maham assa bilkul nahi ha kay ap mehram koo nangay dekhtay rahaoo....mahram say be parda jab donoo male aur female jawan hoo...assi koi bat nahi ha kay larki jawan ha aur larka be jawan hoo aur ap uskay samnay kapray change keray aur body show keray....yeah ghunna ha...woo bathroom may be to ja ker kapray change ker saktay ha
Aurat ka satar jo doosri aurat se aur mehram mard se hai us mein sirf chehra, hath (kalai tak) aur paer (takhnon se neechay) dikha sakti hai. Sar ke baal bhi nahen dikha sakti.
Aur namehram mard se satar nahen parda/hijab hota hai jis mein chehra bhi chupana hai in addition to satar.
Mard ka satar naaf se guthnon tak hai. Aurat ka nahen. Aur mard ka ye satar mard, mehram aurat aur namehram aurat sab ke lye hai magar Pakistan mein culturally acceptable nahen hai itnay kam kapray pehnna, chunanche mard bhi is se kafi ziada covered hotay hein.
Jo loag ya chahein ke giroh-e-muslimeen mein fahashi phelay unke lye sakht wa'eed ki gai hai.
------------------------------------- Kaafi saaray logon ko tarah tarah ki fetish hoti hein. Ye aik qudrati baat hai, yaani apni marzi se koi chahay ke falani fetish ho jay ye mumkin nahen. Fetish se murad sex ke ilawa kisi cheez se sexual pleasure (ya sexual climax hasil karna). Ab nomankhi bhi sex ka irada nahen rakhtay, na he inko sex ki zarurat mehsus hui (chahay wo sex mehram aurat ke saath ho ya namehram ya biwi ke saath). Kyun? Kyunke unhein fetish hai. Aur unhein breast fetish hai. Unhon ne clear kia ke breast unki kamzori hai jaan anjaan har aurat ka breast unki kamzori hai. (Ab ye alag baat hai ke anjaan aurton ka breast dekhna aur uske tasawwur se mani nikaalna itna asaan ya itna frequently possible nahen hoga, islye unke pas sample set of recurrent experiences bhi kam hai is baray mein).
Lekin fetish ka shikaar shakhs apni birth defect ke bawajud itna majboor nahen hota. Learned behaviour bhi koi cheez hoti hai aur nomankhi ko samajhna hoga ke jo wo kar rahay hein usko:
1. control kia ja sakta hai. 2. apni mehnat kar ke control karna hoga. Koi dusra aa kar theek nahen karega.
Forum pe jo loag aa kar nomankhi se hamdardi kar rahay hein wo kisi serial killer se bhi hamdardi kar lein. Kyunke wo bhi bemaar hota hai. Aur uski problem ye hoti hai ke qatal ke baghair usko sakoon nahen milta.
------------------------------------- Dr.nida ne 3 Dec 2013 ko forum join kia. Aaj tak total post inki 15 hein. Aur aatay he forum ke usual contributors bushra2012, alone but happy aur textilian ko shame on you waghera se nawaz dia. Is se andaza ho raha hai ke kitni maqbooliat hasil honay wali hai. Khud baat karnay ki tameez nahen dusron ko samjha rahi hein ke aap ko aisay nahen aisay jawaab dena chahye thaa. Bhai agar aapko itni he tashweesh hai to bushra2012, alone but happy aur textilian se pehlay he aakar apna contribution de jateen. Aur nomankhi ko bata deteen ke aap jo kar rahay hein wo to bohot hee acha hai. -------------------------------------
sweetii aapko nomankhi ka muqadma larnay ki zarurat nahen. Ya aapka khyal hai ke dunya mein itna beghairat koi nahen hota ke amman behnon pe nazar na rakhay. Aisay loag bhi pay he jatay hein jo betion ka rape kar detay hein? Aisay loag bhi pay he jatay hein jinki wajah se pichlay dinon aik member ko 'family sex' ka topic start karna para. Wo bhi to aik larki ke dada he thay jisne share kia ke bachpan mein wo uski vagina pe touching aur rubbing kartay thay. Ab qismat achi aapki - aapko koi beghairat nahen mila to iska matlab ye bhi nahen hein ke nomankhi ki amman behnon ko bhi nahen mila.
Aur jo mujhe keh rahi hein ke masla hal karna nahen aata to reply na karein - point to ye hai ke aap ne bhi to mujhe sunane ke lye post ki hai, OP ka problem solve karne ke lye to usmein aik lafz nahen hai. Aur aglay din phir challenge karnay agaen ke bushra2012 kahan gai?
------------------------------------- Wese nomankhi, Ainazakir aur deegar jis tarah ke fatway la rahay hein ye seedha jahannum mein lejanay walay hein. Kuch dinon mein to lagta hai ye fatwa bhi ajay ga ke sexual feeling ke baghair agar sex bhi kar lia mehram aurton ke saath to ye bhi jaiz hai.
Theek hai aap jo kaeh rahi hain..i agreed it.but aap apne behave par gorr karen k jo apne first post aur 2nd mai kia hai..me kisi ka muqadma larne nahi aai aur na mujhy zarurat hai.i just notified you.agar apko bura laga tou sorry once again lekin baat batane ka ya samjhane ka bhi ek tareeka hota hai.agar apko nahi samjh ata tou Enjoy Your Self!
@Bushra do you have any evidence regarding your point view on this topic???
bushra yahan pr jitna bhi fatwa dia gaya hai wo sab prove k sath dia gaya hai
apne jo fatwa dia hai uska koi prove hai apke pass
mere pass QURAN ki Surah Al-Noor (24:31) ki English translation ha bas ap isko elaborate krdo aur chaho to apne Quran Shareef main translation k sath parlo. agar main galat hun to main ye forum chordun gi. warna baraey meharbani ap yahan se dafa hojana kyun k ap jese logon help nhi criticize krte ho
Surah Al-Noor (24:31) “and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women”
“and not to show off their adornment except only that which is
apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of
hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to
draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks
and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands,
or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their
husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their
sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women”Al-Noor (24:31)
So Allaah has permitted a woman to show her adornment in front of her
husband and mahrams. What is meant by adornment is the places where
adornments are worn: the place for a ring is the hand, for a bracelet is
the forearm, for an earring is the ear, for a necklace is the neck and
chest, and for an anklet is the leg.
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