Sexual Etiqueties In Islam

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Even in this regard we find the beautiful teaching of Rasulullah (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) a guidance for us; that in very subtle manner he impressed upon his companions (Radiyallahu-Anhum) importance and necessity of foreplay with the wife. For example:-

It is narrated in the Ahadith that once Rasulullah (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) came to know that Hazrat Jabir “(Radiyallhu-Anhum) had married a widow. He said: “Why did you not marry a virgin whom you could play with and Who would play with you?” BUKHARI, MUSLIM
This is a subtle indication towards love play or foreplay between the couple.
Furthermore, the importance of expressing love and feelings towards each other can be learned from the Ahadith of Rasulullah(Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) that go to this effect that when a husband or wife gaze at each other with love and affection, Allah (Azza-wa-Jall) gazes at them with mercy and kindness. When the husband and wife hold each others hands with love and affection, Allah Ta’ala forgives their sins.
If the wife is breast-feeding, caution should be observed that no milk enters the throat during the course of loveplay. It is Makroohe-Tahrimi for the husband to drink the milk of his wife. If any person, out of ignorance has transgressed this regulation of the Shariah, the only form of expiation is a sincere taubah and repetance. However, this does not affect the bond of nikah as is the misconception of many people

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Almost as important as foreplay and the actual act of intercourse, is the termination and conclusion of the act of copulation, which could be termed as “after play”. Many times, it happens that the husband reaches climax earlier than the wife (some women attain climax after quite a while). In such a case the husband should remain in her until she achieves climax and satisfaction. This is absolutely vital and essential for the satisfaction of the wife. Disengaging before the wife achieves climax is cruel and selfish and breeds animosity and contempt in the wife’s heart for her husband.

Furthermore, disengaging immediately after sexual union often gives the woman an impression that the man is only interested in her to gratify his lust and is merely “using” her. This is bound to affect martial harmony.

Hazrat Ali (Radiyallahu-Anhum) says in this regard:
“Await the completion (climax) of the wife before disengaging, otherwise she will become your enemy.” –RIFAATUL-MUSLIMEEN.

CONCEAL PRIVATE MATTERS

A very shameless trend has emerged nowadays where members of both the sex narrate the details of their sexual encounters to friends and associates. This goes totally contrary to the dictates of Haya and modesty; the outstanding branch of Iman. Such action should be shunned totally. This also gives others an opportunity to meddle in the private affairs of the couple. This is an extremely sinful and detestable act in the sight of Allah.

“Amongst the worst of people in Allah’s sight on the day on Qiyamah is that husband who indulges in privacy with his wife and then reveals her to others” MUSLIM

CONCEAL PRIVATE MATTERS

A very shameless trend has emerged nowadays where members of both the sex narrate the details of their sexual encounters to friends and associates. This goes totally contrary to the dictates of Haya and modesty; the outstanding branch of Iman. Such action should be shunned totally. This also gives others an opportunity to meddle in the private affairs of the couple. This is an extremely sinful and detestable act in the sight of Allah.

“Amongst the worst of people in Allah’s sight on the day on Qiyamah is that husband who indulges in privacy with his wife and then reveals her to others” MUSLIM

MORE THAN ONCE

If the couple wish to engage in sexual intercourse more than once then it is best that they take a bath before the second coitus. If not, then at least to perform wudhu. If not they should at least wash their genitals clean. 

It is the experience of the elders that a person who re-engages in sexual intercourse without doing any of the above, the resultant off-spring will be mentally-retarded or will be niggardly in nature.  

The author of IHYA emphasizes that the least every couple should do before re-engaging in sexual intercourse is to pass water and wash their genitals clean without this they should not indulge in sex. The result will be harmful and detrimental to them.

ANAL SEX

Just as sex is prohibited during menstruation, anal sex, even though with one’s own partner is strictly prohibited in the Shariah 

This abominable deed has been denounced very emphatically by Rasulullah (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) in various Ahadith.  

“The person that has anal sex with his, Allah (Rabbul-Izzat) will not look at him with mercy on the day of Qiyamah.” –Hadith 

“The person that has anal sex with his wife is Mal’oon (accursed)”-ABU-DA’UD 

Imam Ghazzali (Rahimahumullah) writes in IHYA that anal sex is even worse than sex during menstruation because this filthy act causes undue pain and difficulty to the woman.

Even the male could become victim to various diseases and illnesses, some of them fatal and extremely deadly. Today, medical research has discovered that the greatest risk factor of contracting AIDS-the killer disease of the century-is anal sex; with or without protection! May we be sacrificed upon Allah and his Rasul for protecting our lives and health by strictly prohibiting us from this inhuman act. 

THE DO’S AND DON’TS OF SEXUAL

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DO’S

ETIQUETTES OF THE FIRST NIGHT

TINTENTION FOR SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

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Hazrat Ali (Radiallahu Anhum) is reported to have said in his WASA (advices): 

RECITATION OF DUA

For the protection from shaitaan and other harms, it is important to recite the Masnoon Duas at the time of intercourse. In this way the couple and their progeny will be protected from much harm.
The respective duas for this occasion are as follows:-
1. AT THE TIME OF COMMENCING WITH INTERCOURSE:-
TRANSLATION:-
“In the name of Allah, O Allah! Save us from Shaitaan and prevent shaitaan from that which you grant us”.
2. AT THE TIME OF EJACULATION TRANSLATION
“O Allah! Do not grant shaitaan any share of that which you have granted me”.
Note:- 1. At the time of ejaculation, the dua should be recited in the mind only, not verbally.
          2. Both husband and wife should recite the dua.

It is reported that if a person does not recite these duas, Shaitaan participates with him in the act of coitus and derives pleasure from his wife.
Not reciting the dua is also a cause for rebellious and disobedient progeny as is observe in our times. Shah Abdul-Haq Dehlawi (Rahimahumullah) states in this regard: “If a prayer like this is not made at the time of coitus and only the sexual urge is fulfilled like the animals; the child that is born out of such a union will not be saved from the evil influence of Shaitaan. This is one of the main reasons that the morals of the present generation are not good.” RIFAATUL---

Another point of significance is the importance of Zikr in the life of a Mumin(Believer). Unlike other religious, Islam regards even mudane activities as acts of worship (Ibadah) and obedience (Ta’aat) if carried out under the regulations of Shariah, with the correct intention and with the Zikr of Allah (Azza-wa-Jall). Thus what would normally be a debased act in other religions, is a noble act of worship and obedience that is rewardable in Islam

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Just want to ask are these things allowed in islam or not...

1.Complete nudity
3.Stand during intercourse
4.Excessive Speech
5.Gaze at private parts

Your post refers to them as donts of sex in islam...
Accorind to my knowladge these things are allowed.

"The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, is reported to have said, “Guard your private concealed except from your marriage partner!”

This clearly shows that point 1,5 are allowed... but please provide us with more detail as many of us we do these things during sex including me...
please reply....

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khuch suwaalat hen jo pochy gy hen meh ap ko pori koshish kuro ga k satisfie kur suko meh koi allam tu ni pur commen sense sy he juwab donga jo materal ap ny pura wo meh ny b study keya or ap sy share kur deya.

sub sy phyly mera jo mind es bat ko acha ni sumajta wo hy bar bar sex ka nam lyna shadi soda log jo hen onka sexual releation mobashraat, humbestry, ya intercourse keh sukty hen ku k shadi shoda life meh ek husband and wife ek dosry k ley Hulal hoty hen or on ko es releation es peyar mobahbat ka b puraabar ajar milta hy

lykin

Sex jo ap log bar bar kehty ho es meh wo tumma ilegial sex b ajata hy jo gyr mehram kisi cal girl  ya kisi b na jayz zureya sy keya jata hy eska gonah b hy gonah kubeera hy or es ki suza b bot hy bot e sukth hy ya na shai agly jahaan meh zuroor hy,

Husband wife k sexual intercourse  k ley koi kisi time ke pabundi ni hy pur agur 24 hours meh sy koi time ya week meh koi khas din mokarar kur lyna es meh koi borai ni es k faydy zroor en ku k dono zehni tor pur intercourse k ley teyaar hoty hen.

wesy tu ap ke apni wife hy jub chayen ,lykin monasab time agur rukh leya jay tu ye sub sy achi bat hy

sub sy acha time rat ka or midnight ka he hota  hy ya dopyr ka jub rest time hota hy.

ye tu hen batin Hullal sex ke husband wife ke

baki Huram kam meh tu en bato ka koi khiyal ni kurta ku k mut mari hoti hy or insaan sy shataan bna hota hy insaan.

or Huzar ali ruzi Allah thala ka ek furmaan hy oska luby lubbab ye btabata ho wo kehty hen k week k seven days meh hur din ke ek khaas khaseyat hy or oska assar baby pur hota hy os ky hisaab sy qualitys baby meh ati hen jesy

on tuesday. baby will be big hearted  and generous

or acah time mery khiyaal meh rat 12 k bad sy soba fujar sy phyly tuk ka hy compleate khulwat ka time hy

esy tu ni ho suta na k ap gur meh hon din dyhary room bund kur k tu ..... koi b ap ko aa k disturb kur sukta hy proper tuwaja sy ap intercourse ni kur sukty

ye sub batin for baby  hen baby k ley intercourse kurna

baki positions ka juwab kul donga

salam

Complete nudity
3.Stand during intercourse
4.Excessive Speech
5.Gaze at private parts

mery bai ye topic ka subject he sexual intercourse k adaab hen so agur ap en bato ka khiyal kuro gay tu eska fayda ap ko he hy ni kuro gy tu b noksan b ap ko he hy.

stand during positions k advantages and disadvantages ap khod serch kur k dyk lo medical keya kehti hy es bary meh

sexual intercourse meh ziyada bat jeet gyr zoori goftugo ni kurni hoti husband wife hen ap kisi english film ke tura na ap ny awazin nikalni hen na wife ny khuch adaab b hoty hen bai or ye batn Huyaaa sy munsoob hen en ko falowy kuro tu fayda he hy ,

jesy numaz purty ho tu sur py topi ruk lo tu achi bat hoti hy na , hath band b lyty hen , edur odar b ni dykty 

esi tura sexual intercouse meh b khuch adaab hen en ka khiyal kurin tu wife husband or any waly baby py en adaab ka bot asar hota hy.

muslan ap ek intercourse kurty hen proper islamic manners sy to 100 percent sure hy k apka baby nyk and salih ho ga

or ek ap intercourse kurty hen 1000 wat k bulb ke roshni meh , english films ke nukali kurty, play back music chul ra hy ya koi film tu ap khod sochin any wala baby ap sy b do hath agy ho ga.

intercourse jo husband wife ka hy osky adaab hen baki Huramkari k koi adaaab ni , baki private parts ya wife ka jism sara he hullal h pur nuzryin phaar phaar k dykna wo b privats part ko bina kisi zrori kam k nuzar ko kumzoor kurta hy tummam olama es sy motfik hen.

TO QASIM