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ermii |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:24pm |
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 Why I Am Still Not Pregnant?
Aslaam everyone am new to this
i have been married for 5 months now, i am really happy that i have found my match, but the problem is that i can not seem to get pregnant,we regularey make love, and pay close attention to my ovulation dates to, but nothing seems to be working,
i just had my period today and i am so gutted that am not pregnant, i got myself checked out by a nurse who said my body was fine so nothing is wrong with me,but most of my friends have got pregnant within 3 or 4 months,my 2 cuznz who got married at the same time as me got pregnant just last month, even my stepmom has had her first child within 2 months of being in uk,and shes 34 years old, so heres me sitting wondering why am i not in the same sitution as them?? plz reply in english
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:33pm |
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 DONT TAKE TENSION
itni jaldi ghabranay ki zarurat nahi hai, agar sab tests theek hain to ye to khuda ki dain hoti hai, i concieved after 2 years of my marriage. meri aik friend england main, she had had 4 years of marriage wondring all the time, and she has recently conceived Alhamdolillah. so u don't have to worry, just both of u should have your checkups. Both of u be relax when you go to bed and leave the tensions of the day outside your bedroom. Also pray to Allah, and whenever you go to bed do say your prayers before! one more thing, try to be relax and just enjoy being together, jab ap ke zehen main ye baat hoti hai ke concieve karna hai us se bhi insan tension main aa jata hai... try to enjoy ur early time of marriage, aik baar jab Allah mian ne ap par bachon ki zimmadari daal di na :)) pher samajh aay gi. |
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ermii |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:41pm |
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meh neh yeh kaafi din suna hai yes i know what you are saying about me being in tension, but you know people will talk and have been, yuo know what ppl are like in pakistan jab shaadi hoti hai toh woh kehtey hai key bachay peda karo staright away toh jey na ho toh woh pir kehtey hai key ismeh koi problm hai, thats why i am in mre tension... |
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:47pm |
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LOG! han han ye bat to i know very well. laikin wesay to ap UK main hain na? ap ke husband ke kya khyalat hain? wo bhi is bara main pareshan hain kya, matlab ap dono ko puretmad hona chahiay aor apas main understanding hona chahiay. log to hamesha batain kartay hi hain. kia apke husband ne bhi tests karaay hain? ye koi aik banday ki zimmadari thorai hai.
agar ap ke husband ap ka sath detay hain to ap ko logon ki baton se kuch pareshan honay ki zarurat nahi, yahan to ye baat wesay bhi aam hai ke mian bivi shuru ke saal enjoy karna chahtay hain, to ap log rishtadaron ko bhi aisa hi keh saktay hain. |
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ermii |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:00pm |
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lol
yes i stay in uk, but my hubby from pak, i have this issue whenever i takl to his family from pak, no no my husband is not unhappy, he doest think about it like i do plus i dont talk to him about this tension coz i dont want him to think i am making a fuss, i only spoke to him once and the reply i got was that it will happen when the time is right but i just dont like ppl saying to me whens the good news comming,i have a very good life, i work and so does my hubby, but sometimes i think if i had a baby i can settle at home thats my wish but sometimes you have to work hard in life in order to achieve what you want in life |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:02pm |
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ermii jab apse log puchte hain ke good news kab sunaengi
to ap unhe jawab de diya karain ke jab Allah ki marzi hogi. |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:05pm |
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ermii Jab koi poochay tu aap bol dein ke abhi hamara koi plan nahin hai.. Its most simple answer.. |
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doctorji |
Group: Experts Joined: 21st Apr, 2008 Topic: 3 Post: 540 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 5:56pm |
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haha aap yeh keh diya kijiye ke doctorji se pooch kar bataungi. khair
as u must know in uk they start the treatment of infetility after about one year. so i will consultate after 7 months. hehe
well no matter what cause is there, why u r not pregnant. my advice is that u have to live ur own life, not the life which OTHERS want u to live. inshallah u will get children, are u going to force them to live as u want them to live, too? after ur force they will live like u r living now under the pressure of the so called scoiety? and then their children and their children, too. so please cut the circle. live just ur own life, without mental pressure.
if it doesnt work, then u must know that the treatment in uk starts with man. not woman. so send ur husband to us first. ;-)
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ermii |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jun 2008, 12:00pm |
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ok
well thank you for all your comments i shall take it on board next time |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2008, 5:24am |
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ermi im agreed to all replies
plz dont take tension and just pray to Allah regularly....InshaAllah everything will be fine and u wll got a gud news next time |
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