Intercourse: How Can I Do Intercourse?

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I have married two weeks b4. but i am still unable to make intercoruse wid my wife.
At first night when i started to do so there was a lot pain and little bleeding in wife's virgina so i stopped that. but after that in next night there is full erection during forepleay but when i think to insert there is no erection at all   and very early in next time.
In next time there is release in seconds three times.
I have not done anything wrong in my life ever. Now i dont feel any wish to make intercourse with my wife.
Please guide me what to do. Am i suffering in some physical defect or its my mental issue. Is there any medicine to get rid off. If this is my psychological problem how can i treet myself.
I also feel that i dont to the exect location of virgina.
Please give me early reply. I have read the book for men but not satisfied with myself.

Please guide me properly what to do and is there anybody (preferrebly DR. RIZWAN) to whom i can call and consult the problem.

Thanks & Regars

Pioneer

Mera bhai apka koi masla nahi hai. dost dekhoo,   jaha pa ap apna penis daltain hain us jaga ka size bohot hi chota hota hai. aur shuru shuru mai aisa hi hota hai jo apna bataya hai. koi tension mat loo m era dost. zarori nahi hai ka ap 4 weeks mai intercourse karloo time lag jata hai . Kisi ko jaldi hojata hai kisi ko time lagta hai. koi tension ki bat nahi hai.

Jaha taq yah kahna ka mera ab dil nahi chata hai ka mai intercourse karon. to yah ghalat hai kiyu ka yah sirf husband ki hi nahi wife ki bhi karna ke feelings hoti hain. yar ap tension nahi looo.

Aur jo apna kaha ka ap bohot hi jaldi ejaculate kar gai ho. to dost mera aisa hota hai shuru shuru mai phir slow slow apka time period change hoga.

fikar nahi karoo ap bilkul sahi hooo. Koi pareshani ki bat nahi hai aur koi tension laina ki zarorat nahi hai. Ap aik kam karoo Rat ko Pahla Esha ki namaz pharo aur phir jaka intercourse karoo inshallah hojaiga aur ALLAH na chaha to first time hi pregnancy bhi hojaigi.

my suggestion

dear my suggestion is before u talk to any dr or somone else..talk to ur wife about it..discuss it...it might be there she has some issues..some wishes..some feelings..which u cant  fullfill and thats why there is no fun during the intercourse..and to be honest its sumthing which provides pleasure..and if there is no pleasure than the interest goes slowly.....

ur partner is the best person to talk to really.....and then dont forget that it is an active act..which means that its done by both partners..if the wife lies like a dummy than surely u will lose the erection.......the best thing is..that before  u start entering her...tell her to move the hips up and down and take it in herself ....and if its helpful place a cushion underneath her hips...

and last thing is both should have confident and should be relaxed...

Thnak U Very Much my friends

Thanks of all suggession and courge. I am realy relexed now.
And As Bili_miau said i have discussed everything with my wife already. And she is encourging me more and more.
Other than this we are enjoing the life very much and i also pray for all my firends to have a beautiful married life.
This issue irritated me a lot but now i am feeling myself more and more confident. because i have a lot of firends and expers to discuss everything

Thanks agains for tips.

More tips and suggessions will help me more and more.

Thansk to all gain. May GOD bless u all.

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     U need to take time and do not get panic.  It happens to almost everyone in our culture because of lack of right information even if they accept it or not.  Very normal situation.  U are not suffering from any medical or psychological problems. 

    I think it is a lot of excitement which causes this early ejacultion.  Calm yrself down and when try to have sex next time, keep talking with yr wife with other regular issues. This will divert yr attention from sex and excitement and u will have longer time. 

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