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Shabana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jul 2007, 11:45pm |
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 Mujhe Husband Se Kabhi Koi Khushi Nahi Milli
doctor sahab main ye forum may new user hoon mera ek personal question hai ke mere husband se mujhe kuch bhi satisfaction nahi mila naahi sexual aur naahi doosri khahishen ab main bahut pareshan hoon meri shaadi 4 saal pehle ek ghareeb shareef aur handsome ladke se tho hogayi lekin shaadi ke baad se problems shroo hogaye shaadi ke ek week 2 week tho mujhe sex karne se takleef hi hoti thi lekin aahista aahista do teen months main meri sexual desire badhgayee lekin woh mujhe sahi se karnahi paate jaldi leak kardete aur palat ke sojate phir main raat tamaam tadapti rahti hoon aur main unko kuch bol bhi nahi pati ke agar woh mere baaren kahin galat na samajh baiteh woh mujhe zyada pasand nahi karte aur meri doosri zarooraten bhi poori nahi karte koi choti si cheez mere liye nahi laate unki financial position bhi theek nahi hai woh ek private job karte hai income zyadah nahi hai aur ab hamarey problems mazeed barte jarrahe hain main kiya karoon bahut pareshan hoon main theek se kah bhi nahi parahi hoon iss forum may.
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jul 2007, 9:18pm |
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 Zara sochiyay
Mujhay lag raha hain ki, aap apnay husband say khush nehi hain. Nahi to uh aapko sex main happy kar rahay hain, or nahi aap unki financial condition say razi hain.
Rahi baat sex ki, to aap unsay baat karen hikmat kay sath. Ager apkay unko love kartay hain, to apko unki dil tak pohuchnay mai zayda muskhil honi nahi chahiyay. Aap khud kiya paray-likkhay hai to aap unkay sath baat karkay koi nokri dhur lay sakti hain. Oh bechara jo kar saktay hain, o to oh kar rahain hain. Aap ko ager lagay ki oh chhoti nokri kar rahain hay, to eh to apko shadi say pahlai pata tha. Mujhay lag raha hain, ki sex may satisfied nehi hain, is liyay apko sab kuchh bura lag raha hain.
Apnay husband-ko ager apko is saab cheez ki ilawa thik lagtay hain, to unki dost bannay ki koshish karen. Phir unko aapkay sex puray na honay kay baray main batai. Foreplay karen pehle fir sex karain.
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Shabana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 2:43am |
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Aapki baat sahi hai par
Salam ji aapki baat aur advice bilkul sahi hai lekin phir bhi main doosron ke wifes ko dekhti hoon tho main depress hojati hoon mere husband se mujhe sex main kabhi kabhi pura satisfaction mil saka lekin mujhe unki muflisi se unpar bahut Gussa aata aur nafrat hoti agar main unse kuch kahne ki koshish bhi karti hoon tho woh mujh se naraaz hojate aur hum se chote aur humse niche ke logon ki example dete hain aur dono main bahes hojati.
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Arshi |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 4:48am |
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Dear Shabana Dear, ye bilkul theek hai k shadi k baad man n woman ki bohat sari kowhish hoti hain jo wo aik dosray se letay hain. aap ka masla bhe kuch isi type ka hai, i m very much understand this type of situation, bcuz m suffring same from my wife. meray kehnay ka matlab hai k aap apne husband se satisfied n ahe hain or ma apni wife se. ......edit..... Moderator Note: Why you are making fool. every body knows that you are unmarried
User Name Arshi
Age 26 years
Gender Male
Marital Status: UnMarried
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Occupation Banker
City & Country Karachi If you will post irrelevant and abusive reply then you will be blocked
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Shabana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 6:01am |
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Arshi
Arshi Aapne kaha ke mere husband ka mood mere paas aane ka hotho unko paas aane mat do agar maine aisa kiya tho woh aur bhi shayed mujh se door hojayenge maine pahle kuch aisa bhi kiya tha ke main unko sexy attractive lagoo main aisa karne se unko mujhpar shak hone lagta hai aur woh kuch criticise jaise batein karte hain.
Meri tho kuch samajh nahi aare mere mother father se bhi zyada milne nahi detey. |
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 6:21am |
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Shabana Jaisa k aap nain bataya ka aap ki jis say shadi hoie hai wo bary gareeb hain aur wo sex k alawa aap ki doosri zaroriat b poori nahin ker saky
actually wo ghar k expense pury na kerny ki waja say aap ki koi zarorat puri na kerny ki waja say shermindgi fell kerty hain aur pereshan rehty hain aur is ka effect unki sexaual life pay bi hoa hai ager banda mentally taur pay disturb ho to wo sex enjoy nahin ker sakta us ka mind kahi aur hota hai
jahan tak aap ki bat hai aap bi us say khush nahin hain sex ki bat to bad main aati hain
aap k mind main yeh hai k gar waloon nain aap ki kahan Gareebon main shadi ker di hai is leye aap sex main dilchaspi naih leti
isi waja say aap discharge nahin hoti |
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 6:25am |
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Shabana aap discharge nahin hotin aur Chirhra pan aur bar jata hai aur mian say nafrat ho jati hai sirf aur sirf aap apni regular life say khush nahin hain
aap sex main pura involve hoon forplay karain aur us main hisa lain
apny mian say bat karain, un k masayl share karain unhain tasali dain k inshallah sab theck ho jaye ga
un main khodaitmadi Paida karain
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2047 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 8:54am |
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re: aliaslam tum tu logo ko is tarah mashwarah dete ho jaise ke tumhai mubasrat ka behtareen tajarba hai. jabkeh tum tu khood ghair sahdi shuda ho.
User Name aliaslam
Age 26 years
Gender Male
Marital Status UnMarried
Qualification M.B.A
Occupation Bank Officer
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2047 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 9:46am |
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re: shabana
1. ap ke husband ghareeb hai is lia ap log mali mushkilat ka shikar hai. jab insan mali mushkilat ka shikar hota hai tu ose dunia bahut buri lagti hai. ap ke sath bhi kuch aisa hi mamla hai ap ki asal pareshani ap ki ghurbat hai.
2. ghareeb log bhi khoosh rah sakte hai. agar woh is bat ko tasleem kar le keh woh ghareeb hai aur apni bahut si khahishain poori nahi kar sakte tu onhai sabar ajata hai aur baqia zindagi pursakoon guzarti hai.
3. jab aurat apne shohar se khoosh nahi rahti tu woh apne shohar ko achchi tarah entertain nahi kar sakti. ap ke sath bhi yahi mamla hai keh ap apne shohar se khoosh nahi hai (wajah koi bhi ho). lehaza ap apne shohar ko dil khol kar entertain nahi kar pa rahi hai.
4. agar ap ka shohar Premature Ejaculation ka shikar hai tu ap os se baqaida bat kare. kio keh Premature ejaculation ka ilaj mumkin hai. is ke lia medicine ki zaroorat nahi balke kuch tareeqe hai jis par mia bivi dono ko amal karna hai.
5. ap shohar ki amdani ke lehaz se expectation rakhe. agar ap ki expectation shohar ki amdani se ziadah hogi tu wo poora nahi kar sake ga aur pareshan bhi rahe ga. ap bhi khoosh nahi rahe gi.
6. mera tu yahi khial hai keh ap ne aj tak is bat ko tasleem nahi kia keh mali mushkilat ki wajah se ap ke shohar ap ki bahut sari khahishat ko poora nahi kar sakte.
7. ap ko mashwarah hai keh read: Sex Is Not A Big Problem: Read My Experiences With My Husband
8. ap ke husband ko mashwarah hai keh read:
How To Prolong Time Duration?
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2007, 9:02pm |
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Advice Dear Sister Shabana,
Aap doosrain kay zindagi ko dekhna chhor dain. Yeh to achchha hain ki aapko kabhi kabhi sex main satisfaction mil raha hain. Oh kaysay mahol main hotay hain, unpay thora gour karen, to aapko pata chalega ki oh yasay kya hua tha us sex say pehle or sex kay darmian, joki aapka mushkil ka haal bata sakta hain.
Rahi baat nafrat or gussa kain, aap aurat hain, aapko yeh to pata-ee hain ki yeh emotion appay pehle aayayga, to usko check karen. Aap bahes ekdam mat karen, ussay kuchh nehi honaywala hain. Aap unsay hamdardi jatayay or dhiray dhiray unkay dil or dimag pay change laye. Or apni mushkilat kay liyay Allah say mangay, dekhiyayga aapki mushkil asaan ho jayega. Quran-pak main Allah nay farmaya ki insaan ko sabr or namaz kay sath har mushkil-ko hal karna chahiyay. Aapbhi aysahee kijiyay. |
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aliaslam |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 76 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 6:08am |
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To my Reply hi my reply sahib
muj say pooch lety main aap ko bata daita k main Unmarried hoon aap nain to aisy Tafseel likhi hai jaisy kisi ko pata hi nahi aur main nain koi Gunah kia hai unmarried ho k
keya koi unmarried reply or mashwra nahi de sakta, main nain to sirf mashvra hi deya hai kisi ko koi Gali to nahi di app ko jaisy agg hi lag gai hai
aap batain keya mera mashvra galt hai
kisi ki problem solve honi chaye wo chay koi Dr. or married or unmarried kary
aur is form ka purpose bi yehi hai
to phir aap ko bura kayun laga
i am so suprised so upset |
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Shabana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 10:29am |
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Meri Wajah se aap laog kyun ladte ho
dear brothers thanks very much for right advice and very good ideas but meri wajah se aap laogon main ladaai kyun karte ho. please aman aur peaceful environment qaaem rakhe. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 10:47am |
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re: Shabana
- Develop little bit confidence in ur personality and talk bodly with ur husband about ur sexual problems, no one can help u if u will not help urself out.
- Become a true friend of ur husband, this relationship is not only a sexual relationship, it seems from ur post that u have very high expectations from ur husband but didn't try to know his problems and worries.
- ask him why he don't take interest in ur personality and try to improve/ eliminate the things he dislikes.
- try to do the things he like and avoid the things he dislikes.
- don't go away from him just b/c of his poverty, his heart will break if he know that u don't like his job/financial status.
- no one likes to see his family in problems and he must be trying his hard to overcome the hardships of life.
- for the problem of Early Discharge, talk to him that u don't get satisfied due to this problem and help him in getting rid of this problem, don't hate him on this issue, it can be solved only by ur help and little care.
- respect ur husband and don't ever think negative about him.
- u can do some house hold/ indoor job to support him in running the family chores.
- despite of giving him all the blame, figure out that Are u sincere and helpful for him in every field of life or not?
- Think positive and don't get depressed.
- support ur husband morally, financially and sexually, this is ur duty.
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GoodChild |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 29 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 1:10pm |
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Miss shahbana May man tha hoon kaa apki conditions waqii strange haan................oor ayse conditions may saber karna himet waloon ka kam hay........iik hawalaa saa apko saber kii talqeen thoo kar rahaa hoo lakin app thu pahlaa saa saber fermaa rahii han...........abb mosebat thu apna saber ka paall ko samejna ka hay..............
Problem yah hay ka thure tratment ke zarorat hay.............or thure hikmet ke apka hasband apka baraa may kuch boraa yah ghalat fahmii ka shakar bhi na hoo oor app satisfy bhii hojin
yah processes hay thu kafe long lakin effective ha apko mustly in touch rahan hogaa
apka problem may hum apka dhost han.................hum pa aatabr kiya ja seqtha hay.................app hum dhosthoon saa pahlaa maslaah discuss karin gee than app koi step ootin gee
Yad rakin himet ka aalawaa koi oor kam apka liya mosebat karee kar seqtha hay
Mardhon may mosebat ke baat yah hay ka woh jab release kar jatha han thu onka wooh josh nahi rah thaa..........yahan hikmet yah hay ka apki mohabet he kam aaseqthi hay....dako yah sochna chor dhoo ka kiya horahaa hay kon aaraha hay kon jarahaa hay sirf protocol oor ezaat dayan logon ko jitna apsaa hosaaa
kise ka nazdek tab app jaoo jab app onka dil ka pass hoon.....pahla dil majagah banaoo
ager apka husban apko satisfy na ker saqa thu app aona zimadaryoon ma itne dayanet bher dain ka apka husban iik pall ka liya zara sharum mahsoos karaa woh apna saat sochaa ka may kiya kar rahaa hoon oor mayre bewee kiya kar rahii hay mayra liyaa
Dako Mohabet ke mar kafe gahree choot daythii hay aager samjoo thu..............woh tik saa baat na karr thu kiya howaa bewee ka iik pall moskoranaa hee Mardhoon ka liya kayamet saa kam nahi..........app yoon yoon dil ka pass aathi jain may taqreban dawaa ka saat kah seqtha hoon per kuch nahi hogaa
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badshah820 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 7:22pm |
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......edit......abusive post...........
Modertor Note: Mr. badshah820, if u will continue to send abusive posts, u will be blocked. |
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 9:34pm |
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 re: badshah820
Dear Badshah,
I wonder how being a human being, you can degrade you so much in public domain, especially when it is also considering Islam as a way to solve so many of our social problems. I wonder how you would feel if someone else writes this type of notes for your mother and sisters.
I pray that Allah shows you the right path, you seem to be in great need of that. I was so sad to see a Muslim man openly humiliating another sister. So sad!!
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goramunda |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 1:15am |
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Sharm Nahi Atii Badshah820 tumhe sharm ani chahiye ,, tum kitni ghatiya soch k malik ho tum nay iss forum main aker sab ko bata dia hai , u have joined this forum newly tumhe apni izzat banani chahiye thi but tum too aik number k ........ u should be sorry .....
I will request to MODERATOR that to BLOCK these kind of memberz .
Thanx
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cherry |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Apr, 2007 Topic: 9 Post: 124 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 6:37am |
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very nice answer dr.khan ka reply attention se read karo.....aap ke problem ka solution es se zada acha kisi ne nahi bataya hai. |
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