti hae k hum logon k guman k mutabiq khud ko bana letay hain isi liye islam bhi kehta hae k logon ko achay naamon se pukaro. jaise agar hum kisi ghalat banday ko bhi acha kahain gay to woh acha karne pe majboor hojaye ga. humare muashre mein police itni buri nahi jitna us ko hum logon ne bura bana diya hae to un ka self image woh bana jo hum ne unhain bawar karaya. to jo police wala rishwat nahi bhi leta lekin us ko taanay phir bhi miltay hain us k liye rishwat lena koi mushkil kaam nahi hoga lekin agar hum unhain self respect dain aur unhain yeh show karain k woh bohat izzat daar hain to yaqeen karain koi bhi police wala kabhi rishwat na lay. to muashre main selfimage hum khud nahi banate balke logon ka attitude humara selfimage na sirf bana hae balke kharab bhi kar deta hae

nikama

Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age: 34

Posted on:11th Feb 2009, 6:51pm

Self Image...

Hitman , baraa topic chuna hai yaar..aqulmund hotay ja rahay hoo..not easy one.... in simple , self image aap khud nahee bana saktay , bus apnay oper instal kur saktay hain..image humaray baray main loog banatay aur tortay hain, aur hum bilkul waisay hee hotay jatay hain, and just lead to life..waisay iss baray main koi itna bhee sochnay kee baaat nahee hai, kiyoonkay only 'change' is a constant thing in the whole universe ..so keep on changing aur yaheee hur insaaan ka self image hota hai and change hota rahta hai....baqi ya buhat long discussion ho saktee hai, but no need ..tum bahtur jantay hooo....enjoyyyyy

~~HITMAN~~

Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age: 28

Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 1:53pm

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Maryam| kabhi kabhi loag sahi bhi self image bana lete hain, police buri hai isliayin uskay naam se loag khof khatay hain, warna thano main jakay bhangray daal rahay hotay :) nice reply

Nikamma| bas ji ab wo member nahi rahay jo participation kartay thay topic main aur usay lamba chalatay thay, ab loag topic k starter k baray main zyada participate kartay hain bajaye topic k warna abhi bhi mere paas kaafi topics hain jinpe baat karsaktay hain sab mil k... kuch loag hain jo apni islaah karne ka naam nahi lerahay, dosron ki islah main lagay hoe hain.
good reply. thanx

Maryam

Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:

Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 7:38pm

Re:

abhi bhi yahaN aise members haiN jo topics pe discussion kartay haiN balkay i think k info bhai aur mera dost bhai jaise members aise hain jo kisi achay topic ka hi wait kartay haiN aur wahaN discussion k liye wapis bhi ajatay haiN . we r waiting for your new threads .

Diplomate

Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age: 36

Posted on:14th Nov 2010, 9:25pm

Good Topic By Hitman Bro

"bas ji ab wo member nahi rahay jo participation kartay thay topic main aur usay lamba chalatay thay"

main wapsi par aap ka yeh gila door kar doon ga fil haal mujy office sy dair ho rahi hay ..aap thorra sa aur wait karain jahan aap ny 19th Mar 2008 sy ly kar 14th Nov 2010 tak wait kiya hay na ..to thoorra sa mazeed kar lain...to milty hain aik short but necessary break k baaaaaad..:)

~~HITMAN~~

Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age: 28

Posted on:15th Nov 2010, 10:08am

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Please members bajaye letters ko bold kar k tanz maarne k topic pe tawajju dijiyai....yehi baat main nay pehle hi keh di hai uper "ab loag topic k sarter k baray main zyada participate kartay hain bajaye topic k" ,aur phir se wohi kia jaraha hai,office se anay k baad bhi reply kia jasakta hai, mujhe koi jaldi nahi hai, jahan 19th Mar 2008 sy ly kar 14th Nov 2010 tak wait kiya hay, wahan 15th Nov 2010, 7:25am se lekar office se anay tak ka bhi wait bhi karlonga.

Maryam|~ ye regular member nahi hain ji......jinke baray main apne kaha hai, inki participation k liyain 1 week wait karna hoga apko, wese bhi jo old members thay is thread main unki baat hi kuch aur thi, wo baat ap kahan kisi main.

Diplomate

Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age: 36

Posted on:15th Nov 2010, 1:26pm

Is Personality Is The Mirror Of Our Inner Feelings.?

sab sy pehly to hitman sy guzarish hay k apni shak ki soi ki nok torr dain aur khaa makhaa main har bat main ya baat kehny waly main shak na kiya karain ...:) main ny koi tanz nahi ki thi ...aik aur baat k main yahan reply title daikh kar kar raha hon thread starter ko daikh kar nahi...:))

iss sawal ka answer karny k liye main insan ki khilqat k 3 aham unsar ka sahara loon ga ..jo k darj zail hain ..

teenat
adat
fitrat

teenat ...insan ki paidaysh k marhaly main hi allah ta'ala ki zat insan k khameer main yani teenat main mukhtalaf cheezain rakh daiti hay ...jaisy ..hiras , lalich , tama , bughaz ,gharoor , takabbar , *makari , ayari , chal chalan , jazbaat (muhabbat , gham , nafrat , gussa), aqal , shaoor waghaira

adat .... iss ka taluq insan k duniya main any k baad zindagi guzarny k mu'aamlaat sy hota hay jaisy , cigerett peeny ki adat , sharab peeny ki adat , chaye peeny ki adat , jhot bolny ki adat , dhokha dainay ki adat , khud numaiee ki adat , waghaira waghaira

fitrat ...yeh insani khilqat kawo unsar hay jo kisi b insani adat k pukhta hojany k baad shuro hota hay ..maslan..aik insan ko jhot bolny ki iss qadar adat ho jaye k wo chotti si chotti bat sy lay kar barri sy barri baat main amoman jhot boly to goya jhot bolna uss insan ki adat sy nikal kar uss ki fitrat ban jata hay ...lehaza aysy shakhas ko jab yaad kiya jaye ga to yahi keha jaye ga k fulan jhoty shakhas ki fulan baat waghaira...issi trah insan ki deegar adaat k bary main hay

*makari ...yahan main ny star iss liye lagaya tha k main iss word ki tashree karna chata hon ...baat yeh hay k hamary mu'ashry main amoman makari ka jo meaning liya jata hay ya jo meaning rayj hay wo hay ayari , dhokha dahi , gheebat karny wala , bad'diyanat , apni baat sy mukar jany wala , wada wafa na karny wala ...waghaira waghaira...laiken iss word ka asal tarjama hay "*tadbeer" karny wala jo k hamary mu'ashry main rayj nahi hay aur hum iss meaning ko man'ny k liye tayaar b nahi hain

Quran pak ki aik aya majeeda hay " Wallah Ho Khair-ul-Maaky'reen" yani allah sab sy behtar "TADBEER" karny wala hay ...agar hum "makar ka matlab apny mu'ashry main rayj shuda yani "ayari" etc nikalain to goya iss aya majeeda ka yeh mafhoom bany ga k "allah sab sy barra makkar hay" naouz-o-billah ...laiken ays nahi hay ...iss aya majeeda ka tarjma behtreen tadbeer karny wala hi bany ga

*tadbeer ..tadbeer sy muraad insan ki tarf sy ki jany wali mkhtalif mu'aamlat main planing nahi hay bulky tadbeer ka yahan mafhoom hay "shaoor , aqal , marfat"

lehza insan ki teenat main shamil yehi aik unsar yani mak'kari (tadbeer) insani nafs ko *nafs-e-mut'may'ayna tak puhanchati hay aur yahi unsar insani nafs ko *nafs-s-am'mara tak puhancha daiti hay ..

*nafs-e-mut'may'ayna sy muraad hay k insan apni teenat main chupy tammam naik juzviyaat (ikhlaqiyaat waghaira ) ko apni "tadbeer" k zariya ujagar kary aur ala o arfa muqaam ko paa ly

*nafs-e-am'mara wo muqaam hay jahan insan apni tadbeer k zariye apni teenat main chupy bury juzviyaat ko ujagar karta hay unhain apni adat ka hisssa banata hay aur bad main fitrat ka hissa bana kar puhanch jata hay..

abb insan apni isi makari (tadbeer) ko broye kaar laa kar apni zindagi k mukhtlif mu'aamlaat ko tey karta hay inn mu'aamlaat main insan baaz oqaat acha rawwaya apnata hay , baaz oqaat bura rawwaya apnata hay , baaz oqaat masawaat ka rawwaya apnata hay goya makari ka yeh insani unsar insan ki teenat sy parwaan charrta howa insan ki adaat main dakhal ho jata hay ...baad azaan adat k pukhta ho jany k baad fitrat ka hissa banta hay

lehaza inn adaat ka mukhtilif muwaqqy par azhaar insan ki mukhilif ashkaal (images) ka bayes banta jata hay ...kisi ki nazar main ba ikhlaaq image , kisi ki nazar main parhaiz gaar image , kisi ki nazar main jhotta hona , kisi ki nazar main marfat wala hona , kisi ki nazar main lofar hona ..gharz yeh k al hazal qiyaas insan k mukhtlif images iss duniya main banty jaty hain ..

abb inn sab adaat main sy insan jis adat ko apny andar pukhta kar laita hay wo adat uss insan ki fitrat ban jati hay jo sari zindagi change nahi ho sakti ..amoman keha b jata hay k "nature can not b change"

lehaza above quoted question ka answer yahi banta hay k insan ki tarf sy paish karda mukhtlif muwaqqy par mukhtlif ashkaal ya images insan ki uss "makkari" (tadbeer) ki nishan dahi karta hay jo k insan ki teenat main shamil hay aur iss k baad teenat sy nikal kar adat banta hay aur baad azaan jumla adaat main sy koi aik adat pukhta ho jany k bad insan ki fitrat ban jati hay ...

yahi insan k mukhtlaf muwaqqy par mukhtalif images ki kahani hay..:))

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