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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:31st May 2012, 10:07pm |
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 Sexual Abuse
Asalam O Aleikum!
Meh Is Forum Pe New Hu.. Mera masla Yeh Hai Ke Meh Jab Choti Thi Toh Mere Sath Sexual Abuse Hua Tha Par Meh Bht Darpoke Kism Ki Larki Thi Aur Ye Mere Sath Tab Hua Jab Meh Sex Aur Sexuality Ke Bare Meh Kuch Janti B Nh Thi. Mere Sath Jo Hua Woh Mehne Kisi Ko Nh Btaya Dar Ke Mare.. aur Aj B Meh Sharminda Hu Is Bat Se K Chahe Kuch B Hojata Mjhe Btana Chahiye tha Ye Act Mere Tution Teacher Ne Mere Sath Kiya.. woh Hamare Kareebi Frnd B Hai Par Mjhe Ye Puchna Hai K Us Waqt Meh Kham0sh Rahi Dar Ke Mare B Aur Na Hi Mjhe Pata tha Ke Mere 7 Kya Hua Par Aj Mjhe Pata Hai Toh Kya Mjhe Ye Mere Parents Koh Btana Chahiye.. Meri Last year Hi Engagement Hui hai Aur Is Sal Shadi b Hai To Kya Ye Chez Meri Married Life Pe Toh Effect Nh Karegi... aur Kya Mjhe Apne Hone Wale husband Koh Ye Batana Chahiye ??? ap Sab Se Guzarish Hai ke Plz Koi Mazak Na Kare.. Aur Jis Shaks Ne Mere Sath Aisa Kiya Tha Aj Woh Shadi Shuda Hai Uska 1 beta B Hai Kya Meh Yeh Sab Bta Ke Sabki Life Spoil Toh Nahi Karungi?? aur Jo Phr Mere Sath Hua Uska Kyaa? mehne Jan Bujh K Toh Kisi Koh Apni Tarf Attrct Thori Kiya Tha! ;( |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 7:53am |
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Need Advise Nd Help? Ny 1 There Who Can Help meh? em So Confused Plxz :/ |
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psychdoc |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 10:33am |
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Childhood Sexual Abuse:
Childhood sexual abuse hamari sociaety mein bhee bohot zyada hai, aur aap na apni jo situation batayi aksar yehi hoti hai abuse ke victim kisi ko abuse kay baaray mein nahin batati, jabkeh yeh ghalat hai, aur yeh parents ke zimmadari hai keh apni daughters aur sons ko shorow say hee inn cheezon kay baaray mein itna educate kar dain keh koi inko iss tarah sexually exploit nah kar sakay. Kiya aap kay teacher iss waqt bhee aap kay family contacts mein hain yaa nahin? Aur aap nay yeh nahin bataya keh aap ke age kiya thee uss waqt, aur yeh abuse 1 martaba hoa kae martaba, aur kiya unhon nay aap kay saath sexual intercourse/oral sex kiya yaa fondling? Childhood sexual abuse ke wajah say victim ke personality par kaafi long term effects hota hain, jin say effectively deal karna bohot zaroori hai, otherwise yeh guilt, anxiety, depression, lack of trust, self blame, aur kuch cases mein apna aap say ghin karna lagna bhee cause kar daita hain. Iska saath saath kuch cases mein married life bhee effect ho sakte hai ( sexual acts kay baaray mein negative soch ke wajah say). Please also read my article: Childhood Sexual Abuse Aur Uska Long Term Effects:
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 10:39am |
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Thnx 4 Reply Ap Sahi Hai Meri Age Us Tyme 9 to 10 Thi Aur Woh Hai Contact meh Par Bht Kam.. aur Unhone Mere 7 fondling ki thi Waqai Ghin Ati Hai Mjhe jaise Meh k0i khil0na Thi aur Dar ke Mare Kham0sh rai.. :/ |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 10:40am |
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Thnx 4 Reply Ap Sahi Hai Meri Age Us Tyme 9 to 10 Thi Aur Woh Hai Contact meh Par Bht Kam.. aur Unhone Mere 7 fondling ki thi Waqai Ghin Ati Hai Mjhe jaise Meh k0i khil0na Thi aur Dar ke Mare Kham0sh rai.. :/ |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:42pm |
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red pearl very sorry to say your child age abused. Kiya us ne sirf ek bar fondling k the.ya bht bar.agr ek bar k the to shyd hymen break na hu ho.agr ziada bar to break ho gya ho ga. Ap ko us age main batana chaye tha ghar walo ko to us kamene insan ko sabaq sikhdete .ub koi faida nh koi yaqen kare ga uper se ap p ilzam dal die jae ge ap k kirdar par ungli uthae jae ge.tbi ap na to ub gar batae na he husband ko batana. Is se ap k married life p bht asar par sakta hai.bus kosish kare bhulne k.meri guzarish hai our members se bh k ap apni betio ko female teachers k pas bejha kare tution k liye. |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:42pm |
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red pearl very sorry to say your child age abused. Kiya us ne sirf ek bar fondling k the.ya bht bar.agr ek bar k the to shyd hymen break na hu ho.agr ziada bar to break ho gya ho ga. Ap ko us age main batana chaye tha ghar walo ko to us kamene insan ko sabaq sikhdete .ub koi faida nh koi yaqen kare ga uper se ap p ilzam dal die jae ge ap k kirdar par ungli uthae jae ge.tbi ap na to ub gar batae na he husband ko batana. Is se ap k married life p bht asar par sakta hai.bus kosish kare bhulne k.meri guzarish hai our members se bh k ap apni betio ko female teachers k pas bejha kare tution k liye. |
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shazicoolb |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:46pm |
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plz help me. Hi,Kya koi bta sakta ha k jb koi larki pehli bar sex karti ha tu us k bleeding hoti ha, kya bleeding hona hi virginity ki nashani ha agr bleeding na ho tu us ka kyamatlb ha? plz inform me?
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:48pm |
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fahad hussain Bhai Thnx 2 se 3 dafa woh b Mere Apne Ghr Meh... Rum Band krdy te thy woh Ke Meri Parhai Kharb Na Ho.. But Unhone Kabi Mjhe Naked Nh Kiya.. baki Mjhe Apni Ane Wali Lyf Ki Tension Hai Meri Shadi Next 6 Month Meh Hy.. aur Jb B Yeh Bt Yd Ati Hah To bs Puche Mat Kya Haal Hota Hai ;( |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:52pm |
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fahad hussain Bhai Thnx 2 se 3 dafa woh b Mere Apne Ghr Meh... Rum Band krdy te thy woh Ke Meri Parhai Kharb Na Ho.. But Unhone Kabi Mjhe Naked Nh Kiya.. baki Mjhe Apni Ane Wali Lyf Ki Tension Hai Meri Shadi Next 6 Month Meh Hy.. aur Jb B Yeh Bt Yd Ati Hah To bs Puche Mat Kya Haal Hota Hai ;( |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:56pm |
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psychdoc doc Apka Article Mehne Read Kiyaa Aur Same Situati0n Mere 7 Thi Siwai Dollx Wagera Ko Ch0r Ke Is Sy B Mjhe Kafi Help Mili Hai Allah Bless U All |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:59pm |
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psychdoc doc Apka Article Mehne Read Kiyaa Aur Same Situati0n Mere 7 Thi Siwai Dollx Wagera Ko Ch0r Ke Is Sy B Mjhe Kafi Help Mili Hai Allah Bless U All |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 12:43pm |
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read pearl rep: READ PEARL. meri gudi behn ji ALLAH khsh rukhe ap ko sada ALLAH se dua manga kare bus nimaz Quran parha kare koi masla nh paresahn na hu kare INSAHLLAH ap k hubby hymen k traf diyan he nh dein ge. Ap ko jo physch ne topic read ko kaha ho ga to kiy ho ga ap ne kafi madad mile ho ge .k 20% girls k hymen nh hote kise na kise hadse k bais break ho jata hai. So plz tense na ly. Ap dekhna us kamene techer ko zarror saza dy ga uper wala akhrat main to hai he par is jhan main bh dy ga ap bus khc na socha kare ALLAH P bhrosa rukhe wo kehte hai na jis k RUB us ka sub to plz tense na lein.ok ALLAH HAFFIZ. |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 12:56pm |
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fahad hussain khan thanks nd Me Sari Baton Pe Amal Karungi... Allah Pak Hum sab Koh Khushiyan Dy AmEEn .. Nd Allah Hafiz Bhai 1 Bar Aur Ap Sb Ka Bht Bht Shukria... |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 12:58pm |
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:) Allah Pak Ap Sb Koh Khushal O Abaad Rakhen.. |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 1:02pm |
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:) Allah Pak Ap Sb Koh Khushal O Abaad Rakhen.. |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 862 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 1:21pm |
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read pearl AMEEN.our ap ko ALLAH kHUSH rukhe humesha. |
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 1:26pm |
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Fahad Hussain Bhai SumMaa Ameen. |
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psychdoc |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 8:30am |
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Red Pearl:
Aap kay saath jo kuch hoa, bohot bura hoa, aur yeh unn parents kay liya aik eye opener hona chahye jinka bacha apna hee ghar mein apna parents kay itna qareeb hona kay bawajood bhee abuse kaa shikaar ho jaata hain, parents ko iss baaray mein awareness nah hona kee wajah say.
Red Pearl, aap kay liya iss waqt yeh bohot zaroori hai keh aap sab say pehla apna guilt aur self blame ko khatam karain ( jaisa aap na kaha keh aap ko apna aap say ghin aati hai keh aap khamosh raheen). 9-10 years ke age mein agar kisi kay saath aia waqiya ho jae to uss bachay kay liya iss cheeez ko handle karna bohot mushkil hota hai, iss liya agar aap naa dar ke wajah say kisi ko nahin bataya to iss baaray mein apna aap ko aur zyada blame nah karain, otherwise yeh guilt aur self blame aap kay liya anger problems aur depression cause kar sakta hai.
Aap na mention nahin kiya magar iss baat kee possibility bhee hai keh aap kay andar lack of trust kee feelings bhee develop ho gae hon iss incident kee wajah say. Agar aisa hai to inn feelings ko resolve karna bohot zaroori hai, aap kee future life kay liya.
Agar aap apna symptoms detail say batain to zyada behtar answer diya jaa sakta hai.
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Red Pearl |
Group: Members Joined: 31st May, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 52 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 11:43pm |
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psychdoc doc Us tyme agr Meh Bta Dyti Toh Shaid Itna Guilty feel nh krti Aur Nahi Itni Problm Face Krti Par Us Tyme Toh Yehi Nh Pata Tha K Hua Kya Aur draya b gya Ke Agr Btati Toh Mere dad Mjhe hi Daty Ya Gusa Hojate.. jaìsa Ke Apne Apne Article Meh parents Reaction Ke Bare Meh Btaya Hai Wahi Dar Mjhe B Tha..
Lack of trust,confidence 2n0 Hai Bht Ziada Jb ke Meh Phle Aisi Nahi Thi Ha Ta Ke Mjhe Apne Bhai Par B Bharosa Nh Hai Pata Nahi Hala ke Woh Mjhse Bht Ch0ta Hai Par Phr B.. smj Nh Ata Aisa q Hai.. Mera Behaviour kafi waqt Rude Hota Hai Hala Ke Meh Kisi Ko Hurt Nh Krna Chahti... |
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