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safeena |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 240 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2007, 11:00pm |
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 Masturbation: Why Girls Are Discouraged Boys Not?
Assalam o Alikum mayri ek friend hay wo preshaan hay aaj kal us ne mujhay bataya hay k us ne menses se pehlay taqreeban 12 yrs kee age se massege k zariye masturbation shorw ker dee thee aur ab us kee age 20 yrs hay waysay tu wo theek hay lekin ab kehti hay k us kee shadi k baad tu koi problem nahi hogi kion us ne aap kee web site per dekha hay k khan _80 ne buhat bura kaha hay girls k ye kernay ko aur haan ek ye baat k aap loogon kee puri site main main ne ye baat note kee hay k boys ko masturbation k liye saaf saaf likh diya hay k ye kernay se kuch nahi hota sahi hay sab hoga sahi kuch nahi hota hoga lekin jis tarah ek girls k liye khan_80 ne likha hay k ye buhat buri habbit hay sexy books and movies na dekhain namaz Quran main dil lagain tu kam az kam aap loog boye ko bhi tu ye mashawara de sak tay hain na ya ye concept de rahay hain k wo khub karain ager un ko bhi ye kaha jaye k wo bhi zehan hatain is taraf se aur kabhi buhatt ziyada zarorat ho tu kar lein kion k kafi din tak nahi karain gay tu EHTLAAM k zariye bhi mani ka IKHRAAJ ho jata hay kion k main married hoon 8 saal se is liye mujhay ye sab pata hay main canada main 5 saal hoon aur quran parhaati hoon tu 2 , 3 teenage girls ne mujhay apnay is prblem ko share kia aur un honay hee ye site bhi batai mujhay aur kaha k boys ko kion nahi likha ye jawab jo is girl ko kaha hay k aur kisi ne tu shame on u tak likha hay tu jis ne ye likha hay wo khud kia jo kisi ko ye likh k hurt ker raha hay khan_80 ka jawab buhat accha thaa aur hona bhi ye hee chaheyye lekin ye mashwara boys ko bhi diya jaye tu girls kee shikayat khatm ho ok take care AllahHafiz
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2007, 4:30pm |
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 Re: safeena
Sister, first of all agar kisi nai aap ki frd kai question per insult ki tu I strictly condemn it aur kisi ki pareshani ya problem ka mazak nahin urana chahiye balkay us ki help karni chahiye so that he/she can get rid of that bad habit.
Secondly your point is valid kai masturbation is equally bad habit for both boys and girls. But we all know the difference in body structure of boys and girls and difference in their sexual stimulation.
Girls ka vagina constant masturbation sai extend ho sakta hai, but agar yeh habit completely chor di jaye to muscles may be regained. and in our culture, hymen used to be very important and this habit can make many complex problems if this thing gets attention (laikin Allah sai achay ki umeed rakh kar tuba kar li jaye aur is habit ko chor dia jaye). Jabkay larkon kai penis ko kuch nahin hota aur woh usi tarah rehtay hain , haan excessive masturbation can cause some problems.
larkian der sai stimulate hotee hain jabkay larkay jaldi stimulate ho jatay hain, agar larkon ko is baat sai mana kar dia jaye kai kabhi bhi na karain tu its possible kai woh illegal sex ki taraf cahlay jayen, baharhal yeh cheez donon kai liye bad habit hai. thanks
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safeena |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 240 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2007, 10:41pm |
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girls masturbation thanx faisee aap ka reply accha laga mujhay aap ko pata hay yahan canada main main rehtay hoye is cheez ka hum muslims ko buhat khayaal rakhna parta hay k hum apnay teenagers ko ISLAM k mutalliq
+ziyada se ziyda men , women main equlity ka batain (lekin jo Allah ne rakha hay men k liye ziyada darja jis wajha se wo bhi bata k aur dosray lehaaz se batana parta hay k koi diffrence nahi hay) kion k yahan ka aap sab loogon ko andaza hoga k kia Maashra hay is liye baccho ko aur noujawanoo ko mazhab k lehaaz se buhat light treeqay se explain kerna hota is tarah kee baatin parh k ye loog dis oppint honay lagtay hain thanx aap ka aur information ka lekin shukar hay k mayray nazar main jo girls aain wo internal masturbation nahi kerti thain sirf external apnay tur pe samjhaya hay aur aap ka reply bhi dekhana hay baqi Allah hifazat karay sab kee sab ko sahi ghalat ka farq bataye aur humaree ainda nasloon ko SIRAT E MUSTAQEEM pe chalye Aameen |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2007, 11:21pm |
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Re: Safeena Sister, thanks for comments. i can understand ur situation regarding brought up of children in canada. theek hai islam main mardon ko aurton per kuch fazeelat di gayee hai laikin agar ham us ko pooray context kai saath parhain tu poori baat samajh main atee hai. islam main aurat ko jo aik munfarid ( unique) muqam aur respect hasil hai duniya ka koi mazhab aur muaashira nahin dai saka.
Aap bilkul theek kartee hain aur apnay bachon ko islam ki basic instructions ka batain, later jab woh islam ko achi tarah samajh jayen aur islam ki ehmiat aur respect un kai dil main bas jaye, phir aap un ko yeh cheez bhi samjha saktee hain kai islam nai kuch baton main mardon ko fazeelat kion dee hai aur us ka kia faida hai.
Buri habits chahay larkon ki ho ya larkion ki , donon hi objectionable hain. laikin agar koi larki aisee habit main partee hai tu us ka pareshan hona natural hai because ham sab jantay hain kai aurat ki izzat hamray culture main kitnee important hai aur us ki jismani structure sai easily pata chal sakta hai. aur is cheez sai bachnay kai liye islam nai measures bhi bata diye hain.
aap nai bilkul theek kaha kai west main larkay aur larkian teen age main enter hotay hi sex start kar daitay hain.its human nature kai woh change chahta hai.aur phir woh gay or lesb kai chakkar main par jatay hain. islam pehlay shadi main bound karta hai aur phir sex ki ijazat daita hai. islam hi hai jo hamain teach karta hai kai aurat koi tissue paper nahin kai use karo aur phaink do, she is a human being and have proper rights.
aaj western society jo liberal consider ki jatee hai, sab sai ziada suicide ration shaid yaheen per hai, because in teen age yeh sab experiments kar laitay hain aur later phir tanhai ka koi sathi nahin hota aur depression ka shikar ho jatay hain. sorry to say laikin in auraton sai log mazay loot laitay hain aur phir unhain tanha chor jatay hain.
I know aap ko yeh sab batain pata hon gi, MashaAllah aap aik muslim married lady hain, laikin yeh sab batain sirf is liye likhee hain kai hamary muslim brothers/sisters jo western countries main hain, un per soch kai nai darwazay khulain. Islam aik complete mazhab hai, is ko prove karnay kai liye experimentatition ki zaroorat nahin, aur jo qaumain experiment kar rahee hain un ka haal sab kai samnay hai.
In last islam balig honay per shadi ka bhi hukum daita hai agar halat is qabil hon, hamari society main mayyar buhut high ho gaye hain jis ki wajah sai shadi late aur masturbation, zina wagairah ki burayan barh rahee hain. Allah ham sab ko hidayat dai, aur gunahon sai mehfooz rakhay aur sab gunahon ko maaf farmaye.ameen.
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2007, 2:06am |
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re: faisee I totally agree to both of ur replies.
Mrs.Safeena,
I have always always told boys also that masturbation is a very bad habit and we always ask them to leave/ minimize this habit.
Islamic teachings are equally beneficial for boys and girls and u are doing a very good job by creating awareness in young minds regarding their religious rights and duties, in the light of Islam. we highly appreciate ur efforts and wish u all the best for future. |
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2007, 8:06am |
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re: safeena
1. ap ne hamare reply par ghor nahi kia. ham ne hamesha masturbation ke jawab mai yahi kaha hai ke yeh bad habbit hai ise chor de aur chorne ke lia hamesha yeh link dia hai: How to control on your mastur-bation habbit
2. baqi rahi yeh bat keh masturbation se medically nuqsan hota hai tu ham yeh nahi kah sakte kio keh medically koi nuqsan nahi hai. log pahle hi waham mai mubtala hai ham mazeed confuse karna nahi chahte.
3. ham agar yeh kahte hai keh medically nuqsan nahi hai tu is ka yeh matlab nahi keh ham boys ko masturbation ka mashwarah de rahe hai. ham boys ko masturbation karne ki bajai chorne ka mashwara dete hai.
4. jaha tak larkio ko sakhti se mana karne ka taluq hai is mai larkio ka hi faida hai. kio keh masturbation se hymen rupture ho sakta hai. jis ki wajah se onhai shadi mai pareshani ho sakti hai. jabkeh boys ko koi nuqsan nahi hota.
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safeena |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Jul, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 240 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2007, 8:16am |
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girls masturbation Assalam o Alikum members
thanx faisee Dr khan80 and my reply faisee aap ne sab baatain buhat acchi aur bilkul sahi kahin hain aur likhnay ka shukaria Dr khan aur my reply se excuse b/c main new hoon idhar is liye main ne ziyada nahi parha hay ab main sab books bhi parh rahi hon aur question answers bhi
buhat acchi hay ye site aur loogon ko bhi bataya hay main ne buhat pasand kee ja rahi hay ye site kion k ziyada tar loog apnay problems nahi bata saktay wo idhar keh detay hain aur ziyda tar main ne dekha accha mashwara hee diya jata hay yahan .
thanx to all
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hassan0334 |
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2009, 12:12am |
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hell masterbeatng is bad salam i hope u r fine.,.,
listen sis masyter beating is very bad habit.,., app ko ye kiss nay kaha hai boyz karay master beating.,., ais kay bohat side effects hai.,., health kharb ho jati hai.,. aur eyes weak ho jati hai.,.,., its a bad habit for both of us |
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Neel |
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2009, 1:03am |
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Ms SAFEENA Ms.
SAFEENA
Howdy
to the respectable Albertan lady from the Western cowboy town of Edmonton, Alberta, Canada in the continent of North
America!
Excellent
question!
It
is not fair…eh?
“WHAT’S NOT GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS NOT GOOD EITHER FOR
THE GANDER”.
Ms. Safeena, to wit I am just changing the famous
North American saying.
This is owing to the twisted, biased, chauvinistic
and unfair logic and excessive preoccupation of persons with sexism,
conditioned by unreasoned thought.
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ayanhasan |
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| Posted on:11th Sep 2010, 8:17am |
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good question raised this is a very good question raised and faisee gave a good answer |
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sunnny kk |
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| Posted on:9th Apr 2011, 4:41pm |
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salam plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dr tell me k sirf clitoris stimulation se b vagina k size oar effect parta h? plzzzzz tell me truth
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10066373 |
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Dont give any blame to boys dont give any blame to boys jahan tk masturabtion ki baat hy , its very sensitive relating to girls , some girls do fingering its very bad . they can relax them by massage of colitrios , no doubt when a person become young male or female he can not live without sex so zinna sy behter hy k vo self sex kr lay leken vo bhe aik limit ma ,jb vo boht majbor ho jay sirf jb aur english movies aur bad company sy avoid kren , namaz shoud be 1st preference , same advice to all boys and girls |
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10066373 |
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| Posted on:26th Apr 2011, 2:10pm |
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Dont give any blame to boys its my personal experience i m a boy of 27 age , when i do not offer prayers regularly then a lot of negative thoughts comes in my mind i control myself up to an extent but after that i can not live without ............. so we should offer prayer regularly if we want to control ourselves aur khuda k lea apny ap ko bad company sy buchain again request tc ALLAH hm sb ko maaf kry ameen........... |
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 1:11am |
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masturbation
assalamu alaikum
tamaam logo se ek baat balona chahathoon ke haraam chige dono ke lia haraam hai yani larki aur ladke,aourat aur mard ke lia haraam hai jis ke dil me allah ka hukum aur nabi ka tariqa hai woo kabhi galat kaam ke liianaihi badta so evry one know one thing mustly we r muslim we must know the wat is currect wat is wrong and dont say to any one to do such thing ? like lad ko ke lia zina se bachsak tehai ? can i ask 1 q? zina insaan kab karta hai jub wo behaya pe ata hai yani namaheram par galat nigha dal ta hai ayr bhi chige hai like tv internet etc one impartent words :JUB INSAAN APNE AAMAAL PE MUTMAIN HOJATA HAI BEYHAYAAEE DEEN PE GALIB AJATHI HAI: KABHI APNE AMAAL PE MUSMAIN NA HONA ALLAH SE HAMESH DAR TE RAHENA SPECIAL GIRLS MUST DO GOOD DEEDS. i think evry one do good deeds then allha will help us prya for all humans and evry one |
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