My advice It is important to win the heart of a woman first, then to start with sex with her. So, my advise to you would be to talk with her for some time to relieve her anxiety (as she might be thinking what you are thinking but from a different perspective). Just realize that you are going to spend your entire adult life (hopefully) with her, and you will have ample time to have sex in your lifetime. But, if you start this hurriedly and that leaves a negative impression in her mind, then both of you will be sad about in future. So, give some time before you have sex. Marriage is certainly more than having sex with a wife.
I would suggest you pray a 2 rakat nafl namaz with her first. Then enjoy her company with words and when the time is right both of you will know it. The fruit of patience is always sweeter as wise men say.
Hope this helps, and congratulations on your marriage. Allah hafiz. |