How Can I Avoid Pregnancy?

re: birth control

contraception

the methods of contraception include:

• natural method:

1. safe period method(abstinence 4m coitus for 12days in middle of cycle i.e. 8th to 18th day of normal cycle)
2. coitus interruptus(man's withdrawal 4m woman just be4 ejeculation)
3. lactation

• chemical method:

soaps, foams and jellies.

• mechanical barriers:

condoms, cervical cap, diaphragm, intra-uterine contraceptive device.

• oral method:

oral pills, injections, implants.

• female/male sterilization.
• post-coital pill.

choice of method of contraception depends upon the couple. visit gynacologist for consultation

no insertion

ok

Ellishba

what your husband does is called.. Anzal karna... as for as i know... sahabe Karam Raziallah ho unho... use to do this... and Our Prophit Muhammad (Peace be upon him ) did not stop this if they needed to do...

Yes it is possible to get pregnent in your case

re:

elishba

in your case it is realy want a self control by your husband it is my personnal experince i never use condom n we do sex very normally 

u do your intercourse in normall way before climax your husband must have control himself and educate outside this the safest birth control system without any medicine and also got full enjoyment of intercourse it is difficult only for some starting days but once u do and your husband do regularly it very easy n when u want to be pregnant do in normal way so no hesitation of side affects of any kind of medicin n condoms

re: jtm

yes

agreed to khan 80

re khan 80

not agree with khan 80 no method can give u 100%  gurantee for safe 1% chance always there with any kind of protection .

i dont think so this side effects can be by this method but using of condoms , rings and medicine defiently may have some side effects this is the natural birth control system and as per my idea also allow in islam 

Khan_80

As you said

withdrawl method is not 100% safe and do have side effects as well. It can create tension, frustration and reduction of sexual desires in both or either partner

May be it is true for you and your husband.  it does not apply on everybody including me..  Mard thora sa bardasht karne se itna fustrate naheen hota..  I have been doing Anzal since last 4 years of my marriage. I have a son.. and i am very normal and cool..

If even a drop of semen is left in vagina, it can cause pregnancy

Agar allah ka hukam ho to koi rook nahen sakta.  Jis insaan ne dunya main ana hay to zaroor aie ga.. Aur agar aulad nahen ho gi to aik ke bjai 1000 Qatre bhe vagina main reh jain to kuch nahee hoga.  

Man should try to inzal and Pray to God...   aur Allah Behtar karta hai....

Koshish aur Dua..     Always succeeded in all matters

re: jtm

re: System

ur answer showed ur mentality. Don't be so personal to anybody on this forum again as we are just like a family and never expect anyone to post such replies as u did. what u do, is ur personal matter, if u want to discuss it with others (to quote example) go ahead, but plz don't give direct comments on anyone.

what u have said is ur own experience, but what i have said is a medical, research based statement. It is medically proven fact that Coitus Interruptus (withdrawal method), at the height of sexual excitement, without proper orgasm of wife, may create emotional disturbances.The failure rate of withdrawal method is 12-36%.  (Text Book Of Gynecology)

Khan_80

Doc khan I think you misunderstand me and got excited what I said is

May be it is true for you and your husband.  

This does not mean it is true for you.. I think you know why we use May Be…

what u do, is ur personal matter,

I think you come this forum to share your personal experience and I did share mine..

withdrawal method), at the height of sexual excitement, without proper orgasm of wife, may create emotional disturbances.

We are talking about Anzal  which is man act .   Anzal  means Man discharge out side of vagina.  It has no affect on women orgasm

ur answer showed ur mentality

Here is my mentality..  All I am trying to do is a comparison between Science and religion

Sahabe Karam Raziallah ho unho... use to do this... and Our Prophit Muhammad (Peace be upon him ) did not stop this if they needed to do Anzal

I did not challenge your professional knowledge.. and I actually respect you for being such helpful to all members.

I don’t like to argue…  If you don’t understand my point of view.  Please don’t argue. 

Re: system

Anzal is the same thing what we call medically "withdrawal method or coitus interruptus". It is not purely a man's act b/c sexual intercourse is not only a man's act but a joint venture, a joint pleasure, a joint act. If wife is getting some adverse effect (psychologically) then why one should continue this practice (on the cost of marital happiness???) If its only a man's act then its not sexual intercourse for both partners' satisfaction, but a pure dictatorship of the husband, ignoring the sexual desires, expectations and feelings of the wife. But if the wife also agrees to do so, then its acceptable.

I hope u understand. Islam also emphasizes on the feelings and desires of women and its mandatory for the husband to fulfill the right expectations of wife under Islamic circumstances.

arguement is not the solution to any problem and i also personally don't like to be indulged in personal arguement so, plz be patient and try to grab the knowledge of this forum. That's it!

If u have any medical concern, u are always welcome from my side.

Dr Khan_80 lets share our knowledge

 I guess we are not arguing anymore. Lets share our views. Lets understand the logic of Anzal. One of us has to be wrong.. let me tell what I have been doing like last night I had sex with my wife and she got orgasm twice in about an hour but I did not discharge until she fulfilled her sexual desire and finally I discharged outside of vagina.  So in this way man does get some frustration but I am ok with this… plus avoiding pregnancy…  I know still the possibility is there due to man pre cum ..   So I take it this way.  I tried to avoid Pregnancy and if it still happens I will accept as   Ke  allah ke marzi issi main hai.. Aur woh mujh se behtar janta hai..  I will accept as another gift from God. 

So Dr Khan gee this is what I call Anzal  according to my knowledge and experience..

Thanks for you welcome.  I will be definatly seeking your help if there is any medical concerns …..

withdrawal method

What u explained, is the basic, core concept of withdrawal method, im glad u apply it very intelligently. BUT mostly in our society (and also all over the world) it is mis-understood. In our set-up, there is so much ignorance of sexual matters (and mis-conceptions) that men think that withdrawal method is very frustrating (for them) and women (alas! most of Pakistani women even DONOT know about orgasm, they have never ever experienced it, AT ALL) get frustrated due to lack of orgasm.

Lack of orgasm has created many psychological issues in our society and sex is an entity, about which no one want to discuss, even with the spouse. We see so many cases daily in the clinical practice. I think the lack of sexual knowledge and mainly the lack of basic Islamic knowledge is the reason of most of the psychiatric problems occuring in our society.

women orgasm

I am surpriesd when you said (most of Pakistani women even DONOT know about orgasm, they have never ever experienced it, AT ALL)

do you think 80% of pakistani womens deos not get orgasm are more...?   Ofcourse you know more then i know in this field as you meet them personally in your practice....

I think its man responisbility to help her wife to get orgasm...

I feel sad for womens who dont get one...  a women having orgasm will be more relaxed and less of frustration..   and finally Man get reward by his wife when she treat her husband nicly and lovely...

Babyy