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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 9:50am |
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 Sexual Intercourse With Boy Friend: What Should I Do?
hello dr ...mj se aik galte ho gaye hi i having sex wid my boy friend ab mere shadee kise aur se ho rahe hi main kia karoo during sex bleeding b ho gaye te ab main kia karoo plz help me .shadee os larke se nahe ho rahe
Dear Doctor, I have done a mistake that I have done sex
with my boy friend. Now I am going to marry with some other one and I am so
much worried? |
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khan_80 |
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| Posted on:27th Jul 2007, 10:13am |
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re: plz help me first u get urself registered on this forum then we will give u the answer. |
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Dani |
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 1:20am |
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very sad yah to us waqat sochna tha jab enjoy karti thi boy friend kay sath ,, yad rakho tum ko husband b asa hi mily ga jiss nay apni girl friends kay sath time quzara ho ga ,,, its in the quran ,,, so enjoy with you husband now
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 2:32am |
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salam this Reply is for all responses here but specially for Dani....Yes Dani i agree with you that Quran says that "Bad wifes are for Bad men" Its 100% true But Because God said it thats why He has lot of alternatives fot it too..Yaar Just think this way mostly guys make mistakes like this, I know they don't do intercourse Because They never find that kind of Occasion..Kher whatever it is I agree she made mistake But u should also consider that Who Has Created us?? God...and He is the Only one Who has to decide what kind of person is right for her...She made mistake and she must have to regret on it and then Leave it to God..Hann Jo baat insaan Pyar se samjha sakta hai wo Draane se nahin samjha sakta Allah Hafiz |
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| Posted on:28th Jul 2007, 2:39am |
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Reply Is response per mujhe aik sher yaad aa gaya plsss don't mind i want to write it here..someone wrote it for God
Assiyan(sins) se kabhi humne kinaara na kiya
Per Tumne(God) bhi kabhi dil azurdaa hamara na kiya
HUmne to ki Jahnam ki bahut tadbeer
Par Teri Rehmat ne Gawara na kiyaaaaaaa |
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bavajee |
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 9:23am |
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Beautiful Shair I was just wondering here & there & I found this in girls section. Sorry for repliying here.
Well The Shair posted by zain606 is great. Infect we should always think for better & hope for the blessings from Allah.
Human is Err, I think if any one of us , boys or girls get a chance , they will do such mistake.
Every one should Ask forgiveness from Allah.
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peace full |
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| Posted on:29th Jul 2007, 11:50pm |
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sin gunah har kisi se hota hai but maafi maangni chahaeye aur baat rahi k aap ka husband kya soche ga to dear ye baatein ab purani ho chuki hain aaj k husband aap ko kuch nahin kahien ge aap bhale shadi karo aap ko kuch nahin hoga ager aap se aap na husband pooche bhi k bleeding kiun nahin howi to just keh dena k mastarbate ki thi kisi object se to wo hymen demage ho gaya baat khatam.ager bhes kare to kehena k kya us ne kabhi mastarbate nahin ki ? ok khud hi chup ho jaega then u both enjoy ur life per haan koshish karo k bf se shadi ho sake to behter hai kiun k shadi k baad aap ka bf aap ko blackmale ker sakta hai again sex k lye so be carefull ok. |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2007, 4:24am |
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its very serious hi salam to every one .meri umar abhi 17 saal hai mera bhi bohat dil karta hai ke main kise larki ke saat sex karoon lekin jaab main yah socta hoon ke jo main karne ka soch rahan hoon wo kitna galat hai oor mujhe iis ka kitna azaab milay ga kayamat wale din.asal mai kasoor haam larkon ka hai kai jo larke har waqat larkiaon ke baray main soctaiy rahtay hain.kise bhi larki ko pata ke uss se piyar ka jhota natak kar litay hain or aagar latke na manay too dahmki bhi detay hain iss liay ziada kasoor larkoon ka hi hota hai or main yeh advise aap ko doon ga ke yeh jo peace ful user hai us ka kahna yeh hai key aap apnay husband say jhoot boll do yeh bohat sahi hai oor aap ka bf agar aap say phir sex karnay ka kahay too apnay husband ko bata dena kay yeh larka mujhe tang karta hai .ALLAH HAFIZ |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2007, 10:44am |
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 bad bad
ab ap ko hamari hlpo chahye ap jaisai lekia apni merze se sex
karti hain aur bd may kehti it was a mistake aap ko tb sharam nahi aati kya hi
acha ho ap k honay valay husband ko pta chal jaye ap ki asliat aap to apnay
b yahi taleem dein gi bd my shame on u girls like u have ruined our country |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2007, 11:20pm |
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hymen ki repairing kara le mubasrat se hymen rupture hojata hai. jab hymen rupture hota hai tu bleeding hoti hai. bleeding sirf phli dafa ke sex se hi hoti hai.
agar ap chahti hai keh jab ap ka shohar ap se mubasrat kare tu bleeding honi chahia tu ap ko hymen ki repairing karani hogi. Gynecologist hymen ki surgery ke zaria repairing karti hai ap on se rabta kare. |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2007, 2:41pm |
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Re: My Reply agar yeh surgery pakistan main available hai aur docotors yeh surgery kar rahee hain, tu samajh lain kai ab pakistani society tabahi kai dahanay per hai.
i m wondering kai aap aisa mashwara kion dai rahay hain. sex desire ko rokna asan baat nahin, aur jab yeh yaqeen ho kai repair ho sakta hai tu phir tu koi mushkil hi nahin, jo dar tha so woh bhi nikal gaya. khuli chutti.
I wonder how can ethics should be practiced in this regard. kia doctors ko yeh surgery karni chahiye takay kai future husband ko cheat kia jasakay kai bride is virgin??
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2007, 3:38pm |
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doctor har hal mai ilaj karta hai 1. doctor sirf doctor
hota/hoti hai. na wo kisi ka dost hota hai aur na hi dushman. na woh muslim hota hai aur na non-muslim woh tu sirf aur sirf doctor hota/hoti hai.
2. jab hamare pas koi mareez ata hai tu
ham yeh nahi dekhte ke yeh hamara dost hai ya dushman ham har hal mai is ka
ilaj karte hai. isi tarah ham yeh bhi nahi dekhte keh yeh muslim hai ya non
muslim ham har kisi ka aik hi tarah se ilaj karte hai.
3. isi tarah jab koi shaks veneral
disease ke sath ata hai tu ham sirf ilaj karte hai. yeh hamara kam nahi keh
hamare pas koi AIDS, aatishik ya soozak ka mareez aai aur ham os ka ilaj sirf
is lia na kare keh is ne illegal sex kia hai.
4. bilkul isi tarah agar koi larki
hymen repair karane doctor ke pas ati hai tu doctor ose yeh kah kar wapis nahi
karti keh yeh illegal hai. hymen repairing koi illegal kam nahi hai.
5. doctor sirf doctor hota/hoti hai.
jis ka kam har soorat mai apne patient ki help karni hoti hai. ham log
naseehat bhi karte hai, dant-te bhi hai lekin ilaj har hal mai karte hai. ilaj
se inkar nahi karte.
6. ab is larki ne jo kuch kia os par
woh pasheman hai aur forum ke doosre member bhi zalil kar rahe hai. ham bhi os
ki koi tareef nahi kar rahe hai. lekin ab tu yeh ghalti ho gai is ka hal kia
hai. agar woh chahti hai keh shadi wali night bleeding ho tu ose hymen repair
karana hoga. jis tarah AIDS ka ilaj karna gunah nahi hai isi tarah hymen
repair karna bhi koi gunah nahi hai.
7. os ne jo ghalti ki hai wo os ka aur
os ke God ka mamla hai. shadi ke bad os ka aur os ke husband ka mamla hai. ham
log tu sirf doctor hai. jo bhi ilaj karane aye ga ham ilaj kar de ge.
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 11:34pm |
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Surprised I got so much surprised kay yahan aisay buhut saray besharam aur beghairat loog bethay hain jo larkion ko sex kay baad kay halat say nimatnay ka mashwara de rahay hain. yaar kuch tu sharam karain. Aik tu us nay haram ka kaam kiya hai, apni vegina kissi ghair mard pay khulwaye hai aur ab band nahin ho rahi aur darr lag raha hai future husband say tu tum loog us kay gham main barabar kay shareek ban kar ussay keemti mashwaray de rahay ho, ya jazba paya hai Bhaiyoon wala. Aisi hi aurtoon kay liye Hudood Ordinance aaya hai lekin afsoos kay yeh pakri nahin jati. Aur doctor sahab please yeh forum Sexual problems kay liye hai so yahin tak restrict rahain, Logon ko haram ki zindagi ka maza lenay kay tareeqay mat sikhain koi bhi...Kuch tu sharam aap loog bhi karain... |
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norro_123 |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 11:44pm |
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Aik kaam karain aap murghi yani Hen ka blood use karain us raat...lekin nahin Murghi bhi sirf apnay Murghay ko hi apna vegina dekhati hai kissi ghair ko thori na... |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 12:06pm |
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 RE intercourse with b/f
abhi tak tu mard hee mast haathi bana phirta thaa kay kuch bhi ker lo kisi ko pata nahi chalna kay wo mard vargin ya ya nahi ab aurat ko bhi ye azadi mil gai kay kisi ko maloom nahi ho sakay ga kay wo vargin ya nahi
Allah ka farmaan hay kay sura e nisa main " zani mard kay liye zani aurtain aur naikokaar mardoon kay liye naik auratain hain "
jab Allah ne ye farmaya hay tu hum is cheez ko kion jhutla saktay hain is liye aadmi ho ya aurat us ko gunha kerte hoye ye soch lena chaheyye kay aagay us ko wo hee milay ga jo aaj kar raha hay
aur Allah janta hay baqi ka haal tu lekin ye ho sakta hay koi gunha karain aur baad main pashemaan ho k sacchay dil se Allah se tuba karay maafi mangay tu us kay liye allah accha karay
Allah behtar janta hay
aur norro 123 aap doosroon ko tu keh rahay hain khud aap ne kia mashwara de diya yahan ab aesay loog ye cheez na apply kerne lagain batain ??? |
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tsalam |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 12:06pm |
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A doctor can decline to treat Although what Mr. Reply has described is mostly right, a physician can refuse to treat a patient if the disease is not life threatening and the treatment option contradicts with his/her moral/ethical/religious belief. For example, if a doctor is against doing abortion, s/he may not do it as it is not life threatening and the procedure goes against his belief system. The doctor, however, must refer the patient to a person who can do the procedure safely. |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 3:52pm |
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there is simple one solution off the whole problem.ASk forgiveness from Allah.Ager Us ne maaf kerdia tou koi prob nahin ho gi shadi ke bad but ager us ne maaf na kia tou aap ko koi taqat is dunia mein bhi or is ke bad bhi Us ke azab se nahin bacha sakti chahay kitni hi sergury kyu na kerwalo. |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 4:27pm |
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plz help me tum nay na sirf apnay ooper hi nahi zulm kia bulkay apni maan baap ki izzat b khaak main mila di hay. ab kia ho sakta hay.boy friend say shadi kar lo. mujhay yaqeen hay agr tum apnay boy friend say shadi ka kaho to wo inkar kar day ga.
ab kis kism ki help darkaar hay, akhlaqi, to Allah tum par rehm karay aur tum ko khawari say bachay. secondly tum thori acting kar lena. kaam chal jai ga.
apnay gunahoo ki Allah say mu'afi mango. wo parday dalnay wala hay.I hope God will help you, if you truly repent and promise to avoid sinful life in future. |
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| Posted on:2nd Aug 2007, 11:47pm |
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RE/RE intercourse with b/f Bhai mere Murghi ka Blood sirf buray kamoon jaisay jadoo tona main hi use hota hai aur main nay yeh sab tanzan kaha hai...you also understand this method is not applicable. |
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| Posted on:3rd Aug 2007, 12:06am |
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zara sambhal ke wesay yaar norro kia pata koi jadu toone wali kisi ko takra jaye aur le aain saath thoora sa blood kisi ko andheray kia pata chalna hay "ker de gee jadu mian ho jaye ka qabu" (jo joru ke ghulam hote ghar waloon ko bhool jate lagta hay aesa hee koi ganda amal ho jata ho ga un pe very sad..) |
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