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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 3:39pm |
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 Marriage: Old Wife And Young Husband
Assalamualaikum Mai aik aisa topic aplogo sai share karna chata hon jo hamara masharai ka aik almiya hi hai. Shadi ka liya agar larki ki age larka sai ziyada ho to log shadi nahi kartai. Maina suna hai logo ko kahtai howai ka aulad nahi hogi, larki jaldi bhori lagna lagaigi etc. Laikin agar ham apna ISLAM ki misal lain to hamai saf HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) ki example nazar ajaigi jinhonai HAZRAT KHADIJA sai shadi kari jo unsai 15 year bari theen. Jo kam HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) na kara hai us kam ko karna mai hamai kiyu jhejhak mahsos hoti hai. Ap log kiya kahtain hain ka hamai yah ghalat fahmiyan kaisai khatam karni chahiya aur aplog es ka barai mai kiya rai daitain gain.
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 62 Post: 7602 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 4:00pm |
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Good Topic Hangama Jee it is good topic .And you also give a good expamle and i am first time very impress with you.
It is tragedy of our society that islam give the primission of 4 wives at a time for one man.But we Pakistani man spend and revolve his life around only one women.And it is tradition of our society.
If we man do marriage more than 1 then we can get so much advantages .
Stop Obscenity
Stop Adultry (Illegal sex)
Increase chlidren
Divorced & widower Women will consumpt
Waiting for further comments.
Thanks
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raazdaar
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2007 Topic: 38 Post: 369 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 4:04pm |
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re:-Hangama SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Waisai jab hamarai pyarai nabi Hazrat Muhammad{P.B.U.H} nai kiya hai.To is main saaf zahir hai kai yai hamain karna chahiyai.Haan loog hain jo aisi waisi batain kartai hain.Aur us baat ka un kai pass koyee saboot nahin hota.Halankai ISLAM main is ki ijazat hai to ham is sai moon nahin pair saktai.
Aisa to hota hai lakin khai aisi shadiyaan bi hai jis main larki bari hoti hai larkai sai.Lakin yai shahid sirf sunai ki batain hain.Kai larki jaldi bori ho jayee gi.ALLAH jo chahai kar sakta hai.Kuch aisi auratain bi hain jo khafi umar ki hoti hai lakin jawan lagti hai.Halankai larka bara bi hota hai lakin bora pehlai ho jata hai.
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 4:24pm |
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Age Factor Goodman: Dost apki post pharka ka mujhai laga ka ap mujh sai kuch ziyada hi impress hogai aur jo topic mai na shuru kara tha uska bajai kuch aur hi bol gai.
i think u are diverting topic to other side.
Raazdar: Dost age factor wali bat ja aurat jaldi bhori lagti hai yah to medically bhi sahi hai shayad jiski wajha intercourse,childrens ki birth waghaira hai...
Baqi members kiya kahtian hain... |
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~~HITMAN~~
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Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 4:43pm |
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 Re: Old Wife And Yooung Husband
Hungama bhai hamaray nabi HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) kay peroon ki hum dhool bhi nahi hain is liyain un ki misaal denay theek nahi..........
wesay Loag apne say old women say shaadi kartay hain magar ye rujhaan buhut kam hai ,kyun kay basic factor pasand napasand ka hai , aur ittefaak say hamaray mashray main mardon ko zyada tar apne say chooti hi larkiyaan pasand aati hai............
.......aur zyada tar larkiyaan bhi apne chotay mard say shadi ko pasand nahi karti hain .......................warna jo muhabbat kahaniyan app suntay hain aur dekhtay hain un main app ko larkiyon say chotay mard nazar aatay...........
tou meray khayaal main ye mashiray ka kosoor nahi hai bal kay hamari pasand napasand ka kosoor hain .......................
app kay jawab kay baad agay bhi kuch batain karni hai
Moderator Note: Always right in capital letters with proper way. |
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josh
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 5:54pm |
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Masla Shadi Ka! aik hadees parhi thi uskay mutabik shadi k lye 3 cheezain dekhni chahiyen.
1- soorat 2-seerat 3-daulat
bari umar ki larki say to wohi shadi karay ga jo us larki k sath khara ho to uska husband lagay, na k uska bacha....
ab koi larki daulat mand bi na ho, soorat bi waisi na ho jaisi larka chahta hai or umar mai bi 5-10 saal bari ho, to aisay halaat mai us larki say shadi karna to mushkil hi ho ga uskay liye....
agar larki achi hai dekhnay mai bi theek hai or seerat bi achi hai lekin age-wise larkay k barabar ya us say thori si bari hai, lekin bazahir bari lagti nahi hai, to phir to shadi kar leni chahiye...
waisay islamic point of view say to jitni marzi bari larki/orat or jitni marzi chhoti larki say chahay shadi karo.... ab kae bar newspaper mai aata hia 60 sala babay nay 18 sala larki say shadi kar li,, to baba ghar mai shadi k mazay kar raha hota hai or log ghar baithay pareshan ho rahay hotay hain k ye kia ho gaya.... |
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 6:26pm |
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josh and hitman Josh: shayad ap meri bat ko samjhai nahi. Mera khana ka maqsad yah hai ka larka agar kisi apni age sai bari larki sai mohobbat karta hai to uska parents tayar nahi hotai sirf es bat ko laikar ka eski age ziyada hai aur yah bhi dekha jata hai bohot sai families yah kahti hain ka age difference kam sai kam 8 year hona chahiya larka larki mai.
Hitman: sab theek hai laikin jo bat apna kari woh phaar ka mai hairat mai phar gaya hon bhai, lagta hai apna khana nahi khaya hoga aur bedehani mai yah bat kah gai ap..
Hungama bhai hamaray nabi HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) kay peroon ki hum dhool bhi nahi hain is liyain un ki misaal denay theek nahi..........
HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) nai jo bhi kam karai woh es liya taqai ham unko follow karain aur ap kahtain hain ka ham enki misal na dain. Mera bhai kiya hogaya apkooo.... |
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~~HITMAN~~
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Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 7:18pm |
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Moderator Shukriya sahi karne ka, jaldi main aesa hogaya
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 7:22pm |
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hitman Paji jald bazi nahi kara karoonaa, yah jald bazi bhoootoon ka kam nahi hai. so relax man... or sory relax bhoot.....LOL |
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~~HITMAN~~
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Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 7:23pm |
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Mazirat hungama bhai Bhai asal main yahan par edit karne ka option nahi hai , is liyain post karne kay baad jab parha tou pata laga kay kuch ghalat likh diya hai us kay liyain mazirat............
main kehna ye chaha raha tha kay hum apney Nabi HAZRAT MOHAMMAD (PBUH) ki choti say choti batoon ko tou follow kartay nahi hai tou is baat ko kya karain gay ............umeed hai sab samajh gaye hongay main kya kehna chah raha hon................shukriya
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 7:39pm |
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Hitman dost agar koi post ghalat kardoo to foran aik post aur kardiya karo aur usmai mention kardiya karo ka ghalat kardiya hai aur i think agar tum moderator ko kahogai ka sahi kardain yah delete kardain to shayad moderator yah kam bhi kardain.
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 62 Post: 7602 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2008, 11:04pm |
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our society aa Hangama Brother It is Ok that it seems that topic is diverted with me but some elements are connotated related your topic also in my post if we think considerly and see our society .
Now i explain with you clearly with open words that example you provide of Hazrat Khadijra R.A the reason of that this marriage because this marriage was held this time when Prophet SAW were alone.He feel need love and care.And Hazrat Khadija was old age than Prophet but she provide so much love and care and cooperate right path in life .
In her life Prophet SAW Do not marriage with anyother women.AMAM nominated this thing as symoblic with LOVE of Hazrat Khadija.
Now the main important thing is that Prophet SAW do marriage with each type of wome like single,married,divorced and widower .
Waiting for your comments.
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 7:27am |
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Good man Dost jo bat maina puchi thee pahla aur jo bat apna batai woh bohot different thee, baishak uska taluq meri ki gai bat sai jurta hoga magar i think uswaqt nahi.
abhi jo bat apna kari kiya ap yah kah rahai hai ka HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) nai HAZRAT KHADIJA sai shadi esliya kari thee kiyu ka HAZRAT MOHOMMAD (P.B.U.H) us waqt akelai thai aur unko aik piyar karna wala aur khayal karna walai ki zarorat thee.
First i need to know that does it mean u dont agree to marry with old age girl. waiting for ur comments then i will reply ur this post.... |
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zeb
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13607 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2008, 9:21am |
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my opinion yar larki bari ho ya chori, (age mein)...us se koi ferk nai perta...jo main cheez count kerti hai, wo hai achi seerat.... |
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cheeko
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2008, 10:21am |
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Ufffffffffffffffffffu App logon ne topic ka rukh he badal dia hai simple question hai ke larki bari ho app se umar main tu shaadi karni chaya ke nahi i think islamic point se karne chaya kion ke humare nabi ne ki or medically point se nahi kion ke medical ke hisab se orat ko chota he hona chaya mard se any way ye sab baatain hain but jahan pyar ho love ho understanding ho wahan age ka koe mattar nahi reh jata wahan sirf ek dosre ki needs ko samajhna or un ko pyar se hal karna hota hai , pyar in sab kharafat se bhut uncha hai jo zat pat mazhab age cast in sab se alag hai. i think agar aap larki ko understand karte ho wo aap ko karti hai understand then age ka kia masla hai phir. |
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Hangama
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 39 Post: 1284 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2008, 8:37pm |
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Cheeko Ap na jo medical point diya hai woh ghalat hai. Aurat us waqt taq mother ban sakti hai jab taq usko menses chal rahai hain.
Big age women sai shadi karna ka nuqsan apko sirf yah hosakta hai ka shayad ap parents na ban pai woh bhi uswaqt agar aurat ko menses ana band hogai ho.
Agar bat sirf piyar mohobbat ki hai to big age sai shadi karna mai medically koi problem nahi hai chahai usko menses ho yah na hon. Medical science big age women sai shadi karna ko kab mana karti hai bhai..
Agar mai ghalat hon to plz mujhai correct karain aur koi medical ka reference dain |
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 62 Post: 7602 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 3:23am |
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Marriage Base TAQWA I agree to do marriage with old girl.App SAW do marriage with each type of women.So it is prmission that a man can do marriage with all womens.And one person also add comments age is not factor Character is Factor.So i will add further to do marriage with women for due these reasons:
Beauty
Wealth
Race or Caste
But the main factor is that TAQWA.And marriage base always on TAQWA.Hazrat Muhammad SAW Describe To do marriage for this women who has TAQWA.
Waiting for your comments.
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