Oral Sex: Allowed in islam or not?

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Fawad

I am fully agreed with --

So such type of teachings brings many problems in ones married life.

Oral sex is only a taboo in Pakistan and may be few other countries. But people who have knowledge and have gone through fatwa’s they now they reality. I advise people to read Dr. Heba Kotb’s lectures she is an Egyptian with great knowledge. I am also going to post her views on sex including oral sex. Read with care then come to a conclusion.

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On her show, "Big Talk," Kotb answers questions from Muslims all over the Middle East about the most intimate bedroom issues with an openness that is shocking and revolutionary in a society where discussing the subject is taboo. "How do I talk about these issues? Very seriously," the Egyptian sexologist says. "I put on a mask-like face and make sure I speak in the right tone of voice." She also does it by talking about sex in an Islamic light, arguing that the faith is in favor of pleasure for both men and women, with one important caveat - that it be only in the context of marriage. "I'm very proud of my religion," Kotb told the Associated Press in an interview at Cairo University, where she teaches forensic medicine. "My studies revealed to me more and more how Islam was ahead in all sexual matters ... I discovered that Islam understood sex long before the rest of the world."

For example, Islam "Stresses the importance of foreplay," Kotb said, and she often stresses to listeners that women should also enjoy sex. Kotb's frankness is a hit in a region where sex education is minimal, male-female contact is often discouraged and talk on the subject is usually in hushed tones, allowing myths to circulate freely. She lectured in Saudi Arabia and Yemen recently, where she said many men in the audience where shocked, while women - some with veiled faces - bombarded her with questions.

Nothing to sensitive for 'Big Talk'Kotb, 39 and married with three daughters, studied sexology at Maimonides University, a private school in

Florida, and combined it with her own knowledge of her religion to produce a dissertation titled "Sexuality in Islam." She opened a sexology clinic in Cairo in 2002, wrote sex advice columns in newspapers, appeared on talk shows and answered questions on an Arabic Web site. She started "Big Talk" on the independent Egyptian satellite channel El-Mehwar more than two months ago.  Much of her advice is straight biology - laying out facts rarely aired elsewhere. Nothing is too sensitive. She discusses sexual positions, female orgasm, oral sex (allowed, "Since there is no religious text banning it"), even masturbation (frowned upon but at least preferable to unmarried or adulterous sex, which is "Haram," meaning forbidden by religion). She takes a strict Islamic line on homosexuality - she calls it a disease. Along with doctors, she sometimes brings Islamic clerics onto her show, and many callers ask about the religion's rulings on sexual issues

Fawad

I am fully agreed with post of shumaila, she being a girl or women is so clear about this Enigma of oral sex which is really amazing. I will just say that people who consider sex organs to be impure are terribly wrong because sex organs are your private parts which should be guarded from the world but spouse (Husband and wife) as said by ALLAH in Quran that guard you private parts except for your spouses (Husband and wife). This mean your private parts are not dirty but should be guarded and the only dirt part is anus. Now I am coming to the point of disliking oral sex and sex organs to be touched, seen kissed or sucked. Brother and sisters this is the influence of our culture and society where we are not given proper sex education infect we are indirectly or directly told especially to females that it is not very good and only for males. It is also put in females mind that a wife should not be proactive while sex and she should not reveal her sex desires to her husband, so imagine in this kind of a society how one will accept oral sex to be ok, infect many people don’t like the variety of sex positions they think it is immodest to some extent but hallal.

So such type of teachings brings many problems in ones married life.

Oral sex is only a taboo in Pakistan and may be few other countries. But people who have knowledge and have gone through fatwa’s they now they reality. I advise people to read Dr. Heba Kotb’s lectures she is an Egyptian with great knowledge. I am also going to post her views on sex including oral sex. Read with care then come to a conclusion.

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Satisfactory but not Getting Pregnant

Dear Sir,

Meri Shaadi Ko abhi 3 Months hue hai, Alhamdolillah. Meri aur Meri Wife Ke beech sexual relationship aur intercourse bahut hi satisfactory raha, par phir bhi pregnancy ki koi aasaar nazar nahi aayee. ab is 3rd month mein bhi meri wife periods mein hai. Aur yeh periods use bahut jaldi (waqt se 1 week pehle) start hogai aur use bahut shadeed dard bhi hai jo ke pehle nahi hui thi. Please tell me what to do? Show me the right direction.

With Best Regards

ABC

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koi kuch bhi kahay kitna hi bera aalim kiun na ho

asal bat yeh hai k Quran aur Hadees kya kehtay hain

koi bhi shakhas jo oral sex ka haami hai yeh guarenty de sakta hai k jab woh suck keray ga ya kerwaai ga us ki penis ya vigina main koi urin drop nhn hoga?

ya yeh k us en pehlay achi terah sab wash ker liya to woh pak ho gaya?

hadees main kitnay muqamat per urin ki hurmat aai hai

Allah ne fermaya k aik insaan hum ne teray liyay sab behtreen banay lakin insaan itna ghatiya hai k gandagi per hi girta hai ghalazat per hi jata hai

kisi ne batay k MAKHI ki 3000 aankhian hoti hain

samnay walay ne kaha k kitni badqismat hai k itni aankhain rakh ker bhi ghalazat per hi bethati hai

woh haal insan ka hai k is gandgi se ooepr ata hi nhn

us munh se kesay Allah aur us k NAbi SAW ka naam lo gay aap log jisse yeh gandgi chooso gay aur chahto gay

Jameaa Al- Azher ya kisi bhi aur Jameaa ka fatwa Quran aur Hadees se aagay nhn

biwi ko biwi samjho prostitute na bnaao usay k jo paisay le ker kuch bhi kerti hai

usay Hadees se blackmail na kero k  shoher ki her bat manana ferz hai us ka

her bat jo jaiz ho

kabhi ghor kerna k Allah insan ko shehad deta hai aur hum kya chat rahay hain

hum to yahodiyon jesay ho gai na k jo man wa salwa chor ker piyaz, saag . dal mangtay thay

Satisfactory but not Getting Pregnant

Dear Sir,

Meri Shaadi Ko abhi 3 Months hue hai, Alhamdolillah. Meri aur Meri Wife Ke beech sexual relationship aur intercourse bahut hi satisfactory raha, par phir bhi pregnancy ki koi aasaar nazar nahi aayee. ab is 3rd month mein bhi meri wife periods mein hai. Aur yeh periods use bahut jaldi (waqt se 1 week pehle) start hogai aur use bahut shadeed dard bhi hai jo ke shaadi se pehle nahi hui thi. Please tell me what to do? Show me the right direction.

With Best Regards

ABC

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SIR, mein yeh clear karna chahta hoon keh kya mein apni kissi aisi majboori ki wajjah se (jo ke mein next lines mein describe karney wala hoon) apni wife ke sath oral sex kar sakta hoon? i just want to stimulate the clitoris of my wife by my lips or tongue. is it permisible in islam? mera maqsad sirf apni wife ko best pleasures deney ka hey, nah ke mujhey koiee khas shoq hey.

apni jis majboori ka mein ne ouper zikr kiya hey ous majboori ki tafseel aisi hey ke ,  Mera penis bohat chota hey wor meri timing bhi kuch khas nhi. timing sirf hardly 6/7 strokes hein... or ziada se ziada 10/12 strokes ke baad mein munazil ho jata hoon. dear friends as u all know ke hamari wifes ko proper pleasure na milley to un ka kya haal hota hey? woh bohat be-chain oOre be-Qarar ho jati hey. ous ki tishnagi bohat der tak baqi rehti hey. ham donoon hi 01 2srey se bohat payar kartey hein. (coz this is our LOVE marge) lakin mujhey bohat afsos ke sath intehaiee sharmindgi hoti hey ke meri Bivi ki kya halat hoti hey. jis ka qasoor war mein hoon. plzzzz meri problem ka hal bataiyey.. guide me according to islam, Quran & Sunnah, " kaya mein apni wife ki vagina/clitoris ko apni toung or mouth se stimulate ker sakta hoon?" sahi jawab de kar ihsan farmaiyey... thanx

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