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Group: Members Joined: 01st Jul, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2007, 1:49pm |
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 Wife Feels Dirty After Sex With Me: What Should I Do?
AOA & good wishes to all who run the site. I am married for 4 years now. My wife feels very uncomfortable when we get dirty during sex. I mean when i discharge, the fluid spread around vaginal area. That makes my wife very uncomfortable and she immediately leave the bed to wash herself and take bath. is there anyway that my wife continue sleeping with me on bed after sex?
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2007, 2:06pm |
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 re: getting dirty in sex
It seems that u dont know the exect technique of ejaculation. read Book For Men. During discharge of semen inside vagina, u need deep penetration of penis inside vagina then semen do not spills out. keep tissue box near ur bed and donot withdraw penis immediately after ejaculation. withdraw it after 5-6 minutes and immediately place tissue paper on vagina, dry it and ask ur wife to be in supine position (lying on her back) for 10-15 minutes, then go to wash room and clean. meanwhile u clean urself.
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2047 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2007, 4:34pm |
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re: 1234567 1. mubasrat ke bad vagina ko foran saf kapre se saf kar lena chahia. agar ap ki bivi mubasrat ke bad apne vagina ko saf karna chahti hai tu is mai kia haraj hai.
2. albatta mubasrat ke doran mani kharij hone ke bad bhi chand lamhe dono ko sath rahna chahia jab tak keh dono ko full satisfaction nahi ho jai.
3. kuch logo ko bila wajah bhi gandagi ka ihsas aur waham hota hai. woh bar bar hath dhote hai. ghanto bath room mai nahate hai. aise log OCD ki bimari mai mubtala hote hai. ap ki bivi bhi agar zaroorat se ziadah bila wajah safai pasand ho aur ghanto bathroom mai guzarti ho tu ho sakta hai keh ose OCD ki bimari hai.
4. waise mera zati khial hai keh ap ki bivi normal hai aur ose koi OCD jaisi bimari nahi hai. lekin agar ap samajhte hai keh ose OCD jaisi bimari hai tu kisi clinical psychologist ya psychiatrist se ilaj karai.
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2007, 8:26pm |
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Re: Both the advices above from doctors are valid.
In my opinion, may be that lady doesnt like the texture, smell or feeling of semen outside the vagina. and due to improper technique, when semen spilt outside, she doesn't like it and want to clean immediately. I think this is not any disease, just a feeling to clean the body immediately. If the suggestion of khan_80 and My Reply regarding cleaning by tissue paper is adopted along with the proper "afterplay" then that problem would be solved. Husband can do a little counselling and provide help to his wife too, which can convince the wife and desired results could be achieved. thanks
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jul 2007, 9:17am |
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re: faisee every individual likes to be clean and tidy and if the husband ejaculates on the vagina, in between legs or on any other part of wife's body, she might not like it. some women like to have semen ejaculated on breasts or abdomen but in our society mostly women dislike this practice. Ejaculation of semen should be done inside vagina, not around or over it. |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jul 2007, 12:10pm |
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RE: khan_80 I meant the same thing you have mentioned. thanks
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