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mezaraji |
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| Posted on:5th Jul 2007, 4:35pm |
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 Masturbation In The Absence Of Husband
hello everybody my problem is that i married 8 months ago my husband is not in country from last 4 months i do feel to have sex so to satisfy my self i do masturbate some time.i wanna no that it can cause any medical problem and also that would that create any problem in my married sexual life.please help me with ur review pls thanx
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2007, 9:01am |
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re: mezaraji This is a very serious issue and u should talk to ur husband to call u there. neither wife can live without husband happily nor the husband.so its better to ask him about this problem. female masturbation is a very bad habit and its not a permenent solution to ur problem, as u have the whole life to live. |
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ironman1 |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Jun, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2007, 5:29pm |
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female masturbation salam.khan_80 plz bataiay k female masturbation just bad habbit ha ya yeh harm full bhi ha? |
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My Reply |
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2007, 3:27pm |
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re: mezaraji 1. jab shohar country se bahir hoga tu bechari bivi masturbation nahi kare gi tu aur kia kare gi. aurat mardo ki tarah 4 husband tu rakh nahi sakti keh keh sex requirment aik husband se poori na ho tu doosre husband se poori kare.
2. ap ko mashwarah hai keh ap ya tu apne shohar ke pas chali jai ya phir shohar ko kahe keh woh wapis ajai.
3. jab tak ap shahar se door hai, sex frustration ko door karne ke lia medical science masturbation karne ka mashwarah deta hai.
4. shadi shuda aurat ko masturbation se koi nuqsan nahi hota hai. aurat ke health par bhi koi farq nahi parta.
5. masturbation se aurat ko future mai bhi koi medical problem nahi hota.
6. medical point of view se apne shohar se door rahne wali aurat ko baqaidgi se masturbation karni chahia. warna ose bahut ziadah sex frustration hoti hai.
7. aurat ko sex frustration nahi honi chahi. kio keh agar aurat ko sex frustration ho, shohar ghar par na ho, tu phir shaitan bahkane lagta hai, agar shaitan bahkane mai kamiab ho gia tu phir ............
Note: Ghair shadi shuda girls ko masturbation nahi karni chahia. kio keh masturbation se hymen rupture ka khatra hota hai. agar hymen rupture ho gia tu suhag rat ko bleeding nahi hogi, jis ki wajah se pareshani ho sakti hai.
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2007, 4:30pm |
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Masturbation.......No direct evidence in Quran or Hadith as to its being Haram.
No one can declare something Haram which is NOT declared Haram in Quran and Hadith, and no one can declare something Halal which has been declared Haram in Quran and/or Hadith. It is the thought and other actions (reading or watching pronographic material....which is not allowed to view...Please refer to the instruction of Quran on "Lowering of your gaze when you look at opposite sex".). So, if you think of your husband or talk with him when you do it, then I think it is between you and him, and there is no direct evidence to rule it as Haram.
As for medical concerns, there is none if your hand/instrument is clean. I am guessing that there is valid reason for you two to live separately. If not, then try to be together if possible, then won't need to do it.
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Ok_MAN |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Jul, 2007 Topic: 31 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jul 2007, 8:18am |
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female and male maturbation Masturbation karna na sirf larkion ya auraton k liye safe hai bulkay mardo k liye bhi safe hai.
Na sirf gair shadi shuda mard aur aurtain masturbation kar sakti hai balkay shadi shuda mard aur aurtain bhi kisi majboori ki wajah say kar sakti hai bulka karti hain.
Jis tarah auratain apnay soharon say door ho kar jinsi taskeen ki kami say beqarar ho jati hai mard us say kai ziyada sex chahata hai jaisay agar aurat pregnent hai and its not safe to have sex in the earlier months and ending months of pregnency to jo murd hazarat sirf aik bivi rakhtay hain woh kisi waishiya (prostitute) kay paas ja kar apni jinsi bhook nahi mita saktay to zana say bachnay ka sirf aik tareeqa hai masturbation han hatul imkan aisay murdon ko chahiye kay agar woh risk pregnency main apni biwi say kahain k woh unhain masturbate karain aur aap biwi kay pastano aur breast kay beech ragar kar bhi masturbate kar sakte hain aur agar bivi door hai aur aap kisi forgin country main hain tub to aap ko regular masturbate karna chahiye kun k agar aap apna control chor baithay to zana kar saktay hain haan agar aap ki sex drive ( jinsi ishtial) kum hai ya aap khud ko control kar saktay hain to its ok not to masturbate.
Isi tarah aurtain bhi apnay shoharon ki gair mojodgi ya udam dastiabi main k shohar mulk ya country say bahir hain to masturbate kar sakti hai aur is main aisi ko burai nahi hai.
Aur jo larkay shadi nahi kar saktay unhain bhi masturbation kar lena chaye is main koi haraj nahi. Ab har kisi apni rai hai but many people believe me and if those people are not on ur forum then its not mi prob
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new_bye |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jun, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jul 2007, 8:46am |
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tsalam sahib say guzarish Muhtaram janab!
Aap say dast basta guzarish hay k agar aap ko aik muamlay ki haqiqat ka ilm nahi hay tou us k baaray main raaey denay say guraiz karen. Bilkhusoos deen k muamlay main to hargiz mufti na banein. Kia aap nay Qura'an aur Hadis ka mutala'a kia hay jo ye fatwa sadir farma diya k ???
Masturbation.......No direct evidence in Quran or Hadith as to its being Haram
Jab k Qura'an main saaf alfaaz main aaya hay:
Yaqeenan falah paai hay imaan laanay walon nay jo ...
Apni sharm gaahon ki hifaazat kartay hain. Siwaey apni biwion kay aur un aurton kay jo un ki milk-e-yameen main hon, keh un par mehfooz na rakhnay main wo qabil-e-malaamat nahin. Albatta jo us kay ilawa kuchh aur chahen wohi ziadti karnay walay hain. [Sura Almuminoon: 1, 5-7]
Ye aayaat clearly batati hain k spouse, ya mard kay liay londi(ab is ki ijazat nahi) k siwa kisi bhi aur tariqay say apni sharmgah ko use karna durust nahi. Main nay durust nahi kaha hay. Halal ya haram ka fatwa kisi bhi aalim-e-deen say lay lain. Lekin khudara deen ko mazaaq na banain. Aap aik ghalat kaam karen tou aap k dil main ye khutka to hona chahiay naa k ye main ghalat kar raha hoon. Ghalat ko sahi to mat samjhen.
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My Reply |
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| Posted on:21st Jul 2007, 9:48am |
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re: new_bye
1. ap Quran ki is ayat ka ghalat meaning le rahe hai. Is ayat ka masturbation se koi taluq nahi. apni taraf se taluq paida na kare.
2. masturbation ke bare mai Islam kia kahta hai. yeh janne ke lia read kare: Masturbation and Islam
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Prozak |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 82 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Jul 2007, 10:06am |
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New_bye Aoa..
Sahib dosroon ko Naseehat khud Mian faseehat.. how did u mentioned about londi kay us ke ab ijazat naheen.
Kia yeh quraan ka hukaam (na aouz billah) Mansookh hoo geya hai.. Ya woh Ayat e karema Mansookh hoo geey hai.. Janab zara roshni dalain geey..
as a matter of fact abb woh business naheen raha... haan jab hoo ga quraan kay Ihkaamat ka Ittlak wisay hee hoo gaa jisay thaa...... this reveloutionary period statred from mid 30s cannot Mansookh ayat e quraani's.
Baki rahi baat masterbution ke to that was not discussed in quraan or Ahadees or with Sahaba e Karam or era of Khulifa.. this is only person to person. Allah nay Kuch Akal insaan ko be dee aur us kay mutabik apni zindagi guzaray.. agar quraan nay ZANA and LONDAY BAZI aur girls/women ky Back say use karnay ka farmadiya to Mushat zani per ku chup..... so we shouldnt implement things on our selves on the Name of Quraan or Islaam.. as lot of Molvi's did wrong Tashreeh of Jehaad and now we are in Worse situation of History....
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new_bye |
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| Posted on:21st Jul 2007, 10:25am |
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Wama Alaina Illal Balaagh Baat puhnchana meray zimmay tha, so punhanch gai. Ab har shakhs ki apni marzi hay. Aur haan --
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akrajput |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2010, 7:59am |
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I m tens Masturbation ka masail her kisi shaks ky sath hy chaye wo mard ho ya orat ....mera sawal yeah hy ky ager banda majbori main Masterbation kary to kia yeah jaiz hy ya haram hy ....jabky Masterbation to totaly haram hy..? |
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dom_man |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2010, 9:23am |
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masturbation(female) It is not bad either medically or psychologically.its a proven fact.In fact in females it is the most effective of exploring her sexuality.dont feel any guilt.However, u should tell ur husband about it.hope he will be cool with it. |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2010, 11:48pm |
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2 school of thoughts 1. medical field hi k mahereen ka aik group self-sex ko nah to recommend karta hai nah encourage...woh issay 'bad habit' maantata hai aur iskay manfi dooor ras nataaij ko tasleem karta hai....ikhlaqi /mazhabi maahereen bhi iss group k saath haiN.... taaham jaisa k har case /rule maiN exception bhi hota hai... issi tarah iss case maiN bhi hai...agar kissi say yeh fail majbooran sarzad ho jaa.ay to issay ignore kardia jata hai
2. doosra group jo nisbatan (mother-pedar) azaad group hai... medical field say related honay ka faidah oThatay howay... apni zaati khahishaat aur ikka dukka example ko saamnay rakh kar yeh propaganda kia karta hai iss bad habit /ab-normal practice ka medically koi nuqsaan nahi... etc etc. Allah nay sex k liyeh joray paida kiyeh haiN takay aik doosray say halal aur fitri tareeqay say sex say lutf andoz howa jaa.ay
3. tahaam agar izteraari kafiyat maiN...natural life style say dooori k nateejah maiN... zina say khud ko bachnay ki gharz say....bah qadar zaroorat kissi say self-sex jaisaa fail sarzad ho jaa.ay to oss par tanqeed nahi ki jani chahiyeh...taaham ossay yeh 'gumraah' bhi nahi karna chahiyeh ap nay jo kia hai woh bahoot acha kia hai...continue it...iska kissi qism ka koi nuqsan nahi hota... chaRh jaa beTa /beTi (self-sex ki) sooli pay ...raam bhali karega ): |
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zeest. |
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2013, 7:29am |
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shehwat kese htm ki jaye agr husband out of country ho to uski absence me ya usse bat krtay huey sex pe dil chahay to wife sirf feel karay kisi cheese se but enter kuch na karay to kya ye b masturbation me aata hai islam me is shehwat ki koi saza hai k sirf shehwat ki intiha ho to kisi cheese se feel kr k usay htm kr lia jaye |
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