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saddique |
Group: Members Joined: 06th May, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 8:23am |
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 Mujhe Mangetar Pe Shak Hai
salam dear dr saheb pls mera aik problem hy merey ghar walon ne aik larki se meri shadi ke baat paki ke hy aur vo larki mujko bhi pasand hy phir isa huwa uski phopi hamarey ghar ae aur meri maa se kha ye larki to badnaam ho chuki hi iske falan teacher ke saath relation hyn ye us ke pass M A class ka tution perney us ke ghar jati hy ab myn kia karo dr saheb islam ke ru se batain myn kisi aur jaga shadi karon ya is ke sath shadi karon kunkih merey dil myn shak ho chuka hy please reply me thanks ALLAH apko slamat rakhey amin
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sammu |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2008 Topic: 34 Post: 62 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 12:48pm |
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saddique Assalamu alikum
Mere Pyare Bhai.
Mera Khayal Yhe Hoga Ke Shayad Wo Larki Ki Phoopi Yhe Rishte Se Jaal Rahi hogi.. Bhale Sooncho Bhai Uski Hai Phoopi Ap Log Ko Bhala Kyu Kahegi. Aisa Aksar Reletions Mai Log Hote Hai jo Kisi Ke Koi Bhi Kaam Se Khush Nahi Hote..
Waise Tu bolne Se Kuch Nahi Hota, Sachiye Janna Zaroori Hota Hai..
Plz Us Per Shak Mat Ki Jiye, Agar Aap Sach Jaana Chahate Hai Tu Us Larki Se Direct Baat Kare Ya Fir Wo Jaha Rheti Hai, Us Larki ki Daryafi Kare ?
Agar Mere Is Jawab mai Kisi Ko bhi koi Galat Laga Ho Tu Plz Mujhe Infore Karyega...
Allah Hafiz |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 4:31pm |
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reply pehli bat tu apse ye kahun gi ke kabhi bhi suni sunai baton pe yakeen nahi karna chahiye is se achey bhaley khush haal ghar toot saktey hain. aapko agar lagta hay ke aap is relation keliye apne dil main shak mehsoos kar rahay hain tu behter hay ke inkar kardijiye kyunke agay jakay apki shadi shuda zindigi main agar ye issue utha tu problem abhi ki nisbat zada bari ho sakti hay.
doosra ye ke agar ap kisi ki bhi baton main akay yakeen kar lete hain tu main tu yehi kahun gi ke aap koi bhi relationship sahi se nahi nibha payenge kyunke mian biwi wo relation hay jispe khud se zada doosre pe aitbar hota hay |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 2:45am |
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saddique bhai walekum salam,
mein sammu aur koyal dono ki baat se agree karta hoo, k ho sakta hai uss ki phuppi jealous hoti hoo, mein app ko aik mashwara doonga agar theek lage to karna, app apni ammi se kaho k larki walo k ghar jaye aur clear baat sab ko bataye aur larki ki phuppi ko bhi samne bithaye phir doodh ka doodh aur paani ka paani ho jayega, mein kisi ko laraye jhagre karne wala mashwara nahi bata raha magar yeh app ki life ka masla hai, agar khuda na khuasta kuch galat baat samne ayi bhi to app ko pehle hi pata chal jayega aur app ko faisla karne mein asaani hogi, warna yeh pata chal jayega k larki ki phuppi sirf yeh rishta turwana chah rahi hai, meri yehi dua hai k Allah Tala app k haq mein jo behtar ho wohi kare , Aameen.
app sab plz bataye k kia mera mashwara theek hai ya nahi |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 3:04am |
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yes mujhey bi yahi lag rha hai k us ki phuppi jealous hai is rishtey se aur ye rishta turwana chahti hai
aur chahti hai k us k ghar na basay
ab behter yahi k us ki phoppo ko benikab kiya jaye
aur behter yahi hai k ap aur ap ki mother or father us k ghar jao aur us k parents ko sari bat batao
phr us ki phuppo ko bhi wahan bulao aur un ko benikab kero |
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 5:26am |
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good zeb I agree with zeb ye tariqa theek hai agar apko larki pasand hai to ap us k parents se ye baat discuss karein or us ki phupo k baare main us k father ko bta dein ,is se sach ap k samne ajaiga or pata chal jaega k us ki phupo theek hain ya galat.warna baad main ap ko mushkil hosakti hai. |
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Pkman |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 1:25pm |
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re: Mujhe Mangetar Pe Shak Hai Janab aap pore muamle ki thehqeeq kareen. Is tarhan kisi ke bat pe yaqeen na karain. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 9:24am |
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seddique Hadees hai" nahi hai suni sunai bat khud ke dekhne jaisi.."
so jab apne aisa khud nahi dekha to apko apni mangetar pe har girz shak nahi karna chahye.
aur jaise ke sab ne kaha ke aise rishton me aisa hota hai,jelousi hoti hain.zati ikhtlafat ..etc jis ki wajah se uski phuppi ne aisa kaha,warna koi phuppi apni bhatiji ke aib nahi batati,wo bhi wahan ja kar jahan uski shadi hone wali ho.
ap khud bhi zara sochye..kal ko koi bhi ayega aur apki mangetar ke bare me kuch kahega to ap yaqeen kar lenge?? ya agar koi apki mangetar ko koi apke bare me aisa kahe aur wo yaqeen karle to ap ko dukh nah hoga??
aisi baton pe dhayan na dain,jo apke samne hai ussi pe consentrate karain.shak se bohat se ghar tabah ho jate hain.islye har girz is se door rahain,ek shak dil me baith jaye to sari umar nahi nikalta.. |
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 11:23pm |
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no sunheri: The best thing is k ap tehqiqaat karein or us ki phupo k baare main us k father se baat karein or ap ko bhi pata hai kitni larkian shaadi se pehle .....karleti hain or ye ahista ahista muashre main barh raha hai. to ap risk na lein or puch tash karlein warna baad main aisa na ho ap ko regret karna parhe apne decision ko. ap ki life hai par ap jante hain larka or larki kia kia karte phir rahe hain colleges,universities main even k is forum pe hi kitne illegal sex k topics larkian likh deti hain so my request is please dont spoil ur life its ur decision.
is main koi harj nahi k ap puch tash karlein.
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 11:28pm |
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re: agar ap puch tash nahi kareinge to ye baat ap ko ander hi ander kaat ti rahe gi...
or teachers bhi aj kal kam nahi hain.mere school main khud aik student ka married teacher k saath affair tha.or ye baat har bacha janta tha.teachers bhi saare tharki hain larkon ko time nahi dete tutions main or larkion k liye special time or interst se parhate hain believe bohot kam teachers shareef or sahi hote hain baaki majority sab tharki hain.
ap risk mat lein ye 21 st century hai 18th century to hai nai jo ustaad waqai ustaad kehlane k kabil ho... |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 12:27pm |
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seddiqui agar ap mr azfar ke mashware pe amal karna ziada zaroori samajhte hain,to plsss agar ye bat jhoot sabit ho gayi ,jo ke uski phuppi ne kahi hai,to apko us Ladki se shadi karna nahi chahye.
kyoonke jab apko us pe aitbar nahi ,apne uske kirdar pe aitbar nahi kiya,to agar mai us ladki ki jaga hoti to apse shadi ko khud mana kar deti.
Kissi ke Rishte me aib dalna,ya jab bujh kar kissi ka rishta kharaab karna ek Gunah hai.Hazrat Muhammad (saw) ne farmaya hai" kissi ke Aib chupao na ke use Benikaab karoo...!! agar hum dusron ke Aib chupaenge to Allah Talah humare Aibon pe pardah dalega.!!!
mere khayal se agar kissi se koi ghalti ho bhi jati hai,aur uska kahin rishta ho jaye,to aisi batain karke kissi ki life kharab nahi karni chahye.Jab Allah humare bade se bade Gunah maf kar deta hai to hum insanon ko bhi maaf karna chahye.Kisi ki ladki ke kirdar pe kichad nahi uchalna chhaye chahe wo aisi ho ya na ho.!! |
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Dr. Adeel |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jul, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 346 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 2:01pm |
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 Mr. Saddique
Tell me first,
Aap Dubai mein Business kertey hein. Aur aap ki engagment pakistan mein hoi hey ? Kia aap larki sey mil chukey hein ? |
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 2:58pm |
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salam bhai ap khud larki se baat kare k kia jo apne sona hai wo sach hai ya jhoot ager wo kahe k jhoot to phuppi ka hawala de or dono khndano me phuppi ko bola kr saf saf bat kare har cheez bilkul saf saf kare take shak ki koi gunjaish na rahe or han ek baat yaad rakhey k....shak ka koi elaaj nai hai.... salam. |
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shy_boy |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 3:15pm |
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Mera Shak... Dear mai na bhe aik dafa aisa kiya. Apni lover per shak kar baitha. Mugh sa bohat bari bhool ho gia. Mai khud ko abhi tak us baat per maaf nahe kar paya. Kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai ka dekhi dikhai batai bhe wrong hoti hai. App ko tu uski popho kah kar gai hia.
Meri app sa request hai ka app bagair janay shak nahe karu. Is dunya mai bohat sa log acha hia aur bohat sa bad bhe.
Mai apni mistake per abhi tak pachta raha hoo. Kahi app ka sath aisa na hoo jai. Mera mushwara hai app pahla us sa direct baat kar lu. Ho saka tu batu batu mai apna anwers lai lu us larki sa....
Yahi best raha tha... |
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2009, 5:47pm |
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RE: ap sunheri ki baat sunein or bina dekhe shaadi karlein great ap ki life hai main ne to sirf apna point of view dia tha. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 3:36am |
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me also agreed to azfar |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 3:36am |
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azfar yar tumhara naam mujhey bohat pasand hai
is ka matlab kia hai?????? |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 4:36am |
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azfar ???????? |
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:19th May 2009, 5:45pm |
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ZEB sorry kaafi late reply karaha hun.
Azfar means jeet,victory :D |
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Sooth |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 12:57am |
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re: look saddique na aap perfect insaan han aur na wo ladki..thiek hai ghalti sub se ho jati hai...aap ko kya pata wo phophi sahi hai ya kya mamla hai bus aik qaam kerain ladki ke past ko chorain bus ye dekhain ke wo aap ke liay kitni bahter sabit hoti hai...
es umer ma aisi ghaltiyan ho jati han ye umer hi aisi kaachi hoti hai ager insaan ko es sub ki sumajhe ho tu insaan aisa keray hi kuin?
aap se meri aik request hai ke aap uss ladki ko apni izat bunayain,khud bhi ALLAH ke ahkaam poray kerain aur ladki ko bhi shaadi ke bahd sahi islam ki rah per lay ayain takay aap ke bachoon ki bhi sahi terbiyat ho aur aap sub ki aakharat bhi bun jaye..
ye society hi aisi hai bechaari ladki ka kya kasoor....kya pata wo phophi bohtaan laga rahi ho ya phir wo parhanay wakla teacher sahi na ho,hum kya bol saktay han es baray ma but kindly aap uuss ladki ko ghussay ma ah ker bhi shaadi ke bahd koi tahna na daina,mard kya kuch kartay han aur un ko koi kuch nahi kahta laikin aik ladki ki chooti si baat ko lay ker pori zindagi kheraab ho jati hai.
ager koi aisi baat thi bhi tu uss phophi ko fasaad dalnay ki kya zaroorat thi wo chup rhti aur baachi ka rishta honay daiti......ALLAH pk fasaad dalnay walay logon ko paasand nahi kerta.
kindly sadique aap es baat ka kisi se ziker na kerain aur ager uss ladki ma koi aisi baat thi bhi aur may be ab uss ko ahsaas bhi ho tu aap ki es khami per parda dalain..ALLAH aap ki khamiyoon per parda dalay ga.
plz aap us ladki ke ghar waloon se bhi ye baat discuss mat kerain..becharay walidain ka kya kasoor,un ko waisay hi sharmindagi ho gi...maan baap per tu pelhay hi baiti ka booj hota hai,un ko ulta parayshaan mat kerna.
aur plz apni mother ko batayain ke mainay investigation ki hai wo ladki sahi hai,aisi koi baat nahi takay aap ki mother shaadi ke baat uss ladki ko kuch bol na dain ghussay ma aur maslah na bunay.
bus aik hi zaat hai ALLAH pak ki jo humari beshumaar khamiyan bhi jaanta hai per sub per parda daal ke rakhta hai werna insaan kya cheez hai...wo hi zaat hai jo humain maaf kerti hai aur hum se pyar kerti hai aur humaray liay bahter kerti hai...kuin ke wo creater hai aur ussay pata hai hum kaisay han....
ALLAH se bahteri ki dua kerain aur mamla uss ke haath ma chor dain.ager kuxch aisa hai bhi tu uss ladki ko maaf ker dain aur kabhi es baat ko issue mat bunayain,ager aap syumajhdar han tu,Bus ALLAh aap se bhi khush ho ga..
ALLAH hum sub ko naiki ki taufeeq day aur her uss qaam se bacha lay jis ma uss ki nafarmani ho..Amin |
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