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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2011, 5:13pm |
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 Can Divorce Woman adjust to self satisfaction?
I am divorced since last year , mujhe shaadi shuda life mein husband se rubbing karwaney ki aadat thee , lekin us se meri talab bht jaldi poori ho jati thee aur mera sex mein interest kam ho jata tha , ab divorce hae aur mujhe sometimes shadeed sex ka dil chahta hae ,mein apni taskeen kuch english chanel dekh k poora karti hoon , janti hoon k galat hae lekin kia karoon aur self satisfection k leye khud se rubbing kar leti hoon kia rubbing karna sahe hae kioon k is se mein discharge ho jati hoon...... pls reply me
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2011, 5:15pm |
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Rubbing aur yeh b bata dein k kia rubbing k baad discharge honey se nahana zaroori hota hae |
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chulbhul
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2011, 5:20pm |
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reply bilkul sahi hy.....aur nahana zarori hy
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 5:38am |
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re: rubbing thank you for your quick reply
pls bata dein Ki cheeze sahe hae ?, rubbing karna ? kia is se utrus mein to koi problem ya inner problem to nahe ho gi aur meri aenda ki shaadi shuda zindagi mein
pls detail mein reply karein .thnaks |
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H/dr_Qasim
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 7:32am |
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Naina123
Ho suky tu koi be Monasib rishta dayk kur ap shadi kur lain, es tura ap bay rah ruwai ka shikaar ho sukti hein, Insan kay sath ek shataan be hota hy jo mussulsal insan ko Behkaata hay wuswusy dalta hay, Best hay ap shadi kur lain jetna juldi ho, dosri bat es tura kurny say apko in future koi vaginal infection be ho sukti hay, monasib sufai ka khiyal na rukhny ki waja say, Orat ko life meah ek Sayibaan zurorat hota hay , Husband kasa he ho Husband hota hay ,woh Phul na day Saaya zuroor data hy, han Husband meah du qualities zuroor honi chayeh ek woh care kurta ho or dosra osky pas apko Tahufooz hasil ho, es hiwaas purrast khaa jany wali donyaa meah akayli orat ka jeena moshkil hay,Best hay koi be acha monasib rishta aay ap shadi kurin, Quran meah Allah nay Shuram ghaoon ki Hifazat kurny ka hokum deya hay, eska mutlab hay essa kurna be theek amal nahi hay,
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myrizvi
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 9:17am |
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agreed with Dr Qasim masha Allah well said bro.
1. as soon as possible shadi ki planning karaiN. 2nd marriage k liyeh waisay bhi bahoot zeyadah expectation /demand nahi hoti. yeh islam ka taqazah bhi hai
2. romanvi /blue movies say avoid karaiN. nah hi aisay songs sonaiN nah aisi mags dekhaiN
3. 5 times namaaz paRhaiN, quran with translation paRhaiN...agar ghar maiN tarjoma wala koi quran nah ho to online bahoot say dastyaab haiN. kissi bhi aik say paRhna start karaiN
4. koi positive hobbies apnayaiN. gardening, indoor sports, achi books readings, agar ghar par cable ho to peace tv etc
5. kabhi kabhar az khud rubbing hojaa.ay to Allah ko yaad kar laiN. auzobillahay menushaitaanir rajeem paRh lia karaiN.... aur discharge hojayaiN to ghusal kar laiN k yeh phir farz hojata hai
Allah say dua karaiN woh apki mushkilaat ko hal karega. yeh baat nah bhoolaiN k jald hi ham sab ko Allah k hazoor hazeri dena hai. iski bhi tayyari kar laiN |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 45 Post: 2456 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 3:37pm |
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un natural sex mujhay herat hai k kesay koi bhi munh utha ker keh deta hai k sahi hai
jab tak kisi ko puri terah ilam na ho aisa jawab na den jo kisi ko gumrah ker de
naina
islam main her terah ki un natural sex ko mana kiya gay ahai
dono senior members ne ap ko sahi mashwera diya hai
kiun k jo ap ker rahi ho us k ap per to side efects hongay hi is k ilawa ap k ird gird se bhi ap pr efect hon gay
kiun k aisi batain ziyadah der chupi nhn rehtin aur jab se open hon gi to aap apni family aur aas peros main bhi achi nigah se nhn dekhi jain gi
is liyay abhi ap ki age 30 hai ap koi bhi sahi rishta dekh ker shadi ekr len |
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Lionidus
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 10:22pm |
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Wehshi App ki batay sirf baato ki had tak hain.... Khuahisho par koi is tarha kabu paa sakta to Aj jur dusra Banda Walli hota. Humesha Advice Insaan ki nafsiyat ko samnay rakh kar dayni chahye.Insaan Ki khuahishat 5 waqt ki namazay pah kar bhe wesi ki wesi rehti hay wo mar nai jaati.Agar wo apni khuhaisht par nai kaabu paa rai to ek middle path par banday ko chalna chahye. |
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Lionidus
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2011, 10:26pm |
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Regarding 2nd marriage Humari society ko samnay rakh kar baat karni chahye. kaya itni jaaldi 2nd marriage ho jati hay? Kaya munasib age ka banda Pakistani larki ko mil jata hay 2nd marriage may jo us ki Sexual needs ko poora kar sakay? zayada tar 2nd marriage 45+ ya 50+ kay log karty hain. Is liye Jab tak in ki 2nd marriage nai hoti, apni khuahisho ko kabu may rakhnay kay liye app apnay app ko satisfy kar sakti hay. |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 45 Post: 2456 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2011, 2:39am |
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lionidus 2009 ki membership ka aj 1 saal main 1st entryis k amatlab yeh bhi koi dual id hai
any how jahan tak bat hai meri baton ki to her bat k peechay koi na koi points hotay hainjo yahan sab member kertay hain hum ne yeh nhn poocha k divorce ka reason kya tha??? insan ko Allah ne isi detail main bnaya hai k jo khhud ko control keray woh wali bhi ban sakta hai wali koi alag makhlooq nhn hotay
lekin insaan khud ko insan samjhay tab na aj kal k insan ne to khud ko janwer se bhi kamtar bana diya hai aur khuwahishat ka ghulam
aur kuch log insan ko insan ki bijaai janwer hi dekhna chahtay hain
isi liyay is forum ko use kiya jata hai is kam k liyay
jahan tak bat hai rishtay ki to aisa nhn hai her age k rishtay mil jatay hain ager insan chahay to !!!!! |
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humanclay1
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 34 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2011, 3:28am |
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iam very much agree with Lionidus sex body ki need hoti hai yea aik natural amal hai or jahan tuk namaz rozat ki baat hai to yea logon ka apna fail hai iski pouch gach har insaan say hogi but above matter main khatoon married reh chuki hain or woh legally sex main involve bhi theen as married couple ab jub kay inki divorce ho chuki hai to body to same demand karay gi hi or yea natural act hai insaan agar sexually frustrated hoga to woh deen ko bhi sahi tarhan say injaam nahi day sakay ga or ho sakta hai is feeling to controll nahi kar pai or woh kaam karlay jo usko ruswa karday dunia main ot akhrat main bhi then in these cases ourat or murd baray gunha say bachnay kay liyain masturbation kat saktay hain iskay koi bhi side effect prove nahi huway hain medically bus safai ka khiyal rakhain or haan jub discharge ho jain to foran bath laylain yea medically zaroori hai or ahista ahista is adat ko khatum karlain agar mumkin ho to but its not having any side effect medically bus haar cheez ki zidati say bachain zayadti nuqsaan say hai bus |
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Lionidus
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2011, 7:03am |
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Wehshi Wheshi Saab, agar app ki nazar meri profile par pari ho to us my app ko likha nazar aye ga meray join karnay kay bad may nay abhi tak 70 reply kar chuka hu. wo alag baat hay, i like to remain passive most of the time rather active
Wehshi Sir May nay jo point raise kiye thay, app un par concentrate nai kar paye. App ki kitaabi batay bot achi hain. Kitabi batay aesay thori ban jati hain. Lougo nay amal kiya to kitabi batay bani na..... Par ye wo log thay jo 100 percent may 5-10 percent hoty hain Jo Nafs par control karna jan jatay hain.
Now coming back to our society and Environment. App ki last line may likha hay Agar insaan chahye to. Wah kaya baat hay app ki. Kaya baat ki aap nay, App is society ka hissa nai? Kaya app observe nai karty kay Ek divorced aurat say shaadi karna kon pasand karty hain jin kay 3-4 bachay ho? ya wo 40+ ya 50+ ho? Aj tak kisi Noujawan ko shaadi karty dekha hay Divorce Lady say?
Now about what Insaan khud ko Control kar lay...... Ek normal insaan apnay app par control us waqt karay jab us kay as pas ka environment supportive ho. Aur us ka Rujhaan Shuru say Deen ki taraf raha ho. Ab mjhay ye bataye, Ek banda jis ka dhayan shuru say deen ki taraf itna na raha ho.
Aur bad may usay kaha jaye kay Mazhab par amal karty hoye apnay app par control karay... to wo keasy karay ga? Us ka to rujhaan nai hay Deen ki taraf. Aur wo chahye ga us ko quick results milay. Wo chahye ga.... ek mahinay ki namazay parh kar us kay nafs ko sukoon ajaye....
Us ki depression khatam ho jaye.... Insaani Nafsiyat hay. Ab jab usay Nai milay gay quick results to obivously. Wo apni wishes par amal kar kay he apnay app ko satisfy karay ga na.
Is liye Advice wo do. Jo Deen aur Duinya dono ko sath lay kar chalay. Kyo kay yaha jis tarha kay masaail samnay atay hain aur log apnay masaail lay kar atay hain. Un Ka Deen ki taraf ya to rujhaan nai hota ya rujhaan kam hota hay.... Aur app ki advice Long term advice hay... Namazay parho Aur dusray mazhabi kaam karo.... Long term advice par Woi amal kar sakty hain jin ki will power bohot he zayada ho.... Aam insaan ki nafsiyat ko samnay rakhtay hoye short term mid term aur long term advice day.... takay wo balance out rahay.
Last but Not the least. Ye meray personal views hain. Koi Agree karay na karay. It's up to him |
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WEHSHI
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2011, 10:42am |
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lionidus ji main ne ap ki profile perhi hai isi liyay aisa socha
jahan tak ap ki bat hai k meri batain kitabi hain to yaqeenan kitabi hain kiun k main ne QUran aur hadees ki kitabon main wohi kuch perha jo un main hai
socity ager apni raah se hut jai to is ka yeh matlab nhn k insan socity k peechay chal peray
konsi socity kehty hai sex movies dekhi jain ????
konsi socity kehty hai k aurat ko talaq ho jai to woh masterbation kiya keray aur konse parents apni beti ko yeh tergheeb den gay k beti jab tak tum shadi nhn kerti ho to masterbation ker liya kero
jab aap is forum per tashreef latay hain to yeh soch ker aain k jo ap se mashwera mang rahi hai ya raha hai us main koi na koi ap k jan pehchan wala ya wali bhi ho sakty hai
ap log net per n documentries main dekh dekh ker samjhtay hain k yehi life hai
ap fermatay hain k kis nojwan ko shadi kertay dekha divorcy se
ap shayed apnay ird gird dekhtay hi nhn ab yeh bhi nhn 30 saal ki aurat ko 20 saal ka lerka milay
main janta hun k aaj se 30-40 saal pehlay jawan lerkiyan aur lerkay
PACHNAY lagwaya kertay thay takay un k ander ki heraret nikal jai
lekin ap logon ko to bs yeh hai k ager penis erect huwa hai to isay masterbation se hi relax kerna hai wesay hi female ko bhi mashweray detay hain
kaha jata tha k PACHNAY lagwanay se FASID khoon nikal jata hai yeh PACHNAY pindliyon aur kamer per lagaai jatay thay
aaj kal us ka sab se acha sebsitute hai blood donation
ager koi nojawan saal main 2-3 baar blood donoate kerday to usay aisi koi problem ho gi hi nhn
lekin ap log masterbation kerk us se kahin ziyadah weakness kerwalo gay lekin sahi tareeqa nhn kero gay
asal problem yehi hai k ap logon ne islam ko na perha hai na samjha hai jo mazhab ap ko subah jagnay se le ker sonay tak ka batata hai ap log usi ko out dated kehtay ho
aap ka qasoor nhn humara muasheray main hi yeh sab hai |
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Sep 2011, 3:26pm |
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Thanks Thanks everybody for your precious time and replies , really appreciated.
I am definately trying to get ride of my this bad habbit , aur meine is ko kafi haad tak kam b kia hae , and inshallai bohat jald khatam kar loon gi
Once again thank you so much.-:) |
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Sep 2011, 3:48pm |
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One more Question
my parents are looking for a rishta for me ,
meri first marriage mein merey sath yeh problem rahe thee k husband k pass jatey he just body touch honay pey mujhe apna aap wet feel hota tha , even abhe physical nahe hota tha, aur mujhe bar bar apna aap clean kana parta tha.....is it called discarging or likoroa ?
mein apni next aaney wali life mein is problem se nijaat chahti hoon please , kia mujhe kisi doctor se contact karna chaheye abhe se ya next jab b shaadi ho tab?
aur normally eik husband wife ki sex ratio kia honi chaheye 1 week mein?
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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One more Question
my parents are looking for a rishta for me ,
meri first marriage mein merey sath yeh problem rahe thee k husband k pass jatey he just body touch honay pey mujhe apna aap wet feel hota tha , even abhe physical nahe hota tha, aur mujhe bar bar apna aap clean kana parta tha.....is it called discarging or likoroa ?
mein apni next aaney wali life mein is problem se nijaat chahti hoon please , kia mujhe kisi doctor se contact karna chaheye abhe se ya next jab b shaadi ho tab?
aur normally eik husband wife ki sex ratio kia honi chaheye 1 week mein?
thanks |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6612 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2011, 2:30am |
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naina 1.ap next marriage say pahlay kissi lady doc say personally mashwarah /treatment (if required) zaroor karwa laiN. insha Allah yeh minor maslah nahi rahega
2. sex frequency ka koi formula sab par yaksaaN lagoo nahi hota. yeh mostly husband ki shahwat ki shiddat /iste'ta'at par munhasir karta hai... baaz husband daily balkay twicw, thrice a day bhi "afford" kar saktay haiN aur baaz weekly /bi-weekly ko bhi enuf samajhtay haiN... |
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2011, 8:55am |
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meri first marriage mein merey sath yeh problem rahe thee k husband k pass jatey he just body touch honay pey mujhe apna aap wet feel hota tha , even abhe physical nahe hota tha, aur mujhe bar bar apna aap clean kana parta tha.....is it called discarging or likoroa ? Ans: yeh normal hay koi disease nahi hay, koch women ko hud say ziyada wetness hoti hay or koch foreplay meah he orgasm hasil kur lati hen jub breasts k sath foreplay keya ja ra hon, so es meah purashani ki bat nahi hay , lakin apny ap ko clean bar bar ek cloth say mut kurin, achi quality ka tissue paper towel role pas rukhin,
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Naina123
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2011, 2:33pm |
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Thanks Many thanks for your help-:) |
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sanashah
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| Posted on:30th Sep 2011, 1:48pm |
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marriage naina123 ap muj se mere id per rabta krain me ap ko aik acha rishta bata do gi
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