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RightWrong |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Aug 2012, 9:28pm |
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 Boring Life
Mere aziz doston, i need some advise/sugesstions. Meri shadi ko do saal ho gayeh hai lakin pata nahi q life mein maza nahi. Humaray beech mein koi fun loving relation nahi, agar mein wife se koi mazaq ki baat karoon tu woh samajthi hai k mein tanz kar raha hoon. Woh har baat ko bara crictical thinking se sochti hai. Mujhey lagta hai kafi gap hai hum dono ki socho mein aur ye baat mujhey buhut depress kar deyti hai. Do saal mein ye haal hai tu soch raha hoon k sari zindagi kaisi guzray gi. please koi mufeed sa mashawara dain. |
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heroX |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Aug 2012, 2:18am |
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 Well....
I am a teenager still and you are an adult but I believe that Ap Apni wife ke liya aik din nikaly ose dinner pe le jaen ya ghar me hi romentic mahol set karen or os akir had tak hasane ki koshish karen phir os ki ankhon me ankhe dal ke os se ya problem disscuss karen Hope you will get the reason for your problem then try to if there is some thing tha is bothring your wife then try to solve even if you have to sacrifice it is very important to sacrifice in married life to have a happy family. Hope this will help you. May god Bless You and your wife with never lasting Love Ameen By Your well wisher Hamza Hashmi |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Aug 2012, 4:17pm |
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right wrong ek sawal? kiya ap k arrange marrge hai .ya sirf ek trfa piyar hai kiy k ase situations khs tor p ise waja se creat hote hain. |
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Listener |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Aug 2012, 2:02am |
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right wrong i think
Fahad ne apse bilkul thk kha ese situation 1 tarfa pyar m hoti hay amoman.
Mera suggestion ye hey k har larki apne husband ka pyar chati hy specially apne husband s apni tareef ap kuch esa kre jese koi song ya apne room m romantic moments banayen or ye sb is tarah kren k ap unk lye ye sb kr rhe ho. Phir bhi fark na pare to wife ko khi outing pr lekr jayen ese jaga jaha bht sukoon ho greenry ho seaside ho esa jaga par insan ka dil bht kush hota hay or jb dil kush hota hay to har bat dil ko achi lagti hy. Phir unki wha tareef kre.
Larki tareef ki bht khuwaish rkhti hy apne husband s k uska husband k dil m uske lye kya hai wo kya sochta hay apni wife k lye. Or phir unhen aitmad m lekr unse poche k unki pasand na pasand or apni bhi bataye but debate nhi kijyega us se wo or apse dor hogi relax hokr discuss kre apko unke bare m pata chalega or unko apke bare m.
Is se InshaAllah apki tension dor hojayegi. Allah se dua bhi zroor krey. thanks
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rehana0000007 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2012, 4:34pm |
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asan hal ha. ap apni wife ki chahn been karan shayaad wo kisi aur ko to like nahe karti thi ager nahe to ya jo bahi kaharan han wo he karan ap. |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2012, 9:32pm |
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rep rehana yea asan hal hai????????? |
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anari |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Aug, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 58 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Aug 2012, 8:48am |
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hmmm according to my experience, good sexual relationship is cure for all issues between husband and wife.
Be romantic, tease her, pamper her, kiss her, love her... Auraat ko siraf pyar chahiye aur phir app jo kernwana chahe, woh kare ge.
Take her out, hold her hands, admire of her beauty...
If she looks boring, ask her to look dashing and yummmy...
Best of luck |
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RightWrong |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Aug 2012, 6:55pm |
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Nothing helps... I take her out almost every second day. I give her most of my time, she likes to go out but when i take her out she will look around rather then enjoying time with me. She is not involved someone else for sure. She is not romantic, she makes her opinions by listening to other people rather than judgeing them by herself.
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Rumaisa |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2012 Topic: 3 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2012, 1:43pm |
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 Time For A Change
RightWrong:
Maybe its time for a change, it can be related to your personality or behavior.
BTW, did you ever mind thinking that maybe your wife has the same concerns regarding you but has not share with you. May be there is something about you that she dislikes strongly but did not express which causes her to behave rudely or rigidly! Have you ever thought that she tries to act good but any one of your habit might not let her to be good enough with you. And you can not claim that you are perfect and that you are an all rounder i.e a good husband, a caretaker and a close friend as well! May be something in you needs to be changed. Be MORE romantic and she will respond accordingly, no woman is unromantic by the way... its just that every one responds differently. May be you can get her something that she overly likes like a gold ring etc., or a little pleasant surprise, because pleasant surprises always help!
Despite all, if you are confident enough that you are on the correct track and there is unjust rudeness from the side wife's side, then maybe you need to change your behavior. Aap un se esey behave karen jesey aik maa apny buchey se jhoot moot ka naraz hoti hai ta k us ka baccha thik hojaye magar us k dil men muhabbat be panah hoti hai, isi trha aap apni wife ko kuch din totally ignore karen then she will feel the change and approach you herself, because its all a routine now, when there will be a strikinh change then of course she will find it and try to sort it as well.. Ap unse bilkul limited bat karen kuch din bahir se hi khana khain, khamoshi se so jain, magar un se dil se naraz mat hon dekhna change hojaingee, aap ne HUMSAFAR drama to dekha hi hoga but uska original novel barhen to aap ko pata chaley ga k kistra jab ashar ne khirad ko ignore kiya to wo khud uski taraf khichi chali aayi.... shadi shuda life men sex k ilawa bhi cheezen bht count karti hain jo life ko happy and interesting and worth living banaa deti hain... Marriage is a ride worth riding... so enjoy a little change
all of us can only give you the suggestions but only you have to fix the situation.
Good luck :) |
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RightWrong |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Aug 2012, 10:01am |
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Rumaisa I understand where you coming from, i am open to discussion aur yeh baat mein ne kahin bar ki hai. Mein ne ussay kaye bar kaha hai k agar koi bhi problem ho tu she can share like a friends lakin pata nahi kiya baat hai k woh share nahi karna chahti. Aur jahan tak naraz honay ka talauq hai mein ne woh bhi try kar k dekha hai, agar mein baat na karoon tu woh bhi nahi karti, i have tried that serval times lakin kuch faida nahi, she dont even care if i am sad. Its not possible for me to extend the duration for more than a few days as i m an emotional person.
I guess i will have to leave with it. |
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