Condom: Should I Use It In The First Wedding Night For Avoiding Pregnancy?

Salaam to all. I am going to get married very very soon. offcourse i will have a full access to my wife but mai nahi chahta ke meri hone wali wife pehli raat se hi pregnant ho jaye. suhaag raat mai agar wife ko contraception di jaye ya mai khud condom ka istimal karo aor kaya wife ko bora to nahi lage gha ye sub suhag raat ko. please discuss.

and suhag raat ko mon dikhayi ka kaya gift hona chahye please advise. thanks

why u r doing marriage sir?

sir if u do not need to baby then why u need to marriage.i think there is not any need of marriage.

Marriage is name of next gentration.

thanks

ZZZ

yaar offcourse mai bacha to peda karo gha inshallah lakin kam az kam 6-12 month apni wife ke saath time to pass karo kuch ziada understanding ho jaye and wese maine apse advise manghi hai ap please tankeed na kare bulke jo sawal poucha hai kindly ussi ka buss jawab de.

wese thanks a lot bhai sahab

Dear Zzz!

Im so sorry Goodman ne kuch sakht ilfaz use kiye, actually he is a really good us k comments apni jaga theek hein.

Anyway let see the problem!

Dekhein bhai, Shadi ka main maqsad batane ki zaroorati is liye nahi keun k ap muslim hein ap ko mujh se behtar pata hoga. Dosra, pata nahi ap konsi understanding chahate hein magar jo meri samjh mein ayi hay wo sexual pleasure hay. In my view of point jitna Haq kisi mard ko hasal hay Sexual Pleasure k liye, utna hi haq aurat ko bhi hay. Agar ap condom use karein ge to shaid sirf ap Sexual Pleasure hasal kar sakein ge, is se shaid ap ki biwi ko wo satisfaction na ho jo wo chahti hay. So i dont recommend you CONDOM at very very earlier stage. Laikan phir mr. Dr Rizwan Sb aur forum's moderator se request hay k wo apne comments bhi dein.

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ZZZ

Bhi meray you are already late in getting married 31 and 32 years is right age for getting married but since you are getting married at this age then do not delay the kids. When I see people of my age who are already dada abba I feel left out.

But if you want to delay the birth of kids , just talk to your wife whenever you get a chance , it is good if you can discuss it before hand instead of on the suhag raat.  It is good to get her consent instead of forcing your own thoughts on her.

In your case the best suhag raat gift will be the understanding you will start to build from first night of married life. But what ever you can afford a new jet, a diamond ring, a simple gold ring anything which will be permanent and durable , please do not think of giving her hair dryer or harir curler , just kidding , I know you are a smart chap.

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Bro,

I agree that ppl should take at least 6 months to a year for developing a good understanding, xince if wife gets pregnant on first night, u may end up facing her lying down all the time with tiredness and thwroing up right in the first month of marriage.

   So wise desicion,

well u can choose anything for a wedding night gift, but try to be diffrent as everyone goes for golds or dimonds.  Like if even u choose them try to get something in diferent shape or design, depending upon the likes and dislikes of yr future wife(sure u know about to some extent).

   Well for the birth control part, it is not necassary to have sex right on the suhaag raat.  It is actually a better thing if u wait for 2,3 days so everything calms down and during this period u can talk to her about this issue.  U can convince her easily if u tell her that u want to have fun with her like going out.etc etc. 

   The best method is to use condoms.  This is good for her health as it does not have any side effects.  Dont try to give her PILLS, since with pills u will have to wait for a month at least before starting ur relations with yr wife, becoz to prepare body for not having babies with the pills it takes this much time.  Also it is a dangerous idea to use pills before yr first child and even before u start having sex.  It also can effect yr future pregnancies as well as yr wife's health.

   I will say again, that use the best quality condoms, preferably NON LATEX, or made for ultra senstive skin.  Dont get Latex ones, as they can cause allergies.  Since u are in UK, u can buy the best ones.  So get them before getting married, and u should be fine.

best of luck, and ask if u need to know something else

Mujhay family planing ka to

nahi pata k karna chah e a ya nahee kion k maray andar itna sabar nahi tha aur ab bhee nahee hay.

magar sohag raat ka tuhfa zaroor bata sakta hoon zara soch loon phir bata doon ga. intezar farma e a.

ZZZ

Dear Dont use any piles or condom. Please search ur question and u well get different post related ur issue. I still advice u dont use condom and piles without doctor advice on first night.

I agree that must avoid pregnancy till 6 or 10 months but dont use piles or condom. We  have already a good discussion on this topic. Please serach this topic through search box and read it first.

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agreed to aag

pills to bilkul bhi use na kijiye ga....bcoz ye medicines shuru mein hi use ker li jayen to future mein nuksan bi ho skta hai

so better to use condom....lekin i think pehle din se ye use na hi keryen to behter hai....

but plz search abt this issue and then decide

waiting for ur comments

mr zzz thanks for your comments.

first i give the reply to you on the aspect of marriage objective and your age.Now after consideration on all reply today one thing come into my mind that when i was student of 11 th class and in my ECONOMICS Book there is topic about population.So the best solution is that you do not meet your wife and baby will not born.

regarding understanding it will create mutually when you will order your wife.and she will obey u.

i hope this time you will like my reply.waiting for your comments further.

thanks

thank u

Suhag raat ka Gift

Apni shadi

NAHIIII YAAR

esa nahi hota meri jaan cos its life of 2 human beings and human beings are not textbooks and no formula apply on any human being.

ZZZ