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amigo1stus |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2007 Topic: 11 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2008, 12:36am |
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 Intercourse: Why The First Intercourse Is So Difficult?
Dr.Sb! plz meri help karain. mai bohat pareshaan. meri shaadi ko aik maheenai se uppar ho gaya hai lekin mai intercourse nahi ker saka. Mai job foreplay kerta hoon to mujhe erection hoti hai lekin jab peny ko insert kerta hoon to sahi se vagina mai nahi jata aur agar jaye to bahar aa jata hai aur iss doraan erection khattam ho jati hai. mujhe intercourse ke method se ghin aati hai. smell se bhi. maine kabhi life mai masturbate nahi kia. maine shaadi ke baad intercourse ki 5 to 6 attemps ki hain. abb wife mujhse mayoos hone lagi hai kionkai loag poochte hain ke pregnant nahi hoin abhi tak. mujhe raat 9 baje hi neend aa jati hai aur jab kaamon se faarigh hoake 11 ya 12 baje bed pe jata hoon to neend se bura haal hota hai ke sirf soane ko dil kerta hai. agar lamba foreplay kerta hoon to thori dair baad erection khattam ho jati hai kio ka mai thoare foreplay ke baad enjoy nahi ker raha hota. maine kabhi blue films ya pix nahi dekhin aur na koi interest raha kabhi in kaamon mai mera. i think mai sard mizaaaj insaan hoon jisko sex kerna ka koi shok hi nahi. please tell me ke mai kese intercourse kerun. please reply me.
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nikama |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2008, 11:15pm |
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 hm hmmm
amigo, name is good.u r giving too much imp to those works which they dont aquire and neglecting one of the most beautiful work( sex pleasure) for nothing...take time,work it out & only go deep in foreplay even if u stop enjoying that,still u continue...soon u will be feeling much int in sex activitie..in these days of era,under too much worries,it happens..always cheers.. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2008, 11:21pm |
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 intercourse
There is no person in this world who don't like sex. I think u need some time. And also sought out some points that Are u having some kind of mental tension? Do u have any family problem? Do u like someone else? Do u dislike any of ur wife's habit? Do u have soft corner and love for ur wife? Are u thinking too much about sex?
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amigo1stus |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2007 Topic: 11 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2008, 11:34pm |
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reply i am taking sex as something very difficult to do as few of my friends told me before marriage. plus my wife is an irritating personality jo ke har choti baat ko mind kerti hai meri family mai aur har waqt rola kerte rehna uski aadat. Choti si baat ho jae to kehti hai ke mai tumhare saath nahi rehna chahti. Mujhe in sab baaton se bohat koft hoti hai. i dont love any other girl. mai apne parents ke saath rehta hoon aur mere dil me aik darr rehta hai har waqt ke meri mother aur wife mai jhagra na hojae kionkai dono choti choti baaton ko mind kerti hain aur mood off ker leti hain. meri in tensions ki wajha se bhook khattam ho gayi hai. dil chahta hai ke office mai rahoon. last week meri wife 3 days ke liye apne ghar rehne gayi and i felt v happy and relaxed at that time. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 12:56am |
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marriage see, a woman expect love, care and respect from her husband after marriage and every girl is very anxious, frightened and confused about the new life, new home, new family and new responsibilities. Inlaws esp mother-in-law should realize the feelings of the new bride(as she had also gone through this experience) and give her space. There are many expectations from the new bride but the inlaws should give her time to adjust and compromise with the biggest change of her life. The initial 6months are very crucial in any married life b/c everybody on his/her place have different feelings, expectations and demands from the other person.
Sometimes it is seen that inlaws esp mother-in-law feels very insecure after the son's marriage and feels that now the son doesn't love her or doesn't take interest in the domestic matters. In the reaction, she behaves like a small child wanting to seek attention and care. This is quite un-intentional but can create problems in the married life of the new couple.
The only solution to this problem is that keep balance in every relationship and make ur wife feel that u care and love her. girls are very innocent and they always try to mould themselves in the new enviornment. Give her the suitable enviornment and understand her feelings.
Marriage is a very delicate and sensitive relation. try to keep ur wife's hopes alive and never misunderstand her.
ur sex problem will be solved only when u solve these issues. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 11:39pm |
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married life! bohat informative discussion ho rahi hai..
doctor khan is right, There is no person in this world who don't like sex.. absolutely right,,,, sex is a kind of love between husband and wife,, ab jis couple mai aik dosray k liye care or respect na ho to phir sex/love karnay ko kahan dil karay ga..
amigo : doctor khan ki tara mera bi yehi mashwara hai k abi sexual life ko close kar do or apni bv say friendship karnay ki koshish karo, or ye jan-nay ki koshish karo k akhir usay kia problem hai or wo kyon chiRchiRi ho rahi hai.. apka ehtaram kyon nai karti ,, ap ye samjho k wo koi patient hai , apnay uska ilaaj karna hai, ilaaj apni baton say karna hai , us say dosti kar k , abi usko kuch samjhanay ki koshish na karo warna wo samjhay gi k pata nai mai koi ghulam hon, abi ap usay samajhnay ki koshish karo or apni baat bi samjhanay ki koshish karna k mai ghar mai aisay halaat chahta hon lekin wo tab hi apki baat samjhay gi or apki baat ko importance day gi jab ap uskay dil mai jaga bananay mai kamyab ho sako gay or us say dosti kar sako gay.. dosti karnay k baad usay samjhana, islamic reference k sath,, sab say pehlay apni jaga uskay dil mai banao kisi tara.
waisay doctor mera bi yehi khayal tha k girls are very innocent lekin yahan is forum par aa kar pata chala k dunia waisi nahi hai jaisay mai kabi sochta tha. |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 1:26pm |
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 Re: amigo1stus
As'salam - O - Aluikum ,
Brother , App ka problem waisey tou koi problem nahi hai lekin app ne
khudh hi iss ko problem bana rakha hai ..... App ki problem yah hai kah
app k ghar ma App , App ki Wife , App ki Mother ... all of them are
under the influnce of Stress.
App ki Problem :
- App shayad wife ko itna like nahi kartey
- App ka load of work buhat zayadah hai
- App ka Sex ma interest load of work(feeling tired) ki wajah se khatam ho jatah hai
- App ne zehan ma yah baat bitha ley hai kah Sex buhat hi mushkil kaam hai balkah duniyah k mushkil tareen kamoo ma se eak hai
- App ne jo wife se expect kar rakha tha woh porein nahi utrein uss per
- App ko Sex se gheen aatey hai
- Others
App ki Wife ki Problem :
- App ki taraf se time or care kaam mil rahi hai
- No Sexual Satisfaction , infact no Sex-Life
- Wife ko lagta hai kah app ko un ma koi interest hi nahi hai
- Logon har waqt tanney detey hoonge kah app tak Pregnant kyun nahi howey
- Wife ko lagta hoga kah app impotent hain
- Wife ne jo khuwab dekhein hoonge shadi se pehley woh porey nahi howey
- Others
App ki Mother ki Problem :
- App ki mother ko lagta hai kah app ki wife app ka sahi khayal nahi rakh rahi hai
- App ki mother samjhtey hain kah shayad Larki ma koi kami hai jiss ki wajah se pregnant nahi howey abhi tak
- App ki mother ko app k load of work or app ki wife k behaviour se app per taras aatah hai
- App ki mother ko yah darr hai kah merey nasal aagey bhi bard sakey gee ka nahi
- App ki mother ko lagta hai kah app ki wife app ko app ki mother se alag karwana chahtey hai
- Jiss tarah ki Dulhan woh app k liyah expect kar rahi thee woh uss per pora nahi utre hai
- Others
Solution : Solution yahi hai kah app Sexual-Intercourse karney ki
koshish karein ... jaisa kah app raat jaldi sootey hain tou ofcourse
Subah jaldey uthey hoonge ..... Tou app ko chahiyah kah Intercourse
raat k bajaey Subah karein , uss waqt Erection bhi zayadah hoge or app
Refresh honnge with full of energy ..... Jaisey app ki wife pregnant
hoonge or Child-Birth hoo gee sarey problems khudh ba khudh solve ho
jaein gaey ...... Sab ki Intention bachey ki taraf divert ho jaey gee
or phir sab compromise kar laein gaey.
ALLAH se rooz dua zaroor mangey iss barey ma ..... Aur Intercourse
karney se pehley Wuzu karlein or Bismillah pardh lein , Thanks
InshaALLAH app ki problem ALLAH zaroor solve kardey ga (AMEEN)
Take care ,
ALLAH Hafiz
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