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lilly swee |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:11am |
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 Behaviour Of a Bride On Wedding Night
i have two questions: 1. aik larki ko first time sex karnay i mean wedding night ye jb b first time sex karay husband k sath kaisa behaviour rakhana chaia i think 1st time sex k to soach kr he dar lagta ha. 2. kuch members khatay hain k wo shadi k bad start k dino me 2 ye 3 bar aik din me b sex kartay hain. so i wanna know k dono bar bar ghusal b kartay hain specially in cold season 3 ye 4 bar din me ghusal lena bohat tuf kam ha. to kia karna chaia ye wo kia kartay hain plz answer me thanks
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:47am |
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Lilly 1. Aam tour per Larki ko shaadi se pehlay sex or suhag raat k baray mein itnay ghalat tareeqa se guide kiya jata hai like bohat pain hota hai, ya husband jo bolay woh sab manna hota hai etc etc.. tu first night ko aik tu larki sara din ki thaki hoi hoti hai, dosra us k demagh mein yeh sab baatein chal rahi hoti hien tu obviously woh dari hoi hoti hai. usband wife mein shadi se pehlay jitni bhi frankness ho, us time pe normally larki yehi soch rahi hoti hai k aaj raat kuch na ho. lekin at the end pata chalta hai k aisay hi khamkha itna draya howa tha. Happy start of married life always put a happy image of both's life.
2. It depends on intervals between intercourse. Because one has to take care of Namaz timings too. So I think according to Namaz timing, ghusal should be done. |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:47am |
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further reply will provide B/S Inshallah 2. kuch members khatay hain k wo shadi k bad start k dino me 2 ye 3 bar aik din me b sex kartay hain. so i wanna know k dono bar bar ghusal b kartay hain specially in cold season 3 ye 4 bar din me ghusal lena bohat tuf kam ha. to kia karna chaia ye wo kia kartay hain.
Lilly jee islam islam is the religion of according to human nature.You only can do ablution each time and at end of intercouse you can do Ghusal.
It also not necessary that you GHUSAL at spot.After some time you can do Ghusal.
And MR B.S will give you further detailed reply of your all questions inshallah.......... |
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:50am |
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goodman bhai For Namaz, both partners need to do Ghusal.. Sirf Ablution se kaam nahin chalta. |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:53am |
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ap ablution ker kay soo saktay ha app ablution ker kay soo saktay ha.aur pher jab app nay namaz parni hoo too pher app koo ghusal kee zarrorat ha.... |
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josh |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 12:35pm |
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winter season and wedding life.... ghar mai geeezer laga ho to phir ghusal karna tough nai lagta... behtar hai k ghar mai geezar lagva lia jaey.... phir aisay couple ko sardi nai lagay gi... aur na hi nahanay ka soch kar dar lagay ga...
aur waisay bi husband sara din ghar nahi baitha rahay ga, wo koi kaam kaaj bi karay ga.... aur raat ko thaka hara ghar aye ga....... aur jaldi so jaeyga kyonkay suba office janay ki tension ho gi.. agar din mai bi duty aur raat mai bi duty day ga to phir office mai theek tara say kaam nai kar sakay gaa.....
goodman mainay theek kaha hai ??? do you agree with me ?? |
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 6:14pm |
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:) Lekin jahan gezar na lag saktay hoon, wahan per paani garam kar ke kaam chala liya jay :) or garmion k aanay ka intezaar kiya jaye :) |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2008, 10:02pm |
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 Lilly-Sweet
I agree with Seemi-Sister, She is mature and married woman, no one can tell you or guide you better than her because she has passed through all these experiences of life.
1. aik larki ko first time sex karnay i mean wedding night ye jb b
first time sex karay husband k sath kaisa behaviour rakhana chaia i
think 1st time sex k to soach kr he dar lagta ha. Wedding Night ma Behaviour positive hona chahiyah aur apne Shohar ko hi sab kuch mann lena chahiyah aur yahi soochna chahiyah k woh duniya k liyah jaisey bhi hoon maiyn usey qabool karloon gee aur hamesha un ka saath nibhaoon gee chahey woh Sex hi kyun na hoo...
Wedding Night k liyah app Kali-Zuban k Articles read karein.. InshaALLAH app k tamam answers wahan majood honge.. Waise itna kuch hota nahi hai jitna mashoor kiya jaatah hai... It's just like k koi Doctor kisi patient ko injection laga raha hoo.. jiss k pain ma halki se gudgudee bhi hote hai.. Aur best yahi hai k Bride ko apne Body eak dum loose kar dene chahiyah aur Back per Cusion ya Pillow rakh lena chahiyah.
2. kuch members khatay hain k wo shadi k bad start k dino me 2 ye 3
bar aik din me b sex kartay hain. so i wanna know k dono bar bar ghusal
b kartay hain specially in cold season 3 ye 4 bar din me ghusal lena
bohat tuf kam ha. to kia karna chaia ye wo kia kartay hain Sex k baad Ghusul karna Waajib hai.. lekin agar Namaz ka time dour hai tou app Ghusul ko bhi late kar sakte hain... agar app eak hi raat ma 2 ya 3 bar sex karte hain tou har baar Wuzu karlein... aur phir Fajr k waqt eak hi dafa Ghusull karlein...
Agar app din bhar ma 2/3 bar sex karte hain tou har bar Ghusul karna lazmi hai takah Namaz ada ki ja sakey... Bas eak chote se baat zehan ma rakh lein k Namaz se pehley Ghusul lazmi hai.
Sariyoun ma Shadiyaan buhat hote hain aur Sex-Desires bhi peak per hote hain.. issliyah behtar yahi hai k Geezar lagwa lein... kyun k Sardiyoun ki raatein garmiyoun ki ratoon se hazar gunah behtar hote hain... issliyah Geezar lagwa lena chahiayh (lol)
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 3:21am |
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goodman & beautystar.... goodman "app ablution ker kay soo saktay ha"
Beautystar "agar app eak hi raat ma 2 ya 3 bar sex karte hain tou har baar Wuzu karlein... "
asal bat to namaz hai, k namaz say pehlay ghusal karna zaroori hai,, to ap dono har bar sex k bad wuzu par kyon zor day rahay ho ?? ap dono k hisab say to husband wife dono sari raat kabi wuzu karain aur kabi sex , bas isi kaam mai lagay rahain ????
kia har bar wuzu karna farz hai ?? |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 3:52am |
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WAIT FOR UR POSSITIVE REPLY josh bahi app bee kamal kay josh dalwatay ha walah......
bahi yeah too mujay nahi pata kay Ghezar kee zarrorat parti ha ya heater kee yeah too unkoo hee pata hoo ga jin per GHUZARTI HA.
One time ablution is enough but this is very interesting reply when one more thing keep in my mind.If you do ablution each time then this ablution will active your body .
So if you have capability to do ablution each time then it is better to ablution once..
Wait for your further question and i will give you possitive reply.
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Szagham |
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 4:27am |
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Agreed with Seemi Sister Dear Seemi Sister,
Aslam-o-Alaikum,
Main aap se itafaq karta hun k larki ko sahi guide nahin kiya jata jis ki waja se wo dari hui hoti hai aur phir yehi waja banti hai k first night failure ban jati hai aur bohat sarey larkey apna confidence kho beithtey hein.marye khayal mein larki ki mother ya aunt ya kisi married friend ka yeh haq banta hai k wo usey properly guide karey.ta k dono aik doosrey ko understand kar sakein aur aik doosrey ki help b....proper guidness yeh hoga k larki ka zehan sahi tore par tayyar hoga aur wo achey tareeqey se intercourse kar sakein gay.
Jahan tak lilley gee k doosrey question ka sawal hai tu main ne yun prha hai k agar aap aik se ziada martaba mubashrat kartey ho tu baar baar ghusal karna lazmi nahn hai aap bs abultion kar lo tu its enough lakin jab aap subo namaz k lye utho tu ghusal zaroori hai.
Best Wishes.Syed Zagham |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 4:44am |
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yessssss agreed to Szagham |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 4:59am |
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Twice or Thrice Sexual-Intercourse in a Day or at a Time (Josh-Bahi) It is not Mandatory (Wajib) to do Wuzu after Sexual-Intercourse where perform it once , twice or thrice....
It is only Recommended (Mustahab) to do Wuzu each time :
- After Sexual-Intercourse regardless of Semen-Discharge .
- After Discharge of Semen of either Partner (i.e. Husband or Wife) regardless of Sexual Intercourse .
In the first case both Partners (Husband & Wife) recommend to perform Wuzu.
In the second case only the Dischargerer (one who discharge semen) recommends to perform Wuzu .
It is better to do Wuzu between two action (mentioned above) and it is best to do Ghusul each time...!
Recommendation of Wuzu after
the above mentioned points is just like Performing Ghusul before Jumma,
if you perform Ghusul before Jummah it is good but if you don't then
your prayer will also be accpeted... That is what the Approach of Reocmmendation in Islam, whatsoever the matter is...!
Islamic Reference :
If a man has Sexual-Intercourse with his wife and wants to come back to her a
second time , he should do 'Wuzu' , because the Holy Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon Him) said : " If any one of you has Sexual-Intercourse with
his wife then wants to repeat it , let him do 'Wuzu' between the two
(actions) , for it is more energizing for the second time . "
(Narrated by
Muslim)
This is recommended, not obligatory... If he is able to do Ghusl
between the two actions , this is better because of the hadith of Abu
Rafi who said that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings be upon Him)
went
around his wives one day (visited them in their houses and had
Sexual-Intercourse with each) and did Ghusl in this one's house . He (Abu Rafi) said : I said to him, " Messenger of Allah,
why do you not do one ghusl..? " He said , " This is cleaner and better and
purer . "
(Narrated by Abu Dawud and An-Nasai)
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 5:03am |
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 Botteom Line.......
It is better to do Wuzu between two action (i.e. Semen Discharge or Sexual-Intercourse))... and it is best to do Ghusul each time... and it is ok not to do either Ghusul or Wuzu....!
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 5:10am |
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 Ghusul (Mandatory)
Ghusul is become Mandatory (Wajib) just before the Prayer.
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 9:19am |
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where are the married members plz married members meray 2nd question k answer karay.
ok one night me 2 ye 3 bar intercourse k bad fajhar k time to ghusal kia ga sakta ha.
but i wanna know k jo log din me 2 ye 3 bar intervals se sex kartay hain wo b kia bar bar ghusal karay gay or agar koi canada etc bohat cold areas me rahata ho to ghezar k sath b 2 ye 3 bar ghusal lena bohat tuff kam ha kia ap log cold season me itni bar ghusal lenay k sun kr preshan nahi hotay ye namaz ni phartay. |
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Szagham |
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 9:30am |
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2nd Question ka answer Dear Lilly Swee Gee,
Aslam-o-Alaikum,
Dekhein night mein aap jitni baar marzi intercourse karein lakin jab fajr k waqt aap ko namaz parni hogi tu it is compulsory k aap dono ko ghusal karna hoga.aap ne poocha k kia har baar ghusal?tu nahin aisa nahin hai bs aap apni apni sharmgahun ko dho lein tu its enough aur agar aap har intercourse k baad wazu kar lein tu its additional lkain yeh lazmi nahin hai k aap har baar ghusal karo.jahan tak taluq hai thandey areas ka tu marey khayal mein phir dono ko chahiye k aik night main aik hi dfa intercourse karein aur us k liye phir heeter arrange kar lein jis se pani garam kiya ja sakta hai ....
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 9:40am |
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Islam advices are very clear but i wanna know k jo log din me 2 ye 3 bar intervals se sex kartay hain wo b kia bar bar ghusal karay gay or agar koi canada etc bohat cold areas me rahata ho to ghezar k sath b 2 ye 3 bar ghusal lena bohat tuff kam ha kia ap log cold season me itni bar ghusal lenay k sun kr preshan nahi hotay ye namaz ni phartay.
Islam is a religion of Flexibility .Islam advice if you have not water for Ghusal then you can use Soil .So it is not necessary to do Ghusal each time.Only one time Ghusal is Compulsary if water is avilable after intercourse.If you says your prayer regularly then before performing the prayer you must perform Once Ghusal.It is very clear thing.You do not need to Ghusal 2 or 3 time altough you do intercourse 4 or 5 time.
It is a person choice that he do ablution each time or he only ablution once.All things are very clear in Islam.There is not any difficulty .Islam is very clear.
Wait for your possitive. |
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sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:6th May 2008, 6:01pm |
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Beautys ap ke replays parh ke lagta nahi ke ap unmarried hain...hehehhee
Lilly...jo log bahir rehte hain,like canada...etc unke Ghar to itne garam hote hain.to koi massla nahi ..massla to pakistan me zyada hota hai,jahan gharon ki deewarain kamzor hoti hain...sare darwaze band karne ke bawjood sardi ati rehti hai...
mera khayal hai,ke agar pata ho ke phir se......ke chances hain to ek bar hi ghussal liya ja sakta hai |
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ch Babar |
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| Posted on:7th May 2008, 3:14am |
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sunehri agreed to sunehri |
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