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mishqaat |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jul, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 2:53pm |
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 Hymen Ruptured: What can i do?
im bachelour...aik saal pehle ki baat hai mere boy friend ne kayyi baar penis enter kiya mere vagina mein but poora nahin bas enter hote he nikal leta... once usne ziada enter kiyya tha magar poora phir bhi nahin kiyya tha.. mujhe uss waqat koyyi pain nahin how tha but kafi blood nikal aaya... ab mien buhat parreeehsaaan hoon.. meri march mien shaadi hone wali hai.. mere husband ko patta chal jayega kya k i had relations beforee.. mujhe buhat dar lag raha hai ... pleaze reply me...
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 3:04pm |
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mishqaat yeh to aap ko penis enter karwane se pehle sochna chahein tha..aur penis enter kisi se aur shaadi kesi se?esa kyun?kya woh ladka aap se shaadi nehin kar raha?anyway
aap ki hymen rapture ho gayi hai..es ka to koi hal nehin..aur ager hal hai to sirf aak he hai ke aap apne os boy friend se he shaadi kar le.
ager kisi aur se shaadi hoi aur woh ager phara likha hua aur es baat ko ignore kar de ga to koi masla nehin ho ga..aur ager wehami hua to masla ho bhi sakta hai..aap apni ghalati ki maffi Allah se mangey..Allah aap ki mushkil hal kar de ga..
hymen rupture ka ilaj surgery hai. read: Repairing of Ruptured Hymen |
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 8:57pm |
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veer main bilkul koi tanqeed nahi kar rahi hon, sirf aik observation share karna chah rahi hon, ke kai dafa main ne ye reply parha ke agar vehmi hua to masla hoga, parha likha hua to etbar kar lay ga. jis se aisa tassur milta hai ke VEHMI larkay ka qasur hai ke wo vehmi hai, warna sach chupa rahay ga! ghaltian karnay wali larkion ko ye dilasa dena aor jis se shadi honay wali ho usay WEHMI keh kar larki ke dil main us ke liay bhi munafrat peda kar dena mujhay kuch ajeeb si hi baat lagi.
meray khyal main to aisi larkian sachay dil se toba karti hon aor waqei sharminda bhi hon, na ye ke sirf shadi ke dar se pareshan horahi hon, waqei sharminda hon, aor Allah muaf karna chahay to wohi parda poshi bhi karnay wala hai, aor wohi aisa sathi bhi denay wala hai jo haqiqat jaan kar bhi larki ki nai zindagi ki naik dili ko qabool kar sakay. otherwise to jo relationship banay ga us ki bunyaad hi jhoot aor shak par ho gi! |
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whitehorse |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2007 Topic: 20 Post: 70 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jul 2008, 12:32am |
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Agreed with Sweetie
Dil k behlane ko ghalib ye khayal acha he . . . .!
Sweetie. you raised a very important point.
kisi aur ko qasur war tehrane se pehle apne gunah count kr lena chahye.
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jul 2008, 3:33am |
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yesssss bohat achi bat kahi hai sweetie ne
very gud |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jul 2008, 9:22am |
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sweetie aap ne bilkul sehi baat ki hai..lekin aap ne meri baat ka kuch aur matlab liya hai..
wehmi loog aur jo kam phare likhe hote hain on ko yeh baat nehin pata ke hymen sirf sex ki waja se ruptured nehin hoti..os ki aur bhi waja ho sakti hain..kam taleem aur mahol ke mutabik on ke dil mein yeh baat bethi hoi hai ke jis ladki ke hymen raptured hai to woh yaqeenan pehle bhi sex kar chuki hai
aur phare likha insaan jo ke es baat ki information rakhta hai ke hymen raptured hone ki aur bhi bhut si waja hain.to woh es baat ka koi action nehin leta..
meri nazar mein sab se ahum baat yeh hai ke jesa insaan hota hai os ko wesa he jeewan sathi melta hai..hum sab insaan hain hum se ghalati bhi ho jati hain..Allah hum sab ko maff farmaye..Ameen. |
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4302 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jul 2008, 12:37pm |
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mishqaat: pareshan hone ki zaroorat nahi hai generally larkia pareshaan hoti hai keh suhag raat ko kia ho ga? takleef aur bleeding ka khof hota hai. ab jab keh aap ko pehle hi bleeding ho chuki hai tu ab aap be fikir ho kar shaadi ker le. kio keh ab suhag raat ko na tu pain hoga aur na hi bleeding.
bleeding na hone per agar shohar pooche tu onhai saaf saaf bata de keh aap se ghalti ho gayee hai, ab yeh aap ke shohar per depend karta hai keh woh bleeding na hone ki wajoohat per kaisa react kerta hai. agar woh naraaz hota hai tu os se sorry ker lijiye ga. baat barh jaaye tu hamai bhi bataiye ga, ham log os waqt moqa ke lehaz se koi munasib mashwarah de ge.
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jul 2008, 7:59pm |
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bewaquf ap ne theek baat ki hai, aik ghalti ko chupanay ke liay aik aor gunah yani jhoot bol dena koi aqalmandi nahi, kion keh pardaposhi karnay wala to KHUDA hi hai, agar wo na chahay to jhoot bol kar bhi koi bach nahi sakta balkeh khuamkhuah aor ziada gunah bhi kamaay ga aor ainda zindagi ko jahannum banaay ga, ghalti par nadim hon to kisi jhoot ki zarurat nahi rehti, pher ya to Allah khud hi parda daal de, ya agar ye issue aor sawaal uthay to sach bolain aor muafi mangain, samajhdar aor achay character kay log haqiqi nadamat ko pehchan lia kartay hain. wo thora naraz to hongay magar InshaAllah muaf kardain gay.
veer: hymen repture ki aor wajuhaat possible to hain, magar is ka ratio bahot kam hai, aor ye sab larkian khud bhi janti hain, aksariat ko maloom hai aor yahan bhi wo yahi byan karti hain ke first intercouse par hi repture hua, specially hamary mulk main to is qism ki sports bhi larkion main bahot hi kam hain. is liay beshak ye possibility to mojood hai, magar is ocasional possibility ko ghaltion ka pardah bnana ya is ko count na karnay par mard ko kam parha likha ya jahil samjhna bahot hi ghalat bat hai. ab ap hi bataiay aisi soorat-e-haal main mardon ke dilon main shak na aay to kia ho! jabkeh is shak ke sahi honay ke chances bhi kafi hon, aor larkian sach bhi na bolain. to sari zindagi shak aor guilty ki talwaron ke neechay guzarnay se behtar hai ke shuru main hi shadi se pehlay ya shadi ke pehlay din, sab theek bta dia jaay. |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jul 2008, 3:35am |
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sweetie aap theek keh rehi hain..lekin yeh bhi zaroori nehin ke koi ladki such bata de aur os ka hasbund ose maff kar de?
main yeh samujta hon ke aurat ke pass mard ki nisbat bara dil hota hai aur woh mard ki bhut si ghaltiya maff kar deti hain..lekin mard zaida shaki bhi hota hai aur aurat ki choti si ghalati bhi maff nehin karta..
shaadi k baad koi such batane ka matlab yeh nehin ke hasbund maff kar de ga.kuch loog ulti khoopri k bhi hote hain..aur jab shaadi hoti hai tab to na wife ko pata hota hai ke mera hasbund kis mazaaj ka hai aur na he hasbund ko pata hota hai.
ager such batana ho to mere khayal mein shaadi se pehle batana chahein.ager shaadi ke baad bataye ge to woh bhi dukha ho ga.kisi ka koi haq nehin ke woh kisi ki life marbad kare. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jul 2008, 5:38am |
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yes im agreed to veer's reply
bus dear sister, ap aisa keryen k sub kuch bhoolney ki koshish keryen...aur koshish keryen k ao usi larkay se shadi ker leyn jis ne ap k sath sex kiya hai...agar wo nahi kerna chahta to sub kuch Allah per chor deyn...jis se ap ki shadi ho gi usey kabhi bhi apne is raaz k barey mein kuch na batiye ga...werna bohat pashtayen gi....kitna bhi acha shoher kion na ho wo ye bat kabhi nahi bhoolay ga k ap ne pehle bi sex kiya kisi aur larkay se....
agar wo koi bat poochay bhi sahi to bilkul anjaan bun jaiye ga k jese ap bohat masoom hain aur ap pehli bar sex ker rahi hai....hymen aur bi bohat se tareekon se phat jati hai like riding, khelney koodnay se, wagera wagera....to ap koi bi bahana ker dijiye ga k main uchal kood bohat kerti thi, shyad isi waja se hymen kabhi phat gya ho....! |
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