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shakir316 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2007 Topic: 35 Post: 104 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Aug 2007, 1:36pm |
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 Too Much Masturbation: How Can I Get Rid Of It?
Assalam o alaikum .meri age almost 20 hai. main aap se aik baat share karna chahta hoon k main ne pehlay kabi masturbation nahi ki thi. Lakin pichlay one and half month mein main ne bohat ziada masturbation ki hai. aap yaqeen nahi karein gay k main ne aik din mein 4 baar bi ki hai. main masturbation ko shuru se he aik nahait buri baat samjta tha lakin pichlay kuch arsay se mujay kuch pershanian aur tension thi jin se nijat hasil karnay k liay main ne aik din ye nahait bura kaam kr dia jis k baad main bohat sherminda b hua lakin iss k saath saath mujay bohat ziada maza b aya aur inzaal b hua. ye pehli baar meray haath se inzaal hua tha.iss se pehlay mujay hamesha ehtalam hota tha. phir uss k aik hour bad main ne phir masht zani ki mujay phir bohat maza aya. main ne 12 hours bad phir ki iss tarah ye meri aadit ban gai. main iss aadit main bohat buri tarah phans gia. ab main iss se nijat hasil karnay ki koshash kr raha hoon. and Insha Allah nijaat hasil kr b loon ga. main aap se 2 questions poochna chaht hoon k 1.kia tension door karnay mein sex aik important role play karta hai aur main ne jo kuch kia hai sahi kia hai? 2. ye jo main ne aik dam itni ziada masht zani ki hai aik aik din main 4 , 4 baar iss se to zroor meri sexual health par effect ho ga jo main ne mehsoos b kia hai (weakness). Khuda gawa hai k main aap se mazaq nahi kr raha. main ne aap se haqeeqat byan ki hai.Meri tamam members khas tor par Doctor khan , doctor pk , my reply , Bewaqoof , kali zuban etc. se guzarish hai k wo meri guidence karain. aur plz meray donu questions ka jwab b dein. Thank u very much.
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khoobsurat |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 32 Post: 326 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Aug 2007, 10:59am |
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 re: shakir316
yeh ek bad habit hai but es ka koi effect health par nahi hota hai, aur aap ke doosre sawal ka jawab yeh hai ke sex pleasure ka zariya hai aur es se tensions bhi khatam hoti hain but yeh sab masturbation ke liye nahi balka intercourse ke liye sahi hai, yeh nemat sirf married people ko hi naseeb hoti hai. aap abhi to masturbation hi karen aur jab shadi ke qabil hojaen to foran shadi kar len magar masturbation bohot buri aadat hai, aap apne aap ko etna busy karlen ke es ka khayal hi naa aye. jitna es ke bare mai sochege utna hi karege so, bhool jao aur mast raho, abhi to tumhare khelne kodne ki umar hai. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Aug 2007, 12:23pm |
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Khoobsurat & Shakir! khoobsurat muje apkay jawab par etraz hai, as u said "aap abhi to masturbation hi karen aur jab shadi ke qabil hojaen to foran shadi kar len", aik to ap usey masturbation ka mashwara day rahi ho, jo k galat hai dosra apki is bat say yehi samajh lagti hai k masturbation koi shadi ki tayyari ka tareeka hai to pehlay masturbation karo jab tayar ho jao to phir shadi kar lena.
dont u think it is more like a joke, jab koi insan kisi chez ko bura kehta hai or sath ye bi kehta hai iska koi nuksan nahi,
shakir brother illegal sex and masturbation can not give you peace of mind, it will give u more tension bcoz you are muslim, or apky andar KHOF paida ho jaey ga k kahin kisi ko meri gandi harkat ka pata na chal jaey or is KHOF ki waja say ap beemar ho jao gay apko tension lag jaey gi ap buzdil ho jao gay, is liye jald az jald is buri adat ko chhorr do, namaz parho, through namaz you can get peace of mind and can release your tension. jab mushtzani ko dil karay to wazu karo or 2 nafl namaz parh lo agar waisy hi namaz ka time ha to namaz parho, farigh na baitho, free time hai to music sun lo, computer games khelo,, lekin mery bhai mushtzani k through tension release karnay ki koshish na karo. |
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Snowflakes |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Aug 2007, 12:42pm |
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Agreed to Josh bro. Very accurate answer and mashwara by Josh bhai.
Namaz is the best way of getting rid of bad habbits and thoughts. Dil ka sakoon Zikar-e-Ilaahi mein hi hai. |
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shakir316 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2007 Topic: 35 Post: 104 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2007, 3:51am |
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One more thing Thanks khubsurat and Josh Bhai. Lakin main aik aur baat poochna chahta hoon k ye jo main ne bohat ziada masturbation ki hai aik din main 4 baar b ki hai iss se to yaqeenan meri sehat par effect hua ho ga aur main ne iss baat ko mehsoos b kia hai. AAp log kia kehtay hain. Where is Doctor Khan , my reply, bewaqoof. kali zuban , doctor pk and other members. plz guide me.. thanks |
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Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2007, 10:54am |
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mani nikalne se tension door hoti hai mani nikalne se tension door hoti hai. agar kabhi bhi ap ko tension ho tu ap mani zaroor nikale. mani nikalne ka sahi tareeqa hai keh ap shadi kar le aur mubasrat ke zaria nikale. ghalat tareeqa hai keh masturbation ke zaria nikale.
pias lagne se insan pani peeta hai. lekin is ka yeh matlab bhi nahi ke 4-6 glass aik hi dafa mai pee le. isi tarah agar tension door karne ke lia masturbation ya mubasrat ka mashwarah dia jata hai tu is ka yeh matlab bhi nahi keh din mai 4,4 bar ki jai.
masturbation ka koi jinsi aur jismani nuqsan nahi hai. agar ap masturbation ke bad weakness mahsoos karte hai tu yeh thakawat hai. jis tarah kisi bhi exercise ke bad thakawat ya weakness hoti hai isi tarah masturbation se bhi thakawat ya weakness hoti hai. jo keh jinsi kamzorin nahi hai.
jinsi kamzori se murad yeh hai keh bivi se mubasrat ke waqt penis mai sakhti na aye ya aakar jalk khatam ho jai. isi tarah bivi se mubasrat mai jald discharge ho jai. bivi ke ilawah agar koi masturbation mai jald discharge hota hai tu ose bhi jinsi kamzori nahi kahte.
aik bar phir bata de keh masturbation ka koi bhi jinsi ya jismani nuqsan nahi hai. agar bivi na ho tu tension ki soorat mai masturbation ki ja sakti hai. lekin behtar yahi hai keh masturbation karne ki bajai insan shaadi kar le aur mani bivi ke anda mubasrat ke zaria nikale.
Important Note: albatta jin logo ka aqeeda hai keh masturbation gunah hai. on logo ko mashwarah hai keh woh bilkul bhi masturbation na kare kio keh aise logo ka tension kam hone ki bajai aur ziadah ho jai ga. kio keh onhai guilt feeling hogi. aur guilt feeling se tension kam nahi hoti balkeh ziadah ho jati hai. lehaza jo log samajhte hai keh on ke mazhab ne masturbation karne se mana kia hai tu ham doctors bhi aise logo ko masturbation karne ka mashwarah nahi dete. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2007, 1:14pm |
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re: Kali Zuban! Kaali Zuban apnay bohat acha reply kia hai & i am sure k shakir bhai ki confusions door ho gaee hongi, or end mai jo imp.note likha hai k jin logo ka khayal hai k masturbation gunah hai ya after m.bation guilt feel karty hain unko galat tareeka use nai karna chahiye, Very Nice.
agar ho sakay to muje batain k agar koi insan unMarried hai, ab wo insan sahi tareekay say to mani nikal nai sakta or galat tareeka wo pasand nahi karta, lekin apny ap ko aesi chezo say door rakh sakta hai jis say sex desire mai izafa ho, to kia eisay kisi insan ko zindagi mai koi problem koi bemari lag sakti hai ya lagnay ka chance hai?? |
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shakir316 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2007 Topic: 35 Post: 104 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Aug 2007, 1:17pm |
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 kali zuban
dear kali zuban. thank u very much.. ur post is really beneficial.thanks |
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