Should we control masturbation or do it in moderation?? use it or just fuse it!!
A Problem In Our daily Life: Is forum pay har kuch din baad aik sawal hota hai k how can i stop masturbation. Yeh theek hai kay har cheez ki ziyadati buri hai pehlay kay zamanay mai young larkay larkyion ki shadi kara di jati thi jis kay bohat say fawaid thay mana kuch log is k haq main nahi hai kai wajoohat ki bina par masalan larko k career achi naukri graduation wagaira aur larkio ki kam umari main zachgi k masail wagaira magar woh sub apni jaga theek hai magar insan ko hamesha darmian ka rasta chun na chahiye woh yeh kay career ik chakar main larko ki umar bari ho jati hai aur achay rishton ki demand main larkian bhi 22, 23 cross kar jati hai aur yahan tak k 26 or 30 tak pohach jati hain aur parhi likhi larkio k demand bhi high hoti hai. Aik waqt ata hai k un ki shadi ki khawahish marnay lagti hai yani khatam honay lagti hai. Larkay balogat k bad say he ya agar galat mahol main parwarish paye to galat harkat main par jate hai even in 10, 11 years aur 14 ya 15 tak to shayad he koi aisa larka ho jo yeh na karta ho. Phir aik waqt ata hai k woh masturbation chorna chahatay hai laikin porn sites daikh daikh kar ya cds say itna bigar jatay hai k bohat mushkil hoti hai aur aaj k daur main is say bachna bohat mushkil aur mai nay mushkil kaha na mumkin nahi. Main bhi in tamam phase say guzray hon aur aik waqt aya k i feel bored from all these things magar jub kafi arsay mastubation ko chora rakha to meray liye masturbation karna mahal ho gaya aur main bilkul jaisay na mard phsychologically ho gaya phir i again see porn sites after 3 or 4 years aur yeh baat bhi 6 ya 7 saal pehlay ki hai now i am 25 and i leave this habit of watching such things and i must tell that i feel impotent again and feel very low sexual desire. Yahan pay is forum pay aap hi ki website say main nay parha tha kay ya shayad kisi nay likha tha k jo log masturbation kam kartay hai un ka seminal fluid ki tayari ka amal sust par jata hai aur jo log ziyada kartay hai un ki production ka amal taiz aur yeh bhi k jis gaye(cow) ka doodh na nikala jaye woh doodh daina band kar daiti hai agar yeh sab sahi hai to phir bhi masturbation ko control karna chahiye aur meray tajarba yeh kehta hai k late shadi honay par admi main woh tazgi nahi rehti agar woh salon saal masturbation chor day ha yeh zaroor hai k mayana ravi ikhtiar kary. Plz giv ur suggestions and dr. sahab plz roshni dalain is pehloon par main bohat parayshan hoon. Salam to all
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