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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 5:16am |
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Muttah: What Is The Definition Of It According To Shia Law?
in comparison to so called extrimist islam shia faith must be very attarctive if marketed professionally. no faith in the world offer MUTAH facility exept shiaism. shaia law say dont masturebate ,rather make mutah contract with any one for any period from 60 min to 60years.there are mutah match makers on the net any comment????
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 10:52am |
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I love this faith. Which faith, the beautiful faith of Islam of course what else ?
Let me tell you at the outset. I am not a shia or sunni or wahabi. I am a Muslim.
Every sect of Islam has its own strong arguments to prove their belief system. They will give you quotations from Quran ,Sunnah , Hadith , Fiqh. There is even a Hadees in Bukhari which says that there will be 72 sects in Islam and only one will be on the right path. Which one is it ? I do not know that is why I am a Muslim and use my own study of Quran , Hadees and Sunnah to guide me instead of any one sect. To me this is the only way to Jannat and be abdullah (Allah ka banda).
Personaly I am not convinced that on the basis of a couple of Hadees from Bukhari and interpretaion of a couple of verses from Quran that Mutah is allowed and Hazrat Umar abolished it. I will not practice it, why, because it is a grey area, if I make a mistake deliberately I cannot afford to end up in 'Jahannum'. Those few hadees can be weak and the interpretation of mutah related verses from Quran can be wrong and if it is all true then I am doomed and I am committing a grave sin of Zina. I can afford to live without a mutah.
Now as for Masterbation , Quran has specifically prohibitted zina , it has specified penalties for zina. But Quran does not talk about masterbation , if Allah wanted to prohibit it it would have been specifically prohibitted and Allah would have told us to do Mutah instead of materbation , but it is not so. Do you think materbation was not practiced in Arabia in those days ? Allah left it to you to decide if you want to masterbate or you want to rely on his system of noctarnal ejaculation in both the cases he is saving you from zina.
There are certain things which are Halal and certain things which are Haram but there are some grey areas Mutah is one of the grey area. If you have your arguments to justify your actions on the day of Qiamat and you can afford to make a mistake in this regard then follow it otherwise your best bet is to avoid it.
Did I confuse you ? If I did then I am sorry. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 11:20pm |
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Mr. seriously Totally agree with u. I also believe that we are muslims and such words like shia, suni, wahabi etc should not be used. Whatever school of thought we follow, ultimately it is Islam, and we are muslims. And for muttah, u are 100%right, keep it up. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 12:39pm |
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mutah! farzaan is right , manay ye parha to mai hairaan ho gaya k 60min say 60 sal tak shadi ,,, phir manay net say search kia to wakaee bohat si mutah match maker websites milin...or aik web par puri detail hai mutah ki, with references. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 1:40pm |
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cofussion Mera khayal sai yah post khatarnak hosakti hai cause mutah ka barai mai jo log yaqeen rakhtai hain woh zaror bolaingai aur khatarnak kisim ki larai hosakti hai yaha pa. its very risky topic here for this forum.
Asal bat yah hai ka hamari aqal kiya kahti hai mutah ka barai mai? |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 1:46pm |
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Question Agar koi shia member hai yaha pa yah phir woh member jisna kisi shia sai yah bat puchi ho kisi web site ki detail nahi batana bhai.
Aik confussion hai woh yah ka jo bat 60min wali ki gai hai woh kaisa mumkin hai, kiya 60 min ka liya nikkah hojata hai yah baghair nikkah ka, agar baghair nikkah ka hota hai 60min mai to mera khayal sai yah to zina howa aur eski bohot buri saza hai. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 2:08pm |
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Hangama daro nahi Forum per agar shia sunni fasad ho bhi jai tow koi khoon nahi bahay ga. This kind of discussion is healthy for correcting your faith I think it is better people take out their aggression here rather than doing khud kush hamla on a masjid , imam bargah , girjah or mandir in Pakistan.
That being said , yes Mutta is allowed in Shia Fiqh. I had lived in a Shia Mohallah till I moved to USA so I was not born in that Mohallh but I was raised there and know a lot about believes and practices of shia fiqh first hand. So many of my Shia friends get astonished with my level of information about their fiqh . As I said I lived in that mohallh so I practically lived , breathed , cried , played and growed up to a man from a little boy ,with them. No they are not enemy of Islam or Pakistan, no they are not enemy of Sunni or any other fiqh. They also belive in ' la ikrah fid deen' and la kum deenakum wa ley-a deen.
I practically growed up with the family of a shia alim. One of his sons who was a little younger than me but we used to hang out a lot is now a big shia alim in Pakistan and we used to chat a lot about their believes and their customs and rituals. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 2:15pm |
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Seriously Mujhai lagta hai apka pas practical knowledge hai to plzz ap mera upper kiya gai sawal ka answer dejiya.
mai dar nahi raha hon bhai, yaha pa har tarhan kalogon ka ana hai es forum per achai sai acha member bhi ajata hai ur ghatiya sai ghatiya member bhi u know that. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 2:27pm |
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Answer to your question. According to Sunni Alims your Nikah will not be valid if you have already decided to get divorced. There was a post here about Halalah I did not participate in that one . According to Sunni Alims even for Halalah if you will decide in advance that this women will get married to some third person consumate the marriage and then get divorce to get married to first husband who had given him three talaq .then this nikah which is performed for the sole purposes of halalah will not be valid so the halalah will not be valid. They say that for halalah to be valid this third person will have to divorce out of his free will . This woman and this person cannot agree in advance that there will be a temporary nikah and then talaq so that this women can go back to her previous husband.
According to Shia Fiqh yes there can be a temporary marriage contract or muttah , in which case you can decide the duration of nikha and the terms of nikah and terms of talaq in advance. There are more details but that will help no body. |
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Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 8:55pm |
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hmm Seriusoly ,nice one from u...Good work.
I also lived with shias ,they are good ppl all of them ,personaly I believe that there is' t any much diff among any muslim....for me all are same ,all sunny,wahabi,shias, & etc ..they have been triggered wrongly.
but one thing I noted about shia's Namaaz,thery are totally diff in pray..It did not seem to me accordingly stated in Islaam,all comments pls ? |
farzaan |
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 12:19am |
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mutah marriage yahan bahes ye nahi ke shia are good people or not, na ye ke unka namz ka kya style hai.
wo contract marriage karte hain 60min to 60ys
koi bhi male female bina kisi gawah ke kuch time ke liye shadi karke miyan bv ban sakte hain.ek saal ,ek raat ek ghanta ya kuch bhi
takeed hai ke musht zani na karo kisi se teporary marriage karlo.
mutah me bv ko kharcha dene ki zaroorat hai.bas jinsi zaroorat poori karni hai
unke kuch ulama shadi shuda mard aur shadi shuda aurat ko bhi mutah ki ijazat dete hain.
kisi larki ya khatoon se jakar request karna aap mere sath do din ke liye shadi karlo, koi bura nahi samjha jata.balke unki law ke mutabik hai
is par unki books aur sites refer ki jasakti hain
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 1:42am |
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Seriously achi baat hae aap khud ko sirf Muslim kehlana pasand karte hain , laikin mera sawal aap s ye hae ke kya shia muslim aor sunni mulsim eik jaise muslim hian ????aor jo hadees ka aap ne hawala diya hae us main 72 firqa ka ziker hae ya 73 ka , aor kya us hadees main ye bataya gya hae ke 72 jahanum main aor 1 jannat main.... aor jannat main jane wala firqa najia kehlai ga (nijat wala firqa) aor firqa najia woh firqa ho ga jo quran , hadees aor sahabah karam (R.a) ke raste pe ho ga .....sunni firqa ke 4 maslik hanfi, hanbli, shafi, malki , kya in sab ke aqaid wahi nahi hain jo sahabah karam ke hain???? aor kya Sheikh abdul Qadir jilani (R.A) jo ke hanbli maslik ke thay aap ne apni book main detail se nahi likha hae ke ahl-e-sunnat he firqa najia hae???? i am proud to be sunni muslim and i am thankful to my Allah that i am sunni muslim.....shia kahe ke asli quran mehdi ke paas hae aor jab tak woh nahi aata hum majboor hain yeb ghalt quran read karne pe, ....shia kahe ke Hazrat Abu Huraira paise le ke hadees banaya karta tha ......... shia kahe ke 6 ke ilawa sare sahabah kafir ho gay tha..... shia kahe ke Nabi Pak(p b u h) ki azwaj ghalt ..... Shia ka koi eik to aqeeda aisa ho jo ke us ko muslim sabit kare...... aap baqi sab ko chorrain aap khumeni ki books read kar lain phir faisla aap pe ........ |
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 7:35am |
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mutah dear dont expand the topic. here we are not here to discuss all
i just tell u that shiasm laws for sex are too user friendly.
they allow temporary marriage,allow anal sex ................and so many other
i dont think any shia/boy girl need to do masturebation due to mutah outlet |
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 8:47am |
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shia log kia kuch kartay hain!
shia kahe ke Hazrat Abu Huraira paise le ke hadees banaya karta tha .........
shia kahe ke 6 ke ilawa sare sahabah kafir ho gay tha..... shia kahe ke Nabi Pak(p b u h) ki azwaj ghalt
shia ki namaz aur tara say, agay pathar rakh kar us par sajda kartay hain. shia ka kalima aur tara ka.
ch babar shia k baray mai ye sari batain jaan kar to yehi lagta hai k shia muslim nahi hain, unho nay asal religion mai changings kar k apnay matlab ka aik naya religion bana rakha hai........ kalma bi aur hai namaz ka tareeka bi aur hai , shadi bi aur tarah (contract/temporary marriage) karaty hain... or suna hai jo mehfil-e-shabina hoti hai us mai koi pata nai hota kon mard kis orat say sex kar raha hai or phir jo bacha paida hota hai wo shia logon ka koi leader banta hai, kuch aisi bat suni hui hai... kia ye batain sahi hain ?? ch babar & seriously ap dono mai say kisi ko pata ho to plz bata dain.
aik aur bat suni hai k jab koi shia mar jata hai to wo uskay andar danda maar kar andar say sara gand nikaltay hain uski antrian waghaira, ta k wo paak ho jaey, detail ka muje sahi pata nai ,, kia ye baat bi sach hai ???
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 10:17am |
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I am not defending Shia or Sunni , I am defending Islam We the Muslims are the only followers of a religion who
want to decrease the number of followers of religion by
labeling them kafir, mushrik , munafiq, shaia, shafai ,
hanbali, ahal a hadees, sabz pagree and what not.We are
the only religion who would want to kill those who have
declared allegiance to our beautiful religion by saying
LA ILLAH HA ILLAL LAH MOHAMMAD UR RASOOL ALLAH. Other religions will spend time , effort , money and all
kind of tactics to bring more people to their religion
let alone try to kick them out. But we spend our time ,
effort , money , energy to kick out Kalma go Muslims. We have even ahadees to prove that it is fine to label
people of our faith (Muslim). Although the sunnah proves
otherwise. You will see that anybody who would say LA ILA
HA ILLAL LAH MOHAMMAD UR RASOOL ALLAH that person will
come under the protection of Islam and Muslim no matter
what his actions were. The biggest example is that of abdullah bin Ubbay who was
sardar of munafiq's. Our beloved rasool never declared
any war against him or labeled him kafir . An order was
never issued by our beloved prophet(SAW) to kill this
chief of munafiqs and his followers. Why ? Have you ever
though about it ? Because Quran and Sunnah dictates that
once someone says LA ILAH HA ILLAL LAH MOHAMMAD UR RASOOL
ALLAH that person comes under protection of Islam
irrespective of his actions. Yes if he commits any crime
as prescribed in Quran that is the only way he/she can be
punished but even in that case we cannot declare that
person a kafir, mushriq or munafiq. he/she is still a
Muslim.
You cannot declare anybody kafir, munafiq, mushrik and
justify his killing based on if he practices mutta,
cleans the internals of their dead before burrying them,
says that the real Quran is with imam mehdi, uses slander
against sahaba's. Because Quran and Sunnat did not give anybody this
license, this license is only with Allah. He will judge
them in whatever manner he wishes. That is the day we
should all prepare for by protecting our Muslim brothers
and sisters as hadees says : hum main say woh musalman
nahi jis kay hath aur munh say dosray musalman mahfooz
nahi.
If you want to know more about shia fiqh , you can find
so much information and misinformation online.
I have done my research and I belive IN 'LAKUM DEENA KUM
WA LEE YA DEEN'.
I belive in all the basic arakan of deen.
1. Kalama. (LA ILAHA ILLALAH MOHAMMAD UR RASOOL ALLAH)
2. Namaz(5 Times)
3. Roza (29 or 30 days)
4. Haj ( as prescribed in Quran)
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 10:20am |
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continued 5. Zakat ( as prescribed in Quran)
I try my level best to practice these arakan ud deen. Quran and Sunnah prescribe that anybody who says la ila ha illal lah mohammad ur rasool allah is a Muslim. Everything else comes after that. Allah and his Rasool( SAW)did not give anybody any power to declare anybody non Muslim who says la ila ha illal lah mohammad ur rasool allah . |
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 10:31am |
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Farzaan what was the purpose of this topic ? Mr. Farzaan what was the purpose of your post ? bcoz u said "i just tell u that shiasm laws for sex are too user friendly. they allow temporary marriage,allow anal sex .....and so many other"
what do you want to say ? plz explain more , what should we do if shia's are allowed for temporary marriage ?
did you start this topic for information purpose or you are trying to convert sunni people to shia fiqah ?
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 10:31am |
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Ch Baber aur Josh
Aap ko yah tu patta ho ga kay Imaan kia hota hay?? aur qata-e-nazer iss kay kay ham sari zindgi kia kertay rahay hain, shia thay ya sunni, ya wahabi yah even kay mushrik aur kafir. Allaha kay fermaan kay mutabik bkhshish sirf ussi ki ho gi jo IMAAAN per meray ga. Tu aap iss baat ko samaj lain kay ager aap kay hayal main sirf sunni hi bakhshay jain gay sirf iss liay kay un kay hayal main wohi rah-e-raast per hain ya sirf shia hi ki maagfrat ho gi kay wo apnay aap ko theek samajtay hain, tu aisa nahi hay.
Mernay kay waqat per iss baat ki koi gaurentee nahi hay kay kis ka dil imaan say munawar ho ga aur kis ka nahi. Iss liay yah ilzaam-trashi na kia kerain, patta nahi allah ko hamari konsi baat buri lag jay aur wo mernaysay pahlay ham say hamara Imaan cheen lay, aur hamari sari umer ki ibaadat per pani phir jay.
Iss liay main iss baat ko koi ahmiyat nahi daiti kayounkay mujay patta hay kay aik bohat bura insaan jo mushrik bhi hay, ho sakta hay mernay say pahlay imaan uss kay dil main uter aay aur wo muj say bohat aagay allah ki nazer main ooncha ho jay. Allah ka fermana hay kay ''taferqay main na pero aur ......'''
tu aisi batain hi taferqa bazi paida kerti hain. Iss say perhaiz kerain tu bahter hay, kayounkay koi nahi janta kay konsa bera boal hamain allah ki nazer main zaleel ker kay doarzkhi bana dalay.
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 10:44am |
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thanks! pinky thanks for the suggestion and guidance... |
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Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 11:29pm |
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Pinky & Seriously jo kufria aqeeda rakhta ho ga us ko kafir he kaha jai ga . ..kalma to qadiyani bhi parrhtay hain... phir kyun koi bhi muslim un se baat karna bhi pasand nahi karta ..... jis tarah mirza qadiyani ke hawale ae qadiyani khatm-e-Nubuwwat ke munike hain isitarah imamat ka aqeeda rakhne shia bhi khatm-e-Nubuwwat ke muniker hain..... mera to ye emaan hae ke jo quran ke eik haraf ka bhi inkar karta hae woh kafir hae aor shia to poore quran ko ghalt kehta hae...Dear Seriuosly muje ko eik aqeeda , koi eik amal aisa bata dein jo suuni aor shia main mutabiqat rakhta ho.....koi eik bhi .....
Dear josh.....aik aur bat suni hai k jab koi shia mar jata hai to wo uskay andar danda maar kar andar say sara gand nikaltay hain uski antrian waghaira, ta k wo paak ho jaey, detail ka muje sahi pata nai ,, kia ye baat bi sach hai ??? ye 100% true hae......danda marne wali baat kai eik sunni muslims jin kerishta dar shia hain ne apni aankhoon se dekha hae .......agar aap shia se poochain to woh is se inkar kar sakta hae kyun shia dunya ka wahid mazhab hae jis main jhoot bolna ibadat hae, jis main zina ibadat hae, aor jis mazhab main jis nabi (peace be upon him) ka woh kalma parrhtay hain us nabi paki ki azwaaj aor ashaab ko gali dena ibadat hae ....ye aise muslims hain jin ki sari larrai nabi pak ke ghar waloon aor ashaab se hae ....
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