main ham la hona chahti hun mere our mere chubby k share test clear hain.le kin 6saal hogae olad nahi hui plz bataen k intercou
rse la behtareen waqt kya hai?
Mushkalat sy nikalny k treqa. jo koi taqwa ikhtayar kry ga,
Allah os k liay har mesabat sy
nikalny k zria bna ly ga. aor
os ko, aisy zriay sy risk dy ga
jahan sy osy guman b na
hoga.(quran, 65,2-3). Hadees ha, "Jo koi Allah sy mafi
mangy ka, (istaghfarallah),
Allah os k liay, har mesabat sy,
har perashani sy, har dukh sy
nikalny ka zira bna dy ga, aor
os ko, wahan sy rizk dy ga jahan sy osy guman b nhn
hoga). Hadees ha, "aik admi Hazrat
Ibn Aaabas r.a k pas aya kaha k
aap dua kryn Allah mjy olad dy,
aap ny kaha k astghafar kro.
Dosra aya, kaha k dua kro, Allah
mjy Dolat dy, aap ny kaha astaghfar kro.
Aik aor aya os ny kse aor chez k
liay dua ki darkhwast ki, Ap ny
kaha astaghfar parho.
Kse ny aap r.a sy pucha jub b
koi ata ha, aap osy astaghafr ka ku kahty hain, aap r.a ny
furamaya, "kya tm ny nahhn
suna k Allah ny kaha, "Allah sy
mafi mango, wo bukhsny vala
ha, wo tumhary liay Asman sy
pani baijhy ga, Aor olad aor maal o dolat sy aor, baagat sy
aor, darion sy tumhari madad
kry ga", (surah noah). Shaikh Ibn e tamiyyah kahty
hain, "jub mjy koi cheez
sumjhany main mushkil hote
(yahni, ilm sekhty) to main,
1000 dafa astaghar parhta to,
Allah mery liay wo asan kr dyta, mjy sumjah aa jate. Nabi saww ny furmaya, "main
rozana 100 dafa astaghar
parta hu", aik aor riwayat main
70 dafa ka kaha ha. Jo koi, subha astaghfaar kry,
Allah osy mutaqeen main
shamil kr dyta ha, tobaha krny
valo main, (quran ki ayat ki
rooh sy),
Jasy, 2 rakat tajhaud prany vala zakraeen main shamill kr lia
jata ha. Treqa kaar:
100, dafa, 70 dafa, kahny k
matlb yah nhn ha, k aap saw
ny,. sirf 100 dafa ,ya 70 dafa
kahan. Jasa k ibn e tamiyyah
ny, 100 dafa, laga tar parha. Bl k nabi saww ny, Din main,
100, ya 70 dafa, Tobah ki, jasy,
subha, shaam, din ko, dophar
ko, yah, har, 10,15 mint baad.
Yahni k, aap saww ny, tobah ki,
100 dafa, apna mind set bnaya, gunah sy bechny ka, thats what
it means. Ap, subha b astaghar kro, Rat
be, din ko be, Ese kalmy ko
apne zaban py jare kro.
Jo Loag tobah nhn krty, Allah sy
mafi nhn manty hain, Allah un
sy naraz rahta ha. Uny Allah mutakabir sumjhta ha. Ap jub astaghafaar kro gy to
aap ka dil kahy ga k, q kr raha
hu, main ny kya gunah kiah ha.
To nabi saww ny q kia ha, un k
kya gunah tha?
Bl k, hum loag bht gunah krty hain. jasa k main abi internet
py betha hu, Mery garh valo ko
mere zurorat hoge, har kse ko,
Hazaro gunah kr liay hu gy.
Gunah bht zaida sar zad hoty
hain. Hadees ha k tumhara jism jalta
rahta ha, namazo k darmiyani
waqfy main, jub tm namaz
parhty ho to thanda ho jata ha. Es k mutaliq main ny tv par
suna:
Jo , saudia ka mufti, astaghfaar
ki fazilat byan kr raha tha, wo
qasam kr k kah raha tha k, aisy
kae loag hain, jin ko olad nhn the, kuch ko, 18 sal ho gy thay,
Jub mery pas ay to, astaghfaar
ka kaha, kuch he dino main
wapis ay mjy khushkabri
dyny..... Apne wife ko be kaho:
Wife ko be kaha kro. wo be
astaghafar parhain, matlb k
sath. Dil mai, be gunah sy
bechny ka khayal ho.
Astaghfaar ka matlb hota ha, apny mind set bna lyna k
gunah nhn kru ga. Aor zaban sy
iqrar krna.. Allah sy dua kia kro:
Hadees: "3 logo ki dua kabi rad
nhn hote ha, maa baap ki olad
k haq main. Musafir ki, aor
muzloom ki", aap ko jub b aise
situation ho, aap zuror dua krna. Safar main. Last thing:
Allah aap ko olad na dy to, jis
dr k pass jao, aap ko kuch hasil
na hoga. Ya simple treqa ha,
aap azma k daikh lo. Aor kasrat
sy dua kia kor. Ku k jub gunaho sy mafi magni jay to dua foran
qaboool hote ha.
Allah aap ki duao ko qabool kry
aor, aap ko olad dy. Naik o
furmabardar.
Olad na milny main b maslait hote ha. Ho sakta ha, aap es
condition main na hu dunu k,
olad ko prrwan charay ja sakty.
mujhe ehsas hai apne gunna hon ka main aj kal kafi ibadat kar rahi hun mag ar pata nahi kiya hojata hai jub dua k liye hath uthati hun to kuch mang nahi pati boat susti hojiti hai. olad k liye to bilkul na hi mang pati .
Es ka matlb yah howa k aap ka Allah py yaqeen nhn ha. Mayoosi si hoge, es liay kuch be nhn maag pati ho aap to.
For More Detail Click On Page No: 1
Warning :The information presented in this web site is not intended as a substitute for medical care. Please talk with your healthcare provider about any information you get from this web site.