Yani foreplay kay doran mein bharpoor tanau (erection) hota hai magar junhi mubashrat (intercourse) shuru karney lagtey hain tanau (erection) yakdam khatam ho jata hai. Iss tarhan baaz logon ko bhi kabhi bharpoor tanau (erection) hota hai aur kabhi koshish kay bawajood nahi hota. Guzishta dinon merey paas ek naujawan erectile dysfunction (mardana kamzori)  kay liye aya. Iss nay bataya kay woh biwi kay sath bilkul theek hota hai magar doosri aurton kay paas isey tanau (erection) nahi hota. Mein nay kaha kay aap khush qismat hai kay Allah aap ko gunah sey bachata hai. Iss nay elaj kay liye israr kiya. mein ney maazrat kartey huey kaha kay mein aap ko zina kay liye tayyar nahi kar sakta chahey aap mujhey kitni hi fees kyun naa dein. woh mayoos ho kar chala gaya aur mein sukoon aur etminaan ki anokhi kaofiyat mein doob gaya.

    Isi tarhan mera ek naujawan mareez jis ki haal hi mein shadi hui thi, sakht pareshani ka shikar tha biwi sey mubashrat (intercourse) sey pehley foreplay kay doran mein isey khoob tanau (erection) hota magar woh jab mubashrat (intercourse)  shuru karney lagta to tanau (erection) kam ho jata aur woh zakar penetrate naa kar pata. Kaee bar nakami kay baad ab woh mubashrat (intercourse) sey khaufzada tha aur jinsi khwahish ki taskeen kay liye musht zani karta. Musht zani mein isey bhar poor tanau (erection) hota.

    Nafsiyati tajziye sey maloom hua kay baloghat kay shuru kay dinon mein iss nay 4 ya 5 saal ki bachi sey jinsi zyaditi ki koshish ki magar woh pakra gaya. Iss kay elawa uss nay kaee baar apney parents ko mubashrat (intercourse) kartey dekha. Yeh baat isey bohut buri lagi aur isey mubashrat (intercourse) sey khauf aur nafrat hogaee. Jawani mein ek bar kisi janwar sey jinsi amal ki koshish ki aur jald inzal ho gaya aur isey yaqeen ho gaya kay woh kabhi mubashrat (intercourse) nahi kar sakey ga. Baloghat kay shuru kay dinon mein isey ehtilam hota tha aur woh musht zani bhi karleta tha.