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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:45pm |
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 Sex Abused: What Should I Do?
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can anyone plz help me?its my real story so plz dnt discuss y& how it happened,iss forum pe share karne ka maqsad sirf mashwara lena aur dosron ko naseehat karna k iss duniya main bohat ahtiat se chalo,esp girls!
khud solution nikala tu hai per dil ko aik bechaini hai,dont have anyone whom i can share all this.so plz serious replies kijiyega,i was in 3rd or 4th class when my real uncle used me.at that time i even dont knew what is all this,dari b itna hui thi k kisi ko bata b na saki.ye hardly 2-3yrs hua,then Allah ka shukar k khuda ne mujhe khudhi uss insaan se nijaat dila di..
per 2yrs pehle,maine khud apne poan per kulhari maar li aik larke se dosti kar k..mujhe ab tak samajh nahi ata ye gunah mujhse kaise ho gaya, Allah se maafi b bohat mangti hun..uss larke ne na sirf khud use kia balke apne aur 6 friends ko b involve kia, mein maanti hun k pehla ghalat kadam maine apni marzi se uthaya magar uss k baad iss daldal mein khichti gy..poora 1yr main blackmail hoti rahi, na sirf izzat ganwaye balke paisa b. iss daldal se jaan kaise chooti vo alag lambi kahani hai...
last 1yr se Allah se girgara kar, ro kar bohat maafi maangi hai..per kehte hen na duniya main hi amaal ka phal mil jata hai,ghar walon ne mangni kar di vo b aise larke se jo har waqt sirf mujh per shakk karta hai.. har waqt maazi k baray men sawal jawab, abhi shadi b hone wali thi per Allah ne hi aisa sabab banaya k delay hoti ja rahi hai, kyun k main Allah se sirf yahi dua mangti hun k mere malik tu parda rakh le mera..kyun k mujhe waqay hi apna mangaitar bohat pasand hai per har waqt aik talwar sar per latki hai k kia hoga pehli raat hi talaaq mil jayegi ya phir sari umer shohar k haathon zaleel hona parega?
kia main khush reh paongi? kia Allah mera parda rakhenge? meri tauba qubool karenge? maine tu apne parents ka socha nahi khuda k liye jo b ye post pare..aisa kadam mar kar b na uthaye, aur mere liye dua kare!ke khuda ya tu mere parents ki izzat rakh le ya phir mujhe uss din se pehle hi utha le jab meri wajha se mere parents ki be-izzti ho.. really need alot of prayers& some good advices k mujhe kia karna chahiye?
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 2:59pm |
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 aimz_high
mai apki problem samajh sakti hun...bat ye hai ke jab humain apne Ghar wale hi use karenge to bahir wale kahan chodenge...maine bohat si ladkiyan is tarah Kharab hoti dekhi hain..jo bachpan me missuse hui hain,aur bade hone par wo khud ghalat raste par chal padti hain ya wo kisi ladke se share karke phans jati hain...
barhal jo kuch bhi hua.ap use bhoolne ki koshish karain.aur Allah talah se mafi mangeain ..inshallah apke sath bura nahi hoga,áp jab Allah talah se Dua mang rahi hain ke wo apka Pardah rakh le,to wo yaqeenan apki sunega...ap bas un sab ghalat ladkon se apna taluk mukammal tor pe khatam kar dain,apne mangetar ko shak ki koi Gunjaish na dain.Ap khud ko total change karain.apni mazi bhool jayen aur pardah acha karain 5 waqt ki namaz parhain aur rozana Quran-e-pak ki talwat karain.Aur Pareshan na hon,Allah talah apka pardah zaroor rakhega.
apne bataya nahi ke wo kin baton pe ap par shak karta hai?? |
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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:03pm |
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thankz for ur reply i used to study in co-education,he can't even bear k koi mujhe dekhay bhi
ya completely badal lia hai apne apko
mere fiancy k demagh men bht ghalat baat beth gy hai k first night bleeding must hai..so i am really scared |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:07pm |
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aimz_high What perception I got about your fiancee.... I am sorry but as he thinks like this, he would also been involved in illegal sex.. Otherwise a normal person doesn't know much details about sex. |
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Sooth |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:08pm |
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 high
r u sure that already aap ka hymen rupture ho chooka hai,may be wo abhi safe ho? |
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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:08pm |
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one question?? main first night kia jawab dongi apne fiancy ko?kiss tara uske dil se shakk nikalongi?
maine har totka use kia hai..phitkari se kegel exercise ka,per pata nahi past ki talwar sar pe har waqt latki rehti hai:( |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:09pm |
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aimz. ap unhe is side ki books read karne ko kahain yahan saf saf likha hai ke bleeding zaroori nahi hai..ho sakta hai is se unka mind change ho jaye. |
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sweetie |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jun, 2008 Topic: 11 Post: 509 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:10pm |
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NO SEEMI Ap kion khuamkhuah usay badzan karnay ki koshish kar rahi hain, ab aisa bhi nahi ke insan ko kuch bhi ilm nahi hota. ye information to aam hai ke parda bukarat aorat main hota hai aor aksar aorton main shadi tak hota hai. ye to bilkul negetive attitude hoga keh is information ke honay par kisi pe shak kia jaay. ye to phoot dalwanay wali bat hui! |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:11pm |
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aimz ap apne shohar ko kuch na bataen...pehle unhe ye samjhane ki koshish karain ke bleeding zaroori nahi hai ke har aurat ko ho,ap unhe yahan ki books ka link bhi de sakti hain,ya mai apko us ka direct link bhi dhund nikal dungi.
lekin ap plz kabhi apni ghalti na manyega,wo jo pehle se hi shak karta hai apko kabool nahi karega.. |
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Sooth |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:11pm |
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no seemi ye hum yaqeen se nahi kah saktay bcoz humaray mashray me zayada log bleeding first night ko hi virginity ka sign sumajhtay hen aur yahaan forum per bhi tu sub ko ilm hai na sex education ka tu ye zuroori tu nahi hai k wo illegal sex activity me already involve ho. |
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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:12pm |
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reply: no my hymen is not safe...:(
issi baat ka tu rona hai varna main itna dari hoi na hoti
baqaida mere fiancy se iss baat per mera jhagra ho chuka hai..vo kehta hai i have complete knowledge k hymen agar safe hota hai beshak first night bleeding na ho per hymen dekh sakte hen...
lagta tu nahi k vo aisa hai bht islami baten karta hai
lekin mujhe tu vo kabhi kabhi pagal b lagta hai aise ajeeb-o-ghareeb baten karta hua:( |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:18pm |
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aimz hmmm,ap koshish karain ke hymen ke topic pe unse zyada bat na karain ..bas ek bar unhe yahan ki books read karne ko kahain...
lekain agar ap is par zyada bat karengi ya ladai hogi to unka shak barh sakta hai..show urself natural |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:20pm |
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Sooth Baji Jo khod kisi ghalat kaam mein mulawis ho, us ko usi baat ka dar rehta hai..jaisay aimz baji ne bataya hai k woh khamkha fazool baatein karta hai or shak karta hai, is se yehi sabit hota hai k us ko isi baat ka dar hai.
Warna aik aam larka jis ne kabhi koi ghalat harkat nahin ki, woh is tarah nahin sochta. Yeh aik natural baat hai. Apni biwi per kabhi shak nahin karta, |
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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:21pm |
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reply per jahan tak meri knowledge aur maalomat ka taluq hai hymen can't b examined by a commom man...
main karon kia mujhe bass ye bata den...first night ko kaise handle karongi apne fiancy ko?agar usne Quran pe haath rakhwa diya tu????
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sparrow |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2008 Topic: 3 Post: 31 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:25pm |
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Don\'t worry Pehli bat agar to yea apki story sach hi tu meray dil chahat hi k mein apke uncle ko chowk per khare kar k sab logon ko pahtar marne k liyea kahooon.
Secondly.
You are also responsible for all this and belive me,,,, larkon ko pata chal b jai k uski wife kunwari nhi to b nahi boltay apni izzat ki khatir, so Tallaq ka imkan to nhi per yea ho sakta hi k wo zindagi bar tumse payar na kare aur na tumhein Izzat ki Nazar se dekhay.
And all of all usko kabi ghalit se be apna Mazi na bata dena warni is khush fahmi mein k wo understand kar le ga,
BB larke kabi is bat ko kabool nhi kar saktay.
Pray to GOD he might have you in HIS blessings. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4655 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:25pm |
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hmmmm seemi,i agree with you...
aimz_high
do you think ke wo bat ko itna barha sakte hain?
ap pehle ye bataen wo kin baton par aur kyun shak karte hain..kyunke agar wo billa wajah shak karte hain to ap unhe keh sakti hain ke agar unhe ne ap par ainda is kisam ke shak kiye to ap unse apna taluk khatam kar lengi.... |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:29pm |
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aimz baji Aap se ghalti hoi, aap ko is ka ehsaas hai, aap ne ALLAH se maafi mangi or abhi bhi mangti hien. ALLAH aap ko zarooro maaf kar de ga, lekin agar aap ka honay wala husband is tarah ki baat karta hai tu is tarah aap ka us k saath zindagi guzarna mushkil ho jaye ga....
Aap ne us se kabhi nahin poocha ho ga k woh abhi tak virgin hai? Kya woh marturbation mein mulawis hai? Us ne kisi larki se dosti ki??
Aap is topic pe us se baat na kiya karein.. Situation kaafi ghambeer hai lekin meray khayal mein is qisam k larkay k saath guzara bohat mushkil hai... Agar first night khair khairiyat se guzar jati hai (ALLAH karay aisa hi ho) tab bhi woh aap per sari umer shak karta rahay ga. Na aap apni marzi se kuch kar sako gi...
Jo abhi se aisay pose kar raha hai, woh baad mein pata nahin kya karay ga. |
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Sooth |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:30pm |
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HIGH BAJI meray pass es ko lay ker aik bara dumb sa idea hai...aaap kahain tu main batayoon? |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:31pm |
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Sooth baji Aap apna idea jaari kar dein yahan. |
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aimz_high |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jun, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jun 2008, 3:32pm |
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reply mere dressing per k tum ghalat kapre pehanti ho(lambe,khulay kapre pehno)...koi colleagues mil jaye tu usse baat nahi karni...nazar har time neechay,kahan ati jati ho har baat ka jawab do
bohat baar dhamki di hai..per har baar vo mana leta hai uss time minnaton per utar ajta hai..k mein tumko bohat chahta hun,main apni behnon baqi sab k liye b aisa hi hun..ye meri care hai love hai for you
kehta hai main ghalat thori keh raha hun aur phir saath men kahega agar 30saal baad mujhe kuch aisa pata laga jo tumne na bataya hua tu hamare rastay alag honge:( |
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