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Glacy_star |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 4:55am |
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 Under-Cover Sex: What Does Islam Says?
Hi,
I recently got married and i was told by one of my friends that when you have sex with your husband you should use some time of linen (covering sheet) to cover up. She said it is from some hadees. I want to knw the credibility of this Hadees if this exists.
Secondly, when you have sex with your husband, should you leave a night light on or not?
Please answer both of my questions in the light of Islam?
Thank you
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Glacy_star |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 4:57am |
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 According to Islam
Sorry there is a typo in the question....when i said some time of linen i meant some TYPE of linen!!!! Hope it would help to understand my question better!!!
Please reply ASAP!!!!
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goodman |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 11:34pm |
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credibility is avilable Salam,
I do not know what type of covering sheet will be use for covering.But the person told you this Headith it is right and its credibility and existance is avilable.Now the synoposis are as under:
When you do sex with your wives then you must cover each other and take the only part of the body as you need .And further example is do not sex and sleep like camels .
2nd question i can not give you reply pefectly because i am single.It is my opinion when you are covering each other then of couse light must be off also.
waiting for your possitive comments .
Good man
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raazdaar |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 2:05pm |
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AGREED SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
I agreed with goodman reply.Well done brother carry on...
GOD BLESS U....
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 3:47pm |
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i think i think that it really dnt matter whether the light is switched on or off...as u can do it in the dim light as well...because it is important to get to know each others body....i knw that u can do it with touching etc..but sometimes its important for the husband to see where he is going to do the intercourse..as most ppl lack the knowledge of sex ..whn they do the intercourse for the first time on wedding light..
so its not a problem..i more think thats u should talk to ur partner about it..to make a good understand about wht is going on |
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Zeeen |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 5:33pm |
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my opinion a/c to hadees,
"mubasharat karte hue ghadon k tara pore nange mat ho jaya karo"
(Allah kami beshi maaf farmaye)
1 imam sahab ka kehna ye b hai k "mard sar ki choti se le kar erhi tak jese chahe apni bivi se lutf andoz ho sakta hai" (imam ka nam mujhe yad nahi or search kar raha tha magar mila nahi but its true)
daikha jaye to first time intercourse me daikhna to bilkul mana hai magar kuch arse baad keon k males ko orgasm itni jaldi nahi ata isliye he can wach his wife even naked but sharm gah ki taraf nigah nahi kar sakta keon k is se haijan ki kaifiyat tari hojati hai. |
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nikama |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 8:41pm |
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 U can do see ,in my opinion
As per knowldge ,both can see completely each other naked even in the light is on...May be it is stated as NOT GOOD but I dont think so its Haraam or Gunah to see each others fully during intercourse..Rest others reply.. |
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:8th Dec 2007, 9:52pm |
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Both spouses see each other nude and done sex its allowed The question raised weather husband and wife do sex in full nude position or half cover up Islam saya husband and wife ek doosray ka libas heen.Islam has no any restriction to cover up you when you do sex you will do sex in day and night any time and restriction to half cover up husband and wife see each other in totally nude position no problem. you please also read professor Arshed javed books on sex available in the market openly and also on this web site noorclinic.com. your all confusion removed. |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 2:48am |
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 First beauty star .........now glacy star
andheray main ya dim roshni main sex plus sheet waghera apni upper daal kar just for sharam o haya ko mad-e-nazar rakhatay hoye kaha giya hai ..........kyun k i think is tarha karne say husband aur wife k darmiyaan sharam o jhijak qayam rehti hai aur un ki nazar main ek dosray ki izat hamesha barkara rehti hai ............but as rafaz said k husband aur wife ek dosray k libaas hain , is liyain ek dosray ko nude dekhnay main aur baghair light off kiyai plus apne upper sheet dalay baghair koi harj nahi hai .............. means k jis tarha chahay kijiyai .......
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BeautyStar |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 5:26am |
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 Re: "Modesty is part of Imaan(Faith)"
Well .... This haades relates to "Sharm-O-Hayaa"
.... Yes I agree with Hitman kah Husband Wife k darmiyaan although kuch
pardah nahi hai lekin phir bhi Sharam-o-Hayah k liyah kuch khas kyal
rakhna chahiyah jaisa kah Kabhi bhi eak dosrey k samney fully nude na
hoon ya phir sexual intercouse k waqt chaadar dal lein apne oper and so
on.... iss se eak charm sa rehta hai married life ma or couple ki eak
dosrey ki ankhoon ma izzar dogney ho jaatey hai .
HitMan - Nice observation pehley BeautyStar abb GlacyStar ... Pata nahi or kaun kaun se Star aatey rahein gaey ..... (lol)
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 7:00am |
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ik bohat he aahaam bat for all meray saray bhaion or bhanon mein nay ik achay insaan say suna hay kay saray kapray utar kar sex karnay say bachay besharam paida hotay hain,full light mein sex karnay say bachon ki eyeside week hoo sakte hay bachpan he say .,or sex kartay wakt agar dua na parhew jae sex ki biwi say to apkay discharge kay sat shaitan ka discharge be aurat kay andar chala jata hay this is in hadith also last point |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 7:27am |
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muslim muslim brother , ye sab tohmaat aur fozool ki batain hain , in baton main koi suchaye nahi hai , bacha besharam banay ya naik yai sab agay ki batain (like halaat , wakiyaat , tarbiyat etc) par depend karta hai ,
sometimes shareef nazar anay loag bhi aesi harkat karta jatay hain jo un say expect nahi ki jasakti / jo ek besharam insaan bhi nahi karsakta ........... kya khayal hai ......
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 9:50am |
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no need of cover up Husband and wife both see each other in nude position doono ek doosrey ka libas heen in ko ek doosrey say apni sharam gahoon ko chupaney ki koi zarorat neehen. jo log ye kehtey heen kay aulad theek neehen hoti ya kuch aur in sub batoon may koi sachai neehen ha yee buth he zaeef heedes heen.is tara ki batey galat heen suni sunai batoon per amal neehen karna chahiyee.Husband and wife both see each other in nude they can do sex in totaly nude position no problem. They both r libas(EK DOOSREY KA). They can do sex in any position and any time in 365 days of a year no restriction. Rstriction only in women menses time and during fast time. |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 10:03am |
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i agree hitman i agree..yeh sab fazool ki batein hain...jin logon ka iman kacha hota he..woh log aisi batein karte hain..
once ur marrried..and have intercourse with ur partner..than what is the prob by looking at eachother..seriously..and at some point u do have to see eachother..i dont think islam has forbidden anything like that..and besides that there isnt anything hidden inbetween wife and husband |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 12:27pm |
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re >>>>>> billie chalo shukar hai k billie nay kisi ki baat say tou agree kiya ......... warna its crap , its fozool , its ye its wo
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raazdaar |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 12:52pm |
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ISLAM KO CHORDO PHIR SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Jab kai ISLAM nai itna kaha hai kai body par kuch dalna chahiyai doranai sex.To kuch na kuch sharam to rehni chahiyai shohar aor bivi kai darmiyaan.Mana kai yai aik dosrai kai liyai libaas hain.Lakin har cheez kai kuch hodood hotain hain so hamain unai darmiyaan main rakna chahiyai.
FOR EXAMPLE:-ISLAM main yai bi hai kai apni nazrain neechi karoo jab app kisi ghair mard ya orat ko daiko.To Dr.zakir naik ki taqreer main main nai suna ta kai aik admii aik larki ko taqreeban 10 min tak daik raha ta.To jab us sai poocha giya kai app muslim ho kar aisai kaam kartai hoo.To us nai jawab diya kai ISLAM nai pehli dafa daiknai ki ijazat di hai to main isi liyai nazar nahin hata raha q kai ISLAM main dosri dafa daikna mana hai....
Hamari bi misaal in ki lailoo.Kai ham bi aiki nazar main pora jisam daik lai Q kai ISLAM nai pehli dafa ijazat di hai.Kuch dimagh sai bi kaam laina chahiyai mairai bhaiyoo aur behnoon.
To aisai kuch hodood honai chahiyai in kai darmiyaan.Agar kuch hodood nahin hai to ORAL SEX bi allow hona chahiyai.Aur aisa q hai kai back side sai sex karnai pai NIKAH tooth jata hai.Akhir aisa q hai.Har insaan zehan rakta hai.Har insaan ko soochna chahiyai.Sharam mujai nahin lagta kai kisi musalman main kisi bi jaga khatam karna chahiyai.
Aur yai behtar hai kai jitna darmiyaan main sharam rehta hai utni hi izat bi rehti hai.SEX sai ISLAM nai mana nahin kiya hai.To ISLAM nai ORAL SEX ko mana q kiya hai.App loog jaisai kehtai hoo to phir to kuch bi karoo koyee nahin rokai ga.Lakin ISLAM main itni bi baihayayee nahin hai kai bivi aur husband aisai SEX karain kai jaisai ANIMALS kartai hain.
QAM sai kam kuch FARAQ to hona chahiyai INSAAN aur HAIWAAN main.Aur har insaan behtar janta hai.Har insaan ka apna zameer hai.Hamain khuda nai dimagh diya hai to ham is ko kaam main layee to acha hai.
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 1:08pm |
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hah lol true hitman..so it shows that i dnt disagree all the time |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
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| Posted on:9th Dec 2007, 1:34pm |
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bili miau o comeon lol billie jeans har wakt apna defend mat kiya karo , ye bhi achi baat nahi hai ................... ghalti ko accept bhi karna sekho.........samjhi
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:10th Dec 2007, 1:14pm |
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Dear razdar I tell you one thing when you have a sufficient knowledge then you give any idea first of all i tell you nikkah is valid valid when a couple do anal sex you confirmed this thing. Another thing is here in south asia buth see galat bateen mashoor kar dee geen heen jin ka haqeqat say kuch taluq neehen ha. Islam is a simple religion islam not gives any restriction on husband wife relation escept sex in women menses and anal sex. Husband and wife they do sex in full nude position in any time .no problem they can feel each other body . |
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| Posted on:11th Dec 2007, 1:54am |
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it is allowed husband wife ek dusrey ka poora jisem dekh sktey hain...kisi bhi waqt....its ok....is mein koi herj nai aur koi gunah nahi hai |
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