kashifkbr
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 8:20am |
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Foreplay In Islam In Brightness – Intercourse In Islam In Darkness
Aslamolakum Doctor Sahib, mere shadi ko 8 year ho gae he, mere mashalah 3 kids be he, lakin mujhe aaj tak bewi ne light on kar ke mubashrat nahe karne de aaj tak hum log light off kar ke jo kuch karna ho karte he, or mere wife ne aaj tak mere samne light on kar ke apne cloths nahe utare or nahe aaj tak kabhe mere sath 4 play kea he humesha ma he karta houn mera dil bohat karta he ke woh mere sath 4play kare or mera lun ko apne hath me le lakin woh sharmate he or yeh sab kuch nahe karte mujhe batae ke me usee kese samjaoun ke woh yeh san kuch karne ko tear ho jae. mere wife nehaet shareef ghar ke he. I have got married eight years back and we have two kids as well. However; my wife didn't allowed me till so far to perform intercourse in brightness and light and we have been doing sexual activities only in the darkness. My wife did not put off her cloths in light in front of me, not only but also she did not done foreplay with me and I have to initiate foreplay always. She is very much shyish. Please give me some solution.
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goodman
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 8:32am |
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Foreplay And Intercourse During Darkness Vs Foreplay And Intercourse Duirng Brightness
Kashif Bahi App Allah ka shukar ADA karay kay ALLAH nay app koo Naik Bewi dee ha JOO SHARMOO HAYA kee Pabend ha.Agar app kee Bewi Sharmoo Hiya Rakhana Chati ha too AP uss SHARMOO Hiya kyoo kyoo UTARNA Chatay ha.Maray Bahi hamara religion hamay SHARAMO HIYA Ka DARAS DATA HA aur SHARMOO HIYA EMAAN ka PART HA. Wasay bee Mashallah ab app ka rahay ha kay app 3 kids ha too app KOO SHARMOO hiya may hee ra ker PIYAR kerna chahay. Therefore; it is better to continue with your wife foreplay and intercourse during darkness instead of doing it in brightness. Islam also preaches modesty and Modesty is present in Islam.
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Veer
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 9:15am |
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Foreplay In Islam During Brightness – Intercourse In Islam During Darkness
agreed with good man.. lekin ho sakta hai ke aap ki wife es cheez ko galat samujti ho..baaz khawateen k zehan mein yeh baat bethi hoti hai ke sex karna koi juram hai woh kuch khawateen forplay ko bhi ghalat samujti hain.aap ki shaadi ko 8 saal ho gaye hain..aap ka bhi farz banta hai ke aap apni wife ko batao ke aap ko kya acha lagta hai aap ki wife ki kon kon si ada achi lagti hai..esi tarha os se bhi pocho ke ose kya kya acha lagta hai aak dosre ki adato ko jaana bhut zaroori hota hai..8 saal mein ab aap donu ko sharamana nehin chahein.ager wife light jala kar apne hasband ke pass aye to es mein koi harj nehin hai aur yeh aap apni wife ko samuja sakte hain aap ko jo acha lagta hai woh apni wife ko batao ta ke woh aap ki passand ka khayal rakhe..mera mashwara hai ke aap apni wife ko yeh link read karwaye. Islam Sharmo haya ka dars deta hai isileye intercourse perday main hona chaheye albatta bohat sari baton main Islam Silent hai. Chunanchey ye husband aur wife ki marzi per munhasir hai kay wo light on kerkay intercourse ya foreplay karain ya phir darkness main karain. Intercourse And Foreplay In Islam During Brightness And Darkness Foreplay And Intercourse In islam - Darkness And Brightness
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rafaz
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 20 Post: 937 Age:
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 10:35am |
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Reply: Foreplay In Islam During Brightness – Intercourse In Islam During Darkness
Sharm o hya aachi cheez ha leken shoer say neehen qk doono ek doosrey k lyee halal heen aur ek doosrey ka libas heen islam ney poori ijazat dee howe ha k aap apni halal bivi say porapora lutf leen aur jo k us ko deena chayee qk yee dono ki zarorat ha bivi k shoer k faraiz may sub say phelay yee bat shmil ha k wo apney shoer ki jinsi zaroryat ko pora kareey Hamarey yehan logon k zahen may fazool fazool qisim k khyalat bahrey howween heen k ye jaiz neehen ha ye jaiz neehen ha guna sub galat ha islam aap ko poori tara say apni wife k jisim say lutf lene ka haq deta ha , jin cheezon ko mana kerta ha wo yee heen 1. anal intercourse mana ha 2.menses k period may intercourse mana ha, sirf intercourse mana ha baqi aap sub kuch ker sakteey heen 3. Ramzan may ya roza ki halat may intercourse mana ha. May aap ko betlata hoon k islam aap ko kin cheezon ki ijazat deta 1. aap intercourse full light on ker k ker sakteey heen chayee din may kareen ya rat may 24 hours may aap kabi bhe sex ker saktey heen 2. Intercourse k dooran aap dono poorey kaprey autar ker sex ker saktey heen ,ek doosrey k jisim ko fully nude dek saktey heen 3. Oral sex ker saktey heen leken mutual understanding k sath 4. Ek doosrey k sath shower yani k ghusal ker saktey heen 5. Nude lipit k so saktey heen 6. Kisi bhe position may sex ker saktey heen 7. Aap apney wife k breast ko choos sakteey heen ,breast per aap apna penis bhe ragewr saktey heen even aap discharged bhe ho saktey heen 8. Aap dono ka agar dil chahee to aap dono bathroom may bhe sex ker saktey heen qk aaj kel k bathroom buth zada saf suthrey hootey heen 9.Aap dono ek doosrey ki sharamgahoon ko hat lagasaktey heen ek doosrey ko mustaburate ker saktey heen , menses k dooran bivi ko chayee k wo aap ko discharged kerwaey 10. Aap apni bivi k poorey jisim ko hat laga saktey heen us ki sharamga may ungli ker saktey heen us k anus ko hat say sehla saktey heen 11. Husband wife ek doosrey k samney kaprey change ker saktey heen sex ka lutf leene k lyee ek doosrey k jisim ko poora nude dekh sakteey heen Agar aap ko phir bhe koi shuk ho to aap internet per search kareen just type " islam sex question answer" or " islam sex relation husband wife" kisi search engine yahoo , msn, google ,altavista aap ko saeh answer mil jayee ga Is forum per aap ko buth allama log milen gey un ki bat ko parekney k lyee aap islamic web site per research kareen phir apni bivi ko samjaeen aur us ki sharam ko door kareen Lehaza mundaja bala discussion kay baad ye baat akhaz hoti hai kay islam
main koi mumaniat nahi hai chahe intercourse brightness main ho ya darkness
main.
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josh
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2285 Age:
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 11:16pm |
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Rules Of Islam For Foreplay And Intercourse During Darkness And Lightness
nice reply by goodman... sharm-o-haya honi chahiye... Kashif ap apni wife ko kisi achhi islamic website say ya kisi book say husband wife k aik dosrey par hakook parhao aur khud bi parho... pehlay book khud parh lena, kahin aisa na ho k book mai likha ho k wife ko nude dekhna mana hai,, phir to wife bilkul hi kabi tumhari baat nahi manay gi... rafaz apnay sari post bari detail mai aur baray pyaar say likhi hai shaed "us ki sharamga may ungli ker saktey heen us k anus ko hat say sehla saktey heen "
"3. Oral sex ker saktey heen leken mutual understanding k sath" Allah tala nay directly oral sex k baray mai kuchh nahi kaha... is liye koi ye nahi keh sakta k Allah tala nay ijazat di hai oral sex karnay ki... apnay kaha "3. Ramzan may ya roza ki halat may intercourse mana ha." lekin ismai thori correction ki zaroorat hai Kyonkay Ramzaan mai bhi intercourse ki ijazat hai... (jab tak k insan rozay ki halat mai NA ho)). Aur ye baat bhi tay hai kai intercourse darkness aur brightness dono main hosakta hai.
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Veer
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4723 Age:
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 11:20pm |
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Intercourse And Foreplay In Islam During Brightness And Darkness
aap har kisi ko oral sex karne ko bhut kehte hain kya aap ko oral sex karna passand hai? yeh topic oral sex ka nehin hai lehaza aap oral sex ki baat yahan na kare.jis ko nehin bhi pata os ko bhi aap oral sex ka bata dete hain. yeh topic shy wife ka hai es liye lehaza os ke mutabik mashwara de. Ye topic Foreplay and Intercourse during darkness and brightness per hai is leye issi se mutaaliq baat honi chaheye.
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sweetie
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 11:22pm |
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Reply: Intercourse And Foreplay In Islam During Brightness And Darkness
Haya aorat ka zewar hai! beyshak ye sab kuch jo byan kia gya ye halal aor jaaiz hai, laikin FARZ nahee hai. Halal ke bad Tayyab ki bhi bahot bahot ehmiyat hai. Shohar apni bivi ko majboor nahi kar sakta keh wo aisa amal karay jis k liay us ka dil na chahta ho ya tabiat na manti ho. agar wo aisa karay ga to bivi ko apnay ap se mutanaffar karay ga. Apki bivi apni samajh ke mutabiq ap ka haq ada kar rahi hai, tabhi to mashaAllah ap aolaad bhi rakhtay hain, baqi cheezon ke liay ap par zimmadari aaid hoti hai, agar ap bivi ko apnay mutabiq dhalna chahtay hain to pehlay khud us ke mutabiq dhal jaain, usay apna dost banaain, us se poochain usay kia acha lagta hai aor us ko wo provide karain, pher bad main apni khuahish usay bataain. wo zaroor ta'awun karay gi. ye koi tariqa nahi k bivi ka dil chah raha ho ya na chah raha ho ap kahain keh nahi ye to halal hai is liay zaroor karo. bivi shyad char o nachaar kar to lay magar zehni sakoon jo asal maqsad hai us ka bera gharaq ho jaay ga! us par apni pasand thoonsnay k bajaay apni pasand ko us ki pasand bhi banaain. usay bataain keh wo ap ko har doosri cheez se ziada haseen nazar ati hai is liay ap uskay husn ko sair ho kar dekhna chahtay hain etc. kehnay ka matlab ye hai keh romantic andaz main usko satisfy kartay huay apnay talluqat barhaain na keh sirf apni khuhish ko poora karnay k liay usay londi samajhtay huay!
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josh
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2285 Age:
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Posted on:14th Jun 2008, 11:41pm |
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Reply: Intercourse And Foreplay In Islam During Brightness And Darkness
"us par apni pasand thoonsnay k bajaay apni pasand ko us ki pasand bhi banaain." aur iskay baad tareeka bi btaya..
sweetie apnay bohat achay reply kia hai... excellent.
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kashifkbr
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Group: Members Joined: 23rd May, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 14 Age:
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Posted on:15th Jun 2008, 8:45am |
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Foreplay In Islam In Brightness – Intercourse In Islam During Darkness
Islam main jin chizoon se mana kaya gaya hai wo bohat wazay hian. Albatta Husband and wife jaiz kaam main tazabzub ka shikaar na hon. Agar wife brightness main intercourse kerna nahi chahtee to ye uski sharm o haya hai. Aur sharm o haya her ek insaan main alag alag hoti hai. Mashaalah aap ki bivi main ziada sharm o haya hai. Ab agar wo darkness main intercourse kerna chahti hai to majbooran aap ko darkness main hi intercourse kerna hoga aap brightness main nahi kersaktay. Aur wasay bhi agar intercourse aur foreplay kay doran kisi fariq ki khahish ko malhooze khatir na rakha jaye to wo fariq intercourse aur foreplay main dischaspi kho deta hai. Islam ne go kay mana nahi kya magar phir bhi bahami taluqaat per kuch cheezain inhesaar kerti hain. Isi leye haqooq e zaujain ko made nazar rakhtay huay app per lazim hai kay aap apni wife ki khahishon ka ehteraam karain aur foreplay aur intercourse brightness main na karain aur darkness main hi karain.
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rafaz
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 20 Post: 937 Age:
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Posted on:15th Jun 2008, 11:22pm |
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Foreplay And Intercourse In Islam During Brightness And Darkness Mairy khayal se aap ko apni wife ko qail kerna chaheye jab islam main
brightness main foreplay aur intercourse mana hi nahi hai to phir yehi haq biwi
ko nibhana chaheye ke wo shohar ki her zaroorat pori karay aur wo intercourse aur foreplay
brightness main kernay say na ghabraaye. |
josh
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2285 Age:
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Posted on:15th Jun 2008, 11:57pm |
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Reply: Foreplay And Intercourse In Islam During Brightness And Darkness
Mr. Rafaz. Aaap ziada tar batein is bunyad per kertay hai jo aap internet per pedhtay hain. ye zaroori nahi k internet say search karo to 100% accurate answer mil jaey... ahmedi, shia aur christians aur jews nay bhi islamic sites banaee hui hain,, kyonkay ham sab ziada tar sunni hain idhar,, is liye shia , ahmadi waghaira say hamara bohat ziada difference hai... islamic site ka source check karna bohat zaroori hai , k is site par trust kia ja sakta hai ya nahi... kyonkay ho sakta hai koi banda aisi islamic site par chala jaey jo k jews nay banaee ho, kuchh batain theek aur ziada batain ghalat likhi hon, jisay parh kar muslims gumrah ho saktay hain...
lehaza haqooq e zojain ke hawaly se behtar hai ke aap Islamic scholars se rabta karein. Agar biwi razi nahi to shohar usay intercourse ya foreplay keley brightness main majboor nahi kersakta aur ye kaam unhain darkness main hi kerna hoga.
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rafaz
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 20 Post: 937 Age:
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Posted on:15th Jun 2008, 2:46pm |
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Foreplay And Intercourse In Islam During Brightness And Darkness
Ye
baat zaroori nahi ke internet per di jane wali maloomat ghalat ho. Ek aam admi
jo mamooli si bhi samaj bhooj rakhta ho uskay leye ye janna bohat aasan hai kay
internet per kia sahi hai aur kia ghalat hai. Main ne islami scholars se poocha
to maloom hua kay bed room behavior per islam silent hai. Intercourse ya
foreplay brightness main kerna hai ya darkness main ye husband aur wife per
depend kerta hai. Albatta ye dono per lazim hai ke islam ke dayre main rehtay
hue wo ek dosray ki khuhishat ko pora karain. Isleye Husband ka brightness main
intercourse ya foreplay ka mutalba jaiz hai. Aur biwi ko bhi chaheye ko wo
husband ki khuhishaat ka ehtraam karay. Waisay bhi ek hi tarhan se foreplay ya
intercourse kertay rehnay se boredom hosakta hai. Sharmo hays apni jaga per
magar ye sharm o haya unki darmyan no ho jin ko Quran nay ek doosray ka libaas
qarar dya hai. Issi leye main kehta hon he Intercours ya foreplay during
brightness is allowed in Islam and a husband should convince his wife for doing
it.
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nz78
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Group: Members Joined: 04th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 48 Age:
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Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 5:55pm |
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Intercourse And Foreplay In Islam During Darkness And Brightness
Good reply by Rafaz. Yes it is that Islam has not forbidden to perform foreplay and intercourse in brightness and there are rights on wife of husband and vice versa but the point is that only those deeds during love and sex are effective which are done with mutual understanding. Therefore, in my opinon wife's preference for doing intercourse and foreplay in darkness should be considered over brightness. However a husband could request his wife for doing intercourse or foreplay during brightness and keep on considering her perferance as well.
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