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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Aug 2011, 4:55pm |
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 I want Allah to Punish me for my Sex with Na-Mehram!
aoa... mera nam ... edit name ... hai ...5 years back when I was in matric I was in relationship with a guy who was 5 years elder than me... he took me to his home and did foreplay with me ..I was so dumb and I let him do that though I did not feel that good at all but just for him ...
he ejaculated on ma vagina (he did not penetrated in ma vagina...) but after that I didn't have periods...I was so young and I did not knew yeh kia hwa hai and periods q ho re...when I told him he said go see a doc..And lady doc told me I was pregnant and 2 month....................... Then I went for DNC (abortion) and aj tak yh bat parday main hai....
mera sawal yh hai k ab meri shadi hone wali hai ..menay 5 saal bohat aziyat me guzare hain.... har dam ALLAH ka khauf ata hai.. mjhe is ki saza nhn pata thi k 100 koray mgr ab jab se pta chala hai ...i want to do dat...
main apne zameer ko satisfy krna chahti hoon.. mjhay btaen k main ks k pas jaon...mere pe koray khanay ka hukam lago ho g na? main kis qazi ya mufti se consult krn ? coz me apne huby se yh share nhn kr skti aur zameer ka yh azab apne sir nhn rkhna chahti ...can any1help me plxxx
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2429 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Aug 2011, 5:46pm |
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zenikhan aap ne jo kuch bhi btay ahai us k hisab se ap ke ander insertion nhn hui phir bhi aap pregnant ho gainmetric main hi aap itni matured thin k khud hi lady doctor k pass pohanch bhi gain aur DNC bhi kerwaliya
aur aab 5 saal k baad ap ka is terah girgirana kuch ajeeb lag raha hai specialy jab k aap medical ki student hain aur medical main aur medical k liyay jitni sakhat study hai us main jitni concentration chahyay us se to nhn lagta k aap 5 saal se disturb hain
is k bawajood bhi jesa k ap ne kaha hai k ap khud ko saza dena chahti hain aur 100 KORAY khain gi
ap is knowledge ka source btain gi k ap ko kis ne 100 koron ka hukam suna diya???
ager aap per itni hi nadamat hai to us ka seedha hal hai k Allah se muafi mangain baqol ap k ap ko ap k boyfrend ne trap kiya
any how aap ziyadah jazbati na banain jo ho gay aso ho gaya ab bas mufi mangain aur namaz perhain
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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2011, 6:16am |
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wehsi
@ weshi !!! bhai mene aik aik lafz such btaya hai ... main nay apni phopo ko bta diya tha ja k un ko yai raaz pta hai ... aur 2nd han me matric main he thi aur main itni bachi thi mj se fore play k doran he ejaculated on ma pusy n i swere no insertion was done dat why i was so satisfied k main nay gunnah nhn kia aur na he main nay us ko dil se acha jana.... mge sab hone k bad i tld ma phopo tou she back me up n she went wd me and all that ... ab 5 saal bad mjhe ehsaas nhn hwa...ehsaas bht phle se hai mgr phopo says k tm ne khud nhn chahha tha aur na he tmhn iski saza pta thi is lye tm aisi baten na kro n mafi mangu....ab mene aik madrissah join kia tou wahan pe btaya gaya hai k foreplay b zinah k barabar hai .... is liye me khud ko gunah gaar tasawar krti hn coz i shud have sed anythng ryt dere wen i was being foreplayed
and yes i m doin medicine ... n am passing a smooth life mgryh gunah ka ehsas hmesha mere andr rhta hai ...for da tym being khud ko is se azad kr deti hn mgr zammer nhn ijazat deta... mjhe nfrat hai ab sex and har aisi bat se....
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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2011, 6:19am |
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alirajput me hymen wagera ka kbi socha b nhn ...mager han mene yh zaror note kia kay ma vaginal opening is so torn like shaped now ..amean ab wo even nhn rahi opening..... us ka koi haal hai kay vaginal opening ki shape phle jesi ho jae.... n as far as hymen is concerned tou i neva insertd ma fnger into it and us incident ko 5 years hi gay hn tou kia khud restore nhn ho gai ho ge?? ya shud i go for sumthng amean artificial n potash alum etc???
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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2011, 6:22am |
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aur kia aisa nhn ho skta k insertion k bgher prgnant ho jaen ...me such bta ri hn me ne js ksi ko b aisi story sunai sab heraan hote hn k aisa nhn ho skta mgr mere sath hwa hai .... ager aisa nhn ho skta tou 1st tym mere sath foreplay n ejaculation ryt on ma vagina n fr me pragnnt aisa mere sath q hwaaa???
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2429 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2011, 3:15pm |
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zenikhan jo bhi hai ab ho chuka hai aap bas allah se muafi mangain aur ainda muhtat rahain |
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yasir_123 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Feb, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 380 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Aug 2011, 5:33pm |
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Zenikhan
Aap toba kijiyay, Ramzan ka maheena hay wesay bhi, aap Toba ka ehtmam kijiyay, Sahi tareeka maloom kijiyay TOba ka or us tareekay per amal kartay huay Toba kijiay. Jo karlia us ko badla tu nahi jasakta kyu k wo tu ek maazi hay. shukria.
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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 6:09am |
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anoda query yeah i do ... but now tell me DNC k bad now its been 5 years...i read dat vaginal wall restore demselves cox of elasticity in dem ...so if it wud be hard to penetrate in such vagina or shud potash alum(pithkari)stuff shud be done .... coz i neva thought dix way k ma hymen has ruptured and i shud do sumthng for dat aswell.... now can any1 help me regarding dz..i wud be thnkful to u dudex
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love124 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Apr, 2011 Topic: 24 Post: 60 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 12:38pm |
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zen...... Ager ap ne kisi ko nahi bataya or kid docter ke pa gae to ap ko abortion ke pese kis ne diye........... |
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zenikhan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 4:18pm |
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ohh for GOD sake y u guys pull questions out of an issue ...main ab pori story likhon k kis k sath kahan se pese le k gai ...plx stop inquiring... jus help me regarding ma question .... no1 has dat much tym to put a whole story in a forum... so kindly .... btw i tld earlierma phopho helped me ....
anyhow i was just checking all da threads no one even bother to ask her hispunishment in Islam ...everyone is after how to tight ma vagina and all dat ...even after reading diz forum i myself get a bit curious abt my hymen and all dat ... but i have decided i will once contact an AALIM so dat i cud knw i m a culprit ir not and jo b hadd lagi ....i wil cum here and ask ALIRAJPUT.... nyhow thnx ya all tc AH
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dr123 |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 125 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 7:24pm |
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not really any way.
well,you had an unfortunate incidence in your life.and i am sure Allah is great,and Merciful,provided we contact him with heart. as for the hymen issue,i guess there is not really much you can do now.bcz its not something which is going to regenerate not even a mm. and moreover,you just didnt have sex,you had a D&C.which must be really tearing for the vagina. use of a speculum,and the suction apparatus and all etc,definitely removes even the remnants of torn hymen. bcz for a virgin,with an intact hymen,possibility of pregnancy with ejaculation near vagina is really rare(just imagine,a membrane which hurts when torn with penis or finger).how can the innocent sperms penetrate it. anyways,seek repentance from Allah and leave it to Allah then.come up with a reason like you have a gyno exam for a bad infection.let this matter be with you and Allah.and no one in between. |
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dr123 |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Feb, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 125 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 8:00pm |
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not really any way.
well,you had an unfortunate incidence in your life.and i am sure Allah is great,and Merciful,provided we contact him with heart. as for the hymen issue,i guess there is not really much you can do now.bcz its not something which is going to regenerate not even a mm. and moreover,you just didnt have sex,you had a D&C.which must be really tearing for the vagina. use of a speculum,and the suction apparatus and all etc,definitely removes even the remnants of torn hymen. bcz for a virgin,with an intact hymen,possibility of pregnancy with ejaculation near vagina is really rare(just imagine,a membrane which hurts when torn with penis or finger).how can the innocent sperms penetrate it. anyways,seek repentance from Allah and leave it to Allah then.come up with a reason like you have a gyno exam for a bad infection.let this matter be with you and Allah.and no one in between. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6481 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Aug 2011, 11:50pm |
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agreed with dr123 aik hadees ka mafhoom hai k apnay /kissi aur k gonaahouN ki tash.heer nah karo. agar Allah nay kissi k gonaahouN par pardah Dalaa howa hai to issay parday main rahnay do...albattah gonaah.gaar Allah say maafi maangay, gonaah khaah ketna baRa hi kiyouN nah ho... Allah sachi taubah qabool karta hai aur maaf kardeta hai... broken hymen waisay hi koi maslah nahi hai...yeh ho nah ho, koi faraq nahi paRta. aur yeh without sex bhi easily break hojata hai |
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unknowngrl |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Sep 2011, 8:29pm |
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abt sex and abortion maam its a request for you to understand what i am about to tell you.
tooba ky 6 element hoty hain Islam main just shirak or gustakheh RASOOL SAWW he aisa gunaah hain jinki maffi ya tooba nahi
1.apny gunah ko janaah
2.usko tasleem krna
3.uspy nadam hona
4.dil sy usko bura manana
5.ALLAH sy us gunah ky mutalik ro ro ker mafii mangna
6/(most imp) ager ap wo gunah dobara nahi karty tu ya identification hai ky ap ke maffi hoi
rest aik aur baat maam its gud ky ap ny pocha and you are concerned about it but apny aisy gunah jinka gawah jst ALLAH hai kesi sy share na krain aik wakeah apko bta dati ho onece there was a women she asked HAZRAT MOSA RA that ask ALLAH rather i will go to heaven or not HAZRAT MOSA asked ALLAH nd ALLAH said yes she will go to heaven HAZRAT MOSA answerd her the same but she said how could it be possible i am sinner i have done that sin and that after listning again HAZRAT MOSA asked ALLAH thn ALLAH replied she will go to hell the reason was 1st there was only ALLAH who was familier of her sins but now even HAZRAT MOSA came to know about that so plz user apny gunahoo ko ALLAH tuk rakhain aur unhee sy maffii mangain na ky sites py aker inka aytaraf karain thanks alot
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mangopie |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Sep 2011, 5:30am |
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 abt prosecution the punishment
ZENI KHAN: first of ol i wud giv u advice via quran and hadith , secondly ap ko ye sb batana nai chahye ta the reason is in surah noor topic zina and in that tafseer hadith (mafhoom) says : once a sahabi came to prophet muhammad saaw amd asked for the punishment of illegal sex prophet saaw asked sm qz like kia tum ne pura kia n ol like that pir farmaya k ALLAH ne tmara parda rakha ta agr tum na batate aur mafi mangte tu ALLAH maaf karne wale hain lekin ab tum ne bata dia tu mgh par tme saza dena wajib ho gai hai , for that punishment u r required 4 witnesses or accept by your own infront of quran for the execution of stonning n iz 100 and for maried iz untill death AUR HADIS K MUTABIK IS K KAI TARIKEY HAI SAZA DENE K AGR HUNTER HAI TU NA ZIADA ZOR SE MARO NA ARAM SE HMARA DEEN ITNA SAKHT NAI: ab jesa k aesa koi law nai hai in pak thou u shud betr ofer tahajjud and 5 tyms salah and nawafils , as far as u considered it as foreplay but at the tym of matriculation u were no doubt young but atlst u knew dat itz bad so u myt concern it as proper pre martial sex zameer agr malamat karta hai tu bs hold to the rope of ALLAH iz best and bettr not to discuss with odrs pir us men saza must ho jati hai concern ur own with quran and hadis with authentic refrences JAZAKAALAH |
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StarAnon |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Oct 2012, 10:45am |
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Help! hi
i am facing quite a smiliar problem, first of all let me tell you everthing am saying is 100% true and i am being very honest. Me and her are in relation with eachother for past 4 5 years.. we are quite good in our professional and family life, our families know about our relation and we intend to get married in 2013 (iA). Last month we met in a lone place and unfortuately we lost control over self and made a terrible mistake of getting involved in a foreplay :| We did not had sex (no insertion) but instead it was just some humping and i ejaculated over her vagina.. Now i think she is pregnant. I admit hamsay boht bari ghalti hoi, us par men intehai sharminda hun kun k pehli bar mujse itna barra gunah ho gya :( Men Allah pak se har namaz men ro ro k mafiyan bhi mang chuka hun, jab muje yad ata hai k mene kya kia to dil itni malamat karta hai k men ronay lag parrta hun and i start getting brain shivers, i have totally lost my apetite and i only eat just so that my family doesnt notice that there is something wrong (even though they already have noticed) due to depression i am unable to concentrate on my work + studies, nothing makes me feel better or satisfied. I spend most of the time alone in my room praying and crying to Allah Almighty, but lag aisa hi raha hai k Allah ko mene boht naraz kar dia or shaed bakhsish nahi milegi :( not only this, muje ye bat bhi maaray jati hai k meri waja se aik achi respectable family ki larki ki zindagi tabah ho rahi hai. Jab sochta hun k anay wale waqt men kya hoga to dil chahta hai men khud ko maar dun kun k is lye ilawa koi hall nazar nahi ata. or is sab ka zimadaar men khud hun, aj tak kabhi khud ko mene itna gira hua feel nahi kia. everything feels meaningless now or men Allah se bhi yahi dua karta hun k ye sab meri waja se hua mene usko uksaya to tu muje jo chahe saza de par us ki zindagi kharab mat ho, tu usko at least maaf kar de.
Ab situation ye hai k kuch samaj nahi aa raha kya kia jae... Ham apni famlies ko nahi bata saktay k hamse ye sab hua hai. na hi ham fori tor par shadi kar saktay han (due to many problems, consider it impossbile) I know mujse se zada wo pareshan hai and this is unbearable for me, men us k samne yahi act karta hun k kher hai Allah pak hamen maaf karenge or hamari madad farmaenge par andar hi andar men janta hun k hamarey pas koi solution nahi. and i know jab usko bhi ye bat pata lag gai to wo suicide kar legi :(
i read in some threads k abortion hota hai but jesse k ap sab ko pata hai we are unmarried aur agar doctor k pas jaenge to seedha police case ban jaega (i think) or families ko pata lag jaega. Ham is darr ki waja se kisi doctor se consult tak nahi kar pa rahe, sachai batana or abortion to boht door ki bat hai...
Kindly guide me what to do? koi aisa doctor hai jo atleast mashwara de sakay k aagy kya karna chahye?
Also plz tell me if i go to some doctor and discuss my problem, will the doc be able to help or doc (according to law if any) will simply refuse to give any suggestion?
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