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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2010, 1:52pm |
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 Pregnancy Phobia - I Do Not Want To Get Pregnant Early
Salam..im Lorii...i hve done O'level...mai app sub se apni prob share krna chahti hoo..mera masla yeh hai k mai 16 saal ki hoo..aur meray ghr walay meri shadi ker rhay hain...actually prob yeh hai k 1 saal pehlay meray school mai aik larkay ne mujhe dekha...meray baray mai pata kiya...us k ghr waloo ne meray ghr waloo se baat ki..meray ghr waloo ko woh bht achay lagay...hamara rishta teh ho gaya..ab meri saas bht old hain...woh ghr k kaam nhi ker skti..aur oper se woh hain b pathan..aur hamari famil mai b shadi jldi ker detay hain...per itni b jldi nhi..prob yeh hai k..mai nhi chahti k shadi k baad woh meray sath sex kray..at least 2 saal...cux i heard dat its dangerous...lyk agr mai pregnant ho gai toh...mai abhi nhi hona chahti aur mujhe sex se bht zyada dar lagta hai..mujhe mature honay ka thora tym chahiyay...meray ghr walay nhi smjh rhay...is weekend pe mera nikah hai..aur eid k baad rukhsati...mai bht dari hovi hoon...mai kya kroon...shadi toh honi hi hai...un ko kaisay roku paas anay se..kya kahooon...unhay mujh se bht expectations hain..woh mujh se bht pyar krtay hain...mai un se sirf salam dua wali baat krti hoon...yeh is kism wali nhi..kya mai nikah k baad kroon...kroon toh kya kahoon...please please please help me.....Iam afraid of sex..n pregnancy...my frends gonna make fun of me if ill b pregnant...k hum abhi A level ker rhi hain aur tum maa b ban gai.....Please Help
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Dr.Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Aug, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 61 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2010, 2:46pm |
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 Lorain
Solution Number one : ap apny parents ko sumjany ki koshish kurin kay yeh time study ka hay or meah study kurna chahati hon, mujy kum uz kum 4 saal chayeh,
Solution number2: ap onko kum uz kum 2 years kay leyeh rokny ko bolin agur 4 years kay leyeh ready nahi hoty Solution number 3 : ap apny Hony waly husband say bat kurin or shadi meah thora time mangyin, O level compleate ho jany kay bahd shadi kur layin Solution number 4 : Rishty say inkar kur dayin Solution number 5 : agur ap es rishty say motmahin hen tu shadi kur layin, or apny husband say ek agreement kurin kay 2 years tuk at least jub tuk ap 18 ki nahi ho jati ap pregnant nahi hona cha hati , onko convince kurny ki koshish kurin. Solution number 6 : agur koi apki bat nahi manta tu pher Allah pay chor dayin or Allah say apni Health ki doha mangyin, or apni ess new life ko accipt kur layin, ek na ek din apny pregnant hona he hay , pher durna kesa, sary options apky samny hen, behtur hay ap apny parents ko agree kurny ki koshish kurin kay study complete kurny dayin, |
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Logical |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2010 Topic: 4 Post: 379 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2010, 2:47pm |
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Teen Pregnancy
aap ne yeh nahi bataya keh aap ki jin saheb se shaadi ho rahi hai on ki age aur taleem kia hai?
16 saal shaadi ke lehaz se age kam hai. aur iss age mai pregnant nahi hona chahiye. lekin iss age mai bhi shaadia'n hoti hai aur iss age mai bhi khawateen pregnant hoti hai. iss mai pareshani ki koi baat nahi.
agar aap ke husband samajhdar hai tu on ko bhi yeh baat bataye keh iss age mai bhale shaadi ho jaaye lekin pregnant nahi hona chahiye. on ki razamandi se aap Family Planning (Birth Control) ke mukhtalif mansooba mai se koi munasib mansooba ikhtiar ker sakti hai. read: Family Planning (Birth Control)
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2010, 2:55pm |
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=( Dr.Qasim..app ka jawab yakeenan qabil-e-tareef hai...per mai ghr waloo ko smjhaya.woh boltay hain hum jantay hain kya sahi hai kya nhi..aur husband wali baat mai un se nikah k baad hi kroon gi...kun k abhi toh ghunna hoga..ab app dua krain k woh maan jayain..
Logical..hMm...un ki age 19 hai un ne 12 ker li hai ab woh job kr rhay hain |
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Mr.Mk |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jun, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 128 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 3:11am |
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Don't you worry Assalam o Alaikum,
Pareshan na ho, Inshaallah tmhara husband tm say compromise karey ga prignancy kay hawalay say laikin sex say tmhain kuch bhee nahi honay wala balkey tm enjoy kero gee. Ghabrana nahi tmhari age ki larkian bhee maa bun jati hain. |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 10:36am |
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InshAllah Jee bilkul meri b yehi dua hai k woh maan jayain...friday ko mera nikah hai phir mai un se is baray mai baat kroon gi..mujhe zyada dar is liay hai k mujhe bachpan se epilepsy thi...jo baad mai theek ho gai thi..jab mai 14 ki hovi toh phir se woh strt ho gai...dr ne kaha kuch din dekh lain phr med dengay..kun k yeh med females k liyay agay ja k prob ker skti hai..specially in pregnancy...aur woh med maine 11 monthss tak li thi..cux mai theek nhi ho rhi thi...mujhe sex mai bilkul interest nhi hai...ghin ati hai....aur dar b lagta hai....pata nhi kya hoga.. |
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Naznainnazli |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 196 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 11:52pm |
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 Lorain guriya
You are lucky tmari shadi ho rahi he ye to achi bat he apk ghar wale smjdar hain jo apki shadi kr rahe hain education bad me b continou ki ja skti he u don't worry jaldi shadi achi hoti hay zahir he jb shadi hoti he to bche b hote hain shadi k bad man bn'na har larki ka khawab hota hay aur ap darty ho kuch nai ho ga Islamic point of view se jab larkiyan jab baligh ho jayen to unki shadi waldain k faraiz me shamal ho jati hay ap pareshan nai hon don't worry about sex relation abi ap choti hain isliye dar rahi hain bad me ap apne parents k faisle se ap mtmain rahain gy best of luck Allah apki zindgi me Khushiyan bakhair day humaisha klye.AMEEN khush raho aur tension naheen lo shadi aur pragnency koi masla nai hay. |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 12:24pm |
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Naznainnazli Ohhhhhhhhhhhh...Thnkkk U soooooooo muchhhhh..........Yakeen kraina p ka reply dekh k mujhe such mai bht itmanan hova....Allah ki kasam...mai app ko janti toh nhi...per app ki waja se mai relax ho gai hoon...Pata nhi kyun...mai yeh itni si baat nhi msjh rhi thi..per app ki waja se...Allah app ko khush rekhay...jahan rhoo hasti muskarati rhoo...Ma ALlah bless u...Mai app ko apni shadi k baad zroor bataoo gi meri lf kaisi ja rhi hai.. |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 177 Post: 5823 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 12:42pm |
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Lorain Wish you good luck ,
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Naznainnazli |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 196 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 12:59pm |
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Lorain guriya Thanks a lot ap mutmain to huien mje duaon ki bht zrurat he dear sister khush raho meri duayen tmare sath hain apna kheyal rakho husband ko khush rakhna dua karna humain b koi acha sa peyar karne wala kheyal rakhne wala husband mile mgr masla ye he k ab hum ghar walon ki nazar me bache hain baligh hon ge phr shadi k mtaliq sochain ge Allah ap jaise parents to har kisi ko day Amin khair shadi to har kisi ki muqar'ra waqat pe honi he hoti he jab humara waqat aye ga to humari bhy shadi ho he jaye gy laikan ap dua karna lazmi ache aur naik husband wali ap zrur contact rakhna apki dostain to ap se jealus hoti hain k iski jaldy shady ho rhy he aur humary nai unki baton me nai aana achy bat hy jaldy bche hon gy bre hok apk behn bhaiyo jaise lagy ge mje to bche bht pasand han hr larki ko hote han apko kio nai pasand hen agar humare ghar wale kahen na k study choro shadi karo hum to fat se tyar ho jayen ge aur aik ap ho k shadi se dar rhy ho bjaye isk keh khushi khushi shadi karo aur enjoye karo take no tension parents ka faisla aoulad k haq me hota hay you doooon't worry and enjoye your life. |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 1:13pm |
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Sweet sis Naznnainnaazli App bilkul b fikr nah kroo..mai app k liyay zroor zroor zroor dua kroon gi...app ko pata hai..mujhe app jaisay log pasand hain..InshLAlahhh app ko bhtt pyar krnay wala larka milay ga..inshALlah...app k b bachay hongay..jab waqt ayya ga nah app ki shadi ho jayay gi..bht achay larkay se....bht hi cute babies b hongay app k..ab 100% yakeen aya is forum pe aisay bht se log hain jo bht naik hain logoo ki lyf mai khsuhiyaan latay hain...agar mai apnay hubby ko kahoon gi yeh sub nah kain n blah blah shayad unhay buray laghay..jo hota hai achay k liyay hi hota hai..Allah pe bhoorsa rkh k jaisa Dr.Qasim ne aur logical ne kaha..mai bus Allah pe sub chor rhi hoon...parsoo nikah hai..chand raat pe mehndi aur eid k din shdi..Allah kray sub acha ho jayay...mai app ko zroor bataoo gi...shadi k baad...kya hova...aur jab babaies hovay tab b....Allah app sub ko khush rkhay |
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Naznainnazli |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 196 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 1:46pm |
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Dear lorain Thankyou thankyou advance me bachon ki dua daine klye aur ye naik kise kaha he to aam c gunahgar c larky hu najane jane anjane me kitne gunah sarzad huve hon ge jiska hisab he nai bas ap ko b me ne apni sisters jaisa smjti hu isliye mamuli sa mashwara de dya apko pasand aya mje khushy huy he k chalo kisi ka kuch to bhala krne k qabal huve vrna hum to khud ko kisi qabal nai smjte khush raha karo ap ne itni achy duayen di hen k mera dil khush ho gya he me to kehty hu shadi jitni jaldy ho acha hota he 30 tak shadi ka koi faida nai hota ye he to age hoti hay shadi ki bachon ky vrna parents boorhe ho jate hain to bache jawan hote han aur daikh k sharmimda b k ye parents hen ya grandparents heheheheha... Theek kaha na. |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2010, 3:11pm |
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.. Ghalti toh har insan se hoti hai..au Allah toh maaf krnay wala hai...InshAllah woh app ki sari ghaltyaan maf kr dain gay..
Hahhahah..Baat toh bilkul sahi ki..grandparents wali..lolx
Kash app meri shadi pe aa sakti |
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Naznainnazli |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 196 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Aug 2010, 6:23am |
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Dear sister Lorain Thanks ap mere bare itni achi soch rakhti hain meri dua he ap jahan rahain khush rahain aur mje apni doaon me yaad rakhna mje jab b dil se yad karo gy to apne pas pao gy aur ab pareshan nai hona Allah sub behtar kare ga. |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 12:34pm |
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Dr.Qasim Dr.Qasim i need an advice from u..=( |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 177 Post: 5823 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 12:53pm |
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Gee
ji bolin
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 1:00pm |
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hmm Jee..maine ap se advide leni hai k..maine O'Level kiya hai..Pre Med mai..aur ALlhamdullilah sub subject mai A's ayay thay..ab mai agay A'Level krna chahti thi per shaadi ho rhi hai..per meri saas aur husband ne kaha hai k unhay koi masla nhi agr mai agay private prhoo...toh kya mujhe agay prhna chahiyay..aur dosri baat mera interest psychology mai hai..mujhe kya krna chahiyay...Meray school maia ur Qatar k baki 3no schools mai mera O'Level mai 2nd highest marks ayay hain n meri teachers mujhe aga prhnay ka keh rhi hain...is se meri married life mai probs toh nhi ayayain gi ?...mujhe prhna chahiyay k nhi |
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 1:00pm |
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Sir Mai app ko zyada tang toh nhi krti nah..i mean app mujh se tang toh nhi aa gayay..=P |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 177 Post: 5823 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 2:31pm |
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lorain yaha pay koch members psychologist mojood hen ap on say bhe yeh pooch sukti hen yaa ap new thread start kur sukti hen, es bary meah sub members apko achi ray dangy kindly start a new topic ,
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Lorain |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 6 Post: 98 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Aug 2010, 6:34pm |
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Dr.Qasim nO sir ab zroorat nhi hai..maine decide ker liya hai k mai aga nhi parhoo gi..thnx |
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