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coko jani
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Apr, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 47 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Apr 2007, 2:31pm |
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 problem after marrige with close ralitives
AOA, DR I M ENGAGGED WITH MY FIRST COUSIN(MY UNCLE'S DAUGHTER).I WANT TO KNOW THAT WILL THERE ANY PROBLEM IN PRAGNENCY AFTER MARRIGE. I MEAN ARE THE PROBLEMS ARISES WHEN SOMEBODY GET MARRIED WITH THEIR CLOSE RALITIVES. PLZ REPLEY |
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Kali Zuban
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Apr 2007, 4:23pm |
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genetic disorder first cousin se shadi karne se kuch genetic bimari hone ka chance barh jata hai. lekin is ka yeh matlab nahi ke aisa hi hoga. agar ap ki emgagment ho gai hai tu koi bat nahi ap shadi kar le. beshumar logo ne apni first cousin se shadi ki hai kuch nahi hua. ap ko bhi insha-allah kuch nahi hoga. |
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macfl
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Apr 2007, 6:14pm |
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is ke liye aap ka aur aap ki cousin ka ek test hota hay jis se pata chalta hay k aap ko agay koi problem aaygi ya nahi.
aur in case agar aayegi bhi to us ke liye injection lagwana perta hay jo ke easily available hay woh zaroor zaroor lagwalena werna abnormal child peda hoga.
so consult ur family physician |
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Danish Pk
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2007, 12:49am |
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Nice reply from Macfl
follow the instruction of Macfl. and contact Dr. and explain u r problem with him.
i also married with my first cousion. there is normal situation.
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Zain_ali
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2007, 12:57am |
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 yaar this is not fair aap kaye asee larki kaye nazarmai kia izat rah jaye gaye
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macfl
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2007, 3:15am |
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is me izzat ki kia baat hay. jab aap us se shadi ker rahay ho to aap dono ka farz hay k aap ki honay wali aulaad k liye aap log yeh test karain. baad me ilaaj karanay se achha hay ke pehlay test kerwa lein.
precution is better than cure
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khan_80
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2007, 7:08am |
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 genetic problems
There are many genetic disorders which can arise due to first cousin marriage, but as u are now engaged to that girl, i would suggest u that keep faith on allah. and keep ur mind free from these worries now. u should have thought it before getting engaged to that girl.
I would also like to ask Mr.macfl that about which "test" and "injection" he is talking about. plz make it clear. i'll wait for ur reply.
thanx |
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rite157
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Apr, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 32 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Apr 2007, 10:14pm |
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genetic problem This problem also arised with one of my friend, he is not engaged but married with his first cousin & now her wife is pregnant, so Mr. macfl, my question is that will that injection be useful now for her upcoming child as she is already pregnant. |
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saruzi
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Mar, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 53 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 5:49am |
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Genetic problem
Asslam-0-Allakum,
Dear bro according to medical research the genetic codes forward the weakness and strongness of their forefathers. But medical science say MIGHT BE this happen.
In my experience it happens very less , may Allah bless you and your family.
Allah Hafiz |
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kools
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 6:02am |
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there can b some genetic problems but not always.... means there are risk factors but it is not a rule that every cousins married hav these problems.
so don;t worry about that .... hav faith in ALLAH
and mr plz explain da TEST and INJECTION u r telling. |
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justSalman
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 174 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 9:20am |
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Agreed with Kools i agree with kools just faith in one & only Allah,
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justSalman
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 174 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 9:21am |
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Agreed with Kools i agree with kools just faith in one & only Allah,
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justSalman
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 174 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 9:24am |
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Agreed i agree with kools just faith in Allah |
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hypka
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Feb, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 17 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2007, 11:29pm |
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No OBJECTION but PREFERABLE to Marry Outside There is no objection whatsoever in the Islamic religion for a man to marry any of his relatives except al-maharim (those forbidden for marriage) whom Allah mentioned in surat al-nisaa', 4:23 (interpretation of the meaning):
Prohibited to you (for marriage) are: your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (who breast-fed you), foster-sisters (who breast-fed from the same woman as you); your wives' mothers; your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives with whom you have consummated marriage, no prohibition if ye have not consummated; (those who have been) wives of your sons proceeding from your loins; and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same time, except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Thus, when Allah mentioned for us the relatives to whom marriage is forbidden, we then come to know that there is no OBJECTION for the remainder of the family relations. Furthermore, there is no condition that it be the last resort as indicated in the question. Among the most prominent evidence of this fact is that the Prophet (peace be upon him) married his daughter Fatima to Ali (may Allah be pleased with them) and he is the son of her father's uncle, as well as the marriage of the Prophet himself to Zainab bint Jahsh (may Allah be please with her) and she is his aunt's daughter (i.e. his cousin); and there are many other such examples.
However, a different question may be asked, namely: "Is it better or preferable for a Muslim to marry someone he is not related to rather than a relative?"
The answer to this question varies from case to case, and perhaps it may be PREFERABLE to marry people who are non-relations, for example if one aspires to form new social ties or bonds, and regards the existence of a marriage relationship with a different family as constructive in widening the circle of social bonds.
Answered BY
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid |
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zidiii
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2013, 10:24am |
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sexeul rel.. zana ki sazaa hai, quran maiN... unmarried zaani aur zaania ko 100 koRay maarnay ki had bayaan howi hai soorat Al-Noor k aghaaz maiN... yeh sazaa zaahir hai k koi islami reyasat hi day sakti hai, zanaa ka jurm saabit honay par yaa zanaa karnay walouN k iqbaalay jurm par. chouNkay hamaray mulk maiN islami qanoon naafiz nahi hai , issi liyeh ap iss sazaa say bachi howi haiN |
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alimalik
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Jun, 2011 Topic: 7 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2013, 5:37am |
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weakness salammera name ali hai. main ap se apni causn k baary pochna chahta hun k meri shadi meri kazn k sath after 4 month baad hony wali he, magr meri kazn boht kamzor he, aisy patli si suki si he. phly zra uski sehat thk thi ab to kaafi kamzor lgti he., main chahta hun k wo shadi tak kuch healthy ho jaay. to please muje btaay k usko khaany, piny mein kiaa kiaa khana pina chahye jo uski sehat k liy thk ho or wo kuch healthy ho jaay. plz zaroor btay ga. please.. fruit main ya jo b chez usko healthy krne main help kre plz un chezo k baary zaror btayga please. thnx
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