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| coool |
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| Posted on:16th May 2007, 3:05pm |
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 Why Pain Happens During Menses?
hi users,,maine yeh poochna tha k mensis ki pain q hoti hai mneri 1 frd ko bhee hoti haiusne lady doc ko dkhaya to doc nay kaha k yeh pain aapki shadi k baad hi thee hogi what does her mean????or 2nd question yeh hai k kia weddng night pe during sex relation har laarki ka parda-e-bikarat phatna chahiye jab k maine doc sahab ki book main parrha hai k yeh kisi main kheil kood k doraan hi phat jata hai or hamari families main yeh yaqeen kia jata ha k jisko wedding nght pe bleeding hogi wohee larrki pakeeza hogi ,,,do they right?jab k mujhe 1 bar safar k doraan thorri bleeding hui jo kuch 1 din baad ruk gai ab mujhe dar lag raha hai k kahin wo membrane to nahi phatii thee plz explain and plz mazak mat banaye ga baat ka |
| Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:16th May 2007, 9:59pm |
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 re: cool
1. menses mai pain ki bahut sari wajoohat hoti hai. yeh wajoohat jismani aur nafsiati dono ho sakti hai. depression aur hysteria ke pain am tor se shadi hone ke bad khatam ho jate hai. lekin is ka yeh matlab nahi keh pain ka ilaj na kia jai aur kah dia jai keh yeh shadi ke bad theek ho jai ga. aur agar farz kare keh shadi nahi hoti hai tu kia larki sari zindagi pain sahti rahe. pain ka har soorat ilaj zaroori hai. agar koi lady doctor ilaj nahi kar parahi hai to doosri doctor se rabta kare.
2. 1st wedding night mai hymen rupture hona zaroori nahi. agar ap ki family wale ki maloomat mahdood hai tu phir ham kia kar sakte hai. sewai is ke keh ham kahe keh sabar kare. allah sabar karne walo ke sath hai.
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| khan_80 |
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| Posted on:17th May 2007, 6:31pm |
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re: the pain before and during menses is due to pelvic congestion and cyclic changes inside the body. it can be related to psychological factors also.
- u can take warm water bath daily for relief.
- apply warm towel or warm water bottle over lower abdomen.
- avoid pain killers.
- don't restrict ur daily routine.
- do ur normal daily life work, as usual days.
rupture of hymen is not mandatory at first wedding night. but in most of the girls it is intact before marriage and ruptures after first intercourse.
the condition u said is less likely for rupture of hymen. don't worry if u have not done anything wrong. |
| coool |
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| Posted on:18th May 2007, 3:02pm |
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plz tel me dekhiye pain ki kia wajoohaat ho saktee hain mujhe khul k batayen kia koi nuqsaan to nehe hai na is ka |
| Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:18th May 2007, 9:42pm |
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re: cool pain ki beshumar wajoohat hoti hai. bila wajah tamam wajoohat bata kar mareezo ko waham mai mubtala karna theek nahi. ap lady doctor se mil kar apna ilaj kari.
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| Doctor K K |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2009, 2:03pm |
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re: Why Pain Happens During Menses? Menses' pain is a common feature especially in young un-married females. It disturbs so much and affects daily activities. It is due to the uterus cramps and congestions. It occurs before and during menses. It mostly vanishes after the commencement of sexual activity, after marriage and pregnancy. It may persist even after that or start later in life. Pain may be mild to severe which varies from person to person in location and occurrence. Sometimes pain may be very excruciating in the lower abdomen, accompanied by anxiety, fear, fainting, vomiting, loose stools and the person may collapse with a mild degree of shock. More than 40 per cent of girls fear menses in relation to discomfort and pain.
Before answering your second question let see some facts about hymen:
- Some female virgins bleed while some don't even they are virgins
- Some girls have a natural hymen while some don't
- A girl's hymen can rupture due to spots, using tampons, sexual devices or even naturally
- Virginity is a social concept rather than medical
Well unfortunately in our society this concept is very strong that if the wife did not bleed on wedding night then it is due to previous sexual activity. However it has already been discussed that rupturing of hymen is not the sign of loss of virginity. Well with the passage of time the people are becoming more aware and broad-minded but still there are a lot of people who insist upon this myth. Well I can just pray to God that he may furnish the people with true mind and sense.
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| aliraza008 |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2009, 5:13pm |
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Doctor K K You are doing very very good JOB we are so lucky people like you are given us time and i am quite impress with your above reply its really really wonderful reply you join this forum on 02 April where was you before?????? your replies are fantastic specially me likes your reply very very much keep it up your good work we and this forum management can't pay you but let me tell you on thing INSHALLAH you have lot in ALLAH home's. My best wishes always with you & your family.Take care ALLAH HAFIZ
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| aliraza008 |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2009, 5:14pm |
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Doctor K K You are doing very very good JOB we are so lucky people like you are given us time and i am quite impress with your above reply its really really wonderful reply you join this forum on 02 April where was you before?????? your replies are fantastic specially me likes your reply very very much keep it up your good work we and this forum management can't pay you but let me tell you on thing INSHALLAH you have lot in ALLAH home's. My best wishes always with you & your family.Take care ALLAH HAFIZ
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| Doctor K K |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2009, 2:12pm |
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re: Why Pain Happens During Menses? Thanks sister for your regard, respect and valuable comments. |
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