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| Bili_miau |
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Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 6:21am |
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 Urgent Help: I Dont Get Wet Any More During Sex
salam drs and respected member... im facing a really bad problem..the problem is that my body doesnt response to the sex needs..i dont get wet anymore..and almost always im so dry...im really worried .. is there anything i can do? plz serious replies only..........jaldi!
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| zeb |
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Topic: 114
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Age: 30
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 6:36am |
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billi ap to kafi purani meber hain and i hope k ap is site ki book read ker chuki hon gi...
agar nai ki to meri yahi suggestion hai k ap book read keryen aur forplay ziada se ziada kiya keryen husband k sath...ok |
| Bili_miau |
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Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 7:36am |
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i know mene sab books kafi bar read ki hain...per masla he keh kuch bhi right now meri help nai karahaa..
mostly to hota he keh jab forply karne lago to..jese hi partner aapko hath lagae..u get the feelings and u gt wet...per mere sath aisa nai horaha kuch dino se..
im so depressed...godd help me plz ppl |
| sunehri76 |
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Topic: 94
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 8:32am |
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Billi kya ap zehni tor pe tayar hoti hain?? |
| Veer |
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Age: 28
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 8:55am |
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Bili tell me Q by sunehri
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| BeautyStar |
Group: Members
Joined: 16th May, 2007
Topic: 52
Post: 3599
Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 9:12am |
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 '.' You are not mentally prepared.....!
Frankly and Truly speaking you either don't love your husband or you don't have any feeling for him... otherwise if wife loves his husband then even with a single touch or romantic talks of husband is enough to make her sexually arousal.
Few Suggestions:
- Try to concentrate on the moves of husband druing foreplay and keep responsive
- Make your self ready physically and mentally for Love
- Do whenever you need it otherwise delay your program till the need of or mood for "Love-Making"
- Change in the room enviroment always has effect on it
- Forget about the pain on 1st Sexual-Intercourse or during Menses
- Use all five sense during "Love-Making"
- Do "Love-Making" with deep heart and love your husband too
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| Bili_miau |
Group: Members
Joined: 20th Oct, 2007
Topic: 17
Post: 871
Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 11:06pm |
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excuse me i dont want u to jump to any conclusions..or give me some silly predictions about my personal life..ur noone to tell me that i dont love my husband or whtever bla bla....
i clearlly said that plz serious replies..which means that replies i can use to solve my problem...
and plz dont cut paste these facts from the websites.--i got a brain too and i can do it on my own..isklie mene apse suggestion nai lene ana tha! huh
is thre any dr? |
| sunehri76 |
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Topic: 94
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 11:10pm |
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Billi jee i think ap menatally tor pe prepare nahi hotin...ye kisi stress ki wajah se bhi ho sakta hai... |
| Bili_miau |
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Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 1:09pm |
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sunehri sunehri apko german bolni ati he? |
| sunehri76 |
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Topic: 94
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 1:33pm |
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Billi yes german achi bolni ati hai ..apne ek bar bataya tha ke ap bhi kuch der germany me rahi hain..apko ati hai kya?? |
| pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 2:02pm |
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billi U know in the very beginning of a marriage everybody wants to keep touching each other even when no one is thinking about sex. Do one thing, if u are doing the same, stop it for a while. Try not to touch yr hubby when u guys are not thinking about being intimate, even avoid holding hands. It will trigger yr desire to get close to each other and in result u will feel the thing u are after.
At least try this once and both of u stay away from touching each other for one or two full days, even when u are sitting on the same couch. I am sure inshallah it will work for u.
good luck |
| Bili_miau |
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Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 2:32pm |
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thanx thanx pinkey baji.... i will do that...even i think its all to do with my mind!! i hope i can solve my prob this way..
thanx :kisses: |
| Shararti |
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Topic: 9
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Age: 27
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 3:33pm |
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 billi
billi g kya aap apne husband se pyar karti ho k nai kya aap us k saath sex karne k liye razi hojati ho yan wo zabardasti aap k saath sex shuru karta hai kya aap us ko kisses wagera karti ho k nahin ager aap yeh sab karti ho to aap ko sex ki feelings lazmi honi chahiyain ager aap us se pyar nahin karti aur during sex aap usko responce nahin deti to koi faida nahin becz aap mantely tor pe razi nahin hoti to ik hisab se aap ka rape horaha hota hai jis se aap ko nafrat hoti hai aur aap ki body or mind apas main compromise nahin karte isi waja se aap wet nahin hoti its my mind say
ok phir b aap baki membersw se unka mashwara lelo
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| doctorji |
Group: Experts
Joined: 21st Apr, 2008
Topic: 3
Post: 540
Age: 36
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 4:36pm |
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billi saheba aap ne meri advice nahi maani, iss liye ab bhugtiye zara. nahi nahi jo aap samajh rahi hain woh baat nahi hai.
meri advice thi ke agar mera answer nahi chahiye to write down. aap ne nahi likha iss liye ab mera answer bhugtiye. ;-)
muhtarma
aik to feelings ka bhi talluq hai, iss baare me doosre members kaafi likh chuke hai. phir aik aur wajah bhi hosakti hai. agar aap contraception karti hai aur pills leti hain, to apni pills ke concentration aik baar phir check karwaye. ho sakta hai ke oestrogens ya estrogene ki concentration kamm ho. side effect wuhi hota hai, jo ke aap bata rahi hai. some pills me oestrogenes hote hi nahi hain, in this case try other pills with oestrogenes.
if u dont take any pills, then see other comments.
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| Bili_miau |
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Joined: 20th Oct, 2007
Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 4:44pm |
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i dont i dont tke pills..and im in luv with my hubby..i mean im always ready to do with him..i feel like doing...but i jst dont feel the wetness....
this is the only prob..rest is fine |
| doctorji |
Group: Experts
Joined: 21st Apr, 2008
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Age: 36
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 7:10pm |
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ji miau yahan par buhat si shadi shuda aur shadi zada khwateen maujood hain, unn ke tajurbaat se faeda uthaayen.
if this problem was from the beginning, then we might think about some physical causes, too. but if this happened after everything was working quite well in te beginning, then u should take advices of experienced women here. the probability is big enough that it might be a matter of psychology.
we should go step by step.
bibi ji dheere chalna, pyaar me zara sambhalna
haan, barre mauqe hain, barre mauqe hain iss raah me. :-)
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| BeautyStar |
Group: Members
Joined: 16th May, 2007
Topic: 52
Post: 3599
Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 9:06pm |
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Billi-Miau (Sar-Pheri) Tumhain tou reply karna aaisa hai jaisa kisi bhensee ko laal kaprda
dekhana...... Zara mujhey bhi tou bataoo k yah Suggestion kaun se
website per likhey howey hain........ ???
Saach kardva hi hota hai billi..... tumhain tumhare husband k liyah koi
feeling hi nahi hai.... tum doctors k pass bhi jaoo gee tou yahi jawab
miley ga... yah mera challenge hai....
and how did you blame that I did copy and paste.... excuse me miss...
stopping blaming others without having valid proofs... ok!!!
Agar tum ne woh website bata dey tou maiyn apna ilaaz Psyciatrist se
karwaoon ga aur agar nahi bataii tou tum apna ilaaj kisi ache
Pychiatrist se karwa lena fee maiyn dey don ga..... balkah ho sakey tou
Pinky7861 se hi apna ilaaj karwa lena ok..... So, I am waiting for that
website......! Warna phir apna ilaaj karwane k liyah tayyar ho jaoo....
because you really need a Psyciatrist...... hope this will help you and
will solve all of your prolems........!
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| BeautyStar |
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Joined: 16th May, 2007
Topic: 52
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:23rd May 2008, 9:09pm |
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 Pinky7861 (Future Psychologist)
App please apni iss chahetee aur chamche Bili-Miau ka bhi ilaaj kardein.... kyun k agar maiyn ilaaj karne par aagaya tou app ko pata hai k kiya hoga......... (lol)
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| josh |
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| Posted on:24th May 2008, 3:14am |
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To Billi_miau (initial days of married life) wahhhhhhhhhhh beautystarrrr..... zabardastttt... tumnay bili ko bara KaRak jawab dia hai.. :P
dartay dartay mai bi kuch kehna chahonga....
for example, agar kisi insan ko bohat ziada bhook lagi ho, 2-3 din say bhooka pyasa ho,, phir achanak aur aik dam say aik hi time usay 10 logo ka khana khila dia jaey,,uskay mu mai pani ayega aur wo bhooka insan jaldi jaldi dono hatho say bohat ziadaaa khana kha layga, suppose usnay 10 logo ka saraaa khana khaa lia, phir uskay 10-15 min baad phir say uskay samnay bohat lazeez aur uska fav. khana dubara rakh dia jaey,, to na hi uskay mu mai pani ayega, aur na hi uska dil karay ga k mai ye sab kha lon, balkay ho sakta hai wo wahan say bhaag jaey... ya behosh ho jaey.. kuch bi ho sakta hai.. par wohi khana jiskay liye wo tarap raha tha, ab wo usay bura lagay ga... maza nahi ayega......
to billi_miau muje apka question parh kar yehi samajh lagi k ap aur apka husband aik dosray say bohat ziadaaa mohabbat kartay ho aur apnay shadi k starting days mai bohat ziada mohabbat kar li... aur Pinky nay sahi kaha hai k ap 1-2 din aik dosrey say thoray faslay par raho..
aik aur example dena chahta hon, apka husband koi bohat zabardast gift aik gift box mai pack kar k apkay samnay rakh deta hai,, lekin apko kholnay ki aur usay dekhnay ki ijazat nahi deta,, to definitely apkay zehan mai bar bar aye ga k mai dekhon k ismai kia hai mere liye kosa gift hai... kabi gift box dekho gi aur kabi husband say kaho gi k plz bta dain kia hai ismai,, aur tab tak aisi khuahish hoti rahay gi jab tak ap us gift ko khol kar dekh nahi logi...
so in my opinion, agar husband wife room ki lights ON kar k aur bilkul NUDE ho kar sex karaingay,, to dono ki sex feelings aik dam say bohat kam ho jaingi,, aur kuch hi dair bad boriat si mehsoos honay lagay gi,, lekin agar wohi couple, lights off kar k sex karay, room may bas itni light ho k saye (shadow) hi nazar aa sakain, to love making me excitement rahay gi aur ziada enjoyment hogi,, koi pta nahi hoga k ab kia hoga, next kia hoga,, husband ka next action kia hoga aur na hi husband ko pata hoga k wife ab kia karay gi, mere khayal say, aik dosrey ki hands movement par bilkul bi tavajja nahi deni chahiye,, kyonkay achanak koi kaam ho to uski excitement kuch aur tara ki hoti hai... |
| Bili_miau |
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Topic: 17
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2008, 12:30pm |
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ahan right right..i got it..
and beautystar ur on ignore and hold |
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