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mishqaat |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jul, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 1:39am |
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 Marriage: I Am Scared About My Lost Virginity?
im bachelour...aik saal pehle ki baat hai mere boy friend ne kayyi baar penis enter kiya mere vagina mein but poora nahin bas enter hote he nikal leta... once usne ziada enter kiyya tha magar poora phir bhi nahin kiyya tha.. mujhe uss waqat koyyi pain nahin how tha but kafi blood nikal aaya... ab mien buhat parreeehsaaan hoon.. meri march mien shaadi hone wali hai.. mere husband ko patta chal jayega kya k i had relations beforee.. mujhe buhat dar lag raha hai ... pleaze reply me...
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Szagham |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Apr, 2008 Topic: 38 Post: 217 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 5:59am |
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 Is this was fair
Dear,,
Salam, kia yeh sab sahi tha jo aap ne kiya...aisa nahin karna chahiye tha .pehli baat tu yeh k islam mein Boy friend ka kia concept hai chalien aik hud tak main maan leta hun k aap ka dost tha magar aap ne usey limits q cross karney dein.aur ab aap dar rahi ho.
agar aap sochein tu kia yeh aap k honey waley husband se bohat ziada ziadati nahin hia????marey khayal mein tu bohat ziada hai..aik husband biwi ki friendship ko bardasht nahin karta aur aap tu...........cross kar chuki hein..
Anyway main tu sirf yehi kahun ga k ALLAH G SE sachey dil se muafi mango aur toba karo..jitna girgira kar ho sakey US SOHNEY KI ZAAT K SAMNEY iltija karo ....aur muafi mango apney gunahun ki aur usi se request karo k wo aap ki is condition mein madad karey.
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Maryam |
Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 6:36am |
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 mishqaat
i,m agree with bhai ji ALLAH ka khof karo hone wale shohar ka nahi lekin aik baat hamesha yaad rakhna k waqt round mai ghoomta hai aor apna aap dohrata hai to ALLAH ko razi karlo qabl is k waqt ka pahiya phir ghoome jo boy friends jeene marne ki qasmen khate hain wo larki ko izzat se ghar nahi lasakte q k wo unhen is qabil nahi samajhte. beharhall jo hogaya usse sirf aap ki nadamat hi dho sakti hai insanon ki taraf se aap preshan na hon. |
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shammi |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jul, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 6:38am |
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agree to maryam maryam didi ne theek kaha
aap astagphar karen |
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cialas |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Apr, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 7:50am |
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Medicaly Solution ....................................i m agree with all app sachay dill say toba kerain jo hona tha woo ho chuka hai her insan kabhi na kabhi ghalti kerta ya us ko aik ghalti samaj ker bholnay ki koshish kerain aur aik aur baat aaj ka viginal hymen surgery bi available hai app ye tareqa be apna sakhti hain wasey ye zarori nahi kay hymen intercourse say he repture hooo wo khailtay howay kisi chott ki waja saay aur koi kaam kertay howay be repture hoo sakhta hai and i think agar app nay us kay baad kabhi intercourse nahi kiya too shaid app ki non virgin honay ka pata na chelay God help U.......... |
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mishqaat |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jul, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jul 2008, 3:05pm |
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 i agree
thank u all..
jo jo aap sab ne kaha mien tah-e-dil se maanti hooonn...
and ye ap sab mano ge k kabhi kabhi insan ki zindagi mien aisa mor aaata hai k wo kuch sochne samajhne se qasir ho jata hai ...
bas Rab ne mujhe bacha liyya ..
aap sab duao mien yaad rakhna ..
shukriya..
and haan apni ghalti pe buhat nadim hooonn ... buhat girgirati hooon ..
thank 2 all u |
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rana1435 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Jul, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jul 2008, 12:21am |
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 hmmmm
salamzzzz main sirf itna kahoun ga k app Allah say mafi mangou woo bohat rahim hay woo maaf zaroor kar day or apny husband jiss say app ki shadi hony jarrahi hay uss say sincere rahna Baki uss malik par chord dyna orat ka payar marad ko badal dyta hay i hope k app khush rahoo ge kiun husband main or boyfriend main bohat farrak hota hay |
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KHILADI |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Jul, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Jul 2008, 8:09am |
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 future tip
Dear, God bless U ,
jo ho gaya allah say mafi mango laikin kabhi bhi apnay husband say zikar nahi karna because mohabat aur jang main sub kuch jaiz hota hay bas apnay partner say muhabat karna jang nahi karna .... shadi kay 10 sal bad mairy bat yad aigeeeeeeeee. thanks |
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nikama |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Jul 2008, 9:14am |
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mishqaaat.. agreed to all... now be a good girl..mafi mangu aur sub kuch bhool jaoo.dont mention to any onee. and just do ur shadi & u will be okay... ju ho giya so ho giya ..ab itna ghabratya nahee hain..bus mafi maag ker sachay dil say toba ker lo aur us kay baad enjoy kero..God Bless you |
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umais |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2008 Topic: 20 Post: 218 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Nov 2008, 9:00am |
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umais i m hafiz umais. ye sun kar buhtu afsoos hua. Ap ne jo bhi kia us ki saza to ap ko mile gi hi. lakin agar Allah se toba karo to shayed na bhi mile. lakin sache dil se toba karne wale aj kal hain hi nahi. mera mashwara ye hai k ap apne usi boy friend se shadi karen. kyo k jo bhi naya mard aayga ap ki life me. wo bechara ap ko aik virgi samajh kar aayga. lakin ap us se chupao gi. wo bechare ki zindagi kharab ho jay gi. behter hai ap apne boy freind se hi shadi karen. magar sub se pehle Allah ko razi karen. agar bager toba kiye mar gai tu jahannam me buhut bura hal hoga. jo k ap soch bhi nahi sakti hain. or is tarha k comments yahan per na poocha karen. or logo k bhi zehen kharab hote hain. |
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irfanraza |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Nov, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 2:54am |
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shameful kia bacha hai aap k pass, kia woo jazbaat hein aap k pass jo insan 1st night ko feel karta hai, kia woo jazbat hein joo 1st time touch karnay per feel karta hai. what the hell u will do equality with ur husband? us ghareeb k bhi naseeb phootay ga, jo already not only touched but already sab kuch kar chuki larki milay gee usay. sharam karoooo kuch, itna kuch karlia hai aur ab bhi aap kehti hooo k shukar hai k mein buch gayee, han i think buch tu gayee hooo per sirf apni zaat k lea, kisi k sath insaf nahe kar sakti tum. itna bhi insan kia behak jata hai k usay apni izzat ka khayal na rahay.
khoof khaooo aur tauba karooo , aur ghareeb k lea bhi dua k ALLAH swt usay bhi sabr dai, jeesay aisi larki milay gee. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 8:48am |
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irfan yehi batain ap aur tareeke se bhi kar sakte the..kya khayal hai?? |
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zoohaib |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 11:45pm |
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zoohaib its quiet normal in our society especially when you are adhering to sex getting fear in mind
there are alot of factors involved in the bleeding as such not only one insertion on the part of your boy friend
its religiously incorrect rather actionable legally as such
you need to have pshychological counselling first. just contact professor doctor arshad javed, address whereof is availabe on the site
second you have to prepare for marriage regardless of the fact that once you had sex with your boy friend, he ruptured your virginity. you have to forget now
if you keept in mind all the previous incidents of your life including that blunder upon which i m commenting you are not going to impress your husband on the first night otherwise.
i have gone through sex material from english book and personally experienced that girls who had earlier sex with anyone, when confronted with new boy friend or even husband on the bad while sex usually repeat old incidents while they lose control over themselves owing to emotional breakage.
usually girl while having sex with her husband after marriage repeat the name of her earlier boy friend unintentionally. its not joke
its reality you might not belive
there are many other factors involved in the rupture of hymen, grievance, sudden shock, electric shock,accident. sex with boy friend cannot be the alone factor for rupture of hymen. and its not only sign to determine a female's virginity otherwise. but most important is your husband education and mental state of affairs. if you have interaction with him. let him once go through this website comprehensively and the books written by professor doctor arshad javed easily available
i can comment further if you like
zoohaib
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2008, 3:45pm |
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 Mishqat
Sub kuch thek hoskta hai.. ager app allah se sache dil se muafee mang lain to... Ager app ke shadi ho rahi hai to is ka matlab hai ke allah pak app ke madad kar raha hai.... so this is one positive think.... Inshaallah age bhe behter hoga ager app sedhe raste per rahin.... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2008, 4:41am |
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agreed agreed to system |
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danialahad |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2007 Topic: 12 Post: 31 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2008, 8:45am |
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Kitna ajeeb hai yeh falsafa Muafi ka.. Kitan ajeeb hai yeh falsafa. Larke bechare ki tu kismat waqaee phot gaie. We should highly discourage these kind of shameful acts. Larki ho ya larka uss ko saza millni chaheiey. case hona chahey aise logon ko ruswa kerna chahiey ya phir isslamic way se iss ko deal kerna chahiey. I want to know pure islamic prespective on this ke Larka jo ke kissmat ka mara hai uss ko kiyoon yeh saza mill rahi hai. iss ka koi ajar uss ke liey hai. ya phir yeh uss ka imtehan ya kissi or gunah ki saza hai.
Masturbation.. Although ke jaiz nahi hai..lakin extreme condition mein isse bhi eik tabak-e fikar jaiz kehta hai.. or uss ke peechey bhi logic yeh hi hai ke extrem condition mein jab galti ke bohat ziada chances hon tu one should satisfy with masturbation.
Baki Allah tu muaaf kene wal ghafoor o raheem hai. Kittni azeem or bohat ziada tarreef ke kabil hai yeh sifat Allah azawajal ki.
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2008, 10:43am |
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danial danial bhai ager app ke pass 10 Roppe hon to kia app hera khared sakte hain kia... to depend karta hai jese app ke amal honge wesa hi inaam bhe mile ga... jese larki hogi wesa hi larka bhe hoga... Kia tum samjhte ho ke allah pak insaaf naheen karta.... to yeah allah ke job hai... kiss ko kia mile ga. kon kia qualify karta hai.... So dont woryy aur sirf apne amal ko thek rakho inshallah seb thek rahe ga.. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 2:43am |
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system welldone yar
bht acha reply kiya hai tum ne |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 11:17pm |
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zeb thank you bhai jan... mujhe aisa laga ke yeah explain ker he dena chahe... |
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gudu123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2008, 5:34pm |
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so sad kitne afsos ki bat hy ap ko ye nahi krna chaiye ta or apna nahi apne husb ka socho ap kitna galt kia apne ...........khair is me ap ki mother ka bohat bra qasor hy kio k un ki tarbiat me kami te ..sory if u mind but its true.any waz tc rgds haider |
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