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hina786 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 2:34am |
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 Habit Of Masturbation: How Can I Control My Self?
Salam,
I will be 22 in next few months.. maray saath ye problem hey kay mai sex ki taraf ziyada dihan rahta hey. i do masturbation sometimes ( i dont know excately meaning of this word but let me clear myself i never enter my finger or anyother thing but when i am not able to control i rub from my hand/leg for few minutes..) i tried hard to leave this bad habit and sometimes kamyabi bhi hui but jab kabhi mujhay koi tension hoti hai mujh say control nahi hota and i do this again. i tried many things to leave this habit like i always pray in namaz to leave this bad habit also i create one table and note their how many days i control etc...
i have also decided myslef i should do marry asap is say pehaly kay mai mazeed gunnahgar hon but here is one main problem maray parents abhi interest hi nahi lay rahay is maslay mai i mean shaadi kay he want one or more years so please advice me what should i do
one important thing when i and my sister was just 7/8 years old hamary area mai aik larki rahti thi she was about 18.. hamary parents un per kafi beleive kartay thay aur hamain aksar un kay ghar chor jatay thay so us larki nay many times maray aur meri sister kay saath kuch ghalat harkatain ki theen aur yahi wajah hey kay mujhay ye kharab adatain pareen but my sis control this very well...so i request for parents please apnay bachon ko is tharan kahain na chora karain.. please
now please advice me seriously -- |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 2:41am |
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ok hina very bad......ap possitive socha karay |
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hina786 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 2:47am |
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thanks yes i know its very bad thats why i am here
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goodman |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 2:51am |
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ok it is ok that u r here.........but here u will only get suggestion..........it is in ur hand that u think possitively and work possitively then u will leave this habit |
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paroot |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 3:13am |
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hina sis contorl karne k leye essa karee k jab galba ho tu durood-o-salam aur zikrullah mein laag jai jab uss taraf zehen jai tu degaar kamoo mein lagai aur uss soch ko dimag mein jaga na deee.
inshallah app jald kamuaab ho jaingee ess problem se nikalne mein ... |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 6:32am |
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hina isi liye hamare mazhab main ye kaha gaya hay ke baligh hotay hi shaadi kar di jaye, hina sabse pehle tu main ye kahungi ke apko Allah paak ka shuker ada karna chahiye ke usne apko zana jese gunah se bachaya hay jesa ap bata rahi hain ke apko aik larki ne kharab kya tu ye shuker karen apse koi bara gunah nahi hoa, jese ke ap keh rahi hain ke apko iska hal shadi lagta hay tu hamare mazhab main bhi iska hal shadi hi hay, koi kitna marzi kahay ke ap apna dhiyan hatao ya kisi aur achey kaam main lagao lekin ye aik aisi adat hay jo nahi chori ja sakti aur ap apne aap main guilty feel kartey hain, is sab main apke parents ka bhi kuch kasoor hay aap apni ammi se is baray main baat karen wo apki help zarur karengi, aur irada kar lain ke aap aisa nahi karain gi insan apni will power se sab kuch kar sakta hay, hosakta hay ke ye adat bilkul na chootay lekin kam zarur hojaye gi,
aapko jab bhi aisa karney ka dil chahay aap sab logon ke beech jaker beth jao akele main shaitan zada behkata hay. Aap Allah se dua karo ke wo apko is adat se chutkara de de |
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saahilbhai |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 6:36am |
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agreed koyal sis very nice reply |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 12:28pm |
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 Hina
you are ok... apni koshish jari rakhen to stop masturbate.. most likely app is habit ko kam to karsakti hain but khatam karna mushkil hai... follow koyal advices.. they are best for you.. |
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chaman0078 |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 12:53pm |
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Hina Sister I can understand your Problem, so Main kuch Wazahet kernay laga hoon.
Jitna Ho sakay Ba-Wazo Raha Karain, or Shatan say Allah Ki Pana Mangti raha Karin.
{ Ab zara ye bhi Wazeh Hona Chaya k Ba-Wazo Rehnay ka Maqsad kia ha, Hadees Nabvi PBUH ha: Ibn-e-Adem main say Her aik k Sath Jinnat main say aik Jan-Nasheen Mukerer ha}
Jo ye Hamain her tarha Behkanay ki Koshish kerta ha Tanhaee main Wiswisoon k Zore per apnay Makased pora kerta ha.
2 Raket Namaz Hajet Per ker, apnay kiay per toba karin or Sabet Qadem Rahin InshAllah Kuch dinoo k Ander you must get a Strong grip on your habit.
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 2:37pm |
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Hina mere khayal se koyal k reply k bad aap ko kaafi achi guide line mil chuki hogi...
wesy aap ki problem itni bari nahi hai jitna k aap samaj rahi hai. problem tab hoti hai jab kisi ko us problem ka ehsas na ho. aap ne mehsoos kia hai k yeh bad habbit hai, aur phir us habbit ko chorne ki bhi thaan li hai, to ab to koi mushkil bacha hi nahi.... aur solution bhi aap ne hi dhoond lia hai, means shadi karni chahie.
bas aap ziada tension mat le aur koyal aur chaman ki advice ko follow kare.
insha Allah sab theek ho jaiega.. |
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H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:1st Jul 2009, 6:58pm |
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nice reply by koyl bot acha mushwara deya koyl ny ku k ye sary gonah tun hai ki budolat he surzud hoty hen so koyl ke bat achi hy baki numaz purin os es k noksanaat ko study kuryin jub ap k mind meh es k noksanat rehngy tu or b ap esy bucho ge,
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hina786 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2009, 2:53am |
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thanks Thanks to eveyone! and koyal i am thankful app nay meri problem ko understand kiya.. aur app ki advice bhi bhoot achi hey i will try my best to do like this
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:3rd Jul 2009, 8:58am |
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hina u are wellcome |
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Guddu-PK |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Jul, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 7:17am |
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quit mastebation hina u shud fast by 1 of the following methods
1:fast 1 day and next day dont fast,dont fast on fridays
2:fast on mondays and thursdays every week plus fast on 13,14,15 of every islamic month.
hina ask ur mother again and again to arrange nikah for u.dont b silent.
if any boy shows interest simply ask him to send his parents to ur home for nikah.dont go for friendship.
take care
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chaman0078 |
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 12:38pm |
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Guddu-PK Guddu ap ki suggestion Bohet hi Mature ha.
Hina by following this suggestion you can achieve your task very easily.
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sunny007 |
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| Posted on:4th Jul 2009, 3:42pm |
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Guddu Pk good sugestion... keep it up
and wellcome to noor family..
i think u will be the precious addition to the forum... |
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ansi1234 |
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2009, 6:14am |
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ali124 zyada tar sex kay elawa kamoon main masrrof rahain |
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Lloyds |
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| Posted on:13th Jul 2009, 5:15am |
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hina aap na ghabrayen. dua karen. namaz padhen. aur panties bilkul na pehne. is ki ragad se muth maarne ko dil chahta hai. dheele shalwar pehne. andar panty na pehne. sab kuch thik ho jayega.
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Shahbaz007 |
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| Posted on:13th Jul 2009, 6:07am |
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 Khuda se dar Khuda se
Allah ka khuf khaoo tauba kero in cheezoo se wazoo mein raha kero nmaaz padha kero burri sohbat mein na outho beitho ! |
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sameer84 |
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2009, 4:27pm |
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sameer hina namaz parhain bas |
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