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My name is qayys khan.. may ek pashtoon tribal family se belong karta hoon .. may shadi shuda hoon . meray 3 bachay hain . ek beti 2 betay hain . meri abu ne meray paidahish say pehlay he meray wattay satay rishtay ka zubaan apnay dosth ko deya tha jo aksar pathano tribal may hotha hay jiska may sakhti say mukhalafat kartha hoon .. yani may paida he nahi huwa tha or us wakat meri bhen ki mangni meray abu k dosth k betiay say huwe or meray abu ne kaha k agar mera beta huwa or tumari beti huwe tho tum apni beti ka rishta meray betay ko dogay … tho jub may paida huwa tho meray rishta pehlay say he the tha … fir meri biwi paida huwe … uska b rishta the tha meray sath … yani jahalat yeh deko k hamay patha b nahi or hamaray rishtya the ho gahay hay pehlay say … may karachi may rehtha tha taleem hasil ki , school , college , university .. may kafi good looking tha , hoon … tho bhot sari larkiyan mujay school may pasand karthi thee.. mujay b pasand I larkiyan per yeh soch kar k mera rishtha huwa hay .. may ne kuch nahi keya … akhir ek din meray inkaar k bwajood meri shadi karwadi , pashtoon zaban dethay hain tho mar k b poora kartay hain , tum shadi nahi karogay tho bhen k ghar b ujharr jahega ,, filana dhimkhana … mujay emotional black mail keya gaya .. per akhir kaar meri shadi ho gahi .. meri biwi bilkul uneducated , seedi sadhi , gahoon wali … kek typical pathan .. per may n ejaisa b ho kabool kar leya .. shadi k 8 mahenay baad mujay dubai may ek bhot he achay post per job mil gahi … may ab 10 saal say dubai may reh raha hoon .. meri job kuch aisee hay k mujay mahenoo maheno dubai say bahir different countries may jana hotha hay tho is waja say may apni biwi ko apnay pass nahi rak saktha tha dubai may kyun k meri biwi akehlay kaisay reh sakthi hy .. koi emergency ho ya koi or , or may kaisay ek akelay biwi ko chorrtha … tho may ne shuroo say usay apnay ma baap bhen k sath ghar may rakha .. or har 2 saal baad may 2 mahenay k leyeh apni biwi say milnay jatha hoon …

May ne biwi ko kabhi koi takleef nahi di ..

Uski har zaroorat poori ki us nay jo b manga

Bachoon ko achay say school may pharra raha hoon

Meri biwi attractive bilkul nahi hay , khobsoorat bilkul nahi hay LAKIN us ne mujay kabhi koi takleef nahi deya …

Kabhi us ne koi jahiz ya najahiz khwahish nahi keya .. chup chaap apnay bachoon ke behtareen parvarish may masroof hay ..

Meray ami abu k khidmath karti hy ..

Kabhi nahi kaha k tum sari zindagi muj say door rahogay , ya wapas ajaho ,, ya mujay apnay pass bula lo kbhi koi complain nahi keyea ..

Ab aap log soch rahay hongay k masla kya hay ??

Masla yeh hay k 10 saal dubai may reh raha hoon .. may hamesha kaam may masroof rehtha tha … lakin pichlay 2 saal say mujay ek larki pasand agahe hay .. jis say may ek dost k shadi may mila .. us ne mujay khud apna number diya .. mujay pasadn keya .. or is tarah meri dosthi huwe us say .. or ahistha ahistha meri dosthi pyar may badal gahe … may shadi shuda hoon yeh baat aaj batahonga kal bathahonga is may pooray 2 saal guzar gahay lakin may usay khonay k dar say nahi bata sakha … per ek din us ko meray email conversation say patha chala k may shadi shuada hon or 3 bachay b hay …

May n ebhot koshish ki isko chorrnay ki , bhulanay ki per may had say ziada pyar karta hoon is say … or wo meray shadi ka janay k bawajood be muj say inthai pyar karti hay or muj say shadi karma chathi hay is k leyey wo kehti hay k agar ma baap ko b chorrna pharray tho chorregii…

Eik ajeeb say kash makash may mubthala hoon .. ek taraf wafadaar biwi … bachay … or doosri taraf mera is larki say behad pyaar .. samaj nahi araha kya karoon …

Jis larki say may pyar kartha hoon is ne apnay past k baray may mujay sub kuch bataya , k past may iska affair tha school tym may jo aksar larki larkiyan krty hain .. even sexual relation b tha apnay bf k sath ..yeh sub us nay pehlay he din bataya thaa.. lakin in 2 saloon may wo meray sath itni loyal rahi ke meray sath koi khiyanath nahi ki is nay … itni seedi rahi k mujay is k past say koi masla nahi .. in 2 saloon may may ne bhot azmaya lakin wo bilkul seedhi rahi hy meray sath..

Ab may shadi karma chatha hoon is larki say LAKIN PROBLEM KYA HAY ??

1)Meri biwi per kya guzregi ?? us k 10 saal intezaar k sila kya melega usay ???

2) larki k ami abu kaisay manegay k ek shadi shuda larkay say uski beti ki shadi ho ???

Ab sub say barra masla meray job ka .. meri job bhot achi hay .. may dono ko bhot khsuh rakh saktha hoon lakin meri job ka koi guaranty nahi hay it's a contract job jo 7 10 saal say kar raha hoon lakin kbhi b ja sakthi hay .. SO 3- agar meri job gahay tho may kaisay dono biwi ko financially support karoonga ??????? ek dubai may ek Pakistan may ???

Please help me guys .

Danish93

Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 38 Age: 19

Posted on:12th Nov 2012, 1:58pm

difcult

jb apki biwi itne ache hy to apko dusre larky ka khyal nhy ana chahye

WellKnOwN

Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 43 Post: 3223 Age: 24

Posted on:13th Nov 2012, 8:38am

qyad

2) Jab tumhaari shadi howi pir tumhe ek seedi wife mil gaye jiss se apko koi shikayat nahe lekin pir app ne doosri larki se taluq kiyo rakha? Islam mai bi sakht mana hai as well as pathano mai bi even maar dete hau iss tarah admi ko.

3) Shareef larki kabi bi kissi se shadi karne ke liye apna number nahe deti. ye to app khud bi jante hai ke number dena kiss tarah show karta hai.

4) Islam mai ek admi ko 4 shadi karne ka haq hai lekin tum jo bata rahe hoo oss ke bare mai ham kuch nahe keh sakte.

5) Agar app ye sochte hai pakistan mai doosra shadi mumkin nahe to chup kar karloge,,, lekin ek din zaroor ye parda uth jaega. kiyo ke ye 2 din ki baat nahe.

6) App jo kehte hai ke wife kiya kahega parents etc to ye hame pata nahe kiyo ke ye sirf Allah janta hai.

7) Jab itna bi bharosa nahe hai ke job any time ja sakta hai to pir ye soch kiyo karte hoo? saari ghalti tumhari hi hai

QAYSS khan

Group: Members Joined: 12th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 6 Age: 27

Posted on:13th Nov 2012, 10:40am

wellknown

1) Wese tume bi pata hai or mujhe bi pata hai ke pathan kiss tarah hote hai kiuo ke mai khud pathan hoo. lekin jab tumhare walid ne rishta te kiya tha tab tum ne larkiyo se taluqaat kiyo rakhe? ur fault.

ANS: i did not have any serious or sexual relation with any girl and this is not even an issue of the present situation ....

2) Jab tumhaari shadi howi pir tumhe ek seedi wife mil gaye jiss se apko koi shikayat nahe lekin pir app ne doosri larki se taluq kiyo rakha? Islam mai bi sakht mana hai as well as pathano mai bi even maar dete hau iss tarah admi ko.

ANS: aap yakeen karay k meri biwi mujay shuroo din say atractive nahi laghi ..even k meray apnay ghar walay aziz o aqarib usay atractive nahi samjthay thay .. lakin allah gawa hay k may ne kabhi usay yeh mehsoos honay nahi deya .. halankay wo khud b yeh janthi hay k wo atractive , ya khobsoorath nahi hy ...may mantha hoon k mujay yeh sub nahi karna chahe hay .. lakin foreign countries may bhot freedom hay .. insaan bhot saray ghalat kaamo may parr jatha hay .. lakin may kisi ghalath kaam may nahi parra ... may ne khud ko hamesha bacha k raka .. may 2 saal baad ghar jatha hoon .. or 2 saal thak apnay aap ko sexual desires say bacha k raktha hoon .. per may b insaan hoon .. kya shadi shuda insaan ko pyar nahi ho saktha ??? may ne bhot apnay dil ko samjaya lakin nahi maan raha ... dil k marzi k khilaf faisala nahi kar pa raha ...

3) Shareef larki kabi bi kissi se shadi karne ke liye apna number nahe deti. ye to app khud bi jante hai ke number dena kiss tarah show karta hai.

ANS: sirf number denay say kisi larki k character ko judge kaisay kar sakthay hain aap ?? jub say hum dono relation may hain may FBI ki tarah us k peechay pharra lakin may ne usko khiyanath karthay huway nahi dekha ... hamesha loyal rahi hay ..

5)5) Agar app ye sochte hai pakistan mai doosra shadi mumkin nahe to chup kar karloge,,, lekin ek din zaroor ye parda uth jaega. kiyo ke ye 2 din ki baat nahe.

ANS:meri biwi jitni soft hay jitni wo calm hay mujay patha hay k same time wo yeh b bardasht nahi karegi k meray life may koi or larrki ajahay ... lakin wo ek pathan famaly say talook rakthi hay ... famaly values hothay hain ... mujay patha hay k yeh sub kuch honay k bawajood b wo ek kadam meray kamray say bahir nahi rakegi mujay court kacheri k chakar lagwana tho bhoth he door ki baath hay ... mujay sirf is baath ki fikar ho rahi hy k wo hurt na ho ... mujay uski feelings ki fikar hay ....

7) Jab itna bi bharosa nahe hai ke job any time ja sakta hai to pir ye soch kiyo karte hoo? saari ghalti tumhari hi hai

ANS: shayad meri he ghalthi hy :(

Dear , mujay ghalath kaho , sahi kaho , pagal kaho jo b kaho ,, mujay had say ziada pyar huwa hay is larrki say ... mera jobe may dil nahi lag raha ... iski waja say meri job pr b effect ho raha hay ... mujay is maslay ka hal chahe hay ... may bhot depress hoon ...

WellKnOwN

Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 43 Post: 3223 Age: 24

Posted on:13th Nov 2012, 8:34pm

qyas

to pir tume masla kiya hai??? ham se kiya chaye. tum khud iss tarah baat kar rahe hoo jese ham tume advice de rahe hai ke doosri larki se karo.

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