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fairy |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Feb, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 6:19am |
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 Rape: The Girl Should Tell The Husband Or Not?
Plz PLz kindly reply me if a girl is not virgin and someone rape her only 1 time and she never told anyone about this what should she do on her weding night told her husband or hide it?or if she hide it than any problem occuer plz tell me one time sex spoil virginty?
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 7:22am |
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fairy
apne ye sawal dusre topic me bhi kiya tha jahan maine replay kar diya hai -- lekin mai apko phir se jawab deti hun,ke waise to husband&wife ko ek dusre s ekoi bat chupani nahi chahye,lekin kuch batain chupane me behtri hoti hai, agar apki apne husband se achi understanding hai,aur ap janti hain ke wo apko samajh sakte hain aur pe yaqeen karenge to ap unko bata dain. warna behtar hai na bataen,,...allah talah apki zaroor madad karega aur wahi pardah rakhne wala hai,agar shadi ke bad apki husband se bohat achi understandig ho jaye to ap tab bata dain take apke dil pe bojh na ho ke apne unse bat chupayi hai. khuda se hamesha achie ki umeed rakhain wo apki zaroor help karega (ameen)
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 8:28am |
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rape.......
mai bi bara hi acha log hon is liye maibi is baray mai kuchh kahonga....
agar to larki ka rape ho chuka hai, , to shadi k baad agar uskay husband ko pata chal jaey k larki ka to hymen hi nahi hai,, to phir acting ya jhoot bolnay ki bajaey bata dena chahiye,, bcoz rape kisi ki marzi say nahi hota,, aur agar husband na puchhay to phir khamoshi hi behtar hai,, bcoz sometime aisi baat jan-nay kay baad halaat kharab bi ho saktay hain, chahay husband ye show na karay k usay bura laga lekin asal mai usay ye baat achhi na lagi ho.. to phir wo mohabbat nai rehti jo honi chahiye...
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seriously |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Dec, 2007 Topic: 24 Post: 313 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 10:00am |
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eh sawal aur uska jawab itna assan nahi hay.
eh iss baat per depend karta hay kah iss rape kay baray main kiss kiss ko pata hay. agar larkee kay ilawa kisee ko nahi pata tow sunhari aur josh ka jawab bilkul sahee hay. iss per amal karain. laikin agar larkee kay ilawa , us kay ghar waloon ko bhee pata hay , mohally wallon ya dosray ghair logoon ko bhee pata hay to sorat hall ziada complex ho jati hay. iss sorat main rishta kartay waqat larkay ko aur us kay ghar waloon ko bata dena chahyee. agar larkay ya uskay ghar waloon ko dosroon say pata chala to un ko ziada sadma ho ga aur baat ziada peechee da ho sakti hay.
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 10:10am |
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dhoka nai dena chahiye.....
u are right seriously,, bcoz agar sab ko pata ho lelkin larkay ko ye hakeekat bataye bina hi uski shadi kar di jaey to phir ye ziadati hai aur larkay k sath dhoka hoga........ jiska result bohat galat bi nikal sakta hai..... lekin sirf larki ko pata hai to phir baat chhupi rahay to behtar hai lekin agar pata lag jaey to jhoot nahi bolna chahiye.. kyonkay 1 jhoot ko chhupanay k liye mazeed jhoot bolnay partay hain aur phir bi 1 na 1 din jhoot pakra jata hai....
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pinky7861 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 3:01pm |
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 Fairy
I have posted this answer in another post as well where u also asked the same que. No and a BIG no. Even if ur husband is an angel, never ever try to tell him about this. Jab allah nay aisi lerki ki perda poshi ker di hay aur ussay zaleel honay say bacha lia hay tu phir yah intihai baywaqoofi hay kay wo lerki kisi ko bhi even kay apnay husband ko bhi iss kay barray main batay. Husband farishta nahi hota, aur kabhi na kabhi zindgi main aisa moqa aa hi jata hay jab kay aap kay paoun dho dho ker pinay wala shoher bhi aap ko aisi baat per tanna day sakta hay, yah ainda kay liay aap ki zaat kay baaray main koi shak zahen main bitha sakta hay. Waisay ager lerki ko yah khoaf ho kay uss ka shoher iss baat ko hood hi jaan lay ga tu aisa namimkin hay. Hymen kisi ki bhi shadi say pahlay phat sakti hay, aur iss kay liay sex kernay ki koi qaid nahi hay. Lahaza iss baat ka der nahi hona chahyay. Allah say bas dua kerlo kay wo aap kay husband ko kisi tara kay fazool shak main janay say bachay aur bas. Waisay bhi sex kernay kay baad ager kafi arsa tak dobara sex na kia jay tu vagina shrink ho jati hay. iss liay maira mashwera yahi hay kay husband ko aisi baat na batai jay jab kay allah nay hood hi iss baat ki perda poshi fermaa di hay.
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pinky7861 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2008, 3:07pm |
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Josh
App kis dokha dahi ki baat ker rahay hain??? shaadi say pahlay lerka ya lerki ki zindgi un ki apni hoti hay, uss main wo jo bhi ker chukay hain, ya un kay sath houa hay wo un sab un ka apna hay, aur un ki zindgi ka hisa hay. Aur ager allah nay chaha hay aur un kay sath kiay houay per perda daal dia hay, tu bahter yahhi hay kay insaan bhi uss per perda daal day. Baat yah hay kay, kisi bhi gunaah ki maafi allah say mangain tu wo maaf ker daita hay, lakin kisi insaan say ussi baat per maafi mangain, tu wo maaf kernay kay bawajood bhi kabhi aap ko ussi baat ka tanna day sakta hay. Iss liay jab allah aap ko maaf ker raha hay aur uss ka saboot hay kay wo aap ki perda poshi ferma daita hay, tu phir iss ka matlab yahi hay kay insaanoun say aisi baat ka ziker hi na kia jay.
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ZZZ |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Feb, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 5:27am |
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DONT Salaam sister, apka rape hoya and it means key you had no intention for having a sex tou allah ke han ap pak saaf and sharif larki hai. and ab agar apki shadi ho chuki hai ya hone wali hai to please ap sirf allah se madad manghe and in my opinion ap apne husband ke saath iss cheez ka kabhi bhi zikar na kare chahe apki kitni hu understanding hai cos ho sakta hai key ap apne husband ko bataye aor uske baad unki nafsiyat change ho jaye so its best not to tell him and please also note key ye uske saath cheat ya dhoka nahi hon gha and you hide something for the betterment of your life and allah ne apko ye right diya hai.
ap nikah ke baad uske saath fair hai to thats what islam requires. |
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4216 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 5:36am |
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i think dear sis fairy
aap ne jo question kia hai aur jo problem bataye hai, nihayat he nazuk hai. waqie ye larki k lie mushkil ghari hoti hai aur har waqt yahi sosh dimagh me ghoomti hai k ager husband ko pata chal gaia to kia hoga?
dear sis main aap ko darana nahi chahta. es "kia hoga?" ka jawab dena asan hai. lekin husband ka nature kia hai ye maloom karna mushkil hai. main apne nature k mutaliq batawoon k KHUDA NAKHWASTA agar meri wife k sath agar aisa waqia howa ho jis main os ki ghalti na ho. to bad main jagroon se kuch hasil nahi hota. agar meri wife muje ye yaqeen dila de k wo aaienda kabi bi aise talooqat nahi rakhegi to pir maaf karne main he bhalaie hai. aur ye rasta islam b pasand karta hai. q k darguzar karne wale ko ALLAH be pasand karta hai.
agar larki ka husband ka nature es k bar khilaf hai to pir es bat ko chupane main behteri hai. lekin ye khyal rakhna chahie k rape karne wala larki ko blackmale na kare. agar blackmail karne ki koshish karta hai to pir behter hai k blackmaler se pehle wife husband ko sab kuch bata de.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 5:45am |
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 NEVER........!!!
Mere taraf se bhi big big ... "NO"
App k Husband chahey jitne bhi Farishta-Sif Insaan hoon kabhi bhi iss tarah ki baat husband ka nahi batani chahiyah... warna Zindagi ma eak na eak mordh aaisa ajaey ga jab Husband bhi app ko tana daey dein gaey....
Iss duniyah ma agar aaisey baat app kisi se kar saktey hain tou woh hain Parents(only) ... ya phir app ki Sisters... Otherwise kisi Friend ko bhi iss barey ma nahi batana chahiyah chahey woh jitne Close kyun na hoo...
Agar Husband poochein tou jab hi bataein ... ya phir koi Emergency Case hoo tabhi Parents ya Siblings ko bataein... Warna jiss cheez per ALLAH ne pardah daal diyah hai ussey kabhi nahi uthana chahiyah... Hoe you understand.
May ALLAH bless you..!
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Informativ |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 31 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 5:57am |
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Khamooshi!!!
Kuch logon mein sachai sunne ya bardasht karne ki himat nahi hoti, is liye mera khayal k mutabi KHAMOSHI BEHTAR HAY SHAID IS SE TABAHI KA SAMANDAR RUK JAYE. Laikan Fairy, ap aik bat zindagi mein yad rakhein, "JO DOSRON K RAZON KA PARDA RAKHTE HEIN ALLAH UN K RAZO KO PARDE MEIN RAKHTA HAY" Ab ye ap k hath mein bhi hay, zindagi mein koshish karein k koi aisa kam ya kisi se adawat na rakhein. Meri Duwa hay k Allah apko kamyab zindagi de, aur guzre huwe bure waqt ki parchaeyon ko hamesha k liye ap k dil-o-dimagh se mita de aur ap ko har dushman se bure waqt se mehfooz rakhe! Ameein piXelEyES
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seriously |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Dec, 2007 Topic: 24 Post: 313 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2008, 10:11am |
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Fairy
aap nay pahlay kaha tha kah kisee ko bhee nahi pata , larkee kay ilawa. Ab aap kah rahi ho kah aik close friend ko pata hay. eh inkishaf sareee sorat a haal ko tabdeel kar deta hay. Agar close friend per aap ko 100 percent bharoosa hay to theek hay. Allah say duaa karain k woh dost kisee dosray close friend ko na bata a. Saree umer koshish karain k aap kay or us close friend k darmian kabhee bhee koi ghalat fahmi nahi hoo. Agar eh rape ka waqia bohat arsay pahlay paish aia tha to us ka saboot kisee k pass nahi hay. agar kisee wajah say aap kay shohar ko pata chaal jai tow aap bilkull inkar kar dain k aisa koi waqa paish nahi aia. magar aap ko majboot rahna ho ga , chahray say bhee bilkul zahir na ho k aap jhoot bol rahi hain. Aap apna parda rakhnay kay lee a jhoot bolain gee to inshallah , allah maaf farmanay wala hay. aap ka waisay bhee iss main koi qasoor nahi. merey samajh main to eh hee ata hay , kisee dosray member ko koi ziada behter mashwara samajh main ata hay to zaroor dain. Ghalti kisee say bhee ho saktee hay mashwara denay main.
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saima_nwab |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Feb, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Feb 2008, 6:53am |
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mat btain
marain khayal mai aap apnai shohar ku hargaz na btain bcause mard is maslai mai bara he hassas hota hai.wu khud tu kisi k saath rap kar dai tu kui masl nai magar apni bahn bv k barai mai wu gairatmand ban jata hai aur bardash nai kar sakta. laihaza maira mashwra hai k aap is baat ku hargaz hargaz na btain saima
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Hangama |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Feb 2008, 2:36am |
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Fairy
ALLAH apko sahi rah dekhai aur apko ander sai saber ata farmai. Mai janta hon jo sab nai kaha bilkul sahi kaha hai aur aisi batain agar kisi ko nahi pata to usko chupa hi rahnai diya jai to acha hai. Laikin bat kabhi kabhar husband yah kisi ko batanai ki nahi hoti. Agar ap yah bat ander dabai rakhaingi to yah bhi hosakta hai kai apka dil yah bat nahi manai aur ap ander sai baichain rahain. kiyu kai husband yah wife agar koi bat aik dusrai sai chupa tain hain to woh baichain hi rahtai hain. ALLAH apko saber ata karai aur apki tamam problem khud hi solve hojain ameen.
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Babar12 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2010 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2010, 11:36pm |
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hi dd
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RANI111 |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Aug, 2010 Topic: 13 Post: 57 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2010, 12:40pm |
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Rape Aap apne husband ko is bare me kutch na batai. Mard ye kabhi bardasht nahi kare ge shadi karie aur bold rahiye aap ne koi galti nahi ki hai allah aap ki madad kare ga. |
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