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Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2008, 11:55pm |
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 Sex Education: Is It Necessary Before Marriage?
hamare forum ki aik unmarried female member bari baqaidgi se is forum per aati hai, tamam post read kerti hai lekin kehti hai keh: shaadi se qabal jinsi taleem zaroori nahi hai. kia aap os member se muttafiq hai?
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Hangama |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2008, 1:33pm |
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 reply: Sex Education?
Mashallah kiya zaberdast bat karti hai woh. Name to pata chalai zara enkaaa. Waisa kahi koi high mentality wali to nahi hain...LOL
Sex education mera khayal sai uswaqt taq important hai jab taq esko education ki tarhan hi liya jai laikin agar koi essai apna dehan kahi aur laija raha hai to phir aisi education rok daini chahiya.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2008, 2:59pm |
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 reply: Sex Education?
Sex-Education plays an important role in our life , it is necessary before as well as after marriage. |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2008, 3:34pm |
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reply: Sex Education? Sex Education buhut zarori hai shadi say pehle likin kisi kay zair-e-nigrani warna bhataknay ka andeesha hai......................... |
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2008, 4:53pm |
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reply: Sex Education? this site doesnt provide u with sex education it provides u with sexual knowledge..it can be only a source of sex education if u have basic knowledge already and u want to expend on it....
point out karne se pehle soch lia karen |
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4259 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2008, 7:52am |
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reply: Sex Education? Bili_miau: aap ki baat samajh nahi aaye. yaha per logo ko jo kuch taleem di jaati hai ose sex education nahi tu aur kia kahe ge. yaha ke doctor hazrat aur knowledgable members apne books, articles, sawal jawab aur comments ke zaria logo ko educate ker rahe hai. |
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2008, 10:57am |
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reply: Sex Education? apko aisa lagta hena? good? keep increasing ur knowledge and source of education.am happy for u |
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Hangama |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2008, 1:27pm |
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Shayad jo batain yaha pa hotin hain woh apko pahla sai hi pata hoti hain. wow u are a doctor of all problems thats y u think ka yaha pa koi education nahi mil rahi hai.
Jab sai mai yaha pa aya hon mujhai bohot sari batain pata chali, aur bohot sari batain aisi hain jo abhi apko bhi nahi pata hogi laikin i know yah post pharna ka bad ap kahogi ka mujhai samjhana ki koi zarorat nahi, han mujhai sab pata hai...LOL
Tell all of us y u are here? just for time passing and enjoing? |
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2008, 1:30pm |
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reply: Sex Education? mene aisa nai kaha.zara ghor se pardhen... |
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Hangama |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jan 2008, 1:43pm |
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reply: Sex Education? Ab mujhai bhi aisa hi laga aur bewaqoof jee ko bhi. ab yah mat kahna ka yah dono mai hi hon...LOL |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Oct 2011, 4:06pm |
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its ncsry shadi se phle sex edu is necessary. Yh bt mjhe ache se feel hchuki hai |
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2429 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 1:30am |
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flaylee shadi se pehlay sex education k sath stah merital relations, family sytem aur what is the female ki education bhi honi chahyay kiun k yehi cheezain baad main problem kerti hain
sex married life ak eham lekin aik chota sa hisa hai
jab k baqi sab kuch eham bhi hai aur bera hissa bhi |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 7:10am |
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 child abuse & sex edu.
mjhe aesa lagta he k bucho ko child abuse smjhani chahye thori si ta k wh agah hojain k hamare sath kuch galat hne wala he ya dihan rakhay . Rape ratio is getng higher day by day fast as light . Mjhe khud aesa lagta he k bucho ko sex edu. dyni chahye . Jesa k ap ke topic main apne btaya k salawar main dykhne k bd apni 13 sal ki beti se puche aur samjhain , apne bht ache bt kahe . Meri 10 sal ki cousin hai nd unke gar star plus dykha jata he nd everybody knws k unke drama kya lead karte hain, jb meri wh cousin 7 years ki thea tb maine uske behn ko smjhaya tha k usko na dykhne diya karo per usne zimadari nae nibhayi kbhe bhe qk usne seriously nae liya . Waledain ko bucho ko apne etimad main lena chahye , hamare han hndi mvies dykhna aam hai , itni gatiya mvies hti hain aj kal ki k jb se maine is forum se thori infrmation hasil ki hai ab mjhe samajh ata he . Afsos hai waldain jo k smajah rakhte hain tb bhe dykhne deskte hain? Unbelieveable ! . Hamari society main log ajeb hain english mvie koi dykh raha ho to foran se kharae hjate glat na dykh raha ho yh . Please buchain ap is haiwaniat se . Please parents ko btain k apne bucho ko dost bna len aur unko is bt se agahe daia please . Waledain btate nahe qk wh acha nae smjhte per yh sche k jo bt usko rape hne ke bd malum hoge k kya hua uske sath , bhtar nahe k wh pehle he buch jae? Please thnk about it |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 7:10am |
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 child abuse & sex edu.
mjhe aesa lagta he k bucho ko child abuse smjhani chahye thori si ta k wh agah hojain k hamare sath kuch galat hne wala he ya dihan rakhay . Rape ratio is getng higher day by day fast as light . Mjhe khud aesa lagta he k bucho ko sex edu. dyni chahye . Jesa k ap ke topic main apne btaya k salawar main dykhne k bd apni 13 sal ki beti se puche aur samjhain , apne bht ache bt kahe . Meri 10 sal ki cousin hai nd unke gar star plus dykha jata he nd everybody knws k unke drama kya lead karte hain, jb meri wh cousin 7 years ki thea tb maine uske behn ko smjhaya tha k usko na dykhne diya karo per usne zimadari nae nibhayi kbhe bhe qk usne seriously nae liya . Waledain ko bucho ko apne etimad main lena chahye , hamare han hndi mvies dykhna aam hai , itni gatiya mvies hti hain aj kal ki k jb se maine is forum se thori infrmation hasil ki hai ab mjhe samajh ata he . Afsos hai waldain jo k smajah rakhte hain tb bhe dykhne deskte hain? Unbelieveable ! . Hamari society main log ajeb hain english mvie koi dykh raha ho to foran se kharae hjate glat na dykh raha ho yh . Please buchain ap is haiwaniat se . Please parents ko btain k apne bucho ko dost bna len aur unko is bt se agahe daia please . Waledain btate nahe qk wh acha nae smjhte per yh sche k jo bt usko rape hne ke bd malum hoge k kya hua uske sath , bhtar nahe k wh pehle he buch jae? Please thnk about it |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 7:27am |
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 disturbd & amusd
mjhe jb pta chala k aftr marriage kya hta he main apne apko cntrl nae karpae . Bht roti thea main , mera dihan hat gaya tha apne upar se aur namaz main ansuo'n se mera chehra tann hjata tha per ab bht behtar hun main. Per acha hua k yh bt mjhe phle pta chal gai. Allah ka bht shukar he k usne mjhe har jaga buchaye rakha school ho ya col. Mjhe kbhe in bton ka pta nae chala per yh sahe hua k mjhe abhe malum hogaya jb mjhe pta hna chahye . Apne kaha k marriage se phle marital life, fmale edu. nd etc. pta hna chahye toa ap mjhe kya koi link bta skte hain is forum pe qk main yhe dua karti hu Allah tabarak wata'ala mjhe waha bura na hne dyna aur mjhe is qabil bnady k apne waledain ka muqam brqarar rakhsaku . Mere liye mere haq main dua kijyega aur mjhe guide kardijye please. |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 8:07am |
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 how could she say
yh khatun jo bhe hain shayd khd bht experiencd hain jbhe unka khayal he . I hate typicl wmen or watevr men |
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ωειικпοωи |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 48 Post: 3374 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 9:44am |
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flaylee19 Plz aap se guzarish hai ap har thread mai jawab na de kiyo ke ap ke post topic se related nahe hai or ap agar chat karna chahte hai to direct chatting threads mai ja kar chat kare.
Or agar jo baat bi hai to topic se related view ya sawal kare lekin topic ko divert na kare. or apna reply ek hi post mia karde kio ke ziadah mia parhne mia dashwari pesh hoti hai. |
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psychdoc |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1228 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 10:31am |
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Use And Misuse Of Knowledge:
Koi bhee cheez in itself achee yaa buri nahin hoti. Uss cheez ka istemaal kaisa kiya jaita hai, yeh assal important baat hai. For example, knife ko agar fruit/vegetables kaatnay ka liya use karain gay to yeh knife ka acchaa istemaal ho gaa, magar agar yehi knife kisi chor dakoo kay haath mein ho aur kisi insaan ko takleef dainay ka liya use ke jae to yeh knife ka ghalat istemaal ho gaa. Knife itself is not good or bad.
Issi tarah knowledge ko bhee acchaa tareeqa say use kiya jaa sakta hai aur kharab tarah say bhee. As an example, doctors ko behooshi ke medicines ( anesthesia meds)ke knowledge hote hai. Agar yeh knowledge operation theater mein patient ko behoosh karnay ka liya use ki jae takeh operation kiya jaa sake to yeh knowledge ka achhaa use hoa, magar agar yehi knowledge kisi insaan ko behoosh kar keh kidnap karnay kay liya use ke jae to yeh knowledge kay kharab istemaal hai.
Sex education ke misaal bhee bilkul aisi hai. Jahan tak mera personal aur professional opinion hai, sex education aik acchee cheez hai. Parents ko apna bachoon ko basic sex education daini chaya ( in an age appropriate manner), for example education about wet dreams, menstruation, masturbation, pubic hair development, breast development, etc etc, takeh bacchhon ko yeh information kisi ghalat source say nah milay. Issi tarah bacchon ko yeh batana keh sexual desires ka develop hona normal cheez hai, magar inn desires ko kaisay handle karna hai yeh bhee batana zaroori hai. Issi tarah childhood sexual abuse kay baaray mein basic information daina aur apnay bachhon ko iss baray mein educate karna takeh woh apna aap ko misuse nah hona dain, yeh knowledge ka acchhaa istemaal hoa. Magar agar yehi sexual knowledge ghalat tareeqa say use ke jae to yeh nuqsaan deh ho gee. For example condoms/contraceptive measures ke knowledge ko koi pre-marital sex ka liya use karay to yeh knowledge ka ghalat istemaal hoa. Knowledge in itself acchee yaa buri nahin hoti, uss knowledge ko use kaisa kiya jaata hai, yeh asal important baat hai.
flaylee19:
"mjhe aesa lagta he k bucho ko child abuse smjhani chahye thori si ta k wh agah hojain k hamare sath kuch galat hne wala he ya dihan rakhay ."
I 100 percent agree with you on that. Childhood sexual abuse hamari society mein bhee aik bohot common problem ban gaya hai, aur iss waqt jab mein yeh post likh raha hoon aur app yeh post parh rahe hain, issi waqt kahin na kahin koi na koi bacchhaa abuse ho raha ho gaa. Unfortunately hamari society mein iss ka baaray mein awareness nah hona ka barabar hai.
Yeh awareness create karna ka lya, aur childhood sexual abuse say bacchhon ko protect karnay ka liya parents ko kae karna chahya, iss ka baaray mein mein nae iss forum par aik article likha hai:
"Childhood Sexual Abuse Aur Uska Long Tem Effects"
( This article can be found in the Medical Forum categories, article tab, between "Career and Success" and "Chatting" categories).
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 12:16pm |
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sorry wellknwn m a new user here so it'll take sum tym to learn the rules nw i knw 2 rules . 1 .a new user cnt post a new thread nd 2nd . A mattr should be postd to a relatd mattr |
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flaylee19 |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Oct, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Oct 2011, 12:21pm |
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sorry wellknwn m a new user here so it'll take sum tym to learn the rules nw i knw 2 rules . 1 .a new user cnt post a new thread nd 2nd . A mattr should be postd to a relatd mattr. And psychdoc maine parha hai per bht sari btein aesi hain jin ki agahi karana lazmi bn gaya he per log nae jante so agar ap yh btein logo btain toa acha hoga like bid'at kya he nd sex edu. Ka bucho ko btane main parents ka role. Yahan parents ya becuming parents ya parents of future ko smjhain please . Thnk u 4 the respnse . Very infrmative forum per yahan log bht ajeb hain gunah se rkne k bjaye secure gunah karna sikharae hain |
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