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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Mar 2007, 12:08pm |
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 Mujhe Shaadi Se Khof Aane Laga Hai
In april 2007 i will get married with a guy who loves me i also loves him but there was some problems due to we didn't talk to each other.... and for those reasons i don't love him but don't hate him
1- mujhe aap kaye web visit kerne sai pehle sex ka bare main nahi pata tha sirf ya pata tha ka kuch hota hain kisai hota hain i didn't know .....kyon ka mere ghar main koye bai movies nahi dekhta ...... abhi mujhe jub sai sex ka bare mai pata chala hain aik taraf toa mujhe shadi sai khuf anhai laga hain kyon ka mere dost kahte hain ka jub husband tumhe sex ka bare mai kuch kahe toa khamosh rahna werna woai tumhe galat bai samjh sakta hain kia larki ko pehle bar bai khamosh rahna cahye .... batye mujhe kia kerna cahye ..... kia mujhe khamoshi sai woai sub bardast kerna cahye aur woai sub kuch kerne dayina cahye jisia woai keraye ..... lakin agar mai asee kerwoye gaye toa woai mujhe main interest nahi laye ga kia ..... dosra mujhe jub bai sex ka bare mai khial atya hain toa mujhe lagta hai jisi mera bp low ho raha hai demagh bilcul khali hota ja raha hai aur hath pawoye bilcul thande ho jatey hai sara sara din kuch kerne ko dil nahi cahta even yaha baithe hoti howi waha sai uthne ko bai jee nahi cahta .... kia mere sath koye problem hain jis kaye waja sai mera husband mujhe pasand nahi kernaye gaye .....
2- i have heard that husband in love marriage no matter one sided or two sided like to become more romantic rather than arrange marriage is it true.............. but i have never seen my fiance in reality i have seen him in just pic.
3- i want to sleep at first night by taking some sleeping pills which are very light i want to know it will have any bad impact upon my heath ... coz i can't bear that pain , his weight and bleeding etc . ( kyon ka mujhe zara zara sai baat per shakaar anhai lag jatye hain jis kaye waja sai mai aksar hai bahosooh ho jatye howi lakin medical reports bilcul positive atye hain aur mujhe goodgodi bai hoti hain) agar larki penis ko hath na lagana cahye
4- at ur web i read that most guys likes big breast which i don't like and don't have how i can prevent in increasing breast size after getting marry....
5- mere underlegs skin lotions ka izitimaal kaye waja sai bahat ziyada dry ho gaye hain mera body color toa fair hain lakin under arms specially legs bahat ziyada dry or black skin ho shuki hain aur hairs bai bahat ziyada jaga per ho shukye hain kia asee kaye waja sai mere husband ko mujhe sai koye shakiyaat ho sakti hain i have never done sex with any guy or girl so i don't know that what kind of skin they have ..... my friend told me that her skin is not dry and black coz she always use waxing methods... agar girl sai pehlekuch bar asa na ho sakye mean sex main khuf wagira toa kia husband asee sai sex main latf mehsoos nahi kerta .. wht i should hav to do
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Mar 2007, 4:03am |
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 You have nothing to do!
Maria! Your problem is not so big that you are assuming!
Shaadi koi aisa mushkil or khatarnaak kaam nhee hay jiske bare mein soch kr aap ghabra rhi hain.App Website per available Dr.Rizwaan ki books parh lain aap ko apne har sawaal ka jawab mil jae ga.(www.noorclinic.com)
Isi tarah agar aap ye samajh rahi hain k shaadi sirf sexual intercourse ka naam hay to aisa ghalat hay.Shaadi karne k baad sirf yehi nhee hota.Aap bilkul relex rhein or bilkul normal rhein.Pehli raat mein waisay bhi larkian sharmai hui rehti hain is liye aapko ye sochne ki zaroorat nhee key apke Husband kia khein gey?
Is k ilawa mein aapko ye advise doon ga k koshis karain k shaadi se pehle aap apne Fiance se understandind peda kr lain.Ye apke liye bohat faidamand sabit hogi or aapke tamam shak dor ho jain gey.
Skin problem is also normal.Ye koi bari bemari nhee hay.Aap kisi bhi skin specialist se mil lein or us ki advise ki hui creams waghaire use krain apka ye masla bhi hal ho jae ga.
Mazeed kisi bhi problem k liye Forum ko zaroor use krain.Apko Inshallah her problem ka jawab yahan mil jae ga.Apna masla koshis karein k kam se kam Alfaz mein likhain.
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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Mar 2007, 1:33am |
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what i should have todo 1- main na woai book sai hai para thaka sex asee hoti hain main na kabhi mo
2- i can't talk to him coz he always don't reply my question that if he lovesthen y he always fight with me .... should i have to ask him about sex .... i think i can't ... wht kind of understanding i should have to develop ?
3-u told " Shaadi karne k baad sirf yehi nhee hota.Aap bilkul relex rhein or bilkul normal rhein.Pehli raat mein waisay bhi larkian sharmai hui rehti hain is liye aapko ye sochne ki zaroorat nhee key apke Husband kia khein gey?" but my friend told me that at first night he will ask abotu sex ... then wht i will tell him that how i know about sex i have never seen any indian /paki or eng movie
4- i used waxing method which is vey painful and after few days i have notice that i have some pimples at there ... who leave the spot ... danwoye ka kia kerwoye ... mujhe tea baaht pasand hai kahe mujhe tea kaye waja sai toa pimple nahi nikla aye jub ka mere face skin per asa kuch nahi hain? |
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furqan |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Mar 2007, 3:15am |
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confuusion sir mujay yeh bata day kay mari shaddi march main hai but eik bath ki confusion hai kay wife ki back side (hole) say kam kar saktay hai kay ni islam main kia permisson dee hai. |
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Mar 2007, 4:44am |
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Understanding means aap us se baat cheet krain (Sex se hat k)kisi bhi mozu per or koi bhi topic le kr.kabhi waisay hi phone pr baat kr lain.isi tarah agar kahin kisi taqreeb mein samna ho to wahan hal chal waghaira k saath koi bhi baat cheet kr lain.This is called Understanding.Is ka ye faaida ho ga k apko maloom ho jae ga k apke future husband k thoughts kaisay hain.
Apki Saheli bilkul ghalat kehti hay.pehli raat koi husband nhee poochta k aap ye btain ya ye krain,aisa khuch nhee hota (siwae wahan jahan shaadi se pehle larkay larki mein zaberdast understanding ho wahan ye possible hay).Is tarah apko na hi koi movie dekhne ki zarorat hay us se aap khud confuse ho gi.
Isi tarah apko apne fiance se sex per baat krne ki koi zaroorat nhee.
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Mar 2007, 4:45am |
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Re.Confusion! Its HARAM in Islam.and it is highly restrcted.You can't do this. |
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amir4u |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Mar, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2007, 11:37pm |
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wah jee wah kia baat haee aap sub ki.....bauhat achaee bhaee bauhat achaee |
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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2007, 12:07pm |
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baat kerna toa possible nahi hain kyon ka mere father asee pasand nahi keraye gaye mere fiance mujhe toa kuch nahi kahte lakin phir bai mujhe sex kaye waja sai anahi sai dar lagta hain ... i just want to know ka kia koye husband biwi sai ya sawal nahi kerta ka tumhe sex ka kisa pata ... kia mujhe khamosh layite rahna cahye aur agar koye larki penis ko hath etc na lagana cahye toa? pehle bar nahi pocuhte toa kia kabhi bai nahi pocuhe gaye |
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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2007, 12:38pm |
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agar asa nahi hota toa phir noorclinic per subguys asee kyon questions kerte hain ... agar koye larki husband ko ya kah sakti hain ka woia sex asee waja sai nahi kerna cahye kyon ka asee daar lagta hain aur woai kid nahi cahte ... mujhe noorclinic viist kerne sai pehle sex ka asee nahi pata tha jub sai pata chala hain sex ka souch ker hai mere hath pawoye thande honi lag jate hain kia mujhe physically koye problm hain aur agar pehle bar bai mujhe asee hai howa toa mere husband mujhe galat samjh gaye kia ? mujhe kia kerna cahye khamoshi sai dard bardast kerwo agar love marriage ka mutlab sex nahi hota toa that means ka woai sex main mere care bai nahi keraye gaye
medical main asaa kuchnahi hain ka first time sex kaye pain ko khatam kia ja sakye ?
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2007, 12:40pm |
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Just Do this! Lady ! you must consult a psychologist for your problems.Immediately meet any psychologist near you.
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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2007, 12:47pm |
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doc u think that i am mad |
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imran4 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Feb, 2007 Topic: 10 Post: 81 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 11:37pm |
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HuMmm i suggest don't take any pills try to face the reality ... nothing will happen if u willface the reality ... don't go for guys posts ... if u will do these kind of acts like sleeping at wedding night and refusing for have a kid u can create prob for u ... it does't matter tghat he loves to u or not but in both cases it can create a lot of blunders .. just relax and try to use khansab tips and develop understanding with ur fiance otherwise just keep quite. As far as , ur "Hath pawoye thande ho jatye hain , demagh khali ho jata hain and Blah blah" I think it is because u r afraid from sex. Well at last i am bit confuse wht kind of girl u r who is afraid from a guy who loves u ? if he loves to u then he will never harm urself - GOT ME |
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Maria_z |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 259 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 12:36pm |
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no i am just afriad from pain and i know that i should habe a kid but not in the early days shouff i have to follow him. lakin kid wali baat kahne mai kia bore han |
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Maria_z |
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 12:37pm |
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aur jo mere hath pawoye thande ho jatye hai asee ka kia kerowye |
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smartties |
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| Posted on:4th Apr 2007, 4:27pm |
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maria_z aap shadee to karrain ..jwabb WHICH hoo ga to khuud hee sabb set hoo jaiyay gaa |
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Zain_ali |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Mar, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2007, 5:45am |
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r u psycho. if u can't do all this then don't get marry on the other hand if u will all these things which you have mention above i am sure ur husband will kill you! |
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Zain_ali |
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2007, 5:47am |
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smartties and sml_pen as far as ur suggestion concerns for maria_z i think u should have to behave gentally ur profile shows that u r married then wht kind of language u r using? |
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Zain_ali |
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2007, 5:48am |
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smartties mind ur language |
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Naturalist |
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2007, 6:48am |
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Dont Worry Maria Madam Maria you should be cofident enough and dont think about what would happen after marraige. leave it on ur husband. Be confident. Dont ask anything about sex to ur husband untill u develop good understanding. Let ur husband do what he wants to do. |
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Naturalist |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Feb, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Apr 2007, 6:52am |
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It does not hurt too much Medical books say that first sex do not hurt too much. so u r wrong |
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