Sex Life: How To Control It?

sex life ko kasy kum kia ja sakta hay????,yani agar couples har dosry din sex karin to kia isse control ker k every week nhi kia ja sakta?,ab ye baat agar woman ki side se ya man ki side se ho to khair hay ye kam hay dono k kerne ka ho sakta hay aik control ker le per dosra is ko kabool na kary to banda kia kary???.

me ye is lea poch rahi hon k chahy banda mastubation kary ya fingring kary ya sex with partner har sorat me weakness zaroor hoti hay aur ye hamesha sex ya other activity kerne k baad hi pata chlta hay to kis tarhan sex life ko kum kia ja sakta hay.???????..

shukria

Great Lady

Sex in between husband and wife depend on both. Ham yah nahi kah sakta ka agar husband nahi chahai to wife ka control karna easy hai and same agar wife control karna chahai to husband ka liya control karna bohot hi mushkil hai.

Sex desire husband and wife dono ki need hai..... Maina  yah bhi dekha hai ka agar wife zada control karna chahai to husband shuru shuru mai to control kartain hain laikin phir yah to unka ander aik ajeeb sa badlaoo ata hai yah woh apni wife sai ukhra ukhra rahna lagtai hain. Husband aur wife ka darmiyan sex control karna ka liya mera hisab sai zarorri hai ka dono ki razamandi hooo. Jo bat apna kari hai ka intercourse ka baad weekness hoti hai yah bhi theek hai. Husband aur wife aik dusra ki jan hotain hain aur agar kisi aik ko koi problem hai to dusra ko understand karna chahiyaaa. Bahami understanding ka sath agar intercourse ko control kiya jaii to na sirf dono khush rahaingai balka sari life sukoon sai guzar sakti hai.

Aik fact yah bhi hai ka jab ap masturbate kartai hain yah girls apna apko khud sai satisfy kartin hain ussai bohot zada weekness hoti hai kiyu ka intercourse aik tareqa hai jo define hai aur yah proper way hota hai laikin agar ap masturbate karain yah apna apko khud satisfy karain to yah tareqa ghalat hai jabhi weekness zada hoti hai......

Best way finally meri nazar mai yahi hai ka husband and wife dono ko aik sath bahami understanding ka sath faisla karna chahiyaaa.

I think u understand... if still any confussion then ask more.

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i agreed to Aag

dono ko ek sath beth ker tai kerna chahiye aur is per discussion kerni chahiye k aisa kerney se weekness hoti hai to us k liye week mein kis kis days mein intercourse kerna chahiye...jub ek dafa decided ho ga to dono us per agree bi kereyn gey aur is bat ko ley ker dono mein kabhi ikhtalafat bi nai hon gey...bcoz ye dono ka hi decision ho ga....

is k ilawa sex k inner satisfaction aur desire hai...agar kabi fixed days k ilawa bi dono mein se kisi ka dil kerta hai to us k liye bi ye dono ek dusrey ko clear ker sktey hain k agar hum mein se kbi kisi ka dil karey to hum ek dusrey ko batayen gey aur ek dusrey ki ye need ya wish puri kereyn gey....

is se bi ek dusrey k darmiaan pyar berhta hai...aur wese bi ye dono ka haq bi hai aur ferz bi hai k jub dono mein se ek chaey to dusra us ki ye need poori karey...

Re: Stimulation (GreatLady)

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   Mian nay kisi ka naswer tu nahi perha lakin maira hayal hay kay  jab shadi hoti hay tu yah naturally yah khwahish ziada hoti hay iss liay iss baat ko enjoy kero baat hatam..  2 say 3 saal kay baad yah kafi kam ho jati hay phir bachay hotay hain tu husband aur wife ko time bhi kam milta hay. 

BOTTOMLINE is kay yah time dobara nahi aata aur na hi sex itna enjoyable lagta hay kuch saal kay baad.  So nothing to worried about, ager main nay swal sahi samja hay tu!!

Re: Agreed to all

well very well all of u and me too :)...

bat bohot hi mazai ki kari hai pinky nai ka yah time dubara nahi ata. waisa aisi bat nahi hai agar ap edhar udhar nazar dorain to apko pakistan mai bohot age ka log bohot kam age ki larkion sai shadi karta howa nazar aingaaaa.

Any way what i think is that it is natural so control it but in limits and do it also in limits just talk with each other u will resolve this issue urself very easily.

simple Solutions

Okk if you wanna do it dont give Hot items to you husband. Like Eggs. soups.  give him more vegitables instead  meat.  that will help him to cool down.

kabi Kabi sukha Dhaniya be pila diya karoo..

Nafli rozay rekhwaya karoo Sawab ka Sawab aur tumhari be jaan chooti rahay gee...

lol

thats a crap advise kanwara...how can u suggest someone about something which is not practical..

the most practical way is that have a discussion with him..and lets see what u both come up with

aag bhai

cute Billi

Well this is practical advise 100%  if you dont believe try it at ur hubby then u wud cry over this forum how to get him erected. .

One Hadith is about it if some one cannot be married then he should Fast as fast decreeeeze sexual desire.

u r not man so you cannot feel it so Plz dont poke ur nose in irrelevent matters.

what do u know about dick. what do u know about male organse.  No girl can have any idea without practical and having deeeeeep relations with men.

if u have any idea let us know. n tell us ur source of information or Practical..

what u wrote lol is it spelled right or it should be like Lull..  if u know meanings then plz lull on matters which u dont know. . 

if u feel most practical thing is discussion with him okk go ahead n discuss with him so ur sister get some benefit of ur discussion. .

agreed

to all memberz

Dears all well mujhy ye batain k app me se jo ye keh rahy hain k jitna chahin sex karin aur enjoy karin to app picture k aik rukh ko dekh ker keh rahy hain sirf situation dekhain k agar sex enjoy k lea kia jay aur baad me weakness fell ho to mery khayal me aik hi baat mind me ati hay k kash na kerty bal k weekend per ker lety.

ab ye batain k app in tamam situation ko zehan me rakh ker jawab dain na k sirf ap apne apne views dain ok.

aur khas ker un memberz se guzarish hay k topic per mazakh na shoro ker dia karin agar koi mashwara dena hay ho thek othewize khmooosh rain

Request to Dr Khan

plz yahan per jo members bhi registor ho to us ki post k sath counter lagain ta k ye pata chly k ye kitanna senior member hay plz plz

Sorry 2 Dr Khan or admin

sorry Dr Khan Counter to Laga hoa hay me ye kehna chahti thi k memberz post counting ki range rakhin aur isi tarhan memberz ko rights dain as

Sr member

Vip Members

Co Admionistrator

etc

 ta k agar app kisi post ko na bhi parhain agar koi co admin online hay to wo un posts ko delete ya edit ker saky.

shukria

hain?

wht kind of idea is that great lady? and wht is it for??

leave these rights to only for moderator...i dont get it

Re: great lady

dear u must tell all these thing in english cause yaha pa kuch log english ka professor hain. what do u think pinky m i right?

Any ways, dekhain maina pahla bhi yahi kaha tha ka apas ki understanding honi chahiya, jo bat apna ab kahi ka mind mai aiga ka bahi nahi karta weekend pa kartai, first think is that its very hard to stop sex desire after marriage and second thing ka kuch dino baad sex desire mai kami ati hai... ab faisla apka upper hai ka ap husband wife dono mil ka faisla karain aur aik dusraa ko sambhalai during sex desire agar ap strickly apni yah problem hal karna chahti hain....

How much is too much

How much sex is too much?

Aik new couple kay lee-a sex key koyee limit nahee.
Agar aap ko sex kay baad weekness hoti hay to apni diet per dhian deen. Is main taqat wali cheezain , jaysay milk, meats, fruits, nuts ziada shamil kareen.
Sex kay baad weekness honay ka mutlab yeh bhee ho sakta hay kay aap  blood pressure high hay, ya sugar level low ho jata hay.

Kisee doctor say checkup kara lain

agg

ru pointing out at me? and y on earth ru involving pinky..i agree i had some argument with her..but it dnt mean that i dont respect any member of here..so u better dnt make stupid sensless jokes..

i asked something to greatlady..not u..so u bettter be shhhh..or we will end up in arguements again

To greatlady

To great lady:

Your post is containing two paras. First para of your post is not clear to me, but what I understand by the second para is that you are worrying about weakness after sex. I will try to clear this universal misunderstanding of sex as per my best knowledge, and not only for you but every men and woman who have this fear or superstition on this forum. I understand that clearing this point is the most difficult part of sex counseling.  

To understand the phenomena of sex or any human body functionality, it is essential to know the human anatomy, physiology, biophysics and biochemistry. This is not possible for every body. And not necessary even, if society contain the people having this knowledge professionally. What all is that, ask from them, understand the point and trust on there knowledge. ( and what are the believes of our people: ).

Example:

Our people have very firm believe that if one eats fish and right after that he drinks milk, then he or she must get whit spots (leucoderma) on the body. Why?..... Did any body experiment?.... No?

All the Doctors, Physicians and Researchers are agree that such phenomena is never observed any where in the world except any coincident. Since the awareness has increase through the media and literacy, this story has become old age saying. But still you can find the people in our society with this believe. 

Main issue of this post:

I would try to explain you about the weakness of human body. There are different kinds of weakness in human body but here I will explain you two type of weakness for clearing your concept about weakness after sex.

Weakness Type One: ( do affect on human body)

If one has cut on his/her writs, head, leg, or any where close to the main artery. And lose a big amount of blood, lets say 2 or 3 points. What happen? Severe weakness for few weeks or months. And require some care in work habit and food for few months only.

 Reason of affect: Because one has lost a great amount of hemoglobin which is necessary for whole body maintenance and development. (in simple words)

Weakness Type Two: ( may affect on human body)

Here I would like to give you my won practical example. As I do a lot bodybuilding since young age and still I do. There is a session in my exercise in which I place a road on my shoulders with 50kg weight both side. I have to do some sit-ups for few times. After 20 sit-ups sweat start to dribbling from head to toe and my legs begin to shiver. Why, because of weakness. I put the weight down on the floor, and for about 5 to 10 seconds I don’t able to walk easily. I take the rest for 5 minutes, and this 5 minutes rest is the most enjoyable time period for me. After 5 to 10 minutes I become as energetic as I normally be or let say a little more energetic then before. Do I become weak due to this exercise? No. I feel myself as energetic as if I kick on a closed door then I bet the letch must be break.

Reason of affect: If one do a lot heavy exercise without proper diet or less nutrient diet, then he/she may affect there health. Due to heavy consumption of carbohydrates and proteins during exercise.

Sex Weakness: ( no affect on human body) or (good affect on human body)

The sexual activities are composed of four main parts. (1) Foreplay (2) Intercourse (3) Orgasm and Ejaculation (4) Enjoying the relaxation.

All these 4 parts have 4 different kinds of it’s own pleasure. Which are created perfectly for the enjoyment of human beings form the Allah Subhanaho Tala. But unfortunately the 4^th part of this pleasure game is not yet understands correctly by some fearful peoples due to there wrong perceiving.

Why feeling of weakness:

Sexual activities for ultimate achievement of Orgasm and Ejaculation create temporarily the same impression on human body as obviously appear after heavy exercise. For example fast blood circulation with increase in heart beats, some time little sweating as well. But nothing happen with human body as happen in previous two cause of weakness. These things can only be understand after study of human anatomy and physiology. This is not necessary for every body if someone can explain to them. All you need to understand and trust on medically proven facts. As the fish and milk mystery is resolving by the time and literacy, this issue will also be clear by the education and positively feelings and understandings of sensitive people. Because sex interested men and women are enjoying there sex life without any fear in the whole world. Even they keep in search in increasing there sex pleasure by every means. And absolutely face no harm at all.

Reason of no affect: No carbohydrates, no protein, no hemoglobin is used in this process.

Conclusion:

If you want to control the intercourse frequency due to some physician or doctor’s advice then it is up to you. But if you have only fear of weakness as you stated in your post then I advice you that please do not worry and enjoy as much as possible, considering your sex skill as the great gift of Allah Subhanaho Tala. Do you know people ask me about the way of increasing there intercourse frequency.

With best wishes to you and your husband.

Nadeem

Dont try to be oversmart

Bili jeee ainda ap mujh pa koi comments nahi karna ok. mujhai jab jaha ap ka upper comments karna hotain hain to mai direct karta hon, agar apko lagta hai ka maina apka upper comments kara hai to yah apka apna sense less demagh hai. aur mera upper apni english bilkul jharna ki zarorat nahi hai, mai yaha pa english jharna nahi ata hon, logo ko help ka liya ata haon, jis din mera dil chahai ga usdin aisi english jharonga ka sara ka sara sense hil jul jaiga.

Post ko kharab mat kara karin ap. jo post chal rahi hai uska reply karain warna sssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. karain ap ok.....

right

u can  say whtever u feel like..but am tallking sensless stuff...yea right..no am not showng of english or anything..

but its quite obvious that u were pointing out at me.by sayng that she gotta tell me in english...its not a prob for me.i can understand it in urdu too..u dont need to be a superficial person here...

and yes  next time whn u gt something to say to me..say it directly..as am not used to any  hidden comments and taunts..is it clear?