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sadaqat_79 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 6 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 3:37am |
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 Lack of Sexual Desire-Lack Of Sex Interest-Loss Of Libido: What Could Be Done?
Hi All!
This question is on behalf of my friend.
Due to un-stable domestic affairs with my wife I am loosing continuously my sex desire. What can be done?
Please give some suggestions.
Regards.
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 4:57am |
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Reply.. They should put their egoes aside, sit and talk with each other about whats creating misunderstanding,today sex interest is decreased tomorrow will to live together will be lost if issues not solved now.. The core issue and problems can be solved by discussion ... Whats impt is relation itself as a whole sex is just a part of it.. Not a seperate thing.... If they solve the un stable affairs sex drive will return on its own.. If you talk of Westren theory they say start sex issues will settle but it doesnt hold much true as after the momentarily impulse goes the unstability strikes back..so better talk first |
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sadaqat_79 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 6 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 5:17am |
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Re@WAterr I really respect your kind words, but it is not such easy as you are asking for both of them.
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 6:03am |
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hmmm but discussion k siwa koi best mashwara nahi hai dear |
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LuScIous |
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 6:22am |
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Baat nai karaingey tou sex kaisey hoga Zeb ne n waterr ne sahe kaha na jab dil mai nafrat hoge ya mamlat saaf nai honge tou sex bas zarorat jitna b mushkil se he hoga na aur kahan se interest aye ga |
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sadaqat_79 |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 6 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Oct 2009, 6:45am |
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Another Thing! Aap log sahi keh rahay hain main nay apnay Dost say discuss kiya hay, us nay aaik oor maamla khara kar diya hay.
Woh kehta hay keh theek hay keh jab un kay darmiyaan haalat aachay hotay hain to sex bhee kartay hain per unhoon nay kabhee sex per aik dosray say discussion nahin ki.
Agar mian bivi aik dosray say kabhee bhee sex kay topic per discussion na kar pain to kaya kiya jaye.
Mujhay lagta hay keh yeh dono he aik dosray ki sex need puri nahi kartay. |
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 10 Post: 133 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Oct 2009, 1:00am |
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First try to Neutralize your relation! Dear brother,
Dukh hua aap kay problem ka sun kar. Let me give you my humble advice:
1) First of all apni wife ko bedroom mey lay jaaein
2) Oos kay saamney oos kay hath pakar kar baith jaaein n tell her that how much you love her and how much important she is for you.
3) Then oos ko pyar sey samjhaaein kay both of you are running so fast, these fights will take both of you no where but separation.
4) Then tell her kay aaj kay baad sey I am just quiet, I will not say anything whatever you do! cuz I love you...
5) Agar aap ki wife ziyaadti kar rai hai tou iss tarah kehney sey maybe oos ko khud hi sharam aa jaey aur woh theek ho jaey.
6) After that for a week just keep quiet and see what she does, kya karley gee ziada sey ziada? she is ur wife, she cant go anywhere.
Yar don't use the word "Sex", use "Love". You should love her passionately. Wish you best of luck!
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