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abbaszafar
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Jan, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd May 2009, 11:44pm |
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 Love Marriage: There Is Dispute On Meher Amount
Dear i am having one of biggest issue i am really dam concer , it is like i have love marriage inshallah by next month we have love and affection since 5 years , finally by the grace of almight Allah we are going to couple. Issue i have with this is Mahar i am saying that i can give you this as per my financial capabilites and she is saying no you give me more not now as only in papers but in my family we have standard for Mahar, and now she is saying to me whether you will give or look someone, she is very adorable but she always has problem with my family which is meaningless as i concern, as she said after our conversation i said you will proud why your saying all these about she said you are taking dowary i said no who told you ur family is giving for ur sake i have not demand anything then she said no you have to give this much we both sacrfies alot for our marriage what i will one side my mother and family other side my love please please help m i am really tensed.
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 7:51am |
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re: Amount of Meher kia aap batain ge keh aap ketna meher dena chah rahe hai, aur aap ki hone wale wife ketna mehar maang rahi hai?
kia aap batai ge keh aap ka profession aur monthly income kia hai? aap ke monthly income maloom hone ke baad hi ham log koi proper mashwarah de sakte hai.
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maahhii
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Apr, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 1441 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 7:58am |
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love marriage i think love marriage main larka larki he to 2 log hotay h jin ka her baat pay ittfaq hota h or wo cheezon ko mushkil ki bajaye asan bananay ki koshish krte h.......
mgr yahan aap donon main he dispute khara ho gaya h..................or wo b money dispute................strange
agr aap wakae apni sakat k mutabik raqam day rahe h to larki ko to aap ka sath dena chahye na...............na k aap ko mushkil main dalna chahye..........
khair ab detail to hamain b nai pata to ham kya keh sktay h.............
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 130 Post: 7703 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 8:52am |
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mahar ki koi limit naheeN laRki jetnaa chaahay maang sakti hai... laRka jetnaa chaahay day saktaa hai ... zeyadaah say zeyadah sonay kaa pahaaR bhi hosakta hai aur kam say kam khajoor ki aik guThli bhi (quran o hadees ki roo say)...
agar laRki zeyadah mahar maangnay par israar karti hai to larkay ko laazman denaa hogaa, agar oss laRki say shadi karna chaahta hai to... warnah oss laRki ka khayaal dil say nikaal day.
agar larka kam mahar detaa hai to larki ko iss kam mahar ko qabool karna paregaa agar woh issi larkay say shadi karna chahti hai to... wernah iss larkay ka khayal dil say nikal day...
iss maamlay main islam nay dounouN ko azaad rakha hai... dounouN ki yeh deal (marriage) ossi waqt hogi jab woh dounouN kissi aik mahar par muttafiq hojayaiN... khaah zeyadah ho yaa kam... |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 263 Post: 4444 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 9:26am |
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re: love marriage and mehar baat tu yahi sahi hai keh agar aap larki se shaadi kerna chahte hai tu ose os ki khahish ke mutabiq mehar dena hoga, warna os larki ko bhool jaaye. aap ka asal masla mehar ka nahi Love marriage ka hai. kio keh agar yeh Arrange marriage hota tu mehar ke maamle per kabhi ka khatam ho chuka hota. lekin yaha maamla Love ka hai.
shaadi hone ke baad pata chalae ga keh iss Love se kia khoya aur kia paaya. |
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made4u
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Aug, 2008 Topic: 12 Post: 443 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 10:24am |
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abbaszafer Agar tum sach keh rahe ho tou,Mere khial se tum ko Us larki ka khial dil se nikal dena chahiye,aur apni family ki marzi se shadi karni chahiye.shadi ghar bnane ke liye ki jati hai,ujarne ke liye nai.your statement showing,keh Allah na kare,agar kabi tum pe bura waqt aya tou wo larki tumhara sath nai de gi..
Ye sirf mera khial hai,baqi apne bare tum behtar fesla kar sakte ho.
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sunny007
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Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4204 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 12:13pm |
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agreed with.... agreed with myrizvi and bewaqoof...
aur made4u ki prediction b sahi saabit ho sakti hai......
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