Problem in Getting Orgasam

hello

am new here jus wanted to ask i got married 2 months before but the problem is this that i enjoy foreplay with my husband but when it comes to intercourse my enjoyment ends. i easily get wet after kissing but am not getting realese properly i dont knw y but i cant not do that i dont feel it interesting. even my husband do intercourse for a very long duration but still i ma unable to get realse. i just want to ask if it is normal??? am very much worried abt it as my husband is also annoyed by it ...

one more question that i want to give ma husband more pleasure during sex but am shy of it and am afraid that he dont go anywhere i mean any wrong way to have sex because i think he is not satisfied with me even am annoyed that y i am unable to enjoy sex properly pleaseeee helpp am very much depressed

Its just psychological

miss shy

u r welcome here.in my opinio ur problem is purely psychological. if you enjoy foreplay n get wet tha how come u can't enjoy intercourse.there might be a physiological problem in vigina and it happens sometimes when vigina loses it senstivity.docter will tell u that it can be cured.u should express it to ur husband and try different style and position,for example ,doggy style coz in that postion ur vigina will be right in front of ur hubby he can stimulate it by fingering it.u might try some oil or lubricant.u havent mentioned whether foreplay includes fingering as well. u should talk abt to ur hubby anb ask him to join this forum.i hope there are ladies on the forum who will guide u properly.

as for ur desire to satisfy ur husband is concerned u should be bit more bold in the act.remember,men love hot women.u can give him massage and rub his penis and if u r comfrtable u can suck his penis as well,or u can use some condomes which are for sucking only.

there is another thing,during doggy style man should always spank his wife's hips with his hands, coz hips is the most sensitive part woman.it directly stimulate women's harmones.

regards

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Thanks

Thankz alot but i want to mention here dat  fingering is also done but it irritates me rather then making me hot and even when he do that i stop him there because i dont enjoy it at all its still painfull for me and one more thing still when he enters penis its painfull but when we do it second time in the same night its no more painful i have already told him he also thinks it not normal and i really feel pissed off as he tries alot to make me realse and it dosent work at all

shyy18

I have read in other forums that a westren women got her first orgasim after 40 years...  Is trah bhut sare auraten orgasim hasil nahee kar pati..  app ko kuch time dena chahe apni vagina ko samjhne ke lea...  you will discover and recognize more after some time spent....  aur first time pain ke hal yeah hai ke app ziada se ziada forplay karen... its normal ahista ahista app ki vagina penis ko adjust kar le ge aur first time bhi pain nahee hoga.. i agree with kali zuban .. atleast 6 month to lagen ge enjoy karne ke lea...  aik knware larki ko...  ab app ko aik Married women aur Married Man ne apna point of view bata dya hai ... you should take it easy... aur pain ke lea ziada forplay karen aur apne husband se kahen ke first time sex main slow slow penis insert karen aur jab vagina wet ho jai to tez stroke laga sakte hain...

thankz

shyy18

hi i think its very normal when newly maerried woman cant sex easyly even two or three month it is happend before marrige some woman give u some ideas abt sex and tell u it is very pain full and u afraid and cant ready for intercourse.  just do fairplay long as possible so u will be ready for inter course.dnt worry u r perfact.