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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 23 Post: 1154 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2011, 12:15pm |
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 Faisla OR Name
Ye sahe hai ke mara name mention nahe kiya gaya balke isshara to muj jeso ke liye tha jo ke youngsters hia.ab agar mera name mention nahe kiya gaya tha tho dosre members muje kehte the ke ap jo mashware dete hoo wo ghalat haii so iss satuation se pata chalta haii ke mia bi shamil hoo. ab faisla mere hath mia hai ya nahe ye mai nahe janta kiyo ke thread mia ne start nahe kiya balke kissi or ne start kiya howa hai. ab jee diplomate baat upar se ghalat hoi hai or akhir tak ghalat rahe gi jab tak Seedhi ka lafz replaace karke ghalat lag jaye to ye akhir tak ye baat jari rahe ga or rahegi. Mia ghalat baat accept nahe karta |
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info1234 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Nov, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 526 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2011, 9:53pm |
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Diplomat Brother thankyou Diplomat bhai.well said..
members main nazriati ikhtelaf mojud ho tau phir bhi forum achi tarhan chal sakta hai, us wakt tak, jab tak main direction logon ki madad ki janib ho, aur ikhtelaf ko uski had main rakha jaey. lekin zaati ikhtelaf ki buniad par members k darmian siasat shuru ho jaey tau forum kabhi nhi chal sakta. bachgana soch ka nateeja hota hi zaati ikhtelaf hai, aur zaati ikhtelaf ka nateeja jhagray fasad. lehaza "bachon" ko unki limit main rakhna chahiey, aur yeh baat sab ko judge ho jati hai k kiska maturity level kitna hai. jab tak koi zaati/ijtemai pehlu nhi samajh pata, us wakt tak woh public level par baat karnay/raey ka izhar karnay ka ahel nhi.
yeh baat darust hai k thread useless volumes add honay ki wajah se apnay wasee maqsad tak nhi pohanch paya, aur bahot si baatain reh gain. |
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info1234 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Nov, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 526 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2011, 10:46pm |
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Alirajput bhai.. future main is thread ko read karnay walay readers shaid yeh matlab bhi nikal lain k is thread main, aik member ko dusray member se personal conflict tha. qk aam tor par log chand posts parh kar thread close kar detay hian.
Is thread ki flow k sath, is main kia gaya koi post delete bhi nahi kia ja sakta, k skip posts k bad read kiay janay walay post k matlab main gehrai nahi rehti.
Lehaza is thread ko ab wohi samajh sakta hai jo issay akhiri post tak parhay. k yahan "kis maslay" ko uthaya gaya, aur "wohi masla sath hi sath khud ba khud hi expose bhi ho raha hai".
main samajhta hun k is thread main adequate portion female writing ka hona chaiey tha. qk asal main yeh masla females k liay uthaya gaya... aur female writing ka is thread main bahot kam hona, aik aitbar se is thread ki nakami kahi ja sakti hai. is thread main 2 ya 3 females ki opinion honi chahiey thi. aur jabkeh is thread main females ko spot kia gaya, tau yeh authority females ki hai k woh is thread ko agree ya disagree karain.. maslan, agar yahan females kehtin k unhay youngsters k immature replies se koi problem nahi hai, tau yeh thread ghalat sabit ho jata, aur main apni statements ki tardeed kar deta.
lekin yeh sab shuru ki posts main hota. ab 48 posts guzarnay k bad yeh thread close tau ho sakta hai, lekin wapas track par nahi a sakta. jis ki problem ko spot kia ja raha hota hai, ikhtyar ussay hota hai agree/disagree ka.
aur kis member ki konsi baat accept ki ja rahi hai, konsi baat reject ki ja rahi hai, is se kisi bhi member ko koi farq nahi parna chahiey... hamain sirf woh points dhondnay hain jo is forum par females k liay/males k liay problem hain aur un points ko yahan se remove karna hai. isi tarhan hamain woh points dhondnay hain jo females k liay/males k liay useful hain, unhay apply karna hai. is main "personal credit" k part se sochna, ya apni ego problem bana kar apni baat ko zabardasti thopna, intehai chhoti soch aur bachgana approach hai, jo k is forum par takreeban har thread k sath kia jata hai. aur jo koi bhi kisi pehlu par koi thread start karta hai, us se bhi yehi expect kia jata hai.
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alirajput |
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 12:22am |
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Dear info App pareshan mat hon... Apne bohot acha thread sharu kia hain. Main umeed karta hun ke meri kisi bhi baat ya tareeqe se apko koi ghalat fehmi nahin huwi hongi. Shayd mera samjhana WellKnOwN ko idher ghalat lia gaya hon, lekin either way koshish Naek thi. Dear brother as far as females are concerned. Apki bhabhi se main request karta hun ghar ja kar, aur main yahaan forum ki koi ek sister se request karta hun... Inshallah Allah malik hain, Umeed karta hun ke sabhi members jho hain woh idher akar kuch na kuch acha seekhainge.. kyun ke apka iraada naek hain, aur acha hain. Allah apko khush rakhen.
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 12 Post: 659 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 12:38am |
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 females or forum
as salam oalikum
info bhai mujhay jitni khushi is thread kay start honay se howi thi os se ziada dukh is threadka satyanas noay per howa hai ...bar bar wazahat day kar or bar bar samjhanay kay bawajood logon nay is ko divert kar hi dia or is ka asal maqsad to khatam kar hi dia na is main wo tasalsul barkarar rha na hi wo lesson itna effectively un youngsters tak phunch sakay ga jitna ye phunch sakta tha .ku kay jo youngsters agree b kartay ab wo b wel known ki baton ki waja se is tarha sochnay lagay gay kay janab hum ghalat thora hi hain hum ku baaz a jahain .ajeeb si hat dharmi ka muzahira kia ja rha hai
info bhai aap nay kha yahan females ka responce hona chahye tha or aap khud daikho kay kitni kam females hain jo yahan regular hain waja .............waja ho sakta hai kuch ki waja un ki zati masrofiat hon pe kuch ki waja yehi hai kay yahan kay males hi bht hatdharmi kartay hain or un ko is tarha uljhata hain taunt kartay hain teaz kartay hain kay wo females yahan se bhag jati hain ya khamosh ho jati hain . ku kay behar hal izzat to sab ko hi pyari hoti hai . dosra ye kay her female ye hi soch kar khamosh ho jati hai kay ager khuda na khuasta koi male ager koi na zaida word use kar lai ga to kia izzat reh jahay gi un ki is lihay wi kinara kar laiti hain or aap khud note karo abhi 1 member ko kitna samjhaya sab nay magar un ki hat dharmi dosra un kay suppoerter nay kam kharab kar dia ab aaisay issues per koi female kia kahay us kay kehnay ki koi gunjahish hi nahi ager wo kuch kehti hai ya rahay daiti hai to phir un se badla lia jata hai ...............even mera apna dil bht bura ho rha hai or sakht afsos b .aaisa lag rha hai kay ye forum nahi aakhara hai ya maidan e jang hai .waqai kia yahan kisi female ko aana hi nahi chhaye kia ye sirf males kay lihay hi hai .?????????? koi female yahan kaisay survive karay main sirf apni baat nahi kar rahi meri dosri females se b salam dua hai sab ka yehi masla hai or yehi rahay hai kay yahan aana or fazol behas ko jahilna bht mushkil amar hai ??????? kia jo gini chuni female members hain un ko b chaye kay wo khamosh ho jahin ya kinara kar lain ya silent ban jahain ...........?????
main 1 bar phir se req karon gi kay is thread ka maqsad fot na honay dia jahay ye thread bht khas issue per hai bht sensitive issue per hai barahay karam is k ozaya na kia jahay
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info1234 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Nov, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 526 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 1:18am |
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walaikumsalam...Nice Words Nice words by glamour sister.
aap ki sab baatain bilkul theek hain. aur aap mashaAllah khasi dalair hain.
asal main, is thread main kuch baatain tau bian ki gai hain, aur kuch baatain khud ba khud expose hui hain. aur jo realities khud se expose hoti hain woh ziada effective hoti hain. Un se ziada sabak lia ja sakta hai.
main yahan se, is thread ko sirf female members k hawalay karta hun, k un main se jo koi bhi, agar kuch add karna chahain tau she is welcome, otherwise there is NO compulsion. male members se humble request hai k is thread main mazeed kisi male opinion ki gunjaish nahi hai..... agar kisi female member ko kuch nahi kehna, tau is thread ko ab CLOSED samjha jaey..
mazeed yeh keh is thread main, wellknown ka mazeed koi bhi post bilkul ignore kar dia jaey, keh uska har point out of context hai.
(PS: glamour sister aap nay females k representative k tor par baat ki hai, this is excellent. is k sath hi, agar aap mind na karain tau main aap se yeh kahon ga, keh aap jab itna acha represent kar sakti hain, tau sath hi kuch minor mistakes bhi kar rahi hain, jo apko effective nahi honay de rahin. kisi aur thread main situation k according apko explain karnay ki koshish karon ga, if u allow and permit... otherwise i am not authorized to do so....) |
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Group: Members Joined: 01st Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 2:33am |
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info1234 and all members of Forum
Asalamualaikum Meri id 0786 hain. Menaye ye thread mukamal toh nahin parha lekin info1234 brother ki batain samaj main aye hain. Wo ye samjhana cha rahe hain ke female sisters ko tang kia ja raha hain forum ke kuch na-samaj new members ke taraf se. Unka bar bar posts karna har thread main ghalat hain, khasosi new threads jin main female sisters apna sawaal puchti hain, married aur unmarried sisters dono.. Mera khayal hain ke in sisters ko bechichak sawal puchna chahye, aur in ka jawab koi Aqalmand ya doctor de toh behter hain.. na ke larkaye.. jho sirf yahan time pass ke liye atai hain. I believe as a female, ke is forum ke Moderator ko ek aisi option banani chahye ke jiske posts 300 se zada hun sirf wo female sisters ko jawab de sakta hon.. as then he (brother) will be considered a Regular member of the forum. Senior Moderators se request karna chahye ke un ko iss forum ne jho Honor diya hain.. woh uske mutabiq ada kare apni so called duties.. jab jab wo forum par aye, unko kuch na gavarah dikhe ya lage usko kindly edit karde.. takaye ag loh ke liye pareshany na hon. ye soch meri hain. I am a married female sister.. to a member of this forum. Aur meri khaish hain ke main jab ap na koi sawal pucho toh mujhe knowledgable member ya koi doctor jawab de, koi aira gaira larka nahin, jho mazaq kar raha hon..
Sincerely 0786
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 23 Post: 1154 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 2:42am |
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Bacha "lehaza "bachon" ko unki limit main"
hhaa bacho ko onki limit mai hona chaye or barro ko apni limit mia hona chaye na ke wo bacho ke sath cher char kare or agar pir bi kare to ye kiya iss se bii bari problem pesh ho sakti hai.
thread ke start mia few words se apka thread bilkiul faltu ho gaya hia agar ap pehle soch kar ke thread start karte jese ms word mai likh kar osski zir or zabar dekh kar pir start karte to pir acha hota or apke thread ka ye hal nahe hota halanke apne NCF ke mssg box mia hi sara likha diya to pir ye acha nahe hai jo ap kar rahe hai. Or ap muje har post mia ishara mat do |
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 12 Post: 659 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 2:55am |
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info bhai aap se yahan baat nahi kar sakti aap jo kehna ya samjhana chatay hain chating thread mian a jahain wahan baat ho sakti hai . dosri baat ye kay aap ko ijazat lainay ki koi zarorat nahi hai u r my bro and always welcome to talk with your sis ............ aap jo b samjhana chahtay hain ya kehna chahtay hain mujhay us per khushi hai or inshallah aap ki baat ka adha matlab to abhi hi samajh a chuka hai or btasdeek us waqt ho jahay gi jan aap baat wahan karain gay ;-))
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 23 Post: 1154 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2011, 3:33am |
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0768 Bhabi i totally agree with ur post. 100% sure |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3680 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Oct 2011, 10:44am |
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Re : Reply info1234 indeed its a very nice suggestion and i agree with your post. I have read your suggestion post only in this thread and i appreciate your thinking . Unfortunately like our society here also people have what is known as 'oral diarrhea' and this particular condition arises in people who need to inflate their ego by showing off or have some complex and try to cover it up with oral regurg. such people are actually so handicapped that they can never mind their own business. so better pity them :) .unfortunately its a sporadic condition so involves all ages and group of people. Truth is at times people have even expressed oral acidity in their replies to the questioner so donot leave any space for other to help the questioner. |
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| Posted on:25th Oct 2011, 11:21pm |
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Dear Waterr
If i can get your reply in this thread, i would really appreciate all your help...And Dear doc Waterr i hold you in respect as an individual as a sister, if there is anything u ever want to say to me... you can say it to me directly in any thread where the mistake is done.. right away you will see my correct my mistake, i am not the type that would argue with some whom i show respect too.. Just remember that, my dear... Doctor waterr.. above mentioned thread questioner asked question about urine that i dont know thats why i am requesting your assistance..
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WellKnOwN |
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| Posted on:25th Oct 2011, 11:29pm |
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 INfo1234
I am sorry for my mistake info1234 brother. I have realized my mistakes so please forgive me??? |
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info1234 |
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| Posted on:26th Oct 2011, 6:15am |
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Re: Dr Waterr / Wellknown
Dr Waterr :
your "raucous words" are affirming how much you have been vexed at this forum. This is also revealing the reality of frequent "medical-replies" alleged by the members. its like a huge potential which persistently retained inside ur nerves, through gullible replies, and with an agitation, it has been burst up, in the form of ur vehement content comprising of jarring words.
now the question arises, a volunteer medical professional has described "medical replies at NCF" in above comments. Is this forum, providing a health oriented direction to the society, let alone a medical/sexual consultant?
when there is NO official medical professional available, and only part-time volunteer medical doctors are playing their role, then there is nothing astonishing about propogation of medical solutions by non-medical members of the forum. In this sense, what is the probability of "disasterous solution" provided to few of depressed questioners?
Wellknown :
hmmm, agar apko apni ghalti samajh aa gai hai tau now its alright dear :) koi baat nahi... lekin ainda yeh mistake repeat nahi honi chaiey.
kisi discussion ka maqsad yeh nahi hota, k koi admi apni baat sabit karay, ya dusray ki baat ko ghalat sabit karay. agar maksad sirf ilfaz k zariay kisi ko neecha dikhana ho, tau woh jahilon ki behas hai.
behas ka asal maqsad, SACH ko talash karna hota hai. discussion isliay ki jati hai keh kisi maslay ka solution talash kia jaey, ya kisi SACH ko talash kia jaey. aur aesi behas main kisi ki baat mani jati hai, aur kisi ki baat reject ki jati hai.....kisi serious discussion main, na tau kisi ki baat manay janay se koi bara ho jata hai, aur na kisi ki baat reject kiay janay se koi chhota ho jata hai. sachi baat khud hi ghalib ho jati hai.
agar aik behas k end par JHOOT ko tasleem kar lia jaey, tau sab k sab "loosers" hotay hain, aur sab se bara "LOOSER" woh hota hai, jis nay apni daleelon se JHOOT KO TASLEEM KARWA DIA, aur jo log sachi baat par thay, unhay bhi jhooti baat man lenay par majboor kar dia.
lekin agar, kisi behas k end par SACH ko tasleem kar lia jaey, tau sab k sab "winners" hain, aur un main sab se bara "WINNER" woh hai jo behas k doran "ghalat side" par tha aur us nay apni ghalti tasleem kar k sach ko sach sabit karwa dia.... woh isliay bhi "winner" hai qk us nay apni ghalti ko pehchan kar, aik sachi baat aur "nai (new) baat" seekhi, yani sab se ziada learn kia..
lehaza ab aap is thread k sab se baray winner ho... :)
aik baat hamesha yaad rakhna, k Allah Talah nay sirf nabion/peghambaron ko yeh sharf bakhsha hai, k woh hamesha DARUST hotay hain, aur kabhi bhi ghalat nahi hotay.... Nabion/Peghambaron k ilava jo bhi insan hain, woh kabhi bhi ghalt ho saktay hian, aur unhay nabion/peghambaron se, ya un k jaanasheenon se, ya dusray insanon se hi seekhna parta hai.
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:26th Oct 2011, 1:00pm |
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Replies On Forun info1234info1234 seems like you found my reply immaculate. actually its not at all that i am objecting or criticizing anyone on repkying in medical category. members here are very informative and give their best time. Also most of members here have way better knowledge and expression of speech than me. Its highly appreciable that they devote their time and energies the thing is some people or rather i must say many think their utmost right to taunt and scold the questioner even without understanding the question and simply call it a fake question. to use a bit harder tone in reply may be required when you have to explain things to put emphatic tone. But that can be done quite in an appropriate way. unfortunately most of the time they are putting the questioner in agitation amd donot leave any space for other members to reply. this attitude i wanted to condemn . hopfully you understood why i used such a tone. |
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WellKnOwN |
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| Posted on:26th Oct 2011, 1:14pm |
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INfo1234 Thank you for adding me as i am the winner.
But i promise that i would not even talk informal way with others so if others go against me so i shall be quite alone. |
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info1234 |
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| Posted on:27th Oct 2011, 6:12am |
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medically informative members
yeah exactly. Got ur point. Very appeasingly clarified.. U r very true.. :) ur reply made an impression that way, as i captioned the "suggestion post" of this thread with (female) medical categories... :)
"....Also most of members here have way better knowledge and expression of speech than me. Its highly appreciable that they devote their time and energies...."
It is requested to u, (only if u like, then) please highlight some members (excluding Med. Doctors), who are very informative from medical point of view, in female & male sections.
As a medical professional, ur remarks will be like a "certificate" for those members, and they will reply here with increased confidence and energy. Also, they will be considered more authentic, in absence of any medical doctor. This will also help the other members, to improve themselves.
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(PS: Dr Waterr, honestly speaking, u have been blessed with God-gifted capabilities, MashAllah. U should be thankful to Allah, as capabilities are not the self acquirements of anyone; they are blessings. We have some great doctors in our society, but influential doctors are very rare. MashAllah, ur islamic approach is what makes u something beyond a medical doctor, a mind revolutionist. As such, u r a perfect fit for social forums like NCF and others, where u can provide medical consultancy along with a great job of "mind engrossing" of our social brothers and sisters. So, u should manage ur valuable time in such a way that u can give atleast 2 hours a week to any social forum. inshAllah u will be greatly rewarded by Allah. atleast female members at NCF are voracious for ur fabulous suggestions, in every dimension of their lives, from medical, sexual matters to family matters..... thanks..God Bless u)
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2011, 4:39am |
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Re : Replies In Forum info1234 thanks for your kind words. I believe there is always a lot more room for improvement. As you said natural abilities are from Almighty and one has no role how one utilize and refine abilities is the main achievement. Each and everyone of us is bestowed with ability just we have to decide how to extend it for betterment of people around us. And as a muslim our responsibity is multiplied. And this bring us to our topic that if we could be beneficial thats the best thing but atleast not add to the misery of questioner with irrelevent pokingwell that would be quite judgmental to point out few and leave the rest and i donot fimd myself in a position to pass judgment . On such forums if anyone holds the authority to nominate is just admin (may be) but its very true i joined this forum for same purpose as you mentioned and i am in constant search to channel my help and where there is a will there is a way , so surely will be trying. But some people here have been replying so illogically that after that you cannot have your' say 'to the questioner.as the thread is already destroyed. So if admin is least bothered we just come do our work (where possible) and move on is the best regime for now. |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 23 Post: 1154 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2011, 5:27am |
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Dr. Waterr Sis Dear sister I request you that the english you are using is a little bit difficult. It shows the expression of the language to the readers and using bombastic words so I want you to use simple language english so other members can easily understand.
Sister I hope you got my message. |
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Waterr |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2011, 5:44am |
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wellknown i understand your point thoroughly . But you would have noticed that i reply in quite simple english or urdu to most of the queries on forum in my replies . my specific above reply is for 'closed group ' not for the rest of viewers as it has no message to be conveyed at mass level still your suggestion is valued. |
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